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RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Wants To Give My Unborn Child To Another Man by tobechi74: 5:27pm On Jan 31, 2021
No one owns a child. You are only a medium through which children comeminto this world.

Joseph took care of a child he did not father
RomanceRe: Teach Us What You Know About This Type Situation. by tobechi74: 5:26pm On Jan 31, 2021
Preach the word of God
Christianity EtcRe: The Rapture: Before Or After The Great Tribulation? by tobechi74: 10:11am On Jan 31, 2021
We are so concerned about the future that we forget to live in the presence. We cannot change rapture if at all it will take place in our generation. Why not focus on what you have control over and stop unnecessary worry about things we lack power
HealthRe: Today Is World Mental Health Day: Check Your Mental Freedom Status by tobechi74(op): 10:06am On Jan 31, 2021
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Christianity EtcRe: My Journey From a Bible Believer To A Jesus Follower by tobechi74(op): 10:01am On Jan 31, 2021
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Christianity EtcRe: Reason Why Some People Prayers Are Not Easily Answered by tobechi74(op): 10:01am On Jan 31, 2021
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Christianity EtcRe: Why Serious Christian Ministers don't Get Married by tobechi74(op): 10:01am On Jan 31, 2021
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RomanceRe: Why Does Everyone Think Monogamy Is Natural by tobechi74(op): 10:00am On Jan 31, 2021
alawiiyeyoruba1:
As nice as this article is, I think many persons practice monogamy just to avoid the complications that comes with polygamy. This world is complicated already, many persons are just interested in living a simple easy life.


Aso-Oke also called Ofi is a type of hand-made fabric usually done by weaving and this art of weaving and styling of this particular fabric material originated from the Yorubas ........ read more on https://alawiiyeyoruba.com/aso-ofi/
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RomanceRe: Five Reasons Why Thinkers and Philosophers Struggle In Marriage by tobechi74(op): 9:58am On Jan 31, 2021
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Christianity EtcRe: Is This Particular Biblical Passage Still Effective In 2021 by tobechi74(op): 9:58am On Jan 31, 2021
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Christianity EtcRe: Why Do Christians Reject Cesarian Method Of Delivery by tobechi74(op): 9:56am On Jan 31, 2021
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Christianity EtcRe: Does Intersex Makes God Confused Or Does It Justify Homosexuality by tobechi74(op): 9:54am On Jan 31, 2021
Image123:
Deformities and abnormalities do not justify sin.
When someone has male and female genitals. What gender is the person?
Christianity EtcRe: Evidence That Atheist Are Peaceful In Nigeria by tobechi74(op): 9:50am On Jan 31, 2021
matrix199:
Buffaloes rally together when one or all members are threatened or attacked by pride of lions.




So, if animals know the basic of solidarity as a group, how much more humans. This clearly shows that atheism/atheists have a lot to learn and understand.
It shows that Religious people are homo-animalia while Atheist are homosapiens
Christianity EtcRe: Evidence That Atheist Are Peaceful In Nigeria by tobechi74(op): 9:48am On Jan 31, 2021
DuBLINGreenb:
Who is the presido of the association?
Do you want to go an kill the person? Mubarak Bala is president of sister group Humanist
Christianity EtcRe: If you always Feel Like You Forget GOD's word Frequently by tobechi74: 9:46am On Jan 31, 2021
If God can harden pharoah mind so he will be stubborn

God can erase your mind to forget
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Bad To Sing Christian Songs In Secular Way? by tobechi74: 9:45am On Jan 31, 2021
zoputa:
Many of us love to sing songs to God, but I want your contributions on if singing christian songs in Secular way is bad? What I mean is: for example if someone uses like high-life or rap or Fuji or reggae or ogene or afrobeat pattern of singing for christian songs. Again, is it bad to use zanku dance in praising God?
What of singing worldly song in a Christian way
Christianity EtcRe: 7 Causes Of Depression And How To Overcome by tobechi74: 9:44am On Jan 31, 2021
Concentrate on helping others
Christianity EtcRe: Why It's Unwise To Say That Jesus Drank Alcohol And Was A Drunkard by tobechi74: 9:42am On Jan 31, 2021
Drink yes.
Drunk. No
Christianity EtcRe: #SilhouetteChallenge: What The Bible Says (Photos) by tobechi74:
If you need a no k to tell you whether to take part in a game or not. You are still a child. You need to grow up
Christianity EtcRe: End Of January: What Have You Achieved This Year?! by tobechi74: 7:22am On Jan 31, 2021
Did you do first fruit offering
Christianity EtcRe: What Happened After My Mum's Death by tobechi74: 7:21am On Jan 31, 2021
Congratulations. Not everyone who lost mum has positive ending
Christianity EtcRe: Eight Reasons Why Good Pastors Indulge In Sexual Immorality by tobechi74(op): 7:20am On Jan 31, 2021
zang:
All this are rubbish except the grace of God Almighty

May God guide us
David did not have the grace when he slept with a man's wife. Sometimes,we have a role to play
Christianity EtcRe: Eight Reasons Why Good Pastors Indulge In Sexual Immorality by tobechi74(op): 7:17am On Jan 31, 2021
AntiChristian:
I love the statements below:

The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: "No person should be alone with a woman except with a Mahram.” [Muslim].

A Mahram is one whom it's forbidden to a woman to marry.

The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: “Never is a man alone with a woman except that the devil is their third [party]. " [Ahmad]

Na this devil dey use them.
So a doctor should not be alone with a dying woman in time of emergency. You don't solve a problem by running away from it.

Btw
. This is not a Muslim thread. Let non Muslims answer this question. If non Muslims begin to reply you and mistakenly say something ,you will accuse him of blasphemy.
Christianity EtcRe: Deleted by tobechi74: 5:56am On Jan 31, 2021
Different from soul of iron
Christianity EtcRe: Testimonies That Makes You Uncomfortable. by tobechi74: 5:55am On Jan 31, 2021
Many
Christianity EtcEight Reasons Why Good Pastors Indulge In Sexual Immorality by tobechi74(op): 1:27am On Jan 31, 2021
The Anglican Church announced the suspension of one of her bishop for having sexual intercourse with a pastors wife This is not the first time men of God are involved in adultery and fornication.The profession is associated with integrity.Members of the church find it difficult to recover from the shock afterward. Many point accusation fingers on the pastors. This article examines reasons clergy get involved in such scandal.

1) The Bible did not offer proper sex education: The best the Bible told us to do is to avoid sex outside marriage. That is not a sufficient sex education. Infact, To tell someone not to perform an act is to instill the idea on the individual. This is evident in the fall of Adam and Eve.


2)The position is tempting; The role involves a lot of one on one counselling section with female members. Research shows that those who share intimate part of their lives to a stranger tend to fall in love with that stranger. Female members open up emotionally to their pastor, Women need someone to listen to her endless tales. This leads to a development of feelings for the pastor. If care is not taken, a bond may develop.

3)Repressed emotion is transmitted in another way. Would be pastors spend years in training repressing their sexual cravings. This feelings come out in another form. Many engage in online pornography, some masturbate. Few Catholic priests sexually harras young boys and others are involved in extra marital affair.

4)Pastoral training did not offer proper training on how to prevent sexual immorality: Some people are ordained pastors after few months training with no discussion on sex . The work involves constant dealing with members of opposite sex. Some are unable to detect the early signs a lady gives when she is falling in love with the pastor and how to abort such session instantly.


5)Clergy are not God : That one is a pastor does not mean that he has supernatural powers capable of doing the impossible. They are human and are subject to mistakes. What differentiate then from the average member is an interest in church leadership. Pastors are picked from a sex- obsessed population. An individual may have a high sexual urge and still be interested in church leadership. Pastors are not eunuchs.

6)Level of Maturity. A pastor may be sound in interpreting scriptures yet deficient in other aspect of life. Resistance to sexual temptation involves period of training until one gets matured in it .

7)Members are corrupt . The act is not done alone. It involves an accomplice. immoral pastors are growing because immoral members are growing. Church members want quick route to salvation. She wants immediate forgiveness to her sins which she does not want to stop . Some corrupt pastor suggest more donation from her stolen funds Other sexually corrupt pastors suggest a night of sexual purification to insert holy sperm into her body . Some ladies intentionally lead the men astray. It reveals the level of holiness of the church.


coolChildhood Trauma . Adults are grown up children . Some of them were abused as children They still carry the experience within and transfer it to other children.

This write-up does not intend to exonorate the pastors. Rather,it aims at urging church to look into the aspect of pastoral training very serious. Sex education ought to be added to training curriculum Experienced pastors should share their temptation stories and how they conquered it. Counsellors and therapist ought to be active participant in the training. Pastors are vulnerable like the average member and deserve double protection
RomanceRe: Be Very Careful The Woman You Show Love To by tobechi74: 12:34am On Jan 31, 2021
Show love to all human but only draw few closet
RomanceRe: Is This Wisdom Or Just Poverty? by tobechi74: 12:34am On Jan 31, 2021
Sometimes, I do that to get the response of the driver.
His manner of approach. Is he polite in refusing my offer.
At times, I give in and pay the fee he asks if He is the jovial type.
I avoid rude drivers
RomanceRe: What Is This Exact Thing That I Have Done To Deserve This by tobechi74: 12:28am On Jan 31, 2021
Go and teach
RomanceRe: Dear Nairalanders How Effective Is Okafor's Law Of Congo Dynamics? by tobechi74: 12:27am On Jan 31, 2021
Okafor is an ibo name
Congo is a country in Africa
Dynamics is a term for change
RomanceRe: Does The Type Of Porn You Search Describe Your Sexuality? by tobechi74: 12:24am On Jan 31, 2021
It describes your personality.

Which do you watch most frequently

BDSM signify one with power issues. You love to control or being controlled.

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