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Chris Rock once said: "Men only want 3 things in a relationship: Feed me, fvck me, and shut the fvck up!"

The first two are straightforward; what he means by the third is that guys don't want to hear about who the girl down the street (that he's never met) is dating, who is cheating on who at the gym, or the woman at the doctor's office who was wearing clothes that were no longer in style, or what happened on the Bachelorette. And we *definitely* don't want to hear about any of those things within 5 minutes of coming home from work. To a guy, that stuff is just "noise."

Guys are simple. We want to eat, and if you cook for us, that makes us happy. We want sex, and if you sleep with us, that makes us happy. And we want to relax a bit when we come home from work. If we can do all of those things, we will happily work hard to make the money for you to decorate the house or buy those new shoes you love, and we'll fix the house, keep the cars running, take you places, and defend you in dangerous situations. We don't need much, but what we need, we REALLY need, and when we get it, we are happy.

What to Do When Your Girlfriend is Mad at You

Sometimes it can be tough to please women. And when it's the matter of placating an upset girlfriend, then ideas generally don't come flooding in. If you are someone who requires help in such a situation, we've got a few suggestions...

Maintaining relationships is tough work. Then again, people who are in one, never did refute it. There will be good times and bad, and our levels of patience and tolerance will be checked. In good times, life seems happier and it makes more sense. But when bad times roll in, it can really be challenging. Men and women have different takes on how they handle particular situations. And even here, every individual will interpret and tackle situations to the best of their abilities. So when we are discussing tactics on 'handling' issues in a relationship, there comes a time in every man's life where he will literally not know how to deal with them.

Even though I have said that every guy will face issues in his romantic life, that doesn't mean he will never know how to get out of it. Many men are good at seizing emotional fires and moving forward. However, there are some who lack these qualities. And here, we would like to extend a friendly hand for help. So if you feel that you desperately require some assistance in winning your girlfriend's heart back, you should be reading this article thoroughly.

What Guys Generally Do

Many guys cannot express themselves and are afraid to let their girlfriends know what they want. Sometimes, even they are confused as to what they want in life or from the person they are romantically involved with. Hence, at the time of a fight, they are completely taken by surprise and can't figure out what their next step should be. Often times they have this inclination of leaving their girlfriends alone and letting them come out of it whenever they can. But the truth is, if there is a fight or an issue that needs to be resolved, running away or not communicating is not the right way to go. So what do you do? If your girlfriend is mad at you, for whatever reason or whoever is at fault, keep these tips in mind.



Don't...

...ignore her when she wishes to speak to you.

...try to take her anger or quietness lightly.

...accuse her of starting the fight or being the main reason behind it.

...behave that the fight, argument, or the fact that she's upset doesn't affect you.

...shut down because you don't want to discuss or talk about the fight.

...keep asking her if she's still mad at you.

...watch television, play video games, or work on a project.

...bring old arguments and fights in the present.

...laugh or smile at her when she's trying to explain herself to you.

...trigger her pet peeves (point a finger at her, not make eye contact, etc.).

...compare her with your ex, female friends, colleagues, and especially your mom.

...be condescending or patronize her.

...shower her with gifts.

...try to distract her with physical advances.

...deny that there is something to be worked on.

There may be times when you won't even realize that you're doing all these things. Involuntary actions or behavior is natural because it is something we are accustomed to. Same goes for men who like to avoid confrontational instances. In your case, you may or may not be doing these things (or have a whole box of 'don'ts' of your own), but it is possible that certain behavioral choices irk her. And that, my friend, is what you have to avoid.

What Women Actually Want

Men with girlfriends know what women are and can be like. The fairer sex has the tendency to mask what she wants, whom she wishes to speak to, and what actually makes her angry/sad/upset. This art of 'not showing her true self' is common among many women and it can leave men baffled. Not knowing what to do in certain situations is one of the worst things a man can go through. Women are not open books and men definitely cannot read them accurately. So how should you proceed from here? What is it that women want you to do, or wish for you to act, while tackling unfriendly atmosphere? Here are our suggestions.



Do...

...the opposite of everything we mentioned in the "Don'ts" section.

...stay close to her, but not so much that you're crowding her.

...take the time to listen to whatever that is bothering her.

...try to make her laugh/smile.

...take her seriously and make her believe that you're there for her.

...offer to help around the house.

...speak to her even if she's not replying.

I know that it's difficult or perhaps too much to ask from someone who's going through a fight. However, I'd suggest you look at this situation/fight/argument/misunderstanding from her point of view. If she has a rational point, then chances are you're doing or saying something that has offended her and hurts her. On the other hand, there is a possibility that she's being unreasonable in her demands (emotional or otherwise), you can try to explain your side of the story.

Avoiding the Cliché

If the two of you have had a fight or aren't on the same page, there is one thing and one thing only left for you to do - damage control. You don't wish to fight any longer and I guess seeing her sad and moping around the house isn't fun as well. However, in your efforts, what you cannot forget is you need to stay as far away as possible from cliché. Repeated, tried and tested ideas may not work here (she knows it and so do you). Being creative is the key. Keep flowers, box of chocolates, and unceremonious gifts out of the picture if they've failed in the past. You want to woo her, not make her think you can't come up with something new on your own.

If She's Talking to You

There are different levels of anger a woman will go through; and these levels can only be deciphered by men who have experience in dealing with such situations and have lived to tell the tale. Women are complex (there's no denying this) and each require original, well-thought-of methods for approach. You wouldn't have to work too hard since I'm assuming she's your girlfriend and that you've spent a relative amount of time with her. You are aware of her ups and downs, likes and dislikes; but the fact of the matter is, you still have a long way to go in placating her.

Having said that, let's just assume she has not completely stopped talking to you. Then what should be your next step? Obviously, there are certain tricks that can be applied here and you can easily bring back to her chirpy self and move ahead. This is what we suggest you can try if your girlfriend is mad at you, but is still talking a bit.

Remind her of any previous fight you two may have had and how both of you worked together into resolving it.

Tell her how much you love her/want her in your life and be sincere while you do so.

Become extra sweet. Cook her a special meal, watch her favorite movie with her, take her for a romantic dinner date, call her friends over and let them hangout, offer to do something, anything for her.

At this point, assuming that she's at least on talking terms and hasn't completely shunned you out, all your energy should be utilized into making her forget about the fight. I'm not advising you make false promises or do things that you wouldn't rather do. What we are aiming at is making her feel special, and that can only be possible when you are genuine in your attempts.

If She Hasn't Said a Word

Now comes the darker side of a fight; she's giving you the silent treatment. It's very common in her world and she will use this piece of weapon whenever she deems necessary. In order to avoid this and make sure you're safe and secure on the other side, there is a two-fold method - reduce the level of her anger and getting her to talk. As everyone knows, women love to talk; there is nothing else more fun, interesting, and exciting. If you succeed into doing this, you have become the master at maintaining the relationship with your girlfriend. Here, I won't be able to tell you exactly what and how you can go about it because not every individual is the same. This applies to your girlfriend as well. She will have her own ideas, beliefs, opinions, quirks, etc. for being who she is. The advice that I can give you, at this stage, is know her. It is important for you to understand who she is as a person and then proceed.

Relationships, yes they are never easy to deal with. And when you are at crossroads, not knowing how to go about making your upset girlfriend come back to you happy and satisfied, there are certain ways to adopt. We have provided the resources for the small hiccup in your relationship. Now it all depends on you and your mad skills.

4 Quick & Easy Gift Ideas – She Will Love!



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does it really matter to you? why or why not

The beauty of a woman is not shown by wearing revealing clothes that exposes her body. Make up and heals may add up to a woman's beauty but the true beauty of a woman is in her inner being, which is character, personality and a smile is a must at all times to make her more lovely..

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SIGNS TO KNOW IF UR GIRLFRIEND IS CHEATING....
1)Wen she stp confiding in u n stp seeking advice frm u.
2) wen she try to improve her appearance or always dress sexy.
3) Wen she start deleting all her incoming emails or msgs
4) wen she suddenly want more sex,more often.she is using dat sex as bribe,but most guys dn't realize it
5) Wen seem less comfortable around u.
6) she will emotionally be disconnected frm u
7) Wen she appear to be confused n worried most of the time.
8.) Wen she compensate u saying I love u more often.
9) Wen she no longer need ur attention.....

Guys take note: 85% of women are cheaters,flirting is their number 1 job.woman cheat just as men do, but woman are the worst cuz dey will always pretend n d same time preach as saints.....
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3 Ways to Sweep Your Guy Off His Feet

Guys are supposed to sweep women off their feet, right? Well, what would happen if you swept him off his feet? We tell you how!
Hey ladies! We all know exactly how we want our guys to sweep us off our feet. But what would happen if we took the time to sweep them off their feet? Here's how!

1. Make it hard for him. Guys love a challenge and doing something that gets him hot and sweaty will blow his mind. "My girlfriend challenged me to a game of flag football," said Marcus, 25. "I was floored when she came out in her football gear. We had the best time tackling each other! It just showed me how really awesome my girlfriend is."

2. Meet him on his turf. Sure, women love fancy restaurants, but most guys would rather grab a greasy burger at a sports bar. So if you know your man would rather down a burger and a beer instead of trying to translate a menu filled with things he can't pronounce at at a fancy restaurant, suggest that you both head to his favorite place. While you're there, don't order the Caesar salad, get down and dirty with him and order a burger, too. He'll love it!

3. Help him out. If your guy is juggling a lot of projects at once, help him out. Ask him what you can do to lighten his load a bit. Then, get in there and help him. He'll be touched by your gesture

Should You Break Up With Your Girlfriend?

If you are confused about your relationship and dont know whether the relationship is worth the pain you are experiencing, here are signs that you are with the wrong person. Below are some reasons to break up with your girlfriend.

1. She is trying to change you:

This is certainly not acceptable. When you get into a new relationship, some amount of changes do occur. These changes can be in terms of lifestyle, ambition, maturity, etc. However if she is constantly trying to put you down by changing the person in you, it shows that she doesnt love you enough.

2. She has been lying to you:

Small white lies here and there can be forgiven sometimes. However, it should not become a practice. Trust is most important in a relationship. If she keeps lying to you all the time, she certainly does not deserve to be with you.

3. Love is absent:

If you feel that you are with her only because of the society, parents or because you dont want to hurt her, save yourself the trouble. You cannot keep her happy if you dont love her enough. All relationships may lose some spark at some point in time. However if you feel that no matter how much you try, you cant feel love for her, it is better to end things.

4. Its one sided:

Love should be balanced. If you are the only one who is making efforts to make the relationship work while your girlfriend is just sitting with folded hands, your relationship cannot work. There is also the chance that she doesnt love you enough or she is planning to break up with you. Its time you talk to her. If it still doesnt help, it is better to part ways.

5. She keeps humiliating you:

If she loves you, she will respect you. However if she bad mouths about you to others or keeps insulting you all the time, it is time to put your foot down. Nobody has a right to make you feel bad about yourself without your consent. So if she constantly treats you like a fool, its time to show her that youre wise enough by taking the wisest decision ever. Dump her!

6. Over-possessive:

If she tries to keep you away from your friends, doesnt give you enough space, doesnt let you talk to your female friends or constantly keeps getting jealous of the people you deal with, there are chances that you are with an insecure looser. It is time to end this nightmarish relationship before it puts an end to your independent happy life.

7. She constantly keeps comparing you with others:

This kind of behavior should not be accepted . As your partner, it is her duty to treat you with love and respect. She should not keep comparing you with others and make you feel bad. The relationship demands that both of you accept each other as you are. Get out of the relationship if that is not happening.

8. She bosses over you:

Does your girlfriend often dictates terms to you? Does she ask you to do things her way all the time? It is your right to put a stop to it. She may be the love of your life, but that indubitably does not give her the power to rule your life.

9. She is a gold-digger:

Does she very often make you spend for her? Is she very demanding and expects you to fulfill all her wants? Does she keep asking you questions about your financial status? If you answered yes to any of the questions, then there is a possibility that you are dating a gold-digger.

10. She has some dangerous addiction:

It can be alcohol or drugs. It can wreck even the strongest relationship. If your girlfriend has a dangerous addiction it is your duty to get her help. Speak to her parents or a counselor. If you feel that she will not leave the addiction,please break up as being into relationship with her may ruin your life as well.

Whoever said break ups were easy? However, sometimes they have to be done for the best. It may hurt but it is for the best of the two of you. It is a price to pay for a better future

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Do you give a woman a lift with the hope of starting a relationship?

Its quite common in some parts of Nigeria for men to offer women a lift or a ride in their car to where the woman is going. Between the pick up point and the destination, naturally conversations ensues where the man 'toast' the woman, sometime a relationship can begin this way. Have you ever dated a man or a woman from this kind of encounter?

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You know, I've been called a lot of things. I've been called an extremely warm person; I've been called a cold man. And at times, I've been called a romantic.

To me, romanticism is an ideal, of sorts. It's a refusal to accept the baseness and ugliness of the "real" world, as most consider it. And, it's the creation, in your own self and in the life you lead, as well as in the life you help those around you to lead, of another world -- a world where things are filled with meaning, where people truly matter, and where we all are the authors of our own spectacular, riveting stories.

As a romantic man, you become able to touch others' lives and bring hope to those who lack it. You inspire; you motivate; and you energize. You take those for whom the world had been empty and cold, and make it feel as though it's buzzing with electricity and potential. And best of all, you take the fantasies that women read about so avidly in their romance novels, and you can bring them to life.

Striving to become romantic is, to me, something very much worth striving for -- romanticism gives you an ability to affect others' lives that is in some ways without equal.

Girls, what is THE most romantic thing a guy has ever done for you?

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7 Types Of Men A Nigerian Woman Will NOT DATE

1. Broke/unemployed men. Nigerian women do not like broke men. They see their man as a relfection of their status. A reflection of what their beauty was able to purchase. The more beautiful they feel they are, the wealthier their husband should be. Often times, personality, looks, and character are ignored all in the name of wealth.

2. Handsome men. In most case the richest men are not the most attractive looking men, but ironically enough, that works in the favor of many. Although a Nigerian woman may find you attractive, that does not mean that she wants to settle down with you. She will be thinking of her life with you in the long run. She does not want to spend the rest of her life beating other women away from you.

3. A man with a controlling mother. Nigerian women like to feel as though they are the ultimate queens of their households. It is impossible for one to feel like such when there is an overbearing mother in law constantly barking orders over their shoulders all day long.


4. A man who shows his sensitivity in PUBLIC. Nigerian women do not mind it if you cry. They do not expect you to be strong every day of the year, but what they do expect you to do is to always put on a show for the outsiders. Because once again, you serve as a direct representation of her. Of what she is worth, what she can capture with what she is offering. So save your tears for at night during bed time, when she can hold you in her arms. Never in front of others.


5. Nigerian women don't like predictable men because they know exactly how he'll react to everything. He follows formulas and never wants to do anything differently. For example, he'd never surprise a woman by spontaneously taking her out for the night.

6. If you are a cheap man and you are not ready to spend money on a woman, please, pack your bags and move to another country, because if you are going to be with a Nigerian woman, you better be prepared to let go of your wallet. Nigerian women don't necesscarily want your MONEY. But they do want to see how far you will go for them. How much you are willing to spend on THEM and not anybody else.


7. Nigerian women do not want to date the village clown. You get so nervous around women that you can't resist the impulse to resort to clownish behaviour. Some women might find you hilariously entertaining but in general your joker image and penchant for uncontained "humour" does not endear you to the women you want to be in a relationship with. Most women do not take you seriously - and a majority worry about how they are going to introduce you to their friends and family. Women want a man who can be respected by their friends and family.

How to Cook For Your Girlfriend

Cooking for your girlfriend is a great way to show your appreciation for her. With a little planning and work, anybody can pull off a thoughtful, home-cooked dinner. Follow these tips and you'll be cooking up romance in no time.

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Assess your relationship. Before you plan that exquisite gourmet meal, it's a good idea to think about where you are in your relationship. If you've been with a girl for a while, cooking a fancy meal that takes a lot of time to prepare can seem really romantic. If you just met the girl last week, however, that same meal can seem kind of creepy. Early in a relationship, it may be best to stick with simple dishes--still mindful, of course, of what your girlfriend likes to eat — or you might give the impression that you're too eager to please her. Besides, if you cook a six-course dinner on the second date, imagine how many courses you're going to have to make if you're still together in a year or two.


Discover what your girlfriend likes to eat. You can cook just about anything you want, really — it's the thought that counts. Put a little more thought into the meal, however, and it counts a little more. It doesn't take a genius to figure out that if your girlfriend is a vegetarian you should skip the meatloaf, but if you really want to make the meal special, you'll need to look beyond the obvious. This can require some advance preparation — you need to listen to her and make mental notes to yourself. For example, maybe a couple months ago she mentioned how she used to love Brunswick stew but she never learned to make it. Surprise her with some for dinner, and she'll be amazed you remembered. In other words, you're not just cooking, you're being an attentive boyfriend or girlfriend.



Search for a recipe. By now you should know what you want to make. Get out the cookbook (there's probably one lying around somewhere) or get on the web. Want to make chicken enchiladas? Just enter "chicken enchiladas recipe" in your search engine, and you'll have probably hundreds of variations to choose from. Read the instructions and ingredients and choose a recipe that you feel comfortable making — if the first one you find looks too difficult, keep looking.



in dish is and how big a production you've decided to make your meal, you may want to add side dishes, a salad or a dessert. Often, entree recipes will have suggestions for side dishes and wines, or you can find an entire meal planned out. If the recipe you've chosen to make doesn't give you any suggestions, look at similar recipes for ideas.









Decide on a date for the big meal. If you're planning on cooking today, you're probably in a hurry — skip this step. Otherwise, make plans with your girlfriend. You can just tell her you'd like to cook dinner (or breakfast or lunch) for her, or you can surprise her. If you're going to surprise her, make up some pretext — a good one is to tell her you're taking her out to eat — so that she will (a) show up and (b) show up hungry.

Make a shopping list. A day or two before you will cook, go through each and every item in your recipe(s) and see if you have it in your kitchen. Make sure you have enough of each ingredient, as well, and make sure they're all edible (1 egg won't substitute for 3, and rotting vegetables just aren't the same as fresh). Also, check to see that you have all the kitchen utensils you will need (you can buy these or, preferably, try to borrow them from somebody). If you don't have something, write it down on your shopping list. Make sure your list is detailed — include the quantity you'll need and any other pertinent information. Of course, if you're like a lot of bachelors, you can probably just take the recipe with you to the grocery store — you know you don't have any of that stuff.



Go grocery shopping. Bring your list to the grocery store and purchase what you need. Cross each item off the list as you put it in your cart, and before you leave, make sure you've got everything. You'll probably see a lot of girls at the grocery store; this is not the time to flirt.





Pre-prepare. Prepare as much as you can ahead of time. Sometimes this is absolutely necessary (you may need to marinate something overnight, for example), so pay close attention to your recipe. Even when advance preparation isn't required, the more you do early, the easier your cooking experience will be.

Prepare the meal. Make sure you start your cooking early enough to have the meal ready on time, but not so early that it's sitting around for hours. The recipe may give you an estimate of preparation and cooking times; you may want to add a little time onto these if you're not a proficient chef. Unless you really know what you're doing, follow the recipe's instructions exactly.







Prepare the meal. Make sure you start your cooking early enough to have the meal ready on time, but not so early that it's sitting around for hours. The recipe may give you an estimate of preparation and cooking times; you may want to add a little time onto these if you're not a proficient chef. Unless you really know what you're doing, follow the recipe's instructions exactly.



Set the mood. Be creative with the ambiance you set for your meal. Maybe you want to have it on the balcony under the stars, or maybe it's breakfast in bed — the sky's the limit. As in your choice of meal, you may want to consider where your relationship is at. If you're looking to inject some romance into a long-term relationship, dim the lights, hire a violinist and break out the candles and roses. If you've only been dating a week, however, you might want to keep it simple: dim the lights, get a friend to guard the door to make sure no other girls stop by, and break out the thick, classy paper plates.



Serve the meal. Your service will depend on the meal you've chosen, of course, but a couple of rules apply regardless. Make sure the food is ready to be served — hot foods should be hot and cold foods cold, for example — and serve your girlfriend her food first. Make sure she is comfortable and has everything she needs to enjoy your magical feast. Wait for her to take her first bite before you dig in.









Relish the togetherness. Just focus on your girlfriend, not the food. Even if you're insecure about your cooking, act confident. Don't keep asking her if she really likes this or that. You've worked hard to prepare this meal for your girlfriend, but you don't need to tell her that — she knows.





Clean up everything yourself. This may make the best impression of all. Do the dishes and clean off the table.

Wouldn’t it be amazing if there was few words you could whisper to make a girl fall in love with you within seconds of you approaching her? “Your beauty reminds me of autumn leaves falling ….” Well forget it! No poetic (feel free to laugh at my failed poetic attempt), cheesy line or even smart line will ever trigger love in a woman.


As a matter of fact, why would you want to do that in the first place?!

Okay, okay. Yeah, I hear you. We’ve all been there, right? There’s this amazingly beautiful girl at work or school. You watch her in amazement every day: her movements are so graceful, her hair is full auburn, she has dark beady eyes and a smile that could brighten up the effing sun. This is love at first sight. She’s the one! You must not screw this up, like the last time you mustered up your courage and confessed your undying love to a girl out of the blue! How can you go over and rock her world the minute you start talking to her?



Well you can’t. And you shouldn’t. You should approach her with calm and confidence to check out if she has the character to back up her looks. Parable time: imagine you’re an ornithologist, and there’s this incredibly beautiful and exotic bird you’ve been watching in sheer amazement for weeks on end. Then one day, you get close to it: it’s a breathtaking moment. You’re all shaking and sweaty because it’s such a heavenly creature and BAM! It bites you right in the face and craps on your jacket. How’s that for a downer?

Natural Beauty Tips for Teenagers





Cucumbers help reduce puffiness beneath your eyes.

Many teenage girls develop an interest in beauty tips and products that will enhance their overall style. From hair to makeup to skin care, teens want to do what they can to keep up with looks that are trendy without having to break the bank with designer products. What many teens do not know, however, is that natural products and special beauty tips can give them the naturally beautiful look that they want.

Less is More

The old adage "less is more" is a good rule of thumb for teens who want a naturally beautiful look. Starting with makeup, avoid caking on the rainbow colors and masks of foundation. Coverup should be used sparingly and only for troublesome blemishes, or to even out the texture of your skin. Teens keep their youthful look by wearing less makeup, and should stick with tinted lip glosses and some blush for a natural glow. When it comes to hair the same is true. A simple hairdo, whether that is down or in a ponytail, creates a naturally beautiful look.

Cold Cucumber Cures

Late nights, cramming sessions and keeping up with a social life can cause a teen's eyes to become puffy from lack of rest and relaxation. To remedy this, go to the fridge and slice a cucumber, and place one cucumber slice over each -- closed -- eyelid. Cucumbers are effective for rehydrating the skin and bringing down puffiness because they consist of 90 percent water. The coldness of the cucumber is also a contributing factor for reducing puffy skin around the eyes. To keep the skin around your eyes in tip-top condition, sit with cucumber slices over your eyes for a few minutes each day.

Picture Perfect Face

Taking care of your skin as a teen is important for having good skin as an adult. During the teenage years, the skin undergoes changes due to the hormones produced by puberty. Oily skin is common, but can lead to breakouts and acne. To maintain a picture perfect face, try some beauty techniques at home to control the condition of your skin. Always wash your face before you put makeup on, and wash your face again at night. Sleeping with your makeup on can clog your pores and cause an oil buildup. Teens can give themselves homemade facials using oatmeal. Oatmeal is given to kids with chicken pox to help reduce redness, inflammation and itchy skin. Placing a cooked, cold oatmeal mask on the face is an effective way to keep the skin calm and naturally glowing.

Moisturize and Protect

To achieve a naturally beautiful look it is important for teens to moisturize and protect their hair and skin. Moisturizing the skin keeps the skin's youthful elasticity and prevents the onset of wrinkles. Protecting the skin from damaging sun rays is another way to hold onto your naturally beautiful skin. You can kill two birds with one stone by purchasing moisturizers that have SPF in the ingredients, which keeps your skin protected against UV, aging rays. Your hair is another part of your body that needs to be moisturized and protected. Many teens use styling products, such as curling irons and straightening irons, as well as highlight or dye their hair. Such treatments can damage the hair and dry it out, but using moisturizing treatments and products that protect your hair is effective for giving you a natural and healthy shine.

how to talk a girl, hope this will help. Tell a Girl You Like Her

That person who makes you mumble or drop a stack of papers while talking to her, or walk her to her locker and forget to go to your own; that girl you like but don't seem able to tell. Telling a girl you like her is simple, but is often complicated by muddled thinking. It requires some common sense - putting yourself in her position and considering that she doesn't really know you yet may help you as you prepare to let her know your feelings. Girls just love that.

Steps

Tips and Warnings

Looking presentable and cool, and wearing body spray or something that makes you smell good. Girls do not like it when you smell bad and you are sweaty. They dig the guys that wear Abercrombie body spray and that kind of stuff. Don't be intimidated by looks (hers or yours). Look around - beautiful girls aren't always with beautiful guys. A lot of times, funny or nice is better than handsome.

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Be confident, be assertive, and control your nerves and patience.

2

Be prepared for her answer. A nice, calm response from you, no matter what she says, can give her something to think about later, even if it doesn't seem to go your way at first.

3

Be prepared in your speech, remember your 'script'. It is good to plan what you are going to say before hand. Try to practice in front of a mirror so you can see yourself through somebody else's eyes. Say things like "Hey (name), whats up?" and follow by something like "I'm not going to lie but I have some feelings for you". "And I just wanted you to know that."

4

Do it in person instead of calling her on the telephone. Asking a mate to do it for you has 50/50 chance of backfiring and making her think you aren't confident enough. Sometimes though, it works and the girl thinks it's really sweet that the boy is too nervous. If you don't feel confident enough, use the a phone conversation as a last resort. Most girls prefer talking face-to-face!

5

Don't be afraid of embarrassment. Who cares what other people think?

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Try to be romantic, tell her when you two are alone. It may be more embarrassing for the both of you if other people are around.

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When you tell her, it should be something that has a little bit of a story, and is sweet. Girls like sweet guys! Don't just pass her in the hall and say "I like you." It's not as touching, will make you look silly, and the less touching it is, the less likely she is to respond the way you want.

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Don't be cheesy with her! Be absolutely real and truthful (no jokes) , she'll appreciate this more than anything.

9

Do not say anything stupid unless you are absolutely sure she is going to laugh. Otherwise it just makes the situation more awkward for you.

10

Be honest. If you like a girl, tell her! But not in front of anyone or she may be compelled to say no under peer pressure.

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Don't say it jokingly or she won't know if you really do like her or not. She might even think you were just teasing (trying to look cool or something, etc.) and get upset.

12

Don't hide that you like her. That will only make things worse, and you will most likely never get a chance with her.

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Don't crack a joke right after you tell her. She might not think you're serious.

14

Try to kiss her at that moment. You should probably know that she likes you back before you kiss her, to save her any awkwardness. Don't wait for her to make the first move though. Most girls wait for the guy to make the first move in every situation.

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Try to tell her you like her in a semi-private setting. It may be a good idea to ask her out to a movie. This will give you a chance to talk to her afterward without the influence of friends or family, allowing you to have her full attention.

16Try to tell her you like her in a semi-private setting. It may be a good idea to ask her out to a movie. This will give you a chance to talk to her afterward without the influence of friends or family, allowing you to have her full attention. Gud luck.

A boy drops his girl friend at
home and he puts his hand
on
the wall by the gate for
support,
leans towards her and says
can i
kiss you?
GIRL: not now, i am at home
BOY: please
GIRL: no
BOY: you were too sweet on
bed today
GIRL: wooow! You too was
full of
energy, i could not believe we
had
four rounds.
BOY: let me kiss you,
goodnight,
GIRL: some one may be
watching,
they still think i am a virgin
at home.(These goes on for
minutes, then the girl's
younger
brother appears at the gate)
and
says; "Dad says whether you kiss
him
or not, it's your decision, but
tell
that bastard to remove his
hand
from the intercom button,
everyone at home is listening
to your conversation!!!
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Which one do you think
would be
more painful to lose?
1. Laptop
2. Teeth
3. Smart phone
4. Virginity
5. Money
6. _____________

Every Husband Must Read:


“Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.

Love her…when she “pushes” you to pray. She wants to be with you in Paradise

Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not “make” them on her own.
…
Love her…when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you

Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.

Love her…when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.

Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.

Love her…when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she’s beautiful.

Love her…when she looks beautiful. She’s yours so appreciate her.

Love her…when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.

Love her…when she buys you gifts you don’t like. Smile and tell her it’s what you’ve always wanted.

Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change. Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don’t ask, tell her its going to be okay

Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)

Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass

Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new one anyway

Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.

Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both

Love her…she is yours. You don’t need any other special reason!!!!

All this forms part of a Woman’s Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen

What do you always do when stressed/angered/bored/frustrated?
a. Cry
b. Drink
c. Listen to music
d. Pray
e. Talk to friends
f. Sleep
g. Others?(name)

MEDITATE ON THIS....

REAL BOYS
Real boys are getting busy investing on their future making money, Using most of their time thinking and getting ready for future.

FAKE BOYS
Fake boys are swaging, showing off, living a fake life to impress others, sleeping around and boasting to women what they can't be or afford in the next 10years

REAL BABES
Real babes are serious, staying faithful, Graduating, building a career, trusting God for a better life, getting a Good job and a having good family with kids in future

FAKE BABES
Fake babes are unfaithful, flirting, clubbing, gossiping, swaging, sleeping around exchanging their precious body for money, worldly material things that won't last for
ever...(VANITY)

WHAT ARE YOU DOING?

TIPS: Remember that even a broken clock WORKS, are you surprised how? it is correct 2 times daily.....

Time is money INVEST pls

INVEST YOUR TIME ON VALUABLE THINGS TO BUILD YOUR FUTURE, NOT LIVING TO DRESS TO KILL, OR IMPRESSING OTHERS TO SHOW OFF.

MOST OF THESE THINGS ARE VANITY, IF YOU REALLY SIT DOWN TO CALCULATE HOW MUCH TIME AND MONEY WE SPEND ON THESE THINGS THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT. FUNNY PART OF IS THAT SOME PEOPLE LEND AND BORROW- BORROW TO IMPRESS........

Coleslaw simply means cabbage salad. It is a blend of finely shredded cabbage, carrots and a few other crunchy vegetables. It is then generously dressed with mayonnaise and salad cream.



It is generally eaten as a side dish to such foods as Jollof Rice, Fried/Barbecued Chicken, Moi Moi and many other rice dishes.

Coleslaw is usually served chilled to allow the dressing settle into the vegetables.

Ingredients

1 small cabbage

1 small green bell pepper

½ tin of green peas

2 medium carrots

1 medium onion

5 tablespoons of salad cream (preferably Heinz Classic Salad Cream)

4 tablespoons of mayonnaise

½ teaspoon sugar

A pinch of salt

Preparation

All the vegetables need to be washed.

Cut the cabbage, green bell pepper and onions into very tiny pieces.

Scrape and shred the carrots using a grater, then use a knife to cut across the shreds to make the pieces even smaller.

Put the cabbage, green pepper, green peas, onions and carrots into a large bowl and stir till you get a good mix.

In a separate, smaller bowl, mix the salad cream, mayonnaise, sugar and salt.

Pour the cream mix into the bowl of vegetables and stir very well.

Chill and serve.

Note: If you prefer the coleslaw creamier, you can increase the quantity of the salad cream. Feel free to add a pinch of ground pepper if you like it spicy.

Coleslaw can be eaten alone or as a side dish to Jollof Rice, Coconut Rice, Fried Rice and other Nigerian rice dishes

Which of the following are u doing now?
1. Still lazing on your bed
2.X
Busy at work
3. Facebooking
4. Eating
5. Washing clothes
6
. Watching tv
7. Chating
8. Busily reading and commenting on my post
9 others specify

~NANA~