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@ OP    

Firstly, stop all these regret nonsense, it wont do u any good but cause u more pains.

Secondly, u need to know there is no perfect match (either man/woman), we all have our flaws, but our decision to get married depends on our ability to tolerate the other party's flaws without subjecting oneself to an unbearable eternal pains.

Now to my advice,

Search ur heart very well and answer the following questions with sincerity,

Do u really love her? If YES,

Can u tolerate her bad-side (wasteful spending) financially and morally, If YES then problem solved and enjoy ur life but

if NO which I presumed is the answer according to your post then u ask urself the next question,

Do you want to make an attempt on correcting and shaping her to ur taste or standard? (Please note: this is a possibility, not a guarantee and should not be expected to produce a 100% result no matter how hard u try)  If YES,

I will advice u make use of the following tips:

i.   NEVER disclose ur true financial status to her, for instance if ur monthly income is 100k tell her its just 50k

ii. Never make her a sole signatory on ur joint account if you must open one with her or if you already have one, then it's time to change that

iii. Don't let her handle any monetary project alone henceforth, it's either u get a trusted third party or u simply handle it urself

iii. Have a one on one talk with her and let her know how u feel about her actions


Meanwhile, postpone the wedding plans for the meantime, while u try the above tips with close monitoring. . . 

I need to go know, the decision is urs to make, wish u good luck

BUT NEVER START WHAT U ALREADY KNOW U CANT FINISH

Any right thinking mind would understand that NATO bombardment of Libya is a foul cry and in no way close to humanitarian service but rather a violation of human rights of Libyans.

I wonder what US and its terrorist allies understand by sovereignty of a nation

That was in no way a test, she meant every bit of her outrageous demands.

Don't even try to give her any second chance cos i'm sure she might have tested some of her "don't look back" charms on you which of course apparently did fail.

So If you dare look back and give her another chance or decide to play a fast "hit and run" you might not be so lucky this time around, cos she is going to reload big time and make sure she adds you to her endless list of mugus

You don turn Mario be that

We also know how radical nigerian muslims are and the extent of what they can do is not in doubt and therefore they should be strictly monitored.

@Bandit   Your name speaks volume, what does radicalism got to do with a banking system? and how could you foolishly generalize that Nigerian Muslims are more radical than their foreign counterpart?


You are indeed a M.O.R.O.N that has serious brain disruptions comprehending a simple banking policy. Some intelligent folk there sited a close example of the UK with the same Islamic banking System and all you could deduce was to compare the number of Muslims there to that of Nigeria, anyway i think you are too dumb to understand that the more the number of people that requires a legitimate service the more important the reason to put such service(s) in place.

So if UK with a lesser number of Muslims could have Islamic Banks, then why not Nigeria with many times more Muslims than the UK.

I'm so sorry for the future of this country, anyway i'm not in any way disappointed cos i don't expect anything different from Bro Jonah not after making Daniel his campaign coordinator for the South West even at the heat of the crisis rocking Ogun State then.

He wont bite the fingers that feed him since he was brought into power by this same corrupt, shameless good for nothing treasury looters.

Don't be surprised if you see Akala's name on the ministerial list

@OP Then go and get married to him immediately if u truly love him as u claim or wht's holding u back? Do u want to reach menopause stage before u get married?

Fix a wedding date and bury all these issues of him wanting to taste the koko before marriage.

@OP Stop creating stu.pid threads, instead u should seek knowledge about things u know nothing about and stop wallowing in ur deep ignorance and outright lack of sensibility

@daroz And where did u get those stu.pid quotes from, i'm very sure it's definitely not from the Quran, u better stop falsifying the words of God before His wrath descend heavily on u

I cant blame him yet, let's wait and see the effects of the pronouncements, then we will know if it's truly an executive order or the common rants of a drunken fisherman.

This might turn out to be a big issue going by the state of Judiciary in Nigeria by the time money starts flying around.

Noting that Akala is a big spender, he's ready to do anything to retain the position

@post

This is a great thread, keep it up.

Meanwhile, on the issue of beginning the row directly behind the imam, i believe that applies to the first row alone, subsequent rows should start from the extreme right side of the imam and people should join in that direction according to some hadiths.

@Araboy
I think we are not suppose to base our actions and religious practices on what people (muslims or non-muslims alike) say or do but on the laws of Allah (S.W.T) and the teachings and practice of the holy prophet Muhammad (s.A.W)

May Allah guide us aright and make the deen easy for us. (Amin)

Befriend the devil

^^^ What an ignorant silly foool u are to eat every shyte America feeds you.


@post What an interesting piece there.

You don't deserve any of the two guys. You ditched the last one to go experiment with the world aka go sample other dyks - hey I'm not calling you a ho or smth. The current one dated you for two years and proposed, instead of accepting or refusing, you are considering your ex's proposal (aka ex's dyck again). But I'm a good mood right now and I wouldn't call you a slut or anything of the nature. The ex is dumb to come back. The current probably doesn't know what is going on else I doubt he will stick around for long.

Oh yeah, I'm supposed to advice you. My bad, I forgot. My advice is as follows: If you are ever in a jam btw two guys and can't choose, choose none of them. If any of them is the one for you, you wouldn't even be thinking about it.

I think you still need more experimentation or seeing whats out there in the world.

You don't even deserve either of them
You left your first boyfriend because you wanted to test other waters, I hope you get flushed down the toilet with your own tears!

@OP
Truth hurts they say, don't worry just stick around for some dumb folks like you to come around and post what you would love to read (naked lies)

^^^^ hmmm. . . .ipnx ke, that was then when they first started not now that they have bitten more than they can chew

What's ur location and ur last price?

This is simply an eye-opener for all Africans who don't want to remain slaves in their own land anymore.

@Stkilda

As to whether the US is right to intervene in Libya, I say, “yes, they are”. It is their absolute right, as a nation, to pick and choose which conflicts to get involved in and for whatever reasons. I wish that they had chosen to intervene in the Nigerian civil war. I am sure that millions of lives would have been saved and it wouldn’t have mattered if in the end they helped themselves to some of the oil.

I'm very sure people like you can sell their birthrights just for a loaf of bread.

Stupidity Personified

Stop dis rubbish wiki post, anybody can upload anything on wiki and dat doesn't make it valid. Why are Christians and churches always targeted first? When MEND were doing their own did they burn any mosque?

This is not just any upload on wiki, it's a well documented sayings of the Prophet (S.A.W), they call it sunnah.

Not just some air-say or personal write-up of some people, it is the word of the Prophet of God, and if you are a true muslim, you must follow it.

U must be more ignorant than i am for not knowing that koran is d operative manual for the suicide bombers & your almajiris family up north toward achieving big mansion filled with 72 sumptous virgins for each martyr.

What an absolute show of shame you put yourself, quote just 1 verse from the Quran where it encourages violence, looting and taking of innocent lives.

Stop embarassing urself on public forum, it's too obvious you are a complete ignoramus, you type any nonsense without thinking it through, does that make ur sorry as.s feel good?

Anyway, I cant be more disappointed in u since are too stupi.d to assume Tolu is a name from the North, i wonder if at all you are from this planet.

Whoever think violence in the North is about Islam or any other religion for that matter need to check his/her for INCURABLE MADNESS.

For those of you that might have some doubt or lack the proper understanding on the position of Islam and that of the Prophet (S.A.W) on violence against non-muslims,

Read this

LETTER OF PROPHET MUHAMMAD (PBUH) LETTER TO THE MONKS OF ST. CATHERINE MONASTERY

1.Their churches are to be respected. They are neither to be prevented from repairing them nor the sacredness of their covenants. No one of the nation (Muslims) is to disobey the covenant till the Last Day (end of the world).”

2.No compulsion is to be on them. Neither are their judges to be removed from their jobs nor their monks from their monasteries. No one is to destroy a house of their religion, to damage it, or to carry anything from it to the Muslims’ houses. Should anyone take any of these, he would spoil God’s covenant and disobey His Prophet.

3.Verily, they are my allies and have my secure charter against all that they hate. No one is to force them to travel or to oblige them to fight. The Muslims are to fight for them. If a female Christian is married to a Muslim, it is not to take place without her approval. She is not to be prevented from visiting her church to pray.

source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islam_and_other_religions

Mr Bologi is just a good man but a bad muslim because what he did is against the teaching of koran & his imam would banished him from war-shipping with them if not beheaded.

And what teaching are you talking about here?, you had better shut ur trap if you dont know what to say instead of displaying ur ignorance on a public forum.

why then are churches being targeted? big ups to the man for such an act but that does not negate the fact that islam is one hell of a backward religion, as evident in the actions of these northern savages. he's just a good man, not a good muslim. good muslims slaughter infidels

Why cant you get this into your thick dumb-skull that this is not about religion, it's simply a case of joblessness, mass-illiteracy and politics that make these violence-loving hausa-fulanis go a-wire on the slightest provocation.

Islam does not encourage taking innocent lives or looting in the name of anything.

Why contradicting yourself when you were a living witness to the role of the ACN? why calling another report a lie when the table turns to the PDP. I quess your paymasters are from the PDP.

That's a stupid lie, stop spreading useless rumors around

Do it and expect the wrath of God to descend on you, ur households, ur pastors, ur church of devil members and all ur entire generations yet unborn.

eff Aisha 2 or whatever her name is. . and all the bastrds that tried to foist buhari on us in this forum

I hope are happy now. . your king of Almajiri (Buhari). .has managed to incite riots and get our people killed all over Northern Nigeria

This site is owned by a yoruba man. . .Aisha  and Jarus. . or whatever Northerner on here,why not go out and be productive for once. . .be innovative, get your people to go to school. . dont come here using the platform of a hard working dude like seun to sell your CPC bad market

Now that the market has turned rotten u have gone into hiding. . .well the bloods of the youth corpers killed is on Buhari and his clueless supporters

I hope u sleep well at night. . rubbish. . CPC ko. . .APC ni. . yes APC thats what u need. . .Armored Personell Carrier to mow down your stup.id illiterate almajiris

When has it become a crime to exercise one's fundamental human right to freedom of speech and association?. I believe everybody has a right to associate, support and canvass support for any candidate of your choice in a civil manner the way Aisha2 and Jarus have been doing on this forum, even more civilized than most pro GEJ members.

So why are you calling for their heads and passing insults on them, you sounded so pathetic and uncultured.

There wont be so much difference between what PDP is now and what ACN would become if they gain more grounds in the nearest future.

^^^ You better get serious or better still go to bed if you have nothing reasonable to do with your time