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CelebritiesRe: Fear, Panic As Ronke Oshodi Oke Loses Big Breasts! by tobechi74: 10:59pm On Feb 09, 2021
This looks like surgery

This is a true old folklore that many of 21th century haven’t heard. It is one of the first feminist acts in India started by a strong powerful women called Nageli who was born in a low caste of – Ezhavas-toddy tappers (who laboured in that awkward gap of society fashions ) and she went create history that will forever be remembered in history of feminism in India.

It took place in the early 19th century at a princely state called Travanacore in a simple village called Cherthala in heart of Kerala.

A breast tax (mulakkaram) was imposed by the Bramin king on lower caste Hindu women. The women were forced to pay the taxes if they wished to cover their breasts in public with a shawl(long piece of scarf).The tax varied from women to women as it was assessed on proportion to the size and shape of their breasts. The purpose of the breast-tax was to maintain a strict caste structure. If a women failed to she was punished by being hanged to death.

Women were forced to pay up or become a prey to the perverted eye glare of the sophisticated high class men. It was a burden forced on girls as soon as they reached adolescence. They silently wept and criticized their fate, shame building upon shame under the gaze of men for whom the right to dignity came with a price.

Nageli was forced during her younger years to be taxed. This women was already in shackles of poverty. The village inspector came to find out that Nageli was not abiding by the rules. He went to her house to collect the money. He forced her to pay up.She proclaimed in order cover her dignity she was not going to throw money to protect it. She just cut her breasts from her own body with a sickle knife ,her two lumps of bleeding meat in a palatine leaf and she handed it to him. Her husband found her bled to death on the floor. At the pyre funeral the husband out of emotions jumped into the flames of her funeral and died.

Which was the first male sathi in India. Sathi- Its a barbaric practice in which the widowed women voluntarily or forced to burn herself to death in the flames of her husbands fire at the funeral. What makes this story completely unique is that a male -( Nalgeli’s husband) for the first time in history scarified himself to death out of love for his wife in era where women practiced saithi.

In a land where Goddesses are worshiped to find this bitter heinous acts forced on women is appalling. The truth had the villagers flabbergasted and led them to fight against this law. The rulers out of shame abolished this horrible law.

Nageli was the village super women. She died protecting her rights of as a women but her death didn’t go in vain as she put a end to a 100 years of disgusting tradition forced on women at gunpoint to her grave . Her act was a selfless and her pride and dedication for equality knows no bounds. She fought in a era when women were oppressed and were not allowed to talk to boldly. She had the courage and guts to say was wrong. Also the story of first male sathi in a land of Gods where female sathi was followed

This story covers the aspects of many hardships of just being a women living in unimaginable circumstances. Desert flowers
https://tobechispeaks./2021/02/02/nangeli-abolishment-of-breast-tax/
RomanceRe: When She Is Not Mentally Ready by tobechi74: 9:33am On Feb 09, 2021
How old is she
PoliticsRe: Ozekhome: Nigeria Currently Has No IGP, Adamu Occupying Office Illegally by tobechi74: 4:08am On Feb 05, 2021
Sad
PoliticsRe: sheikh Gummi: What I Saw In Zamfara Is Insurgency Not Banditry by tobechi74: 4:08am On Feb 05, 2021
Sad
PoliticsRe: Amotekun Arrests 37 Herdsmen, 5000 Cattle For Violating Quit Notice In Ondo by tobechi74: 4:00am On Feb 05, 2021
Wonderful
Christianity EtcRe: Should Gospel Musician Compare Themselves To Worldly Ones by tobechi74: 3:57am On Feb 05, 2021
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WebmastersRe: Facebook Celebrate 17 Years Old, SEE Mark Zuckerberg Reaction by tobechi74: 3:56am On Feb 05, 2021
Congratulations
RomanceRe: See My fiancy fat ass . pics added by tobechi74: 2:10am On Feb 05, 2021
True
RomanceRe: Funny Photoshop Pictures I Found On The Internet. (lol) by tobechi74: 2:08am On Feb 05, 2021
Can he do anything about this

RomanceMeet The Lady Who Cut Her Breast by tobechi74(op): 1:55am On Feb 03, 2021
2020
This is a true old folklore that many of 21th century haven’t heard. It is one of the first feminist acts in India started by a strong powerful women called Nageli who was born in a low caste of – Ezhavas-toddy tappers (who laboured in that awkward gap of society fashions ) and she went create history that will forever be remembered in history of feminism in India.

It took place in the early 19th century at a princely state called Travanacore in a simple village called Cherthala in heart of Kerala.

A breast tax (mulakkaram) was imposed by the Bramin king on lower caste Hindu women. The women were forced to pay the taxes if they wished to cover their breasts in public with a shawl(long piece of scarf).The tax varied from women to women as it was assessed on proportion to the size and shape of their breasts. The purpose of the breast-tax was to maintain a strict caste structure. If a women failed to she was punished by being hanged to death.

Women were forced to pay up or become a prey to the perverted eye glare of the sophisticated high class men. It was a burden forced on girls as soon as they reached adolescence. They silently wept and criticized their fate, shame building upon shame under the gaze of men for whom the right to dignity came with a price.

Nageli was forced during her younger years to be taxed. This women was already in shackles of poverty. The village inspector came to find out that Nageli was not abiding by the rules. He went to her house to collect the money. He forced her to pay up.She proclaimed in order cover her dignity she was not going to throw money to protect it. She just cut her breasts from her own body with a sickle knife ,her two lumps of bleeding meat in a palatine leaf and she handed it to him. Her husband found her bled to death on the floor. At the pyre funeral the husband out of emotions jumped into the flames of her funeral and died.

Which was the first male sathi in India. Sathi- Its a barbaric practice in which the widowed women voluntarily or forced to burn herself to death in the flames of her husbands fire at the funeral. What makes this story completely unique is that a male -( Nalgeli’s husband) for the first time in history scarified himself to death out of love for his wife in era where women practiced saithi.

In a land where Goddesses are worshiped to find this bitter heinous acts forced on women is appalling. The truth had the villagers flabbergasted and led them to fight against this law. The rulers out of shame abolished this horrible law.

Nageli was the village super women. She died protecting her rights of as a women but her death didn’t go in vain as she put a end to a 100 years of disgusting tradition forced on women at gunpoint to her grave . Her act was a selfless and her pride and dedication for equality knows no bounds. She fought in a era when women were oppressed and were not allowed to talk to boldly. She had the courage and guts to say was wrong. Also the story of first male sathi in a land of Gods where female sathi was followed

This story covers the aspects of many hardships of just being a women living in unimaginable circumstances. Desert flowers


https://tobechispeaks./2021/02/02/nangeli-abolishment-of-breast-tax/
RomanceRe: What Event Changed Your From A Simp To A Bad Guy? by tobechi74: 1:45am On Feb 03, 2021
Poor
EducationRe: Mathematician, Statistician Please Help by tobechi74: 2:41am On Feb 02, 2021
2) 1- (2/3)^x = 0.9
EducationRe: Mathematician, Statistician Please Help by tobechi74: 2:37am On Feb 02, 2021
1) 1 - probability that it will not hit Target in all three attempts
= 1 - (2/3 * 2/3 * 2/3)
= 1- 8/27
= 19/27
PoliticsRe: Opc Give Fulani Herdsmen 15 Days Notice. by tobechi74: 2:34am On Feb 02, 2021
Sad
RomanceRe: Some Funny Pictures I Found On Quora, Lol. (PICTURES) by tobechi74: 2:05am On Feb 02, 2021
Funny
RomanceRe: 12 Widely Believed Sperm Facts That Are Actually False by tobechi74: 2:05am On Feb 02, 2021
Sperm is life. Men who sex more loose life, die more.
Women who are sexed more, live longer.
CelebritiesRe: Supersport Female Presenter Reveals Huge Cleavage (photo) by tobechi74: 2:01am On Feb 02, 2021
Soccer lovers watch the real football
And not that ball.

No distractions
EducationRe: Read This Warning SIGN Pasted In Front Of A Popular Brothel... by tobechi74: 1:59am On Feb 02, 2021
Japan men have a life expectancy of 80years.
Most are unmarried
RomanceRe: See What Silhouette Challenge Made Me Do (graphic Pics) by tobechi74: 1:58am On Feb 02, 2021
It is better to patronise prostitute. What joy do you get watching whrn you can touch
RomanceTen Things To Say To Your Ex New Partner by tobechi74(op): 1:56am On Feb 02, 2021
Ex boyfriend posting pictures of new girlfriend and you are like, “It’s been just two weeks after we broke up and my broken heart has not healed yet and you are dating some random chicks?” Well, that’s another story of a broken heart.

Meanwhile, maybe your ex was a total bad guy and you are happy that you two broke up already and you move on for good. When your ex-boyfriend posts pictures of new girlfriend, you will feel like a total queen saying, “Girl, you have chosen death to be with him. Goodluck!”

So, what to say to your ex boyfriend’s new girlfriend? It depends on the situation, but here some things to say to your ex boyfriend’s new girlfriend:

1. Say Nothing

You have nothing to do with your ex, your ex’s new girlfriend, your ex’s dog, your ex’s problems, or anything. You don’t need to say a thing to him about everything cause you are way out of his league.

You have your new life that should be a better and happy day. You don’t need to get involved or even give a short comment about what he is doing now. It’s just over so it’s over. Sit back and relax, queen, you don’t really need to know how his life is or who he is with now.

2. Say Good Things, Maybe?

Maybe you are still friends with your ex and his new girlfriend is your other friend, so maybe you decide to say something good to them. I hope you have healed with the broken heart in the past and you show up to them as a mature ex girlfriend and you would say, “I heard you two are together now. Hope the relationship works”. Winks!

I know, those words are strange to hear but maybe you are the type of chill girl and you are okay to be friends again with your ex and his new girlfriend. Also, you could maintain a good network with them.

3. Say Something Mean, Eh?

I am half sure that you want to know some mean things to say to your ex boyfriend’s new girlfriend. You would say, “Get ready for the worst case scenario cause he would say he loves you but you never knew how many girls he has been saying that to!” That could work if your ex is a pro cheater.

You could also say something mean but funny like, “I didn’t know what was in my mind for dating a guy like that. He must have witchcrafted me or I was drunk for a year or so”. Indeed, you might say something like, “Are you ready for having your heart broken into million pieces? I hope you do!”

Read More: 30 Reasons Why You Should Never Get Back with Your Ex! Never Again!

4. Tell Her to Run As Fast As She Can

You knew your ex’s bad behaviour and your relationship with him was just unhealthy. You have learnt that maybe that guy cannot change and that new girl is kinda innocent and you want to help her. So, you could tell her to run as fast as you can.

Your ex boyfriend’s new girlfriend wouldn’t believe you and she might think that you haven’t moved on. Well, you can warn her one time and you don’t have to say anything more since. Let’s see if she is gonna have a heartbreak three months later.

5. Tell Her Your Story, Maybe?

I really want to interview my boyfriend’s ex about my boyfriend’s trait when they were together just for a shot anticipation if he was good or not, or if I should run or stay. You know, it’s like checking reviews on a restaurant so I don’t end up ordering and eating disgusting food.

Well, maybe she would love to listen to your story with him. The good things, the bad things, or maybe everything. If you found that your ex was abusive, manipulating, controlling, or just the “bad-bad type” then maybe you could save this new girl’s future.

6. Give Her Love Tips

It’s like, “I have been there. Do you want to hear some tips to survive?” You could do that if your ex boyfriend’s new girlfriend is beautiful and your ex is actually a good one too. And you want them to be happy.

That’s grossy looks like a lame fairytale but may you want to do that. You could tell her about how he likes to be treated, or maybe something. Meanwhile, I am not sure about that cause who the heck wants to talk to ex’s new girlfriend like that?

7. Send Her The Warning Signs

What to say to your ex boyfriend’s new girlfriend? Maybe you could give her some warning signs about how psycho and abusive that guy is. If that guy, your ex, was truly an abusive and psychopathic guy who refused to get some help.

Read More: 31 Ways to Move On from A Breakup (Do These Things!)

8. Tell Her His Red Flags

Women help women from a monster guy is a thing. You were out of the relationship because that guy was totally harming your life. Now you see he is dating a new innocent girl and you don’t want the same shits to happen to her, so you can tell her those warning signs about your ex.

I knew, she won’t believe you. It’s also looks strange if you reach to them again. Just hope he learns to be a better person so he won’t hurt his new girlfriend the way he ruined your life.

9. Tell Her The Good Side of Him

What’s more things to say to your ex boyfriend’s new girlfriend? If you breakup with him for good and still have a good relationship with them after the breakup, then you can say good things if you want to. There is no beef or spill that tea.

You can have dinner together, double date with your new boyfriend, and no competition could be good. That shows that you guys are mature enough to accept the fact that each other belongs to someone else.
EducationRe: Public Universities Should Send Social Science Students Back Home - Opinion by tobechi74: 11:32am On Feb 01, 2021
Auladimeji:
You're very correct but majorities of the medicine are useless in Nigeria,90% of drugs in Nigeria are imported yet people have been studying this course since ages.
How many technology can repair or cupple a Nokia touch phone...Many go to school but school no go through them
Majority of medicine are useless,?

Really? Do you understand what medicine is? Not drugs oo
PoliticsRe: Eastern Security Network Is Now On Wikipedia. (picture) by tobechi74: 3:07am On Feb 01, 2021
Nigerians can edit for Wikipedia.
PoliticsRe: Buratai Reduced Army To Fulani-Hausa Muslims Caucus - Intersociety by tobechi74: 9:17pm On Jan 31, 2021
Not just army. All FG agencies and ministry
EducationRe: Where Can I Study This In Nigeria. by tobechi74: 9:13pm On Jan 31, 2021
humblyphilip:
I swear, i really love the two.
lol.
Computer is a subset of electronics for computer is electronics device.

Study electrical and electronics engineering

Computer science masters
EducationRe: Public Universities Should Send Social Science Students Back Home - Opinion by tobechi74: 9:11pm On Jan 31, 2021
And ARTS students too
EducationRe: UNIBEN Bans Other Bread, Water Products On Campus by tobechi74: 9:08pm On Jan 31, 2021
The same way Buhari close boarder and worsen recession

See, you do not force local sale by banning foreign sale.

You only encourage smuggling and increase in price.

Make your bread wonderful and outstanding and student will rush ut
RomanceRe: A Friend Saw This On His Partner's Whatsapp Status by tobechi74: 9:04pm On Jan 31, 2021
It is a normal prayer request girls make
RomanceRe: Nigerians,Why This Mindset Towards The Girl Child???? by tobechi74: 5:29pm On Jan 31, 2021
Most girls don't have sence by young age . If they are exposed too early, she either tearbeye finish nor she gets deceived and get pregnant.

Solution

Early sex education

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