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KanwuliaExtra:
Where were you on page 1?

Watching you make a fool of yourself just like you're doing now

KanwuliaExtra:
Please. learn to do the same. . . . . While minding your gaddddam bizzzzzz!

Thanks!

I can see you're minding yours

KanwuliaExtra:
Buka-T has fingers. You are NOT the OP!
Please, let him or her address me.
I don’t indulge in proxy-wars.
Me and Seun gooooooo way back.
Please, stay on your lane.
Thanks!

So I guess that gives you a pass to continuously poke and bully her especially when she's no longer responding to you

crackkhaus:
Lol.. so they locked you up because of that thread.. lmao..
God-complex toh bad.

Personally, I feel she should continue posting her opinions whenever she wants and however she wants. The last thing I want is for her give ratchets the pleasure of thinking they silenced her.
Maybe putting a caveat on her topics can help, but frustration doesn't really need an excuse to still expose itself.

The only thing is that she's too nice, kai.. Buka really has some solid principles sha, something I also admire about her cos no matter what...she just NEVER gets down and dirty.

But unlike her, I have no such patience for niceties especially among people I don't give two shíts about... I go drag and cut them down, still pick up the carcasses and tear into it again with my teeth RAW.

Later dem go say women are angels, women deserve to be respected, women are innocent and victims... Is it these ones on Nairaland? Tueh...
It's the reason I don't say anything when guys here are dragging & tearing them down bit by bit. Even the ones I know personally offline, once I see they are being ridiculed and massacred...I go just do like say I no even see wetin dey happen because they have also been the ones doing it to another person.

Bwahahahha! Na so we see am o

That's why some of these Nairaland female cretins avoid you like a plague while the rest subtly try to draw you over to their side

They think feminism is all about throwing insults on Nairaland. Kids!

wisdomiskey:
I get your point and I respect your patience and tolerance whilst being there for your friend. She was and is blessed to have a friend like you who didn't allow her relapse into a terrible state as we can see in Mstick's case.

But let's be honest, Mstick needs a real life outside of this platform in order to heal. Nairaland is not the place to throw her toxicity at others. What she needs is a friend! and with the amount of time and energy she spends here, I doubt she has one.

You're right.

RedPhoenix:
Just make a mistake with just. Wise next thing it's ten years ban. He gave me two years ban to which I did not wrong than being too intelligent

Typical of him - king of vanishing threads and mysterious 5 year bans.
@justwise, I've never had an encounter with you but I've seen how you treat others in such a despicable way. How much does nairaland pay you sef? - if you like, ban me for 10 years for mentioning your name

Dear Seun,

I would like to draw your attention to the sheer amount of corruption you have introduced to this site through your "moderators" policy.

There is now a certain gang of individuals who have slyly befriended some of your moderators, thus using them as a tool for bullying and censoring towards others and increasingly, many of us have noticed the following:

Family Section
There are many instances of when these two moderators ( M.ynd44 & D.ominique ) have repeatedly banned people for comments that do not violate any rules simply because they don't like them personally or their 'friends' have secretly contacted them to remove that person's comments. Yet, they allow these same friends of theirs to bully/insult others without removing such offensive remarks or banning them. It is clearly obvious that bullies such as c.ococandy & p.ocahantas have moderators in their back pockets.

Travel Section
j.ustwise is a moderator who deletes inoffensive comments and immediately issues out bans of at least 2 months to those who he has a personal issue with.

Now I can't speak for other sections as i don't frequent those ones, but I'm sure if your corrupt moderators allow this thread to remain, a lot of people will come forward to share their terrible experiences with the cabals of this site.

Seun, if you must have censorship on your site, then please implore the use of bots and not people. Especially Nigerian people who are inherently corrupt and narrow minded!

There's a major reason why websites such as YouTube, Reddit, Quora etc .. do not appoint individual users as "moderators" as there will always be that human factor in bias and unfair judgement of others. Using fellow site users to censor others encourages nothing but barbarism, backwardness and the stifling of free speech.

Thanks

Mindlog:
So you haven't seen separated/divorced couples with sons?

..or even those who stay together but are miserable asf.

I've seen cases where male children;
- become extremely wayward, violent and difficult to control,
- leave the house at an early age to pursue contumatious lifestyles,
- or start taking sides with the mother against the father when marital crisis arises, thus leading to total breakdown of the home. Then in the future, turn against the mother when they eventually grow up and realise how manipulative she probably was in the situation.

These are things I've seen repeated in many families. Male children don't guarantee anything other than the immediate gratification you get when you give birth to one.

Gracealone:
The main issue that may make your wife disrespect you is your lack of money. If you are the breadwinner, it cannot be this bad.

OP clearly stated in his post that they both earn well.

The marriage is already over Mr Paul. You're just refusing to read the handwriting on the wall.

There's nothing as viscous as a bitter/vindictive woman and no amount of begging will change her. It's only God that can fix her wicked, unforgiving heart.

Feel free to continue staying there until she stabs you one day like Maryam Sanda.

Kingarthur21:
Op you need to work on yourself. Hit the gym, cure the halitosis (bad breath) and they are devices for snoring..

Some of you rendering rude advice,let me ask a simple question,

if a man refuses his wife sex because she became over weight ,had stretch matchs and her belly protruded how will you react to the thread?will you use the same undertone some of you are using to advice her?

A guy once reacted to his gf smelling vagina and the internet cried foul and rained abuses on him. At least they are subtle ways to correct someone. If my spouse mouth stinks,I will inculcate a three of four times a dating brushing habit for the entire family so she doesn't feel bad. I will tell her to hit the gym for her health and talk of heart diseases,type 2 diabetes etc and not necessarily call her fat,I will purchase a snoring device for her..


I pity the unfortunate person who will end up with some ballistic men and women here

Lmao. Are you serious? Can't stop giggling haha.
That's Nairaland for you.

Blossomfirst:
They should apologize to Funke Akindele ASAP

I was gonna say the same thing.
Funke Akindele must be apologised to with immediate effect!

deleSayo:
im not blaming her. rather i support her a lot. we live in a 4 bed detached home with a lot of daily chores yet she refuses to take a maid. i always help her out with chores/ cooking what more does she want.

You've got to be kidding me.

I'm surprised you are still making excuses despite all that's being said here ..especially from your fellow men

deleSayo:
you're still going on?
madam please, i came here for advise. If you didn't care about NL you wouldn't still be ranting here.
i know the next thing you'll do is insult me based on my topics but i dont care. They've already exposed you as someone who's childish & unstable so im expecting the worst. Please take your grievances elsewhere and stop reporting comments up and down.

So sorry we allowed that miserable thing derail your thread. However, I hope you find the advise given here to be useful and please improve on your hygiene and weight. Most women won't tolerate all this.

crackkhaus:
What was the insult in it?

They will soon ban you for derailing when they find no insult to pin on you...as if there's any thread in the entire forum that doesn't derail from the initial topic.

Mods are working...

It's expected.

That's her own headache abeg. I've said my piece.

She even insulted OP but they'll go Stevie Wonder to that

crackkhaus:
Leave her...

This is the person that claims she gets attacked without provocation.

https://www.nairaland.com/5707933/wife-hates-own-mother-wants/1#87004787

And that's just one instance

Na who no know person dey feel say she dey alright.

She's still looming around reading our comments. Hahaha. I see one of mine has vanished already

crackkhaus:
She doesnt like it when anyone attacks her opinions in anyway. It's fed by some kind of messed-up psychologically misguided sense of self-importance.

If being called childish was really an insult, then her own comment calling you childish would be hidden also and she would have been banned as well.

No surprise there. She and her pathetic mod friends can be doing 'geeng' all over nairaland like little kids. Nonsense.

There she is above, still barking like a stray dog. LOL.