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Romance / Re: ........ by tobechi74: 11:06am On Nov 01, 2021 |
There are numerous ways to test . That is the most amature way 1 Like |
Romance / Re: They Are Still Dating You Because They Have Not Seen Your Replacement Yet. by tobechi74: 11:03am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Guys or girls |
Family / Re: Why Are Most Parents Like This? by tobechi74: 10:35am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Forced to grow up fast Saddled with responsibility beyond me Overdeveloped sence of duty Working when my peers played with sand Functioning as an adult at a tender age My childhood taken away from me Doing their job Confusing role reversal Little opportunity to be playful Pleased them at all cost While suppressing my own needs Grown into a serious minded adult Attracted to troubled partner And trying to fix them https://tobechispeaks./2021/02/04/parenting-your-parent/ 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: Agonies Of Monogamy Against Polygamy by tobechi74: 10:33am On Nov 01, 2021 |
No Commentson Why is monogamy considered Natural What is so special in monogamous relationship? If monogamy is natural, why do we struggle at it? No one teaches fish how to swim? Why do we have books on how to avoid cheating? To answer this question,we look at what researchers revealed Evolutionary scientist David Barish compared monogamy among various animals. Only 9 percent of mammals practice monogamy 29 percent of primates are monogamous Before westernisation, 86 percent of indigenous society are no monogamous Overfamiliarisation with a partner kills a woman libido 30 percent of women have extra-marital affair despite being happy with their marriage. The numbers are against monogamy. One advantage of monogamy over polygamy is the assurance of a mate for every male. No group of wealthy powerful men can marry off all the women leaving the non powerful men single.. AThe spread of Christianity could be be a dominant factor. Monogamy offers an exclusive sence of ownership each woman on the man rather than having to share him with other women. Monogamy restricts each party from love and sex with another. Are these two not one of the sweetest feelings? Limited my experience of them should be seen as punnishnent and not something to jubilate to. In casual friendship, my friend could have other friends beside me and I am cool with that. But in monogamy, It is me and me alone. Any attempt to share love and sex with another is considered cheating. A woman should only love one guy but she can share her love among her children equally. Why can’t she love six men equally? Is this not hypocrisy? It means the 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Are Most Parents Like This? by tobechi74: 10:29am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Parents want children for selfish reason 3 Likes |
Family / Re: How Much Will Take You Through The Week? by tobechi74: 12:49am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Training myself to starve in the name of fasting. #400 x seven days for feeding. Cheaper than feeling gas 33 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Do You Know Some Men Are The Wife In Many Marriages by tobechi74: 12:44am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Congratulations on your new discovery |
Nairaland / General / How To Know A Persons Before Getting Closer by tobechi74: 12:42am On Nov 01, 2021 |
personality: What and how they talk about others when they are not around. What do they mostly talk about. Is it gossip or deep meaningful conversations? How they treat the restaurant staff. How they behave when they are in a position of power or authority i.e CEO, President, or even just an older sibling. Do they show ego or humbleness? How they handle a breakup. Are they bitter or do they forgive? What they complain about and how often they complain. How they treat animals. How they respond to criticism. How they respond to praise. Their handshake. Is it weak or firm? How often they use the letter “I”. How they act when they’re drunk. How they handle rejection. Who they hang out with mostly. How they handle “whose fault is this?”. Is it always finger pointing or do they take ownership? How they act in a traffic jam. Here is where you can judge how easily irritated they get. What kind of partner they choose. What they laugh at. How often they take selfies. Lastly, and most importantly, how they handle failures Quora |
Politics / Re: One New Reason Why Liberalism Is Dangerous. by tobechi74: 2:55am On Oct 22, 2021 |
This news itself is illegal |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Trump's Truth Social Hacked Within Hours Of Announcement by tobechi74: 2:50am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Foreign Affairs / Trump's Truth Social Hacked Within Hours Of Announcement by tobechi74: 2:43am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Trump announced he was launching a new media company sweek subscription offers > U.S. Trump's Truth Social Hacked Within Hours of Announcement BY KHALEDA RAHMAN ON 10/21/21 AT 5:59 AM EDT SHARE U.S. DONALD TRUMP HACKING TWITTER TRENDING Former President Donald Trump's new social media platform was reportedly hacked within hours of its announcement. Trump announced he was launching a new media company, Trump Media & Technology Group, and its "Truth Social" app on Wednesday. The "Truth Social" app will begin a beta launch for "invited guests" in November, with a nationwide rollout planned for early 2022, according to a press release. But people were able to sign up to create accounts using a publicly available link, Drew Harwell, a technology reporter for The Washington Post, said on Twitter late on Wednesday. "I literally just registered 'mikepence.' The site hasn't even launched yet and it's already this vulnerable," Harwell added. In a subsequent tweet, he revealed that account had been suspended. BEST OF NEWSWEEK VIA EMAIL READ MORE Donald Trump and Joe Biden Neck and Neck in 2024 Presidential Polling Trump Announces New Social Network to 'Stand Up to Tyranny of Big Tech' Donald Trump's TRUTH Social Prohibits 'Excessive Use of Capital Letters' Trump Attacks Zuckerberg for Ability to 'Change the Course' of Elections In another tweet, Harwell said it appeared the "donaldjtrump" account on Truth Social had been hacked. A screenshot Harwell shared showed the pinned post on the account was of a defecating animal. However, it's not clear if that account belongs to the former president. Reporter Drew Harwell shared a screenshot on Twitter showing the "donaldjtrump" handle on TRUTH Social appeared to have been hacked. TWITTER/DREWHARWELL NEWSWEEK SUBSCRIPTION OFFERS > Meanwhile, Mikael Thalen, a reporter for The Daily Dot, tweeted that he was able to create an account using the handle @donaldtrump before the public domain for the site was taken down. "Was just able to setup an account using the handle @donaldtrump on 'Truth Social,' former President Donald Trump's new social media website," Thalen tweeted. "Although the site is not officially open, a URL was discovered allowing users to sign up anyway." |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by tobechi74: 11:56pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
I agree with you |
Romance / Re: Rights And Privileges In A Relationship by tobechi74: 11:55pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
You are both prisoner who are chained from the freedom of exploring another partner |
Romance / Re: A Nairaland Redpiller Found Love At Last, Please Wish Him Well(pre wedding pics) by tobechi74: 11:47pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Did you take their permission before posting their pics here? A little hint about alpha and beta guys https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/20/girls-propose-to-this-kind-of-guy/ 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Telegram Is Down Oh (update: *servers are snail slow) by tobechi74: 8:56pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Back to Nokia touch |
Religion / Re: Is The Covid Vaccine The Beast Mark Of 666? I Don't Think It Is. by tobechi74: 8:03am On Oct 03, 2021 |
It is not in your power to prevent the world from ending if it wants to. Mark of beast is just a sign. |
Religion / Re: Can A Born Again Christian Be Possessed By Demon? by tobechi74: 8:01am On Oct 03, 2021 |
Demon=. Evil thought God = good thoughts Yes 8 Likes 1 Share |
Religion / Re: The Ubuntu Philosophy – I Am Because We Are. by tobechi74: 2:35am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Nice 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Is It OK To Add Your Religious Achievement To Your CV? by tobechi74: 2:28am On Aug 15, 2021 |
If that position is related to the job position. For instance, a marketer can indicatehe was follow up leader An electronics engr can indicate he was inchadfe of technical unit. If not, forget it |
Religion / Re: How Do You Feel When You Don't Have Offering To Give In Church? by tobechi74: 2:26am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Congratulations, you will not go home with less 3 Likes |
Religion / Re: Stop Swearing, It Is A Sin To Swear As A Christian by tobechi74: 2:26am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Eyaaaa |
Education / Re: The Government Didn't Ban History In Schools by tobechi74: 4:35pm On Jul 28, 2021 |
Sad |
Career / Re: What Have You Heard Concerning Male Nurses by tobechi74: 9:26pm On Jul 26, 2021 |
They are womanizer |
Religion / Re: Watch Out, You May Suffering From Divine Entitlement by tobechi74: 3:38am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Signs of Divine Entitlement 1. You become aggressive when you don’t get your way People who are entitled expect to get whatever they want regardless of effort or circumstances. They tend to be demanding, highly reactive, and overly sensitive to criticism and perceived slights. Most importantly, studies show that they become hostile when denied something they want. You’ll probably know if you’ve crossed this line because people will be either irritated by or concerned about you. Once you cool down, it might be good to consider their feedback. 2. You believe that the Divine should always give you what you want Things don’t always happen on our timeline or how we want them to. The idea of “Divine timing” requires that we cultivate trust even when we don’t understand the journey. There are so many instances when we don’t get what we want only to find later that it was just preparing us for something better. Stay open to something better. 3. You insist on getting the blessings you want or feel you deserve Being demanding about blessings can lead to emotional exhaustion as we cross the line from enthusiasm to desperation, impatience, and rigidity. The key is to go after what we want while staying open and flexible. 4. You believe that you deserve to get things from the Divine because you’re special Whenever culture pushes us to have an inflated sense of specialness, it interferes with our mental health and our relationships. Eventually we all encounter challenges because no one is exempt from struggling, waiting, and the natural cycles of life. No matter how many spiritual practices we engage in or how high vibe we try to be, we won’t necessarily get a fast-pass to our desires. There are always other moving parts involved that we don’t necessarily know about and there’s always room to grow. Appreciating the larger divine mystery isn’t always easy, but it can help us keep things in perspective. 5. You expect to be blessed, no matter how little work you actually do toward your goal Manifesting goals involves a fine balance between effort and flow. To achieve your goal you might have to labor for years on a project before one magical opportunity comes along that changes your whole life. Without action you won’t even have a chance to go with the flow. Just make sure that it’s inspired action rather than the kind that’s pushy, tense, and in overdrive. To be unentitled, it’s necessary to let go of the desire to be special and exempt from growth. Everyone struggles sometimes and wishes it were different. The important thing is that we remain resilient when we are struggling or waiting and confident but humble when we are going after our dreams. Can you have a good relationship with the Divine even when it asks you to grow or to wait? Can you work on your own ability to remain positive when challenged? Simple? Yes. Easy? Almost never. |
Religion / Watch Out, You May Suffering From Divine Entitlement by tobechi74: 3:33am On Jul 18, 2021 |
You’ve probably heard of many approaches to manifesting goals, but have you ever wondered if any of them were toxic? Research shows that one approach in particular has negative effects on our well-being. A study titled “God Owes Me: The Role of Divine Entitlement in Predicting Struggles with a Deity” looked at how Divine entitlement—the belief that the Divine should give us special treatment or privileges—affects our mental health and relationship to the Divine. Divine Entitlement The study found that people who were spiritual and measured high on a scale of Divine entitlement were more likely to experience struggles with the Divine and psychological distress. They had more anxiety, stress, anger, and depression. They were also more likely to feel angry, abandoned, punished, unloved, and let down by the divine. In other words, when we are spiritual and have a demanding attitude toward the Divine delivering on our desires, we risk our mental health and our relationship with the Divine. That might seem obvious and avoidable, but we live in a culture that encourages this type of approach to manifesting. We are constantly given the message that we should demand and expect to get what we want from the Divine. According to research, entitlement in general is on the rise in our culture. So, should we just ignore cultural messages endorsing entitlement and be humble instead? |
Career / Re: Parents Who Want You To Study Medicine Love You For Real Do It ! by tobechi74: 6:00pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
False |
Romance / Re: Can You Imagine A Question A Lady Asked Me Before Coming To My House? by tobechi74: 9:49pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
It depends on how close both of you are. But for a first visit, u may inteprete it as an invitation or she is cheap, so she got to change |
Family / Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by tobechi74: 11:01pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Women are emotional |
Family / Re: A Funny Picture Of Passing Out Corp Members: I made it vs Hustle continues by tobechi74: 11:00pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
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Family / Re: Why Isn't There Much Friendship & Closeness Among Family Members Anymore by tobechi74: 10:54pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Because a deliverance pastor day they are witches tying down your progress |
Politics / Re: Backward Integration In Sugar, Cement And Petroleum: Who Are The Beneficiaries? by tobechi74: 10:21pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
You cannot improve the quality of lives of poor by killing the rich You do not promote local content by banning foreign content You do not encourage export by banning import 9 Likes |
Religion / Re: Is Today's Church The Same As The One Jesus Died For? by tobechi74: 8:13am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Paul change it |
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