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if they are not saggin now they will be after not wearing a bra for a while, so enjoy it while it lasts!! |
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DOAweb:Yes i noticed 'most'. I understand you werent saying 'all'. I had a giggle cos i am an oyinbo myself but its always good to learn something new. Im sorry there marriages only lasted 5 years, thats just not right! Freiburger:Back at ya!!! |
DOAweb:I am very sorry for your friend. But really?? Oyinbo's only want to use you for brown babies is the funniest thing i have heard in ages!!! |
Behind bobo:Thank you so much. I appreciate it. Hustle means something very different here and its not a good thing. |
Poster, it doesnt matter where you are from, thats silly! If you dont love her, you dont love her, pretty simple! Just tell her. |
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=408260.msg5630857#msg5630857 date=1267772453]on behalf of all africans, i want to let u know we are very proud of what u are doing in that oyinbo land and u are indeed a good ambassador to the motherland. plz dont leave her ooo, just manage the relationship and when she gets pregnant we wil come for the naming ceremony. dont forget to promise her marriage and how she will be treated as a queen when u will take her to africa, we dont want u breaking her heart; the last thing we need is an ambassador representing us negatively in the eyes of oyinbo ppl[/quote]Love the sarcasm!! ![]() |
It could be thrush, that can cause terrible itching. Its easy fixed with anti fungal cream from the pharmacy. There are lots of things that cause itching. Hope she feels better soon. |
ssumpta:I dont think i went on about it, i just mentioned it in case it was important. I am trying to learn so i understand better. It was an innocent addition so there isnt a need to have a go at me. If you dont want to help me thats fine, thats all you needed to say. |
You are not mistaken but what has that got to do with what i asked? I told him from the start i didnt want to marry again, he is the one pushing it. All i wanted to know is his being absent a logical thing and what Hustle means. |
Behind bobo:Sorry, maybe i should of said my first thread?? I have commented before but never started a thread. I am white so i dont have a tribe. Can you please tell me what 'hustle' means? Is that work? I asked him but havent got an answer yet. Thanks. |
I met him while he was on holiday in my country. I was also on holidays interstate. He is not married. |
I will try and keep this short. This is my first post so please dont bag me out. I really need some advice from you guys. I have been in a relationship with a yoruba man for over a year. I am trying as much as i can to learn his culture and ways but i am really struggling at the moment to understand what the heck is going on and do i have anything to be concerned about. The first six months were great but now not so much. We are in a long distance relationship at the moment. I am supposed to be moving closer to him in may. We visit each other every two to three months. We communicate via webcan, sms, email and phone. But lately he is always busy doing something and doesnt have time to come online or talk so we only sms. He got angry with me cos i didnt call him much but when i call he doesnt answer or is busy at the gym or something else. He told me tonight that he cant give me time the past months cos he is an 'african man who has to hustle' and i should be understanding. Whatever the heck that means!! I would better understand if i knew what was going on but he wont give me a straight answer. So anyway i want to know what 'hustle' means and also from you guys and ladies who better know the culture, should i be as freaked out as i am or do i have nothing to be worried about. I am so ready to walk away if i am being played but i just dont know and i have no one to ask except him so thats why i am here asking you. Thanks for your time. |
Ohhhh!!! sorry, was having a blonde moment. Just re read and wanted to apoligise for my misunderstanding. |
Sorry, i couldnt read past the 'take his wife to intimacy' classes! He was married Ok, i'm out |
No, never!! Dont let myself be free enough with someone to be blown away. I was looking forward to reading everyones beautiful stories of being blown away and was sad to find so few. |
There is no excuse to hit a women no matter what she has done, and only a weak man would do it to make himself feel powerful! You wont see him taking on someone bigger or of equal size cos he is gutless! If a man is a real man then he would have the guts to walk away and control himself. If he slaps you he is a controlling, anger freak and it will only get worse. Find someone who treats you like a queen as you deserve! |
Great question poster. Am interested to read replies too. I chose to be single for a long time and loved the drama free life, then i chose to not be single and i am wondering what the hell i was thinking!! Once your in its really hard to get out. If you enjoy other peoples drama and games then go for a relationship. If not, enjoy the good life! |
Dont walk away, RUN!!!! As fast as you can in the opposite direction. There is no excuse for what she has done. Leave her to her lover. You will find a women who deserves you better!! |
zerocool:There is a huge difference! A boyfriend i am getting to know day by day and there is no life commitment made. Either of you can walk away and what if you and bf break up?? A husband is someone i am committed to for the rest of my life and would have no secrets.So i would not have a problem. Hope that explains it. |
Akinagirl:same in Australia, thank God!!! I would hunt down any sicko grown man chasing my fourteen year old sister! Wrong on sooooooo many levels!! |
A husband, absolutely! I'd have no secrets from my husband and marriage is for sharing, but a boyfriend, absolutely NOT! |
whitelexi:Thats your opinion and your entilted to it but no need to be like that, I was commenting on the post. It didnt specify the race of the women so back off!!! |
Not your type, I am a white girl!! Not interested in putting myself up for public debate but was just making a point that you can have both. |
Thats rubbish!! I have both and i know many girls that have both. Some have one or the other. Whatever!!! |
Who ever is the married party is the one responsible for saying 'no'! Very simple! |
wizzywisdo, You are sooooooooooo right!!!!! |
If it makes people happy, even for a little while, who cares!! Its not for anyone judge. Whatever floats your boat! Go for it if you want to. You never know what could come out of it. |

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Ok, i'm out