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 Romance / Re: Things Girs Do To Please Their Boyfriends by titi4fola(f): 8:55pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
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| Romance / Re: Things Girs Do To Please Their Boyfriends by titi4fola(f): 8:53pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
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| Romance / Re: Things Girs Do To Please Their Boyfriends by titi4fola(f): 9:45am On Nov 29, 2016 |
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| Romance / Re: Things Girs Do To Please Their Boyfriends by titi4fola(f): 9:43am On Nov 29, 2016 |
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| Romance / Things Girs Do To Please Their Boyfriends by titi4fola(f): 9:36am On Nov 29, 2016 |
Want to be that girl who your boyfriend can’t stop talking about, and be with your man for keeps? Read up on these easy tips to being a good girlfriend. So you’re in a relationship and you want to make it last. Of course, you don’t want him to be chasing after other girls or other relationships. You want to be the best girlfriend for him so that he can be the best boyfriend for you. So what’s the secret? As it turns out, there’s no one secret to staying together for the long haul, but there are a few simple things you can do to make you the best girlfriend he’s ever had. Read on to find out what you can do to make him wake up with a smile every day. This is how to be a good girlfriend #1. BUILD UP YOUR PLEASING PERSONALITY. Everyone is drawn to a pleasing personality. Negativity just repels people, regardless of how they are related to you. The best girlfriends are the ones who have a pleasing personality that makes them easy and comfortable to be around. He’ll want to spend more time with you, and he’ll want to please you, too. #2. TURN NAGGING INTO AN IRRESISTIBLE REQUEST. So he can be frustratingly childish and messy at times. This doesn’t mean you should fire your mouth off. A good girlfriend knows the art of “nagging” constructively. Try not to raise your voice. Instead, talk to him in a soft, even seductive, tone. Disarm him with your sweetness and let your concern shine through instead of your need to control by nagging. #3. LEARN HOW TO LISTEN So he’s had a bad day and he just wants to rant for the rest of the evening. Let him. A key to healthy relationships is communication, and crucial to this is listening. Know when to talk, but also know when your man just needs someone to listen to. #4. PICK YOUR BATTLES Don’t sweat the small stuff. It’s not worth ruining a good day with your man, or even ruining your relationship, over something trivial. Learn when something truly is worth fighting over, but also learn when to leave things as they are. #5. BE GREAT IN BED Okay, so we’re not saying that you have to be a porn star. But s*x can be an important part of any relationship, so make sure he feels that you’re enjoying it just as much as he is. And if you’re not, speak up! Communicating with him, as well as listening and being open to his needs, is key to having great sexual chemistry. #6. MAKE HIM FEEL SPECIAL Make him feel special and loved. From something as simple as a massage at the end of a long work day, to spending uninterrupted weekends with him, remember to go that extra mile to show how much you love him and how much he means to you. #7. MAKE HIM FEEL APPRECIATED Look at how he treats you and think about the things you do together. Find ways to tell and show him how much you have appreciated him throughout your relationship. This will make him feel great about all the effort he’s spent, which will therefore make him feel great about investing in a long-term relationship with you. #8. FEED HIS EGO It’s no secret that men love their egos to be stroked. But men also have insecurities despite their tough exteriors. By giving his ego a boost, he won’t go looking for other means *or other girls* to make him feel good about himself. Make him feel attractive and desirable by complimenting him, but make sure you’re genuine about it. #9. LET HIM BE THE MAN IN THE RELATIONSHIP Men like to feel in control—it’s innate in their nature. They often want to feel in charge, so let him fill that role. Let him feel that he can take the lead by asking for his opinion about certain things in your relationship and being open to his suggestions. Also, let him take care of you, even if it just means letting him open the door for you, guide you to your seat, and pick up the tab. #10. BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR OWN SKIN There’s nothing more attractive on a woman than pure self-confidence. Don’t let insecurities and doubts get the best of you, and he will know just what kind of woman he has. He will love you more for it. #11. BE THE “friend” IN GIRLFRIEND Remember, you’re in a relationship. You’re not just there for each other to roll around in the hay and go at it in bed. There has to be a connection and deep intimacy. Be a companion to him. Share your interests and respect each other’s views. #12. GIVE HIM HIS SPACE. Clingy girlfriends are a major turn-off. While constantly calling and texting him may be all right in the first stages of your relationship, it can get old pretty soon. So if you don’t ease up on demanding for his attention, he’ll want to break free and break up. Show that you trust your man enough to let him live his life. In the end, he’ll be the one who will be chasing you. #13. LIKE HIS FRIENDS A good girlfriend will not stir conflict between herself and her man’s friends—or worse, make his man choose between her and his friends. Remember, his friends were there long before you came into the picture, so you should respect that. They may be foolish and childish at times, but they are his friends. You wouldn’t want him to come between you and your girlfriends, right? #14. MAKE HIS FRIENDS LIKE YOU. Another way to get the love and affection of your man right from the get-go is to make his friends like you, too. Their seal of approval is a great pat on the back to your man, and he’ll be proud to have you as his girl. #15. FEED HIM WELL. Food is truly a great way to a man’s heart. So while you can’t be in the kitchen 24/7, at least visit it once in a while to whip up something deli sh for your guy. It doesn’t matter if it’s just pancakes or a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. What matters is that you’re showing him that you want to take care of him by making that effort. #16. DON'T GIVE HIM A REASON TO BE JEALOUS. It goes without saying, but a good girlfriend is a faithful one. It doesn’t matter if you’re the hottest, most beautiful woman in the room and all the guys are drooling at you. Let your man know that he’s the only guy for you and that he has your full attention. Never flirt around with other guys, and let him know that he can trust you. He will be loyal to you, too. #17. TRUST HIM Give him enough space so he feels that you trust him. Always questioning him about his whereabouts will only make him feel caged, and you will only look possessive. A good girlfriend trusts her man, but knows how to set boundaries when that trust is broken. While relationships should be fun and comfortable and not an endless struggle or competition, it pays to put your best foot forward. After all, if you care enough about your man, you naturally want to be the best girlfriend for him. We all have room for improvement, and by following these tips on how to be a good girlfriend to your guy, you can be sure he wouldn’t want to be with anyone else. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Education / Re: Fascinating Images Of When Nature Fights Back by titi4fola(f): 6:38pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
I love it all.. |
| Romance / Re: Guys, Don’t Jump Into Bed With Every Girl You See (see Photos) by titi4fola(f): 12:24pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
horlareey:caring mum  |
| Celebrities / Re: Telemundo Splitting My Family *photo* by titi4fola(f): 3:07pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
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| Celebrities / Re: Fans Blast Mbong Amata For Revealing Too Much In Her Dress At A London Event by titi4fola(f): 3:00pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Okay nah!! I'm here to read people's remarks  |
| Celebrities / Re: Men Masturbate With My Pictures – Actress, Anita Joseph by titi4fola(f): 2:45pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Like seriously?? Oshisko >: |
| Celebrities / Re: Choi!! Make-up Gone Wild | What De Heck Is This? by titi4fola(f): 2:32pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
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| Politics / Re: Breaking News! The Legendary Nollywood Actor Elder Maya Is Dead by titi4fola(f): 2:24pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
So saddened...RIP!! |
| Romance / Re: Those Big Aunties That Disvirgin Us When We Were Small by titi4fola(f): 2:07pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
| Romance / Re: Those Big Aunties That Disvirgin Us When We Were Small by titi4fola(f): 9:58pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
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| Romance / Re: Those Big Aunties That Disvirgin Us When We Were Small by titi4fola(f): 9:55pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
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| Romance / Re: How To Cope When Caring For A Difficult Loved One by titi4fola(f): 9:35pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
Syvyd199:we are great!! |
| Romance / How To Cope When Caring For A Difficult Loved One by titi4fola(f): 5:48pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
Caring for a difficult loved one is especially challenging. While often rewarding, being caregiver for anyone can be taxing, as the role comes with a seemingly endless list of responsibilities. But when a loved one is hard to get along with, uncooperative or even antagonistic, the challenges of looking after them are only compounded. The situation can quickly take a toll emotionally, physically and mentally. If you’re caring for a difficult loved one, here are some ways to cope. Try Different Activities to Avoid Conflict If your loved one is particularly difficult during certain activities, explore other things you might do with them. For instance, if they often start arguing when you sit down together, try playing a game instead of just talking. Gardening, shopping or taking a walk outside may all alleviate some tension and remove you both from whatever you were arguing about. Recognize Your Achievements While you should accept praise when it’s offered, don’t expect to receive accolades for your efforts. It’s an unfortunate truth that caregivers are often underappreciated, and you may not get any recognition from your loved one if they have a difficult personality. Meanwhile, others in your life may not be aware of all that you do. Instead of looking to others for encouragement, become your own cheerleader. Take a few moments each day to reflect on all you’ve done. If you have an especially big achievement to celebrate, treat yourself to a latte, massage or meal out. Learn to Say No No one person can do everything. Learn to acknowledge when you’re stretched beyond your limits, and have the courage to say no when you’re overwhelmed. Saying no to requests for help is often difficult, but it’s better to politely refuse requests that are asking too much than to burn yourself out. Saying no may mean declining requests from your loved one or others, but it can also mean saying no to yourself. Even when a loved one is being difficult, there’s often a strong urge to do more for them. Do what you can, but remember not to neglect your own well being. Lighten Your Load Saying no doesn’t mean you have to leave your loved one in a lurch. You can reach out for help from others, be they family members, friends or professional caregivers. All of these people may be able to help you lighten your load, and you may be able to have them assist with some of the specific challenges your loved one creates. Know When Enough is Enough You may reach a point where it’s all too much. If you’re unable to help your loved one enough, or if it’s too much for you to do so, it may be time to consider long-term care options such as help from an in-home caregiver or an assisted living facility. Assisted living communities have trained staff to care for your loved one — no matter how difficult he or she may be. Oftentimes, assisted living offers the opportunity for residents to connect with other folks around their age. These relationships may ease the tension in your loved one’s life and make caring for them a little easier. Caring for a difficult loved one isn’t something you should take on alone. Take care of yourself, and seek help when you need it. That way you’ll be in a better position to make sure your loved one gets the care they need. TAKE ACTION NOW!
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| Fashion / Re: Mr. Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 2 by titi4fola(f): 4:39pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
I VOTE KINGinVAHALA cc NLJega |
| Fashion / Re: Mr. Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 2 by titi4fola(f): 4:30pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
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| Fashion / Re: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 1 by titi4fola(f): 11:59am On Aug 01, 2016 |
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| Fashion / Re: Training Is On At Siwanda Beauty Shop And Spa by titi4fola(f): 5:11pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
Cosmetology consists of what and what courses pls? Duration pls (as in for how many months with cost? Pls reply very urgent . Thanks in advance! |
| Nairaland / General / Re: #Fynestboi and Friends Hangout Joint: by titi4fola(f): 10:18pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
Klare:thanks mister |
| Politics / Re: Governor Fayose Is A Mad Dog- Aisha Buhari by titi4fola(f): 10:16pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA:done |
| Politics / Re: Governor Fayose Is A Mad Dog- Aisha Buhari by titi4fola(f): 1:44am On Jul 10, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA:I'll prefer BBM, are u? |
| Politics / Re: Governor Fayose Is A Mad Dog- Aisha Buhari by titi4fola(f): 10:42am On Jul 09, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA:I'm okay anywhere, we can do it here as well |
| Politics / Re: Governor Fayose Is A Mad Dog- Aisha Buhari by titi4fola(f): 8:09pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA:Yh, sure. With GOD by ur side, you're won. Kindly tell me d procedures to follow. Thanks |
| Politics / Re: Governor Fayose Is A Mad Dog- Aisha Buhari by titi4fola(f): 12:18pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA:hello, warm greetings to you. I'm very well trust you're good too. I still remember you very well, man without pic  . Let's hear you out sir! |
| Politics / Re: Governor Fayose Is A Mad Dog- Aisha Buhari by titi4fola(f): 11:20pm On Jun 21, 2016 |
ALMUSTAQIM:Truly, there's no doubt abt it. |
| Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage & Her Son Jamil In Cute New Photos by titi4fola(f): 5:30pm On Jun 20, 2016 |
[quote author=UIA04 post=46744994]I don't know what people find soo interesting in that dog filter. It's just as annoying as the way many girls bend their legs when taking pictures these days like someone struck by lightening. [/quotelaughter...very funny, but truth. |
| Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage & Her Son Jamil In Cute New Photos by titi4fola(f): 5:24pm On Jun 20, 2016 |
UIA04:laughter...very funny, but truth. 5 Likes |
| Celebrities / Re: Make Up Free Face #4- Tonto Dike Vs Genevieve Nnaji by titi4fola(f): 5:21pm On Jun 20, 2016 |
sholatem:precisely! |
| Nairaland / General / Re: Thank You My Dearest Supporters And Sympathisers, I Love You All - Refiner by titi4fola(f): 11:47pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
refiner: It takes maturity of heart to celebrate the success of others. What you admire is what you will attract. I celebrate and very proud of you, you deserve the crown. Love you plenty!!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
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