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mrking3:
Lord make me as Humble as this man!!! You wount see him flaunt his luxury cars, mansion, or flaunt dollars in public just like our immature Naija Artist and co! He's also a Big philanthropist! I read he signed to give half of his wealth to Less privileged! I'm just humbled by his simplicity!!

A Nigerian wife will be like "Are u stupid? what are u then leaving for our children's children's children"

dinachi:
This story stinks to high heavens! @Op are you dating your' cousin'? How can you call a fellow man a beast is you do not have designs over his wife?
Anyway, the wife has not come clean yet on the true state of things! It is either the whole story is a clear fabrication or she has been cheating tremendously..

U need deliverance. Why are u thinking true your nose? use your head.

Kimoni:
@tithe, Sorry but I refused to believe this story. I may have believed everything else but the minute you say she is a pharmacist with a pharmaceutical shop and he is just an SSCE holder, you completely lost me.
A literate married an illiterate and is being treated like this yet she is completely helpless on what to do ,
Com'on, give me a better story

That is candid truth, I have told her to leave the man but she is saying; what will she tell the children when they grow up and start asking of their father. That she is waiting until the man throws her things outside then she will hold on to that explanation. She wants me to enquire on the human right blablaa so that the husband will be the one to leave the house for her and the children if they come into the matter.

funlord:


You are obviously still a small girl so let me set up a scenario 4 U:
1 her husband impregnates her housegirl!
2 her husband forces her 2 sleep In her car!
3 her husband beats her like floyd mayweather regularly!
4 her husbands only qualification @ his age is ssce and sounds like an NFA!
5 her husband sleeps around town!

So after hearing all this is she not a _stupid woman 4 staying with this man or a _stupid woman 4 even having kids 4 times with such a person? If you,op or the woman are hoping 4 the advice of a bunch of strangers online 2 cure such a woman of her _stupidity then you are on a long ting! And by the way MY SISTER CAN NEVER BE THIS _STUPID! So I aint worried!

She is enduring all this because of her kids, but now wish to separate with her kids.

Does anyone have information on this human right establishments, maybe one can solicit help there.

GodnGold:
Did your friend do anything to warrant this behaviour?.Am a woman but some of us have attitudes that some men can't "see and look away". Some women like to be the victim even when they are not victimised.The details of this saga is not here,for all I know oga "ssce holder" may have his own tales,I could be wrong.op, where I can from we have a saying that one doesn't involve himself or herself in man and wife matters,because when they become lovey dovey ,you will be sorry.#myhumbleopinion

The man himself confirmed that he locked her because she refused to tell him the dream she had, which she already told him she forgot. Does it it warrant such treatment.

Please I need professional advice not boy/girl talk.

zinachidi:
i still dont think its ur problem,, ur friend are her hubby should sort themselves out,, if she wants to leave, she should do so.. Dont pokenose, so that when anything happens, they wont say u've broken their home.. If there is one thing this life has taught me, it is to mind my business....

She is not just a friend but a cousin, moreover my neighbor who is a pharmacist died last year after the husband beat her up, even when the church and family members were requesting for the hospital address she was admitted to, so that they can visit and pray with her, this man never disclose it until she died. I need to do something before it's late, she too wants out of the marriage now she is still alive.

importexpert:
and op who do you say you are? a guy or a lady or u just copied the post ?

How do u mean?

Please lawyers, human right activists and pastors, I sincerely need your advice on how to save my friend from this dungeon called marriage.

Just recently I discovered that my friend has been living in same house with a beast who has been spraying his sperm all over the town, the last maid they brought to the house got pregnant for this man.

But the issues troubling me now are the sequel life threatening events that has been going on in the house;

1. On 16th of this month my friend slept outside, inside her car and her phone was destroyed by this man, just because she went to do her hair without informing him. Early in the morning she decided to go to a friends house to use her phone and call so that the family won't be worried, but this man traced her to place and gave her beating of her life and sized her friends phone as well and then told my friend to go and call her family to come and take her, that he is feed up with her.

2. He locked up my friends pharmaceutical shop being threatened that my friend is a pharmacist while he is just SSCE holder

3. And on Monday, he woke my friend up and ask her to tell him the dream she had, but she told him she couldn't remember, he didn't hesitate to beat her up and for two days he locked her inside the house taking her phone with him and denying her any form of visit or communication.
If I start listing all that this man has done three pages will not contain it.

My friend has 4 kids with this man, a boy and 3girls. I sincerely need advice on how to go about this to secure my freinds life, her business, the shop and the house. Any legal and spiritual advice on this will be appreciated.

Sometimes I wonder how some women end up with such men, many are not marriageable. U are not a man because u have that thing between your legs.Marriage is not compulsory. Nonsense!

Faculties

So dissappointed with APC and GMB, I wanted voting for u but this Absence........?? u really spurn Nigerians. We don't know your motive.

Think very well God has been answering ur prayer,s it's just that ur focus is on the once yet to be answered. Learn to count your blessings it Wil help.

Let them pick fashola shikina

A MAID in Uganda who was secretly filmed beating and kicking a toddler has pleaded guilty to child abuse.

Jolly Tumuhirwe, 22, was charged in court with the torture of a girl of 18 months. A video of the assault caused outrage when it was posted online.

The child's father, Eric Kamanzi, had installed a camera after noticing his daughter was bruised and limping.

State prosecutor Joyce Tushabe told the court that the maid was "remorseful" and had asked for forgiveness.

The graphic footage, which is taken from a camera hidden in the corner of the living room, shows Tumuhirwe hitting the child when she resists feeding and then throwing her to the floor, beating her with a torch before stepping on her and kicking her.

The footage of the abuse has been seen or shared thousands of times on social media.

After capturing the violence on film, the girl's father reported the incident to police on 13 November.

Tumuhirwe, who was not represented by a lawyer in court, now faces up to 15 years in prison for the crime.

The state attorney asked for an adjournment on Monday so that she could gather more facts. Tumuhirwe will be sentenced on 10 December.

source:http://ngrguardiannews.com/news/world-news/189501-cruel-ugandan-maid-admits-child-abuse

Dat figure reminds me of the NEPA BILL they gave my neighbour last month.

Meen! See Fresh banana....

I have been pondering on this for awhile now, it's like guys that smoke are more than they that don't. I decided to ask how did you start the smoking habit, since they neither teach it in schools nor at home.

You can share your experience let the younger ones not be victims.

I have been pondering on this for awhile now, it's like guys that smoke are more than they that don't. I decided to ask how did you start the smoking habit, since they neither teach it in schools nor at home.

You can share your experience let the younger ones not be victims.

ggrin: What's ATM

ATM(alomo testy meal) so nice for vegetable soup.

Make una leave my president alone.....HABA!!.

...give not thy strength unto woman, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.prov 31.3

1.All actions originates from dominant thoughts, the picture you play in your mind is what you will eventually live out.

2. Don't spend your time having salacious thoughts or conversations, because your thoughts are things and eventually will materialize.

3.Porn gnaws your soul and makes you hunger for sexual immorality. The flesh has it's food ditto the spirit, which ever one you feed more becomes the master. You might desire to feed on titillating thoughts,sms,movies but remember your are the captain of your soul the architect of of your destiny. Spiritual food might not interest you initially but "first act you way into feeling before you feel you way into action"

4. Don't idolize your bf or gf on your phones,laptops or similar gadgets, your eyes is the doorway to your heart which is the engine room use your heart for piloting the vision God gave you. wisdom say "Keep your heart with all diligence,
For out of it spring the issues of life."

5.Don't take counsel from worldly people who might consider you a Grinch and derail. For the record God does not go with majority, those who served him in the past never went with the majority, in Sodom and Gomorrah only one man was found righteous and he was the only person saved from destruction, your might me the only sane person in that office or area.To live differently you must do things differently.

6. Give no place to the devil, the best way to avoid fornication is to FLEE no matter your spiritual height

shalom

Abeg which network is the cheapest on calls. Etisalate has made my account flexible with their flex, they will 3ple my account and 3ple the charges, i don tire and i can make close to 120mins calls daily.

lol...