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BRATISLAVA:
Pocohantas=BRATISLAVA= Same stalker.

Thanks for confirming.

LadyTianna:
The thing that you don't realise is that the same way there are certain men who enjoy washing their women's undies and making breakfast for them in bed is also the same way there are girls who enjoy pampering their men and taking care of their men like babies. But we're all forced by society to act differently in public.

Its just a fraction of Nigerian women who are "feminists". The rest of us have nothing against them saying what they want. And many men still do it

Seems you don't know what misogyny means. Its men's hatred for women like the way they do when they slut shame us, age shame us, marriage and barren shame us etc. So what excuse do you have against those ones oh ye defender of men?

Modified: titi03 you see that screenshot I attached? It was created by a mature man. What he said is a fact. Where is the energy they usually display when women are raped for no fault of theirs? Why aren't they all clamouring for justice for Don Davis with that same energy? They hate us and its true. They love it when we're hurt. Obviously there'll be some angry women

Hmm, you are right on this one.. it's quite disappointing that men aren't fighting for Don Davis the same way women are.. I wish they would channel their energy more on things that matter tbh. I've aggressively and consistently used my relatively large platform on twitter to lend my voice to #JusticeForDonDavis and sadly I've seen more women do the same than men.

But back to the topic, I tend to approach things on a level playing field - I do not support what women of this generation have turned feminism into and I don't agree that traditional roles of cooking and cleaning should be classified as "slavery". Every gender has it's own responsibilities - call me a "defender of men" all you want.

Derinofzion:
Who told you our mothers that married early lived an happy life,happiness shouldn't be tied to a woman's marital status.All i can observe from this thread are bunch of confused men who dosen't know what they want and also things has changed.

LadyTianna:
Many guys never give satisfying answers to the question. Apart from money and sex, most guys don't know what they want in a woman

I disagree.

Men have always known what they want and have always been able to express it freely up until recent times.

We know what they want but we shame them for it, that's why they no longer say it - out of fear of being branded misogynists.

We now live in a time where women can freely admit what they want in a man; (provision and resources) while men are no longer allowed to have any standards.

They say they don't want fat women - oh that's body shaming!
They say they like fair ladies - that's colourism!
They say they want a housewife - that's oppression!
They say they want a woman who can cook - oh I'm not your maid!

See the problem here?

LadyTianna:
Lol sorry o madam. I didnt know you did census to be able to determine that majority of Nigerian women use housemaids.


We're talking about a submissive housewife. As in, no career apart from managing the kids and home. Why would a woman without a career get a maid? Some do, but not majority ok

You don't need a "census" to face reality madam,
How many wives in your environment are solely responsible for chores and childcare in their homes?
Even those who don't have maids have at least one live-in relative who helps out around the house. Don't be silly.

Righteousness2:
And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers.

Judgement is Coming Folks
Flee From sinfulness, Worldliness and Embrace JESUS Christ
Escape From the Wrath to Come..

Keep up the good work Righteousness!
I just hope they won't ban this account too.

LadyTianna:
What exactly is the something? Money? Because if its cooking, cleaning and taking care of children which a submissive wife already does, then most Nigerian men are just being stupid when they claim the only thing a woman can offer is sex.

Aside from those abroad, majority of wives in Nigeria employ house-helps to do all this. So what's your point?

mrcoolJ:
As a male am ashamed of the level of toxicity of Nairaland males. We know na hunger dey worry them

You are an obvious alternate account created today by a female. Most likely CHoccolaTE or Nuyokoi

CHoccolaTEe:
I wonder why you keep engaging toxic frustrated nairalandboys.
A lot of them are ugly losers in real life that just come online to pour frustration on women because they keep getting rejected in real life.

Who is the one proving themselves frustrated here?

"Nairalandboys are frustrated" yet you keep following them everywhere regurgitating the same redundant lines.

Keep deceiving yourself.

BigBelleControl:
That's sad to hear. But I believe his face should not have been exposed being a minor and the nature of the abuse. His abusers should rather have their faces splashed on the net.

I agree.

Chrisbella24:
Lol.

I'm so angry right now. WTF!

They should arrest all the seniors in that school, the teachers, and also the principal.


How dare those seniors put their rubbish fingers and toes in a little boy's Anus to the extent the boy needs to stitch his Anus?

Ah!

I would have burnt down that school before the news even gets to the media.


All Boarding schools in Uyo should be closed! They only breed lesbians and gays, especially that Lutheran high school and Adiaobong girls school.

I think they did more than put their fingers.. they raped that boy.
... to think millions of women all over the country are actually married to men who have participated in such act when they were in boarding school.. I feel sick!
For all long as evil thrives, Nigeria can never come out of "shiithole" status.. such a religious country but yet full of brutal and evil citizens.

God can never intervene in that country.

Nigeria is cursed.

It's a coincidence that this thread pops up amidst the ongoing discussion about nigerian women acting up in the US. Hmm.

Anyway, there's a particular part of your write up that caught my eye:

"she thinks it's better if I return to Nigeria this December to marry her and then sponsor her eventually to the US."

I'm personally not a fan of giving men ultimatums - it's a desperate move in my opinion which shows that she wants an easy way out..
..and in most cases desperation often spells danger..

Not to be a prophet of doom but I don't see you guys reaching a favourable agreement ...she's better off moving on with a like-minded man who is happy to do her bidding..(there's a chance someone else in the picture, or is at least trying to get in there... since y'all have been in a l.d.r for 3 years now). Likewise you should also try and settle down with a like-minded individual wherever you are.

All the best.

JovialJune:
Lmao ok.

Stupid girls like you is the reason why I hardly comment on NL. Every small thing, you start calling people names then you run to moderators when you can't handle the heat.

Quote me again and this year will not end well for you.

I'm out.

Kuns84:
Didn't I tell you?

All her posts her ridden with insults... such a crass, uncultured and vile miscreant.

I looked at her profile picture and realised it's not every tom, dick and harry you respond to. She looks as stupid as she sounds

JovialJune:
You are blind

So ladies are the one displaying foolery on this thread?

Ok.

I'm as blind as you are stupid

JovialJune:
It is so obvious you are a male

Ladies here see threads upon threads of degradation and insults from males, at first we ignore, but when the insults started becoming personal, you expect them to still be silent?

You have a problem with the reactions but cool with the insults from guys here?

Did you go through the thread from page 1?

So, I'm Male because I didn't join you guys in displaying foolery? Ok, I'm a male then...

JovialJune:
How are we not able to handle it?

Who keeps opening threads upon threads crying and drolling spittle about women this, women that?

Almost all threads in romance section and sometimes here is all about one complaints or the other about females, una no dey tire?

Yet you all will bestow upon yourselves the title of Alfa mails, how na?

You are complaining about bride price and marriage, no one put a gun to anyone's head to marry, if you don't want to pay for bride price, go talk to your fathers or forefathers abi ancestors who set up and formulated the culture, force your fellow men to stop collecting anything and rest pls.

Well, anytime a topic like this is opened, ladies do ourselves a disservice when they enter these threads ready to attack .. which proves what I've just highlighted in your comment.
By commenting in such a crass way like the lady on fp, we prove that some of us 'can't" handle it.

Hathor5:
The sooner you get into your skulls that we don't sell out our pussies the better. Maybe the women in your life do but there is no hoe in my blood so when I have sex I have it to please myself in the first place. That's how selfish I am.

If you have a problem with my sexuality, go hug transformer.

And nobody is stopping you from marrying a virgin. Good luck crybaby!

Why take a generalistic post as a personal attack? Who mentioned anything about your puss and what you chose to do with it?
I don't see the need for all these rants to be honest.
Calm down

cooooooks:
WORD!!!

I mean OP drove around crying. For what

Did you read the story at all?

She obviously was downcast by the negativity she knew she would receive from her mother! Do you know what it feels like to have your own mother treat you like a failure for things that are beyond your control?

Have some empathy for goodness sake.

thorpido:
Your points are valuable except for the bolded@ Otedola.Don't know what you mean by that.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to speak low of his disabled son.
However, it's glaringly obvious that Otedola only shows off his female children (Cuppy and Teni).
I'm sure most people don't even know he has a son and if we are honest with ourselves we know why!

@OP please consider the below examples:

The great Muhammad Ali had a whole bunch of girls and one son who didn't amount to much (sorry to say). Laila Ali is the only child of his that kept up her father's legacy - she's a girl child!

Kobe Byrant - known for greatness all over the world. had 4 girls and not a single son. Did that tarnish his name or image in anyway?

Barack Obama - two girls only. Need I say more?

Tony Elumelu - again, a whole bunch of girls. Did that dampen his success?

Femi Otedola - clearly more proud of his female children than the one disabled son he has.

Honourable mentions: Chris Rock, Jamie Foxx, Dave Bautista .

saphireadoo:
I have been married for 9 yrs now.I earn more than my husband, so i settle most of the bills while he supports. .

Why does this piece of information matter?

SarkinYarki:
Another lie from miserable liberals ...so where was this priest when Antifa was attacking and vandalising the church.... another narrative by useless liberals trying to cast those that actually attacked and burnt the church as saints and the Trump that came to commiserate with the church over the destruction as the villain ...this is how stupid communist satanic liberals are ...just look at the poorly concocted lie

OP posted evidence of his claims (the actual Facebook post of the Priest in question) why not post evidence of yours instead of ranting like a rabies infested dog?

Acting like Trump will pay you for your senseless defense of him. Mtchew!