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VALENTINE'S DAY REPORT (1) Engagements .........12%. (2) Heart breaks ........95%. (3) Wife caught cheating ........69%. (4) Husband caught cheating ......79%. (5) Condom sales .........99% (6) Fast food sales ........89% (7) Visit to Motherless Babys' Homes, prisoners/ cells, beggars/destitutes .........2%. ( Girls in hospital over Love........50% (9) Boys in hospital over Love.......5% (10) Girls arrested for fighting over Boys.......59%. (11) Boys arrested for fighting over Girls.......10% (12) Husbands beating wives in public....... 804 counted. (13) Pregnancy ......... 39,572. (14) Number of switched off phones on Feb 14 2016..... 9 million . We are still taking statistics.... I will keep you all Updated Val is still on... I wish you all the best

thorpido:
I never said you were one,I asked if you were one.
Well the simplest advise to give is to look before you leap.Unfortunately,many look..........but at the wrong things!

so sorry for mis-understanding you

Chidoks:
The question that easily crops up each time I hear of divorce especially those ones that are precipitated by domestic violence is: what really changed in comparison to now and then. Then divorce cases were rare. Divorces didn't broadcast it. Most of them ended up getting married with time but now, divorce rates are so high that I wonder why they even contracted the marriage in the first place...

the i will change him/her syndrome is the cause of divorces.we can never Change a person's habit

sleekdot:
Another woman just killed her husband today

She stabbed him first he went to hospital and treated it, came back and she killed him finally

too bad but was she aressted and tried to court?

thorpido:
U na single mother?Your man dey beat you?

must i be one?anyway my mother in law raised four kids by herself and many others i know

The rate at which we have single mothers raising children all by themselves is alarming and most of this women complained that thier husbands turned them to punching bags and that led to them seperating and sometimes the men complains of the wives irresponsible behaviour and disrespect towards them.in other words both are at fault. If you have any advice to solve some problems in marriages kindly post it here...

For your snacks,cakes and catering Services PM me A trial will convince you.

guess we ladies are just heartless haba!!!! for that long?? ok check it out the other way round... won't you say he was just using you to dump you.pls stop decieving him and open up to him

So you can't talk it out with him and u posted it online...come sef u dey stay with ur boyfriend and sister ni? SMH

dj exclusive

anthoniaz:
I hate gatherings. I keep to myself because I only feel comfortable around people I'm used to.I can flow very well on a phone conversation but once I am with the person face to face, I'm careful as per what to say or not.Some people say I'm a proud person, some say I am unfriendly. I love being on my own, though some times I get lonely.

same thing with me namesake,they think we are proud

i don't think its a bad thing naw.............the funny part of me is that i don't talk to my boyfriend when am with him but through chatting

I fear when I see shared na see as I throw M̶̲̥̅γ phone thinking ebola don infect M̶̲̥̅γ phone

Sallychizzl3: that's cool. And how is the young man doing?

he is fine

Sallychizzl3: nice one mrs. How u doing?

am gallant

The Alphabet:
A – ACCEPT Accept others for who they are and for the choices they’ve made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.
B – BREAK AWAY Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.
C – CREATE Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.
D – DECIDE Decide that you’ll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.
E – EXPLORE Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you’ll learn more about yourself.
F – FORGIVE Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.
G – GROW Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.
H – HOPE Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.
I – IGNORE Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.
J – JOURNEY Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, an you’ll grow.
K – KNOW Know that no matter how bad things seem, they’ll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.
L – LOVE Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there’s room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there’s room for endless happiness.
M – MANAGE Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you’ll suffer less stress and worry. Then you’ll be able to focus on the important things in life.
N – NOTICE Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.
O – OPEN Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there’s still much to be thankful for.
P – PLAY Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.
Q – QUESTION Ask many questions, because you’re here to learn.
R – RELAX Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.
S – SHARE Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.
T – TRY Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You’ll be amazed by what you can accomplish.
U – USE Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that’s wasted has no value. Talent that’s used bill bring unexpected rewards.
V – VALUE Value the friends and family members who’ve supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.
W – WORK Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.
X – X-RAY Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you’ll see the goodness and beauty within.
Y – YIELD Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you’ll find success at the end of the road.
Z – ZOOM Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

Please add yours KINDLY SPARE SOME TIME AND READ THIS!!!!

*I Miss
those days when we went to school, lined up &
the headmistress & teachers inspect our nails &
uniform & then we match to our classrooms...You
Remember na??

*Those days of Nasco Biscuit, Okin Biscuit, Trebor,
Iced Colored water tied in nylon which we called
"lolly"

*The days of Goody- Goody & Pako Biscuit.

*The
days of Ali & Simbi, Mr Salami & Mrs Salami, Agbo
lives in Calabar....Edet is a boy *

Those days when we wear 5shirts and put
carton in our nicker to avoid much pain when we
are flogged

*Those days when we sneak out of school to
pluck Mangoes

*Those days when we feign
illness just to dodge farm work(lol)

*Chei, I also remember those days when one
naira na CORRECT money, when groundnut was
5kobo & Choco Milo Sweet was 5 kobo

*Those days of messing game,who is in the
garden, police and thief, fire the mountain, etc..

*Those days when we use to build houses with
sand, play suwe game, tinco tinco,change ur style,
ten ten, skipping, stop!.... U remember nah!!!

*Those days when we used to fly kite on streets,
when boys used to use the paint bucket cover as
tire & their daddy's hanger as the steering

*Those
days when rubber band was stock exchange!!

*Those days when Votron, Jimbo, Power Rangers
and Spider Man were our favourite cartoons

*Those days of Limca soft drinks & Choco Milo
advert on black & white TV + sunday rendevous
by 1:30pm

*Those days when we used say 'leke leke give
me white finger'

*Those days when Eleganza Pen was the best

*Those days when we used to drink water from
the tap and even suck out the water if it's not
coming out

*Those days when NTA will show rainbow color
for 30 minutes, then national anthem before they
resume program @ 4pm

*Those days when Basket sandals, Simbi & Bata
sandals were the best *Those days we used to shout "airplane throw
bag of money for me"

*Those days when we all sing sandalili sandalili...
DSTV has come. No more old fun.I'm really proud
to have experienced all this. If you are not
smiling, it means you belong to the Indomie
generation..

Ayaf old ooo but I enjoy our old text books to this days own

ammyluv2002: Wow! What a world? U mean, at her age she has the mind to sleep with someone who isn't her boyfriend ?cause from your post I can sense you guys are teenagers. Seriously, what is happening to everyone in the world? I just don't understand.

My advice. .....pls, the both of you should just face your studies ok

please am not a teenager,am a mother

Seriously Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ should learn to give advice not insults

A. Friend of mine just shared her problem with ♍ę and nEeds advice,she met a guy and. They started having sex and she had a boyfrieNd now the problem is that that same guy told her that. He wants to date her. Sister now she is confused.....advice please

Philip Katongu (pictured below) from Wamba, Nasarawa State has been arrested for allegedly stabbing his wife to death, Punch reports.

According to reports, Katongu stabbed his wife to death in a street at Oniru Estate, Maroko, Lagos, where they lived. Police say she was stabbed at least three times. After he was arrested by operatives of the Department of Criminal Investigations, Yaba, Lagos, Katongu, 45, claimed he killed her because she infected him with HIV and then wanted to leave him for another man. He explained:
"I married Justina, my second wife in December 2010. I later learnt that she had given birth to two girls for a man. The girls died of AIDS. However, when we first met, she did not tell me all these. I explained to her that I have a wife with children and I wanted to marry her too. Before marriage, I told her we should go to hospital to conduct HIV test, but she refused and said that she was HIV negative. So we started sleeping together.”
Katongu claimed that without his knowledge, his wife had been going to Abuja for medical treatment every three months for HIV, until March 2013 when she took him along.
He said it was at the hospital that she disclosed her HIV status to him.
“I was angry and told the doctor who equally blamed her for not disclosing it to me. The doctor then tested me, and I was positive. We came back to Lagos and continued with the relationship because I loved her. But suddenly, she told me she wanted to pack out from my house that she was no longer interested in marrying me having had another person in Abuja. In fact, the man usually called her on phone while we were together.
“I told her that with her status, she should not go and be infecting people with the virus. And that I will kill her and kill myself. We started fighting and I stabbed her. It was in the early hours. I stabbed her three times with a knife. She shouted and people were knocking at our door.
After she died, I stabbed myself, and the people broke the door open. I woke up to find myself in a hospital. I feel very bad that I killed my wife. I loved her very much.”