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why, do you have insecurities issue yourself??

@ poster i think you are talking about PDA (PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION) not open relationship. Open relationship is when you are in a relationship but you are both still allow to date other people.

Busta:
next time . . .don't open your mouth without reading the posts and just conclude that this is about male bashing only.
being judgemental and riding to conclusion will lead u no where. pele . . .I too know!

Its a general topic,
- African mentality
- Men in general
- Women
- relationships and marriages.

lmao

debosky:
Men Bashing has resumed in earnest.

This is directed at the women - care to know why men do these things and get away with it? Because A LARGE PROPORTION OF WOMEN OUT THERE MAKE THEM BELIEVE THEY CAN!!
In the 'good ol days' a man would not get sex unless he married a woman, so by the time his hormones were acting up too much, he'd have to get the rest of his life in shape to get any of that action - in the process, he cleans up his act, gets matured and actually looks deeply at what he wants and goes for it.

These days, men can get sex on a dime, so why bother to go through all the nonsense called 'romance' to get it? Especially when all you hear from women is 'the man who will love ME, and cherish ME and be with ME and take care of ME' In their next breath they will be declaring independence.

The bottom line is, women are confused as to what they really want.

Men are not mature? Well maybe not, but if circumstances around them demanded maturity, then it would come - as long as they can continue to get by doing nonsense all over the place, you'll only find the few determined and self driven men who have decided to do the right thing by themselves.

Amen
at last

marry her if u love her

Show me ur friend and i'll tell you who u are but not in all cases tho.
wudnt date a guy with bad reputations anyhoo

Busta:
LMAO . . . I think she was talking about her experiences . . .don't have to apply to everyone . . .never the same cases.

OH OK

no no no

He has finished wit her since she has already given him the best years of her life. There is nothing left anymore.
Typical men

buy ear plugs
simple!!

[quote author=Brash! link=topic=158417.msg2628367#msg2628367 date=1218210155]u know what we do!

_{omo daaada ni e jare i loff u}[/quote]

sistawoman:
I am sure the presentage is higher than that but not by much. If you really want a good guy you have to look to older more mature men.

Boys between the ages of 19-35 are still boys and not men yet (most not all). This is only based on my personal experience.

That being said it presents a real problem for young sistas now coming up. I am not sure if it goes back to how the moms and dads are raising the young boys and not showing them how to respect women or if this is just some innate, in bread thing that is in them.

I don't wish to be young again and trying to find love.

So what u are trying to sy is that i have be with sum1 that is old enuff to be my uncle b4 i find romance
Now that i dont believe.

[quote author=Brash! link=topic=158417.msg2628329#msg2628329 date=1218209805]SHUT UP THERE _{your mouth like 50cent!}

Brash alone is 20% so definitely that is more than 2%! [/quote]Lmao
babe i already said u know a woman's worth

If i cant marry based on true and sincere love, then i'll marry sum1 that i know truly and sincerely loves me rather than sum1 i just truly love

Gamine:
Missus, where do you see these guys?

i[b] am too sure that there are nice guys out there[/b]

because i even met one on Nairaland, he lives in the USA

and is completely appalled at what some brothers do.

i am sure the percentage of that is 2%

eldee:
The way you say it, one will think men turned from Romeos to Bin Ladens in one day
All we want is sex?? Blame us for knowing what we want?
Why buy a CD-ROM when you can download on I-tunes?
Besides, it's not like guys became rapists or sumn, it's always mutual
I don't see why guys get to take the blame

Im not saying blame it on the guys, i know it takes two to tango but what is the point in tryin to be romantic with a guy that just want SEX SEX AND SEX ONLY. like you said Why buy a CD-ROM when you can download on I-tunes.

Busta:
You guys don't seem to get the issue or the case.
Don't we all want to get married and have kids before the age of 30?
having kids before the age of 30 is not the big deal . . .u can go on the street and get a man to knock u up or get married to any guy for the case of having before the age of 30.

This is the issue of settling down with the right man . . .where are they? they are all dead and have disappeared.
it is about finding the right man that will stick by you till the end . . love and cherish you to the end.

Guys this these will only shag the living daylight out of you . . .and once u tell them u are preggers, they will scram or tell u to take it out.

i know what you mean my dear, i am still waiting for a guy to give me reasonable answer here

nalijah07:
My girlfriend (American) told me that she was on the phone with her boyfriend (Nigerian). His phone beeped on the other end that he had a phone call, so he asked her to hold on.

When he came back on the line he was speaking to her in his native language, but the only word she could make out was baby and this he said really sexy like. She said that she said "excuse me?", the next thing you know the line went dead.

When she called him back and asked him what the hell was going on he said that he kept saying "hello" "hello", but that he didn't hear a response from her. She told him to cut the BS, and that she wanted to know who he was talking to in his language. He said - are you ready for this? He said "that was my sister!, what are you talking about?, that was my sister!"

She just hung the phone up on him. Now she is calling me like - "Do you think it really could have been his sister?"

maybe, maybe not
i guess she will never know

by the age 30, i want 2 have finished my 2 kids 2

[quote author=Brash! link=topic=156974.msg2628172#msg2628172 date=1218208428]shez still remembering the sessions with Brash-baba so she fantasizing _{okunrin meta}

she can't help but lick her lips _{mo gbona felli felli bi amala iya kafaya!} [/quote]okunrin meta fun re

eldee:
'Xcuse me!!!
How was it before??

Hope that 'as it used to be' is not referring to what you saw in those Nora Roberts' novels??
Or maybe the bedtime stories??

nowadays all u guys want is sex
romance is like looooooooong tin to u guys now

orisi risi
na wa o

nana:
Chei! Aunty Tope,i will stop afetr this:
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

U go give urself hypertension with this hmmmmmmmm
say wetin dey ya mind

brash u dey crase

shakira

my best is Pierce Brosnan n daniel craig
worst is Timothy Dalton

i know him wella 2

wall street guy

Gamine:
Ok good for you.

i also want to date only Nigerian men.

Anyways, Romance is alive and its right there in you.

You yearn for it, don't lie to yaself.

It takes the Right guy to do the Right things

i don't deny it and i agree

Busta:
and where can one find the right guy?

how many guys do we have to go through before u find that perfect someone, how many guys does one have to date and think he's the one and he is here to stay?

Good question

Gud luck

[quote author=Brash! link=topic=156974.msg2627934#msg2627934 date=1218206480]Nah but on a real though, i treat the ladies right, i give them what they want (Ask Tope, Rampant and Nana! )

I know when they need me, i know what they like and i know how to do it_{!NorthLondon's finest!}[/quote]cheater

@nana
if you don't stop that hmmmm
i would strangle you