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ReinaFarine:
Oga... Please, marry anybody you want to marry...
I don't think I'm better than anybody oh. I just know, a true woman will not collect money from the man she loves for mutual sexual gratification...

And I will feel disgusted and cheap if a man I love tries to exchange currency for me expressing my love and heart in a physical way... Pay me with good orgasms not dollars and pounds.

ReinaFarine:
Cultural difference ko financial difference ni!

She doesn't want to marry you and she only wants you for your money... Why don't you stay with her until she gets someone that she sees a future with?

They use your hand they buy market wey your money never rich. A lady that wants money for sex is not one I will want for anybody I care about... Even if you're both from mbaise... It is good sex... And great chemistry.... Nothing more... Don't be a baby

ReinaFarine:
It is not a naija situation with tbe adies to expect material presents in exchange for sexual favours... And i don't think you love her... It is the sex... And trust me, marriage needs more than sex to make it work. Continue whatever crazy arrangement you're having with her.. But please, little by little take your heart out of it... Think of her flaws so you can take of those rose coloured glasses. When that's done, you can knock her off that pedestal... Then you will see real women that are with you for what you make them feel and not cash...
Marriage is something you will stay with for at least 40-60 years...( God give us lengthy years) I don't think you should rush into it because of tight pussy and athletic body... Can you still stay with her and her demanding-cash attitude when she's fifty and two flabby and old for all the hot sex? Can you stay with her if she's at her worst and can't ride you because of a medical condition? Can you make this woman your half and trust her around richer men like your clients or boss? Can you make her the mother of your kids without the fear of her leaving you and the kids for greener pastures?
I think you should continue serial dating (with caution of course) until you find someone that loves you as much as you love them... Marriage will hurt if you're the one that loves more oh!
My mum used to say... Marital partner is like a pair of shoe if you buy the one too tight, it will pinch you and hurt you too much for you to run the marriage race... And the one that's too big, you'll have to drag along carefully for you not to lose it... But if you still want to marry her... Okay oh

Annie939:
u refuse to do your work as a man .she had no choice than to follow the main man who has been banging her all this years

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puregrace:
Please don't be too angry. That's how majority of women behave,when they are single,they pray to have someone to call their husband but once they get what they want,they feel empowered. What you should do is to bring up the issue while both of you are in a playful mood and calmly call her her favourite name, look straight to her face and tell her what she is doing wrong and that hurts you. I hope this helps.
She is obviously wants you in your best and her taste.

Aquariann:
Let her go and marry the spirit then.



Those LTR didn't work out for a reason. Probably she turned them down when they were ready but she wasn't. Or felt someone better would come along you know, based on the hypergamous nature of women.



This is crap. So many people out there regret the sham called marriage today. Besides, if she can't be happy and find fulfilment outside marriage, she'll never find it within marriage. And at her age, she'll only be filled with regret s of the many suitors she turned down in the past because she had to settle with someone 3 years younger than her. Remember hypergamy I mentioned earlier? NO woman desires to marry down.


He's only seeing what she wants him to see i.e a born again Christian. Secondary virgin. I wonder at which point she decided to find her morals again.



You're saying crap again. Yes age matters when it comes to marriage. Any woman who desires to marry should do so in her most fertile years. And yes, the Op would do well to marry a nubile who would not only be able to pair bond with him while also looking up to him for direction, but would appreciate the little romantic gestures he makes every now and then. A 39 years old woman carries a whole lot of baggage with her having seen it all.

If she wants a good man, let her go back to her 20s and find all the men she turned down.

Michealeni:
@ tomdon pls if am to start, what is the minimum amount i can start with?

charliboy654:
Am only surprise at that girl that asked davido how are you.

ufuosman:
keep fit, some people prefer dem big. lol

cchiagom:
To get married to your best friend is one of the best things that can happen to someone

KwoiZabo:
The last time I checked, Buhari won in Benue state. The suffering of a people is inversely proportional to their ability to think. I just feel for the small boy that is suffering from the zombiezm of his father.

keacy:
I'm getting frustrated with the condition my father is giving me before I finally settle down. I will be 34 years this 2018 and would have married (with 2 or 3 kids by now) since but my dad gave the excuse that he didn't like the girl.

I am the first son of 5 children, I am paying the school fees of the last child who is in med school. I have found me a wife whom I have planned getting married to by April.

Now my dad is insisting that since we don't have a home in the village that I should build one before getting married else he won't come for my wedding and will disown me.

I have already told him that I will build after my wedding but he refused.

What should I do? Going ahead with this building will make me call-off my wedding till December or Next year. What should I do My People I need Expert Advice on this.

donofdons:
Starting salary varies from 150k in some hospitals to 590k for house officers in national hospital abuja and 550k in State house clinic in Aso villa.
Consultants in these hospitals starts earning from 1.9 million a month. But only the best doctors can work there because even connections cannot get you a spot in national hospital

Tunderr:
Nothing rings bell sir, go back and read that your post. You're a learner sir.

Tunderr:
I'm not mad sir. I'm sorry you don't know what you are saying about forex.
Happy New Year.

wamiikechukwu:
I was expecting you to first, teach him or tell him how to be profitable before diving into the ocean.

Tunderr:
Please don't listen to him, I doubt he knows what he is talking about. Sorry to say but it's the fact. Listen to Go to Babypips.com and learn.

How can you even suggest live account for someone that doesn't know anything about forex? and talking about HotForex? broker that offer leverage of 1:1000 ? Is that not a joke of a broker.

So once again don't listen to tomdon. Solution , go to the website above, take your time , learn all you need to learn, and open a demo account and start trading the demo account, don't even think about live account at all for now.

Gloryr:
Oga get serious nah....this is the family section not romance...


@op....i can deal with any thing thrown at me by a woman...but cheating...nah

its a complete no no....the decision is entirely yours.

bchi:
Thanks all.
I love him so much, he do love me also
I have told him about his church severally, he said that I'm telling story until i comes in as his wife, he will decide if I will go to my church or not.
He is a serious catholic member, charismatic member.
I am So confused because my family and church members told me, he won't change because of him rather I will b the one. .
I don't want to leave him.
I don't just know what to do!

emprezdiva:
I want to know how forex trading goes

udemejack:
to all you up there saying trash...the following might be the reason behind his emotional breakdown;
1.maybe he feels lucky to have finally nab that his best best half.
2.maybe his parents are dead and he his wishing that they were around to have witnessed this great day.
3.He cant wait to step out of the cage of bachelorhood.
4.He feels lucky to have someone like her.