what are the criteria to be banned
make i try am see

and i hope this topic wont cause any trouble for NLers o

so wetin concern the Americans that were killed in Libya...
Religion of peace my foot

tellwisdom:

show urself first

;Dmake he no be Gay

naija i hail o

they are all fool, but the yoruba man mumu is 1st class

very well said

De-best:
Hi everyone, I want start, by thanking all of you, who have made your various invaluable contributions, toward the question (poser), toria1980 has asked here. You have all spoken well. In fact, my heart goes to all of you (more especially, to afam4eva; chrisbenogor; Deen4me; dasparrow; salt1; Theblessed; juce and aryzgreat). These guys, spoke eloquently. From, what I read, some persons castigated toria1980, for dating the guy, for 2 good yrs, before separating from him. Let me say here, that, no matter how far, you have gone on a wrong way, the very moment, it occurs to you that, you are on a wrong way, please retrace your steps. It's never to late, to make corrections. Now, concerning the subject matter, I want to let us know that, "MARRIAGE IS A VERY SACRED UNION"; and requires an agreement primarily, by the 2 persons concerned and even family members, in some cases. That's why, one has to be very careful, when making decisions, concerning marriage. The BIBLE, in Amos 3 vs 3, says, CAN TWO WALK TOGETHER, EXCEPT THEY AGREE? Obviously no. And 2Corinthians 6 vs 15-16, says, DO NOT BE UNEQUALLY YOKED TOGETHER, WITH UNBELIEVERS. The BIBLE gave the above advice, because the All-knowing God, wants us (you and me) to be aware that, such circumstances may come up, sometimes in our lives. Wait a minute. Why won't the guy, leave toria1980 alone, after 8 yrs of separation? He can't tell me, it is LOVE, that is making him to come back. Is toria1980 holding the key, to his destiny? If so, then he should convert to CHRISTIANITY. Otherwise, I am, beginning to think, he has a "HIDDEN AGENDA" toward toria1980. The BIBLE, in Philippians 4 vs 6, says, BE CAREFUL, FOR NOTHING. When reviewed critically, to BE CAREFUL, FOR NOTHING, means to BE CAREFUL, IN EVERYTHING WE DO. Those who said, "RELIGION SHOULD NOT SEPARATE LOVE", doesn't know what they are saying. Religion is a way of life. And whether you like it or not, "YOU ARE WHAT YOU BELIEVE". Don't forget that, THERE IS ANOTHER LIFE, AFTER THIS ONE. WHERE DO YOU WANT TO SPEND YOUR ETERNITY? The CHOICE is yours, to make. Based on the above, I want to advise that, toria1980 should succumb to pressure, to marry the guy; otherwise another ISHMAEL AND ISAAC, may be visiting NAIJA, in the shortest possible time. Bye for now and may the good Lord, BLESS ALL OF YOU (and me, too) RICHLY, in Jesus name (Amen).

this is promo for the single guys on NL, no dulling

PAGAN 9JA:
^^^^^^^^^^^You are Yoruba yes

what are u insinuating

Cristalz:

Don't second-guess yourself, dearie. You made the right choice.
Besides, if he claims to love you that much, why doesn't he change his religion to yours? I mean, if you're willing to chase a woman for 2 years and still won't take "no" then you should be willing to do what it takes to make her yours.

thanks Cristalz.... i gave him an option to covert which he refuses...

mikeuz:



It is d same thing my dear.when you startd dating him where you 18yrs old? that you didn't knw wot you wantd, how can you even contemplate dating a muslim when you knw the religious obstacle,knowing fully well that you can't change your religion for him,but you decided τ̲̅ȍ fool around with him for two years?
Again since 2004,incase you don't know this iS 2012 and if you still haven't found another guy to settle down with by now,τ̲̅ȍ the extent you A̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥ considering your muslim ex,
Then abeg marry the muslim guy even though am against it, because you just might not see anybody τ̲̅ȍ marry you soonest. GOSH. about 8yrs difference•

u dey vex? i just mentioned that he is aware of my relationship with another person..... even if i no see man marry, he will never be an option

CrazyMan:
Maybe by the time you get to 35 years and you're still single, you would consider his proposal...hypocrite

is being single a crime in the society? becos at the end of the day i am saying i pick these person to spend eternity with him.he is a muslism and tomorrow he might just wake up and bring in another wife all in the name of religion

CrazyMan:
Maybe by the time you get to 35 years and you're still single, you would consider his proposal...hypocrite

thank you

D-Explorer:
Hey be sincere, you played around him for too long, you made him believe you both could head somewhere, you got a better dude and religion became the excuse. Tell me am wrong.

u are wrong
how could i have played him when he is aware of my relationship with another person, @ a point i gave him an option which he couldnt take... i told him the only reason i will marry him is him converting to christian.. but he didnt take..i knw it sounds crazy, it is the honest fact

kokoye: Tough one.

If you both are serious xtian or muslim, it might be easy now when it's just the two of you.

But what happens when you have kids: where will they worship, what kinda music will they listen to; will you let your daughter's head be shaved when born, who will they hang out with, family members visiting, etc

These are some of the things you need to consider and decide on.

It is not the easiest of things except you both are free thinkers.

u just pointed out some of my points....... i will want to bring up my children in xtian ways... but most muslim will not allow their wife train their children.. even though he claims he doesnt care about the religion now, tomorrow he might change his mind

may i know your reason pls? thanks

wandeay: yes, it is wrong

lol

Acidosis: Oh Lord Have Mercy!!

Okay, You dated a muslim, and He serviced you all through the relationship.

Now that he wants marriage, you answered NO.

Did you not think about your religion, while he was servicing you on the bed, while you were exchanging blood, water and feelings? Did your religion support all that? ?

Stop deceiving yourself woman, religion can't work for you, church is not meant for you.

So just go and marry him, stop this religious trash..

you don't need to be harsh.... we dated since 2003/2004. i left him in 2004 just because of the religion...but since 2004 he has being on my neck

2yrs.... and we've known each other for 9yrs

Eiregirl: How long were you in a relationship with your ex for?

Dear Nairalanders,

My ex proposes to me, i refuse his marriage proposal because he is a Muslim.
in his words he said "i wont stop you from practicing your religion". but i refuse him, for two years now he is still beginning me to marry him

o damn it,Nigerians are gullible...with this jet age of fake pastors?

that ur babe i pity her, after six month the juju go clear from her eyes, there is no way she will not bit her fingers in regret.
becos she will realize she has being fooled cheaply


but if she is leaving u with the excuses of u abusing her, then it reasonable becos no reasonable woman wud end up with a man beater

AB$I:
D church look so scanty because ur english look so scanty too-mumu broda of fufu.na scanty church make ur wowo eyes dey see

easy on the guy naa. lol wan tear my yansh o

what is all the insult and abuses all about, am beginning to hate NL for dis kind of altitude

to think that all this people are adult who cannot even stand in front of the camera to do half of what she does, yet u hide behind to condemn the effort of others

my brother,till date i purposely pour large quantity of
water in my porridge beans just to make me pour more garri,
soft and sweet.[/quote]

me no be boy o

true o, why is peckham and north greenwich not in the list

how old are , and where were u all this while ur mum or house girl busy in the kitchen

is not too late to learn

pour dry garri on my bean porridge, and i still do it in London

i cant eat the beans without the garri inside

Women will always be women

Girls don't tolerate themselves.. I dont c reason why I should pass insult online when I don't even know who am talking to in the first place

help financial did you say?

they will reign your life. i helped a business partner with 1million Naira, with the hope to return the money back after six months
he was aware i want to use the money for my schooling abroad. up till date, is being four months since i graduated from my school abroad, he is yet to pay me,
when i call he doesn't pick my calls, on top of it, he threatens me.

for me o, Oju anu ti blind

Nigeria has not won any medal at the London Olympics..

please tell them to introduce new games like stealing public funds, bomb planting,gossipping & kidnapping so that we can pick Gold medals quick quick