₦airaland Forum

Gina2019:
Abuja

are u available

uthlaw:
Just to Bleep....no added value in relationship!

is she aware of your intention.. or think you love her

she is led by the spirit

konji na bastard

you aim to kill equipment while us aims to kill ur military head

USA will wipe off Iran but loose their position as world power... probably China will take over

chocboi78:
TL;DR

meaning?

chocboi78:
TL;DR

meaning?

culf:
if both of the partner agree to it, then its cool. companionship is the first thing in marriage

yea

Nigeria nko

Admin9:
Thanks for bringing this up.

I am currently with a girl that has had anal sex before we started dating although i was the one that deflowered her "vaginally". She claims that i was the one that disvirgined her but i am confused if to take credit or not.

as if she will give you trouphy for taking credit

she is vaginally a virgin

nzeobi:
First class does not always mean smartness, their are many first class holders who are average in life today.

to have First Class in a Nigerian university means the person is book smart. there are various kinds of smart. some are street smart

nzeobi:
What is smart about el rufai

he has first clas

Okpa042:
Men have ego..ho ha

anf women have what

MrBrownJay1:
what makes you wrongly assume that most cant cater for their kids?!

the message is for those thant cannot yet get married anuway because religion and society say so

political campain promises

short people like elrufai are smart

2020 is just fewdays na

na so rochas tell jobless people to come vollect job for stadium. only to turn to political campaign.

old news

I just read that over twenty thousand babies were born on new year’s day alone. I quickly took my calculator to multiply twenty thousand with 365 days. The figure was over seven million birth annually.
Majority of these babies are born to families who cannot cater for them . The parents would be quick to point accusing fingers on government. I mean, you know the government is yet to provide for you and you give the government more work load.
They would start pointing the fingers at the religion.
Listen, morality is not static. what is moral centuries ago might be immoral today. what is accepted in country A may be rejected in country b.
That a religious book encouraged early marriage and frowned at male withdrawal during intercourse does not mean we must imitate them. Perhaps, the people of those days were underpopulated and needed children by all means . The same is not applicable today.
Nigeria is overpopulated.
If you can, abstain. If not, consciously withdraw before cumming. Use protection. If you made a mistake, use pills. If all fails, remove the sperm from your womb when it is safe to do so.
PLEASE ,PLEASE AND PLEASE, THE WORST OFFENCE YOU CAN COMMIT TO YOUR CHILD IS BRINGING THEM UP KNOWING FULLY WELL THAT YOU CANNOT CATER FOR THEM.

favoryte33:
A friend of mine who is a lecturer in one of d fed universities discussed d above topic with me.He's been dating d student secretely though but he's just worried about how d department would welcome d news when he eventually ask this girl to marry him.

ex,,student, yes


current student,,illega'.conflict of interest would arise, wait till she has graduated before making it public to colleague

Jaykay33:
*THE CHEAPEST WAY OF HAVING SEX*
**Do u know that marriage is the cheapest way of having sex?*
*According to research. U pay highest amount #150,000 bride price once off and assuming you stay with the woman for 40 years which is #3,750 per year. Meaning per month you are paying #125 a day and #17.3 per week*
*So why would men pay Prostitutes for even #1,000 or more only for one round of sex,* **When you can get it at #125 per month for as many rounds as you want* .
*This is a big discount.**
*SO GET MARRIED*

as if married people have sex every day

a woman need protection,affectiom, attention

Many of us are yet to ask ourselves this important question. We date for various reasons.
I know a guy whose girlfriend encouraged him to come over to Canada . .He refused saying he can’t live in another person’s house. I inquired further and realised that he felt the woman would be ” in charge “. His need to control was threatened. He finally married a village girl who could submit to him. Another man with a high need for adventure, career advancement or prestige would easily accept such offer.
Many ladies raised under abject poverty prioritise financial break through as a criteria for being in a relationship. They would rather remain in an abusive home receiving punches than remain single.
While these reasons are not entirely terrible. They could close our eyes us to better opportunities. It negates relationship to social contract. The partner fufils our need while we fulfil their need.
In reality, we are not in relationship with our partner. We only have the picture of the end to be gained . The end, the gain prevents relationship..we are only using him/ her to satisfy our needs. What if she becomes less submissive, or he becomes poor? would you love him less?
You may use more of me and I use more of you? How do we bring about equilibrium?
This desire to use others for our own psychological necessities makes for dependence. When you depend, you must own.
Once our eyes focuses on this gain, we become attached to it. We do not want to share our possession with anyone to avoid loss, we want exclusive ownership. This create suspicion, jealousy . Attachment leads to fear of loosing the gain. To avoid, losing the oil, we want to own the palm tree. ownership becomes a form of security. We put a ring to the finger to tell others to back off. We get marriage certificate as an evidence that we posses our partner.
Relationship should be a mirror in which I see myself. It reveals who we are. relationship is a process of self revelation. A process of knowing oneself. Are you looking for financial upliftment? You should first uplift yourself financially before entering a relationship.
Are you scared of being lonely? in constant need of attention? you should first learn how to cope with loneliness, doing certain things you enjoy alone before entering a relationship .
Are you power Hungary? look inward and learn to control your self, your emotions especially anger.Are you looking to date celebrity? you are hiding your subconscious desire to be famous.
It is only by understanding our subconscious needs can we prevent them from affecting our relationship.
When we love a person, we admire that person for whom he is. we do not have any expectation from him. Instead, we give to that person unconditionally. only then can we be in a true relationship with him\ her.

Tell her HIV PASS HIV

you were not good enough

Nigeria won India 99-1

Ghana is too small a country to tempt him. Ghana should focus on tempting siasia

ServantsOfTruth:
Go on and show the world how stupid and foolish you are...if you don't have facts don't ever come up to me to talk non sense

As big as you are you can't read with your phone shame on you idiot

Fool read this

We have already been regaled with reports provided by the Wikileaks which identified the US embassy in Nigeria as a forward operating base for wide and far reaching acts of subversion against Nigeria which include but not limited to eavesdropping on Nigerian government communication, financial espionage on leading Nigerians, support and funding of subversive groups and insurgents, sponsoring of divisive propaganda among the disparate groups of Nigeria and the use of visa blackmailto induce and coerce high ranking Nigerians into acting in favour of US interests.
But beyond what we know from the Wikileaks report, what many Nigerians do not know is that US embassy’s subversive activities in Nigeria fits into the long term US government’s well camouflaged policy of containment against Nigeria the ultimate goal of which is to eliminate Nigeria as a potential strategic rival to the US in the African continent.
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According to wikileaks article on ACRI which potrays the ACRI as a counterweight which was set up by the US to instigate mistrust in Nigerian dominated ECOMOG; the sense of nigerian led anti-american opposition was first observed in during the bush administration, when nigeria without support from the west or UN led the first ever african intervention force on peacekeeping mission to Liberia while at the same time engaging serria loene in forced peace combat, with predominantly nigerian troops( over 90%) being spearheaded by then Military ruler Gen. Ibrahim Badamosi Babangida.
In this regard, the report further recalled Nigeria’s role in helping to liberate the southern African countries in the 70’s and 80’s in clear opposition and defiance to the interests of the United States and its western allies which resulted in setback for Western initiatives in Africa at the time.
Both concluded with a recommendation that the US Government in conjunction with its allies should seek to contain the growing influence of Nigeria in the sub-region by forming a parallel organization to ECOMOG. But in order not to unduly alarm and antagonize Nigeria which the report admitted still had considerable influence in the region, the US government was advised to go about this using quiet diplomacy and instigating false propaganda.

Years, later the CIA while tactically taking advantage of growing sectarian voilence in Nigeria, recruited jobless islamic extremist through muslim and other traditional leaders offering training indirectly to the group by use of foreign based terror groups.

However, there many dots left to be joined together to find the truth;

1.In december 2011 an algerian based CIA wing gave out #40 million naira as a planned Long term partnership with boko haram with PLEDGE TO DO MORE.
2.On june 29, 2009 a United States cable leaked by wikileaks showed that the CIA public predicted the onslaught of deadly terrorist attack by boko haram, i.e even 2 months before boko haram started terrorist actions.
3.Disregarding advices from experts the us armed saudi arabia who in turned armed libyan rebels that inturn armed malian rebels and boko haram, a chain tactically predicted by the CIA.
US=>SA=>LIBYA=>BOKO HARAM.
4.spyfiles a wikileak document indicates that SS8 a survelance company in the us was producing viruses(trojans) that hijack individual computer and phones (iphones,blackberry,android etc), take over the device, record its every use, movement,GPS info and even sights and sounds in the room it is in. This software was however bought by the and used as tools by the CIA in its eavesdropping games on nigerian politicians, thus detecting corrupt practices. As good as that may sound, but whichever politician refused to hijack policies in favour of the US was made to face financial espoinage or "corruption charges".
5.It is however remarkably outstanding or rather coindental how Nigerian SSS agents personal information,including address,bank information,mobile numbers,etc were leaked and published on the web when the sss where jointly working with the cia to gather intelligence boko haram thus compromising the identity/security of the agents as well as that of their family.
6.it is also important to note the "miraculous escape of kabiru sokoto" from a secret top security facility whose location was known to the cia.


Political money in a political marketplace

Another little noticed but significant feature of illicit financial flows from Africa is that there are occasional reverse flows. The movements back into African countries aren’t as big as the outflows, but they are important. What is happening here is “round-tripping”: spiriting funds away to a safe place so they can be brought back, with their origins unexplained, and no questions needing to be asked.

The same multinational corporation that is defrauding an African country can pay money into the offshore account of one of its political leaders. Or that leader can whisk funds away by other means. Our main concern here isn’t the money invested in real estate in France, yachts, fast cars, or foreign business ventures. These are personal insurance policies in case things go wrong at home, or tickets to the global elite club. Rather, our concern is the cash kept liquid, to be brought back home when needed – the money brought back to fix elections, buy loyalties and, in sundry other ways, secure leaders in power. These are political budgets par excellence: the funds used for discretionary political purposes by political business operators.

and we are borrowing money from them with mighty conditions, we are finished