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PropertiesStandard 3beds Flat In Chevy View by Tohat(op): 7:35am On Feb 08, 2016
a three bedroom flat and four beds bq is available in Chevy view for rental. if you are interested please call: 08103504035
PropertiesUrgent Shop Needed Pls ..... Call by Tohat(op): 7:20am On Feb 08, 2016
can any body get me shop along Lekki agungi axis please call this number 08103504035.it is needed urgently
RomanceRe: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Tohat(m): 6:47am On Sep 04, 2015
He only hate the lies, that's all
PoliticsRe: Buhari, Osinbajo Declare Assets by Tohat(m): 11:00pm On Sep 03, 2015
Baba ooh Baba ooh Baba ooo
Sai baba
PoliticsRe: Buhari, Osinbajo Declare Assets by Tohat(m): 10:57pm On Sep 03, 2015
Don't be surprised that buari is the main man
BusinessRe: 10 Businesses That Will Suffer Under BUHARI by Tohat(m): 2:56pm On May 06, 2015
girls u better not runnnnnz .... pls get to be slowwwz girls if not !
PoliticsRe: Buhari Set Implement Dress Code For Journalists Covering Villa- NigerianTimes.ng by Tohat(m): 2:47pm On May 06, 2015
either the news is truth or not
all I want to ask is ..... is their any of the Muslim and Christian religion which accept's unclothedness
RomanceRe: Telemundo Is Affecting My Relationship;please Help by Tohat(m): 6:47am On Apr 26, 2015
u Neva no sey premier league de today ... is it television or telemondo ... if na television I go sabi ooo
EducationRe: See How Lazy Students Reason In Picture by Tohat(m): 10:51pm On Apr 18, 2015
am a teacher teaching a tender like him and assure of teaching him all subjects
FashionRe: Face Of Fashion Africa Contestants (Photos) by Tohat(m): 5:27am On Apr 17, 2015
what a shame to those that call dia in Muslim ..... Islam does not allow this
FamilyRe: What A Woman Can Do (photo) by Tohat(m): 10:58am On Mar 06, 2015
the Yoruba call this Gbewudani :Dthe Yoruba call this Gbewudani
PoliticsRe: 5 Things You Should Know About INEC's Smart Card Readers(SCRs) (PHOTO) by Tohat(m): 10:45am On Mar 06, 2015
who will configure it other than the filling party . if it require GEN .... Let use it. shebi GEJ sabi use our money for campaign why not to provide a good service
PoliticsRe: Grassroot Man~governor Fayose Buying A Plantain From A Seller(picture Attached) by Tohat(m): 10:38am On Mar 06, 2015
your mind tell you the truth but you deceive yourself ..... u beta go for change
Christianity EtcRe: So There Is A Street In Lagos Called Blood Of Jesus Street?! (see Photo) by Tohat(m): 10:36pm On Dec 26, 2014
I no go near where blood dey flow. I no sabi fight oooo
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Newcastle Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 6th December 2014 by Tohat(m): 3:37pm On Dec 06, 2014
#lobatan #bringbakourunbeaten ........... Gooooaaaal
RomanceRe: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Tohat(m): 9:13pm On Dec 04, 2014
The solution is polygamy. Try it. U ill c dat ladies will be lazy of mariage.
Just because, they do nt want to share love.
RomanceRe: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Tohat(m): 8:53pm On Dec 04, 2014
Na so joor. It is only if she doesn't need him
Christianity EtcThe Ways Of Keeping Away From The Temptation Women by Tohat(op): 9:52am On Dec 04, 2014
And He says (interpretation of the meaning):
“That shall be their recompense, Hell; because
they disbelieved and took My Ayaat (proofs,
evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations,
etc.) and My Messengers by way of jest and
mockery”
[al-Kahf 18:106]
“Then for him who transgressed all bounds, (in
disbelief, oppression and evil deeds of
disobedience to Allaah).
And preferred the life of this world (by
following his evil desires and lusts),
Verily, his abode will be Hell-fire”
[al-Naazi’aat 79:37-39]
So the Muslim must strive to worship Allaah
and keep away from that which angers Allaah,
for Allaah will not cause the reward the one
who does good to be lost:
“As for those who strive hard in Us (Our Cause),
We will surely guide them to Our paths (i.e.
Allaah’s religion — Islamic Monotheism). And
verily, Allaah is with the Muhsinoon (good-
doers)”
[al-‘Ankaboot 29:69 – interpretation of the
meaning]
One of the fitnahs (temptations) with which we
are tested is the fitnah of women, as the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: “I have not left behind me any
fitnah (temptation) more harmful to men than
women.” There follow some of the methods by
which we can avoid this temptation. We ask
Allaah to set the affairs of the Muslims
straight.
1 – Faith in Allaah.
Faith in Allaah and fear of Allaah provide a
safety valve and protect a person against
committing haraam actions and following his
own whims and desires.
If the believer becomes aware that Allaah is
always watching and if he ponders the
meanings of His names and attributes, such as
the All-Knowing, the All-Hearing, the All-
Seeing, the Watchful, the Reckoner, the
Preserver, the All-Encompassing, that will
generate fear of Him in secret and in public,
and will put a stop to disobedience towards
Allaah, and will reduce the strength of desire
that leads many people to commit haraam
actions.
2 – Lowering the gaze and avoiding looking at
haraam things
The gaze can generate bad thoughts in the
heart, which then lead to ideas and then to
desires, then to will and resolve, and then
inevitably to doing haraam things. Think about
the meaning of this verse which makes a
connection between the first steps towards
haraam and the end result. Allaah says
(interpretation of the meaning):
“Tell the believing men to lower their gaze
(from looking at forbidden things), and protect
their private parts (from illegal sexual acts).
That is purer for them. Verily, Allaah is All-
Aware of what they do”
[al-Noor 24:30]
Ibn Katheer said: “This is a command from
Allaah to His believing slaves, to lower their
gaze and avoid looking at that which is
forbidden to them so that they only look at
that which they are permitted to look at. If it
so happens that a person’s gaze accidentally
falls upon something haraam, he should turn
his gaze away from it quickly.
3 – Warding off evil thoughts
Bad thoughts pose a danger to the heart… If a
person dwells on them and does not push
them away, they will develop into an idea,
then into will and resolve, then this will
inevitably lead to haraam actions. Beware of
dwelling on passing thoughts; rather what you
must do is to ward them off and crowd them
out with good thoughts.
The treatment, then, is to ward off these
passing thoughts and keep yourself busy with
beneficial thoughts.
4 – Marriage
It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood
said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: “O young men,
whoever among you can afford it, let him get
married, and whoever cannot, let him fast, for
it will be a shield for him.” Narrated by al-
Bukhaari, 5065.
5 – Fasting for those who cannot afford to get
married
– because of the hadeeth quoted above, in
which it says, “…and whoever cannot, let him
fast, for it will be a shield for him.” Narrated
by al-Bukhaari, 5065.
Al-Qurtubi said:
The less a person eats, the weaker his desire
becomes, and the weaker his desire is, the less
sins he commits.
6 – Keeping away from bad companions.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) said: “A man will follow the way of
his close friends, so let each one of you look at
who he takes as a close friend.” Narrated by
Abu Dawood, 8433; classed as hasan by al-
Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood, 4046.
7 – Keeping away from places of temptation.
It is obvious that we are living in a society that
is filled with temptation – media of all types,
magazines, flirting in the marketplaces,
satellite TV, the internet, etc… So you have to
flee from all of these in order to keep your
religious commitment sound.
8 – Do not make your houses graves.
Make your house a reminder of obedience, not
of sin. If a room is connected to sin for
example, that will make a person commit sin
repeatedly, because every time he enters that
room he will remember the sin and may be
provoked to commit the sin again. So he should
make his room and his house a reminder of
obedience to Allaah, so when he enters he sees
the Mus-haf which he reads, and he
remembers praying qiyaam al-layl for Allaah,
and the regular Sunnah prayers that he offers
in this room. Doing a lot of acts of worship in
your house will make a connection in your
mind between the house and doing good
deeds, so you will do more and will think less
of sin, and the calls of desire will grow less.
9 – Trying to make the most of your time in
worshipping and obeying Allaah.
Time is one of the great blessings that Allaah
has bestowed upon His slaves, but there are
many who are not making the most of it. It was
narrated that Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be
pleased with him) said: The Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Two
blessings which many people do not make the
most of: good health and spare time.” Narrated
by al-Bukhaari, 6412.
See also question no. 3234.
10 – Remembering the blessings of the
Hereafter.
Particularly appropriate in this context is
remembering al-hoor al-‘iyn and their
attributes, whom Allaah has prepared for
those who are patient and steadfast in
avoiding sin. This can help the Muslim to look
at these transient haraam pleasures which
only lead to regret and loss.
We ask Allaah to help us to avoid temptation,
both obvious and hidden. Praise be to Allaah
the Lord of the Worlds.
CelebritiesRe: Indian TV Presenter Slapped Live On Air (Picture & Video) by Tohat(m): 12:02pm On Dec 02, 2014
The guy don too forward. He for wait till the judgment day, when she would be given something beta than that.
Does holly marry dress soooo
Or na who get common sence dey do that, if u go try am within isale eko. I believe na rape dem go rape am.
Aaaaaashewoooooo
RomanceRe: How to Talk to Women by Tohat(m): 10:31pm On Nov 22, 2014
Hav been annoyed on the niger ladies. Dem sabi money pass central bank
RomanceRe: How to Talk to Women by Tohat(m): 10:27pm On Nov 22, 2014
3direct:
funny!!
U sabi dem jare..... All the quotes are for the old or the past pass women
RomanceRe: One Thing You Can't Tolerate In A Relationship by Tohat(m): 6:34pm On Nov 22, 2014
Point of correction. No be everybody they cheat oo
FamilyRe: What's So Special About Your Age That You Hide It? by Tohat(m): 5:43pm On Nov 22, 2014
I like da quote before I read it , am am who I am , am am maor than a year
BusinessRe: Hausa Ajami/Arabic Inscriptions Removed From New N100 Note by Tohat(m): 5:46pm On Nov 17, 2014
their is notting I comment on these than disunity, let them add the ibru language instead of creating quarrel
RomanceRe: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Tohat(m): 10:45pm On Nov 12, 2014
Absolutely yes.for many reason. I experience it
HealthRe: Doctor in the House: Free Medical Advice Available by Tohat(m): 2:27pm On Sep 17, 2013
good day doctor?
please, for about some days now, am unable to pass waste, I mean going to toilet. what can I do pls.
thanks doctor
IslamRe: Who Is Prophet Muhammed (saw) by Tohat(m): 2:55pm On Sep 13, 2013
alahuma soli ala Muhammad wahala alihi was ashabihi wasalim::::::::: a generous, kind, God fearing and so on. pls pray for me, I want to see him today
IslamDid You Anything About These, You Need To Comment On These by Tohat(op): 2:46pm On Sep 13, 2013
Question:
Is there any proof that the mark that develops on the
forehead from prostration is a sign of righteousness?
Answer:
This is not a sign of righteousness; rather, light on
one’s face, calmness in ones chest, good manners,
and the like are. As for the mark that results from
prostrating, it even shows up on the face on those
people who only pray the obligatory prayers, from
some kind of sensitivity in their skin. And it does not
appear on the faces of some people who pray often
and who prolong their prostrations.
Shaykh Muhammad bin Saalih al-`Uthaymeen
RomanceRe: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Tohat(m): 5:10am On Sep 08, 2013
the word of God shall not go without happening, Ladies I advise you to get married on time, this is not age or education situation. pls marry on time even between age 16 I believe you should choose
IslamRe: 12-year-old Caned For Wearing Hijab Out Of Class by Tohat(m): 8:24am On Feb 24, 2013
Please,I need to the principal a questiion?
If she appens to dress in christain ways of dress,what will she do?
This is unfair ........
PropertiesRe: 1200square Meter Land For Sale In Agungi Lekki 38M Asking....contact 08133703690 by Tohat(op): 8:26pm On Nov 27, 2012
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