Family › Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by tomdon(m): 4:24am On Mar 25, 2017 |
skypeme: Dear reasonable people on Nairaland, please I need your advise
My wife whom I love so much and also loves me too is entitled to 17.2% of my monthly income, my salary is 175kpm and she take 17.2% of this amount, yet she feels very uncomfortable with it
I pay the bills, buy food stuff every month and take care of our little baby girl
My baby girl does not take any local food, she takes only fresogold, tea and pap, the cost of fresogold is very high and she can consume 4tins in a month
My wife isn't not working yet she is still schooling and I pay all her fees,
I've never complaint of my duty as the head of the family yet she still feels unsatisfied with the 17.2% I give to her
Her primary duty in the house is to take care of our baby and prepare my dinner every week days and both break fast and dinner during the weekend
Recently I told her to take our baby to the hospital for treatment, our total bill was 11,500 naira but my wife suprisinly told me that the hospital bill is 22,700 naira which I immediately wired to her account
So I called the hospital to make inquiries about the exorbitant bill then I got to know that my wife inflated the hospital bill to 22,700 naira
I confronted her and she spoke to me very rudly I was not happy about this, I kept quite and didn't say anything about it again
I am thinking I should penalize her for her rude behaviour and the dishonesty she has melted on me
Will it be advisable not to pay her her monthly salary for two months ?
Will this correct her brain to default and what would possibly be the implication of doing this ?
She has not apologised and she has not seen anything wrong so far in what she has done So 22k for your family is what is giving you so much emotions?? You're worse than your wife go and read your bible able man providing for family |
Family › Re: Can You Have A Joint Account With Your Spouse? Please Give Reasons! by tomdon(m): 11:49pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
miketayo: Sure y not.. What type of witches r nairaland men marrying, I m surprise everyone is saying no. If u cant open a joint account with ur future wife please don't marry her I tayad ooo |
Family › Re: Can You Have A Joint Account With Your Spouse? Please Give Reasons! by tomdon(m): 11:48pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Promxy94: Yes I can She is my wife So if I can't ve a joint account with her,then who will i ve it with... I wonder ooo |
Celebrities › Re: Soma Rests His Head On Uriel's Breast As Noble Igwe Stares by tomdon(m): 8:50pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
All these old mamas wey like better thing Uriel said her best position is doggy and she likes to ride Soma carry on |
Romance › Re: The Backside Of This Man's Wife Is Driving Him Crazy (photos) by tomdon(m): 8:48pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
LLSAINT: Hmm....Vanity. If tis because of this you marry her, you are on a long thing because after one year, you go look another and when she drop one, the thin go dey look down then you go know tis only meant for the toilet.  Bunkum!!! |
Politics › Re: Fayose Wears Shorts Again As He Inspects Lands In Ekiti State (Photos) by tomdon(m): 8:23pm On Mar 21, 2017*. Modified: 8:54pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
ESDKING: Buhari's nightmare. Ride on sir, we are all behind you. We??
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Celebrities › Re: See Fan's Epic Reply To Dr Sid After He Trolls BBN T-boss (pics) by tomdon(m): 5:13am On Mar 21, 2017*. Modified: 5:36am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Nonsense!!! Anyone that thinks there's anything epic about this is downright stupid, and to think nairaland moderators fall into this category is not comforting. This is a fallacious assertion that should be deleted rather than being promoted by a forum of the calibre of nairaland Dr sid has many hits, the likes of surulere, dancing over the moon and more. I'm not even support of Dr Sid's statement because it's not by force to act in some way that people deem socially right, that's how the society pressures youths to act how everyone does breaking down morality and ensuring heartbreaks everywhere. The person who supposedly trolled him is a persona non grata, yet has the audacity to poke such dry humor |
Celebrities › Re: Seyi Hunter: "I'm Still A Virgin, My Boobs Get Me The Most Attention" by tomdon(m): 9:33pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
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TV/Movies › Re: NYSC Photo Of Tboss Got Nigerians Saying She "Looked Older" by tomdon(m): 2:54am On Mar 19, 2017 |
dadavivo: meanwhile efe that did his youth service years back said he's 24years old, so he enter school when him dey 13years abi? yeye It's easy to serve at 20 years old But his physique betrays the acclaimed age He is at least 28 |
TV/Movies › Re: NYSC Photo Of Tboss Got Nigerians Saying She "Looked Older" by tomdon(m): 5:48am On Mar 18, 2017 |
It's logical she cut her age to the minimum allowable to enable her meet up the age requirements for nysc and she has to retain that false age who serves at 29 years?? Private jet toasters never start to toast by then |
TV/Movies › Re: Onyinye Deletes Instagram Account After Receiving Backlash For Attacking Tboss by tomdon(m): 7:24pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Nne5: Tbh she posted rubbish not like i support tboss anyway.Seems she beefing tboss.
I don't know why people don't conceal emotions. I may be angry with sm1 and the person will never know .I'm like that. we you keep kwayet!!! |
Crime › Re: Male Student Of UNIABUJA Paraded Unclad Publicly For Stealing (photos) by tomdon(m): 8:34pm On Mar 14, 2017 |
TINALETC3: Everybody na thief bt na person wey day break 4 hm head go suffer, am sure he is nt happy doing Wat he is doing, hope he learns his lessons, Dats if.............. so you're a thief ole barawo onyeoshi |
Phones › Re: Removable Vs Non-removable Battery Phones; Which One To Choose? by tomdon(m): 8:24am On Mar 14, 2017 |
Tenkobos: A faulty charging port on phones with no removable battery renders the entire phone useless that makes the idea of inbuilt batteries totally a bad concept |
Education › Re: Secondary School Closed Over Students Marriages Among Themselves In Bauchi State by tomdon(m): 8:17am On Mar 14, 2017 |
many of those condemning this act started forking since secondary school with reckless abandon. the difference with these northern folks is that they feel a sense of responsibility to legalize it somehow |
Literature › Re: WRONG NUMBER By Toyin Taiwo by tomdon(m): 5:35pm On Mar 12, 2017 |
sexymamatee: there is actually no point keeping your past away from Daniel. you have to be transparent. If truly indeed he loves you, he will forgive u( because is your past) and then the relationship will continue.
And If he doesn't wish to continue with you then it means you haven't gotten to your final bus stop, he might not be Gods plan for you.
The only thing that saddens my heart is that once you open up to a guy about your past he will continue to use your past to torment you whenever there is a disagreement, I think guys need to be mature and stop that act.
but all the same we really need to be transparent Is it Daniel that she offended? Or why the issue of him forgiving her. Abeg all these abortionists make una carry una load go front front |
Literature › Re: WRONG NUMBER By Toyin Taiwo by tomdon(m): 1:09pm On Mar 12, 2017 |
Qasaforlife: Tunde's attitude is so so annoying. I don't know why girls love with their heart only. If we can also love with our head first,alot of broken hearts would hv been averted. Had to deactivate ghost reader cos dis story kept me up till dis late unlike me. @ pemilerin u shall prevail. Good work dear. So interesting and educative as well. Why are you people blaming guys for love that was enjoyed by both parties? I feel it should even be the other way round, ladies should blame only themselves because nobody forced anybody. If a lady keeps her legs close till the man proves he really loves her by putting the ring on the finger, I guess there won't be baseless stories like this |
Romance › Re: Tag Your Errand Boy/girl!! by tomdon(m): 2:37am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: Uncle.. Iss like something is wrong with you upstairs ahbi  What an irony. You tagged another person errand and you insult another person who tags you errand You need help |
Romance › Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by tomdon(m): 2:28am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Many relationships are out there with faithful men that only see one woman Please ladies don't lower your bar if he cheats and you feel you can't live with one go . Never ever condone rubbish Your life deserves happiness and a good man ! Yes no one is perfect but let the imperfections not be unfaithfulness ..
If its guys and lady cheats in marriage hope they will keep her too  Will you keep kwayet!!! What exactly will you do if your husband sleeps with another woman?? Divorce or kill him?? Then move to a worse man, that's if you ever find another. |
Romance › Re: How To Know Your Man Loves You by tomdon(m): 2:18am On Mar 10, 2017 |
sweerychick: And after getting what he wants he turns into a total monster .. Men believe them at your own risk  What does he want? Sex? So you both enjoy sex and then demonize the guy while you are not to be blamed I hate females with such mentality. Were you raped?? |
Celebrities › Re: BBNaija: Trending Throwback Photo Of Kemen (Before The Muscles) by tomdon(m): 12:57pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
ifyalways: He looks quite young and cute here. Chaii |
TV/Movies › Re: Tboss' Family And Fans Celebrate Her Birthday With Very Cute Videos by tomdon(m): 9:35am On Mar 09, 2017 |
Snake |
TV/Movies › Re: #BBNaija: Kemen Apologizes To Tboss And All Women by tomdon(m): 2:48am On Mar 09, 2017 |
NwamaziNwaAro: Shut up,
Your name is not Ekemini Ekerette
But
KEMEN the sexual assaulter!!
I just read your gibberish and you obviously aren't remorseful. You don't believe there'a anything wrong in what you've done and it's all in our perception..
You were disqualified for over-playing your game abi Your game strategy was to take advantage of sleeping female housemates right??
I expected to hear/read something remorseful from a contrite heart, or you think we are the housemates you lied to that 'that is how you sleep'. We saw it all Ete.
You are a shame to manhood and your manhood
Born liar, not only did you lie about your age but you're now lying about what was watched by all.
Now I'm so sad that the rumour of your suicide isn't true. Snakes like you and Tboss will perish in hell. So you can be fingered and not have a hint of it till you watch the video?? |
Romance › Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by tomdon(m): 2:34am On Mar 09, 2017 |
Jodha: Wow that was kinda harsh, but do well to read what I posted again, maybe you don't understand.
I totally typed the truth, he insisted on everything And you totally lack the capacity to say NO?? |
Business › Re: Three Banks To Take Over Etisalat Nigeria Over N541.8 Billion Debt by tomdon(m): 12:08pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Jadonjack: I always knew dere is a reason i don't use Etisalat Lmao. Funny guy. |
Politics › Re: Bbnaija : Akwa Ibom Assembly Speaker 'onofiok' Supports Kemen by tomdon(m): 12:07pm On Mar 06, 2017 |
Reframe the topic!!! |
Romance › Re: He Switched Off His Phone Cos Of Christmas Gift... by tomdon(m): 3:58pm On Mar 05, 2017 |
When ladies throw themselves at guys, they get treated like thrash, but at the end of the day, they blame the guys Stupidity!!! |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by tomdon(m): 11:19am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Ayokunleayoolashakirudeen: bros, me i send am o.
I'm giving Debbie my 600 wechat votes,because I can't get enough of her arrse twerk. That's iz ehnnnn |
Celebrities › Re: Look What Peter Of Psquare Posted Of Instagram. by tomdon(m): 11:04am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Amusaopeyemi: Peter Okoye of Psquare just posted this on instagram now. As a married man isn't this supposed to be an insult on his wife? Insult how?? |
Celebrities › Re: 4 Key Factors To Making It In The Music Industry by tomdon(m): 4:27am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Collaborations help sometimes too |
Romance › Re: Simi's New Song: Guys, Is SIMI Asking For Too Much? by tomdon(m): 4:02am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Sorry is the case of this generation girls and ladies. Nothing special about them. Yet they wanna be treated special. How can that happen?? |
Car Talk › Re: 7 Ways To Make Money With Your Car by tomdon(m): 3:54am On Mar 03, 2017 |
beetown: really educating post.... Are you serious??!! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: CNN, Others, Barred From White House Press Briefings by tomdon(m): 11:29pm On Feb 26, 2017 |
tsephanyah: Trump doesn't Understand anything besides twitter and his Hollywood mindsets,.. This mainstream media are part of most powerful elites in the world,.. They control everything and there goal is one world government where they can decide who lives and who dies,.. They will just use him as pawn,.. Set example to all those right wing, probably impeach him or limit his power,... And take over the most powerful country once and forol, meanwhile let's him enjoy the White House, free airtime of the media,.. people I pity is the Christians and some conservative thinking trump share their values,.. Not knowing he is an atheist, low ranking Illuminati, a pedophile, con man,. And mentally unstable lunatic,. With unhealthy narcissistic personality What is this one saying? |