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we need more than this. Build the people and the people will build infrastructures

We need a healthy and non rivalry competion not this

i just pray everything work well according to Gods purpose

Bro, you've got two outstanding options
The first one is to search your heart very well if you truly love her and your love can override all the issues of the past and totally forgive and forget all the past give her a chance of new beginning. I promise you she's learnt her lesson and would be a better person now. Your forgiveness means alot and experience which is the best teacher has taught her whqt life is and will bring out the best in her.
Secondly, if you still have a kind of reservation about the past I will advice you free her and free her totally and go your way in search of a new love and wife for yourself
Having the mind of having sex with her or any kind of emotional attachment will be detrimental to you both and might distort your life's plan

Search your heart and prayerfully take the best of decision through God's leading

Thank God she's bold to move out, this wouldn't have come to light. You're now becoming a man, by the time she comes back, you'll be a better person.
My advice is that apply the Golden rule to your life, Do to others what you'll want them do to you and the reverse, don't do to others. ........

Merry Xmas
This is a very complicated issue and only God can unravel all the complexities.
But I will like to make some point without being judgemental
1. This lady is going through a lot of pressures ranging from family, friends, colleagues and at large the society at large. Please and� let's not complicate peoples life by mounting uneccesary pressure on people passing through a lot. It can lead to frustration
2. The first point led to the action taken by the lady. What she did was what she saw as the solution to the predicament she's presently in as we all tend to seek solutions to every problem we face in life. The solution has so many k legs but in her best opinion, I admire her boldness to know what the want and to go for it. It takes a lot of courage to do such even when the man in question is below your standard (financially).Let's not our culture not deny this gender the right to freedom of expression. The economy is not favouring a lot of men, but some ladies are blessed to lift some men to greater destiny and such can be orchestrated through medium like this.
I personally as a man will love to marry a woman like this cos they tend to have genuine love for thier husband.
3. The man is also confused cos all things being equal your response is no if truely love your spouse. But all things are not being equal and many factors have affected the balance and a made a confusion out of a man. I am sorry for the imbalances on behalf of God, my country and our society

What has happened between then and now, please let's share our success and any vital information. It can be how you get your car, how you improve your income, what you commend bolt for and areas they need improvement or adjustment

everglaze01:
Three idiots

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Xscape1993:
The main problem of Nigeria and Nigerians at the moment is APC. What a country rule by unfortunate people!

I used to think the presidency is blind, deaf and dump until this #Tweeter saga. Why this much energy on trivial matter compared to the myriad of important things that demand thier attention; #boko haram, #kidnapping, #herder's / farmer's clash, #unemployment, #inflation etc. I pray that this will be the beginning of a better Nigeria since they've been delivered from thier ailments

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I subscribe to this by the government, it is a way of ensuring safety. But much more than that the government want us to be good citizen while they choose to be bad leaders. People are dying of hunger and no plan to rescue except for political propaganda. I don't blame them they know the stuff we're made of " toothless dogs" ............ Hummm!

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