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naughtynaughty:
ewwooo..I cova my bumbum wit b blood of Jesus o

Smh..lol the irony of it is I bet you'll love it if its done right to you and you climax..the problem with Africans is we are so scared of what we don't know,its good to be curious and explore a lil and wisely too..na u go still use ur hand comot the blood of Jesus way u use cover ur bum lol

naughtynaughty:
Butt dat u will do nd u will not b able to shit again..God 4bid! Guys repent oo dis 2016

I mean, der r no Gspot @d butt..hw den wil any grl derive pleasure frm bn screwed frm d bck? 80prcnt of ladies dt does it don't enjy it..forget d lielie moaning..dey r all fakin it 2please u guyz. Guys pls stp

Cc seun lalasticlala

I am not into annal sha but you are VERY wrong.. both men and women can achieve orgasm from annal stimulation, do your research maybe a lil Google would do,get informed,learning never ends,ul be amazed what you'll find out then you'll understand why some people are crazy about annal and why gays love it..apparently they can achieve multiple orgasms from it,its called prostrate orgasm..

If you are really into her then you need to let her know in a way that she doesn't feel embarrassed, you could try this way,if or when you guys are playing physically,you can pick her up and kiss her then say baby ur mouth stinks don't kiss me again..do it with humour sha,goodluck

Well I am not homophobic sha but I can't understand why I would prefer fVcking a man with flat strong ass and body than fVucking a woman with all her feminine attributes..ohh did I mention how sweet the vjay is,hmm I can't even stand the site of another guys dick anywhere around me if not mine let alone touching it..Godforbid bad thing,e get as woman shape self go dey anyhow and I'll not want anything to do with her then talk more of a man..I just don't get it,#teampvssyalltheway

YourMain:
Lol is it my fault though

Am impressed how ur responding,shows ur grown up stairs..but I think itl be much better to ignore them,those lips are actually cute and you are too jare,uv got a black Angelina jolie thing going on there

pimpchi:
IS IT JUST ME OR HAS IT BECOME A TREND......? FINDING A GOOD GIRL FOR MARRIAGE HAS BECOME ALMOST AN IMPOSSIBLE TASK BOTH IN THE CHURCH AND OFF CHURCH.... THIS IS TWO YEARS OF SEARCHING NOW, ALL THE LADIES I HAVE MET ARE EITHER PRETENDERS OR WAY TOO BELOW SPECS..MOST OF THE BABES I HAD TO TRUST OVER THIS TWO YEAR PERIOD, BETRAYED MY LOVE EITHER BY DOUBLE DATING OR BY GETTING SO DESPERATE THUS LEADING TO MANIPULATIONS AND TRYING TO HANG ANOTHER MAN`S PREGNANCY ON ME...THOUGH I HAD ALWAYS GOTTEN THEM BY INSISTING ON DNA TEST AFTER CHILD BIRTH OF WHICH THE PREGNANCY CLAIMS HAD TO CHANGE TO I JUST HAD A MISCARRIAGE LATER THUS PUTTING AN END TO SUCH CLAIMS... SO PLZ TO THE MARRIED ONES IN THE HOUSE,HOW DID U GUYS DO IT. PEOPLE WED ALMOST EVERY DAY AND I WONDER WHETHER THESE GUYS AIN`T EXPERIENCING MY ORDEALS. SHOULD I JUST NEGLECT THE CHEATERS AND PUT ON THE RING? COS IT SEEMS LIKE 70% OF BABES I HAVE MET ARE ALL INTO DOUBLE DATING... MEANWHILE, THIS YEAR SHALL NOT PASS ME BYE, WALKING DOWN THE AISLE WITH MY YET TO BE KNOWN WIFEY BY GOD`S GRACE. #highlyexpectant.

Hmm my brother its not just u alone o that's why a lot of guys end up marrying one of their ex,anyway keep praying and keep a positive attitude and you'll find the right woman,DNT settle for a cheat or manipulative woman,there are still good women around,you know you have to go through a lot of dirt before you find a diamond..

OyinboPrincess:
LOL no bi me wey cause am oOo...

Lol ehhen who come cause am now?anyway shey u know say nija guys no de play with p u s s y?and u come bring ur own all the way from UK,hmm nija guys go chop am o if them catch am..

Lol..this oyibo u mischievous well well sha o

naughtynaughty:
Believe me no lady ever want to be in that type relationship. Unromantic guy?? Nah! I'll pass. There are lots of things to deal with already talk more of dealing with such guyz and relationships.

In my opinion, such guys shouldn't be in a relationship, yeah..I mean there's nothing as nice as having a type relationship, you know, the kind where my partner would leave little notes and gifts, maybe rope some of my best friends in as accomplices to drive me all around town, looking for my next clue in places that held special significance to just us.

At the end, there’d be a big surprise, lots of flowers, candles, champagne, and a declaration of undying love for me. This alone can drive any grl crazy and make them stick to you for the rest of their lives..

I've being in one before. Throughout our relationship, I was Always the first one to say I love you, and he only really says it to me when I initiate it.
He never tells me I'm beautiful/attractive... He doesn't really like to kiss, either..blah blah blah. After finally freeing myslf from him I swore never to date an unromantic guy again.

Ever being in one before With a guy or with a girl? Pls share.

Choi ..sweetheart uv obviously been watching too much telemundo..hmm ur looking for a guy that will leave lil romantic clues ?'the kind where my partner would leave little notes and gifts, maybe rope some of my best friends in as accomplices to drive me all around town, looking for my next clue in places that held special significance to just us'..haba in this nija Abi where?shey una see watin dstv d cause?we should burn all their offices cos na did kin thing our babes go see for telemundo come de use misbehave anyhow..babe e go hard o,but u can make a man do more than that sha if u do the right things in ur relationship and he truly loves u,the male species has tremendous potential to love DEEPLY, all u av to do is to unlock it

lifeisabitch:
Toasters every where, some are talking marriage just that they are way beneath my level. I have my own target

Why do people still say husbands are scarce?

Well that's the easiest way to get laid by talking marriage but talk is cheap..I can assure you that once you start a relationship and they've had a taste of your cookie then the marriage talk will fizzle out..am not saying this is applicable to every guy o,just 90% of them,the real husband's are not just scarce but ENDANGERED SPECIES, if u doubt me then try one of the guys you say is talking marriage, and tell him the marriage should be done asap since that's what he wants from u..then come back and tell us the result of the experiment,besides, the fact that you say you haven't met the one up to your level just confirms HUSBAND'S are truly scarce,if they weren't you'd have been married already cos surely you are mature enough for it and the only logical reason why you are not yet married is cos they are not easy to find..but I heard 2016 has a lot of goodies so you could be lucky,Good luck tho

jonaifame22:
People do not be deceived stfuareyouGod is the person as pussiesandie

Lol I doubt he is the same person..this is just another lunatic that is obsessed with him(stfu) cos he said he/she(pussysandie) was a guy on that funny thread she/he opened yesterday about her supposed 'virgin' sister..

[quote author=PussySandie post=41479413][/quote]She's cute..u sure shez still a virgin tho?

onos217:
To the Virgin Ladies, please don't get carried away by all these misleading talks muttered by some of the guys in the house.Don't be surprise that the same guys who are claiming that 'virgin girls do not rock their boat' will be ones sweating to have one when they finally settled down and decide to tie the knot.
Don't be fooled!

Baba u too much..tell them,they don't know guys just want to have someone they can f*uck now but when time come for marriage na different ish

MzzTega:
Nobody wants a Virgin.
They are all looking for the experienced ones.
Who will now teach the virgins?

Who says no body wants a virgin?my dear everyone with his choice o..someone like me I want a virgin for wife o but for a side chick I don't want virgin,doesn't mean the side chick should be as wide as a well o..anyway that's just me and there are lots of guys out there like me,who no like better thing?will u like to buy a shoe that has been used by the whole market people?or buy a shirt ul see the same kind with half the town people?the answer is NO,everyone wants exclusive right to his most priced possession shikena..

emusmith:
Haha...lol...what's her problem gan?

If she be serious Christian/Catholic she go dey involve in premarital sex?

Kai! I hate to hear ignorant stuff like this

Hmm her issue ehnn...well u know females are very confused sorry to say,and they are hypocrites and pretenders so am not surprised at her actions,e be like say na the pretty girls the dumb pass,she always goes into relationships with guys she knows chances of marriage is almost 0..either married guys,or guys who are about to be married..sometimes I think she is intentionally sabotaging her own life..and its not just her o,I know quite a few of them like that but hers is the worst of all

emusmith:
7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015


As the curtains of 2015 is coming to a majestic close, I want to congratulate those NL ladies who got wedded. Those who didn't, it doesn't matter. 2016 is around the corner, waiting to land you into your "valid" relationships or husband's houses. Amen!

However, there could have been some things you did or didn't do, as such, yours was delayed.

Every time, singles who wants to get married are asked to come out, I see a lot of girls- young and old. So, they are many and that makes this thread relevant to ALL except the babies among us

NOTE: I'm speaking from one angle. You can address the other. Thanks.

What are some hindrances that could have delayed the marriages of some of our qualified Ladies:


1. Traditional Embargo:

It beats my imagination how some folks still hold firmly to this; if he's not from my place, I dare not marry him. While, it's good to heed to parent's advice, its you who will stay single till 30, not them. Please, pray and watch. Be wise.


2. "Confused" Expectations In The Kind of guy she wants.

I need a faithful guy, handsome, tall, godly, macho, good with kids, he might drink socially,good cook...if you notice; what relationship has being GODLY and DRINKING alcohol share? My advice is, write what you really really need in him. A goal not written is a wish. Wishes aren't horses anymore...while writing, remember: If you want an 100% man, get clay and mould him yourself. Wanting a man that can cook just because you can't, is denying one of the core essence that makes you a mother, wife and a woman. Learn how to cook, better. Let him just be assisting. My advice.


3. Unrealistic Financial Expectations

If he's not earning above 100k, I'm not interested. Heard that before? That's even the least. This days, just get an ok car and they're all over you. Who wan marry poor man? I get. Dangote once slept under a truck for months. If ladies truly have "eyes" to see which guy will be successful or not; while under the truck, politician's daughters would have been coming to say "Hi" to his rickety former self.
Moral Lesson: Still, follow a man for his vision. Not just for his BIG television.


4. War between her and in-laws

If he truly loves me, he'll put me above his siblings. Some girls have not yet become part and parcel of the family and their character is already exposing them. Call it wisdom, not hypocrisy. In- laws deserve respect, why? They are humans like you. I'm not speaking for myself though. Place yourself in their shoes. A girl wants to marry your brother and she's acting all "rude" and "sensitive". You won't tell him, go ahead. Will you? Unless you're like her tho...


5. Immaturity in handling little matters

He forgot my birthday, he's not worth being my "ideal" boo. I broke up with him. Did you just say that? Its absolutely wrong to forget your girl's birthday but is that the only way of solving that ish? Is there no better way? I've had to call someone to call me and wish me a Happy Birthday, with smiles on. It's no big deal. I learnt it. We all can do same. Be flexible and not immature. Most times, her actions isn't stemming from his forgetting to call her but from many other things. I understand. You can break up with him, if you confirmed he's been cheating. But, be sure. Let me not derail. Next point will explain that...


6. Pride/Ego/Unforgiveness/Unnecessary "Forming"


I'm not perfect but I know that unforgiveness pulls one back and separates two lovebirds. If he cheated on you for the first time and he reports himself that it was a mistake- haba, you shouldn't break up. One more chance. Pride and ego are the most reasons some are still lonely. Ordinary PM, you dey form, "I don't do PMs, and you are single" I think, if you're searching, be open a bit. That guy might be the next Dangote...oops! I just pressed a button there... Some girls form too much. You play hard to get to someone you like as though there is not enough serious business in marriage already: do sharp sharp joor. When he turns away now, you'll blame point 7.



7. Spiritual Attacks

One man saw the devil crying, he asked him, Badoo, why you crying? He replied, "Every little thing, they blame me for it. They even lie on my head."
Well, spiritual attacks are real though. But I believe, "the curse causeless doesn't come". Ladies don't pray too much in church UNTIL the pastor mentions, "every devil blindfolding his eyes from seeing any single lady here, die!" Then, you'll see her in action. Onetime, I saw one pretty babe who told me how she went one a very long fasting and praying sessions to get her man. They pray, but the only issue is some don't watch. #I'm in a friendly mood today#

It's our prayer that God will locate every one of our single ladies in the house Next year, 2016. Amen!

Nice one OP,But you forgot the Church denominations thing,I have heard and seen a lot of ladies reject men cos he isn't in the same church denomination as them especially Catholic girls, this really strikes me as FOOLISHNESS at its peak cos they are all still Christians..funny thing is till date these girls are still single,one particularly always complains of how guys just keep f*cking her and never taking her seriously.. Smh and shez almost 35now,I don tire to de advice her now na just look I de look her and tell her sorry when necessary

Toks2008:
Noo for wettin?

If they like let them marry.


Honestly i am very scared with what i see,read and hear these days and latter they will become sobber and say everyone has a past..

Awon omo wobey alabe rirun

Hmm no be small thing o,an I taught I was the only one feeling a lot of girls are scammers, using excuse of the past to justify her disgusting ways,my question is do they plan to have a husband someday?and if they do then they should know he won't like the idea of their horrible past,but instead the just damn the consequences and feel they will play the 'everyone had a past' card or the 'are you a virgin yourself' card and get away with it when its time to marry.. smh and one dude will keep this kind thing for house as a wife?God forbid bad thing..anyway its their life and kitty so they can f*ck even an elephant if they choose to

sandrannna:
No sleeping on the bicycle. meaning there is no time.




Who will I consider the most handsome? U picture will tell.

U asking for pic when u don't av one up?

leofab:
laughs*** when you counter Christians with facts they attach you with prayers!!!!
...even to this day alot of us even think that Jesus is the son of God, that he is our salvation to where thus i dont know; and if we havent made it there in the last 2000 years, than something is truly wrong with that picture & that
doctrine; what is funny about it all & sad all together is when James Stuart aka King James got "his" 47 scholars to copy & plagarize the historiography of what is truly the historiography of the blackpeople of ancient KMT; yall should
know about King James lover William Shakespear who was 46 yrs old at the time when he did scholarly work on the King James Bible, and he even coded his own name in it (Psalms 46); so if
you read 46 words from the chapter's beginning & 46 words from the chapter's end, then you will find the words "shake" and "spear"; yet, for centuries the europeans christians, jews & arabs
has been teaching us blackpeople their versions & concepts of a God that we never k when they stole, copied, plagarized and then re-presented
back to us as their true lies of a historiography that they never had a knowledge of until they
came into the land of KMT(Kemet)...
...yet, these european christians, jews & arabs has proved to be the adversaries of blackpeople thru out history for centuries, based on their
invader mentality of all the concepts of GOD that they demonized thru paganism etc; the europeans has taught us that Jesus was the son of GOD, that Jesus walked on water; that Jesus
performed all sorts of miracles of healing
people; that Jesus died & rose on the 3rd day of his resurrection; that Jesus came into the world to save man of their sins that came thru the fall
of Adam; that Jesus is the light of the world & the list goes on; but what im about to show you will be a matter of truth & reconsideration of
what was taught to us by these europeans who stole nearly everything that they have today; yet,
whats funny & must of all sad altogether, they stole our souls, our spirits & our livelihoods that was a given testament of GOD from the very beginning of our existence...
...so, lets just go into the bible & view afew things to reconsider since they wanted to place some of the lies & some of the truth within it, not knowing that 1 day that people are going to
wake up to a rude awakinging when the truth rise up in the consciousness of the BA(the soul) & of the KA(the spirit) of the blackpeople of RA(God)
that will be the true light of the world...
...now in (Psalms 84:11) it reads: (11 For the LORD God is a sun and shield); and then again in (Malachi 4:2) it reads: (2 But unto you that fear my name shall the Sun of righteousness arise with healing in his wings); now in (Isaiah 7:14) it
reads: (14 Therefore the Lord himself shall give you a sign; Behold, a virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel.)...
...now ask yourself if youre that stupid to not see & read that for yourself, and still come out of your mouth and conclude that this information is
talking about Jesus? well we are about to
decipher this now and see if we should
reconsider what the european christians, jews & arabs has been teaching us with their books ( Bible, Torah & Quran) & religions(Christianity, Judaism & Islam) altogether...
...in the ancient KMT(Kemet) culture & society of blackpeople that dates back several thousands years before the biblical flood of Noah & even before Adam's creation from clay by the
potter's hands; when you research the ancient KMT god/man Ma'at then you will see the identity & a depiction of this god/man who wears
a winged solar sun-disk about his head inwhich our ancient ancestors coded in esoteric meaning as a concept of God(RA); but since the europeans couldnt grasp the esoteric
overstanding of it due to them having no
understanding of what & who God was; they stole it anyways & then placed it in the bible of (Psalms 84:11) & (Malachi 4:2) with forgetting to change the content from the (Sun) to the (son)
while they were copying & plagarizing the
historiography of our ancient ancestors esoteric knowledge that the europeans just know about exoterically; the europeans have NO esoteric
knowledge of the BA(the soul) & the KA(the spirit) of RA(God) because they are ungodly, soulless & spiritless and were simply a created being & not pre-existing man(male/female) as
blackpeople were from the very beginning of physicalities of life; yet all of the europeans christians, jews & arabs adversarial behavior has been strictly for the religious & political agendas
of invading & controlling the masses of the blackpeople in the earth...

Wow..can I ask how old u are pls?u sound very wise,is that you on your dp?you seem really interesting, i av bin reading all ur posts,I'd like to know U more if you don't mind pls

Hmm well for me if she says she's got a boyfriend and they are good then I back away,besides if a girl who says she has a bf and you succeed in stealing her away then she can't be trusted when u become her bf cos someone else would probably steal her too from u,anyway I can tolerate a lil hard to get and stick around only if she is single and tells me she needs time to think about it,anything outside of that and am gone,simple as that cos like the Op said there is an abundance of better females everywhere..BTW nice piece man..

udysweet:
Goodmornong lovelies! Hope our night went well? Thank God for that.
Ok,here from me to every single one of you on this thread:
Toks2008,
Klassik
DDshow
Magneto
Nouvelle
Gratefulme40
Torqque7
Bisjosh
Fourfunmi
Vivaciousvivi
Missbronze
Blessedbeads
Bleble
Tollyb
Lolu20
Myminder
Choix007
Melsan
Bluepearls
Halexito
Zubinike
Sparkles003
Xerum
Ilaje44
Sonofananimal
Neoapocalypse
Tip or nipple
Dmola
Henryhemon
Venusbetty
Milychocs
PetkruzSisioge
Matrix199
Emzilia
Including @op and all the guests who drop by to read. Y'all truly made me not just smile but made me laugh and a lot!
Have a merry Christmas in advance.(Pls pardon me if your name isn't included,I can always come back to modify,lol!)
Have a great day everyone plenty*e-hugs* for you

Glad I was able to make u smile..merry Christmas

onstelly:
Roflmao
Omg can't laughing oh

but u see me self am nice,she go soon collect bashing, trust Nl people na,see one guy self already don de plan use the babe do rituals lol...

onstelly:
Hmmm sorry I quote oh
But you I think you are taking it personal
For all I know this op isn't saying the truth
I think she is just trying to catch her fun here
My opinion oh

Lol no mind me joor,its just that people need to be told the truth when they misbehave,imagine what the world would be like if everyone is like her,hmmm thats how one small ph girl like that told me a funny tianshi story, come give me bill just like that o cos I was toasting her for one week,no be small laf she make me do that day o,for her mind she don see mumu maga way new come pH for work so make she milk me sharperly without the fear of God sef..smh this op na same category,pls read her post again she wasn't joking,lol

missangela:
Oh my God!!!
In just two weeks,this month,i have made over N130,000 from *christmas hair*. Now what i did was to keep my hair natural,and started demanding money for *christmas hair* from all my toasters. I have alot of toasters,and please its not my fault,you guys nor dey take eye see fine babe.lol
I have both rich/average/ and broke guys as my toasters,so my *christmas hair* money varies.
Have made my hair now,my plan right now,is to upload new pictures of me,on my whatsapp and facebook( most of my toasters are on my contacts).
This evening,i will go and stay with my aunty,switch off my phones,and enjoy christmas indoors,with assorted food,and romantic season films.So ladies be wise,you can also make good money too.
The fear of every guy is that there is a better guy out there that can satisfy his babe's demands.lol
So Ladies,use this fear to your full advantage.see ya

Update( My cousin used my nairaland account to post this.
She is not a nairalander)

Oya congratulations on ur epic achievements...clap for urself mtcheeww rubbish,ur mates are there boasting of buying stuff with their hard earned money and ur here opening ur mouth to tell us how u begged/scamed men for money and ur even proud and encouraging other females to emulate u?smh..its just like a guy f*ucking a lot of girls and bragging about it and encouraging others to do same,I pity u and ur poor orientation of life,I hope u know about karma and how much of a b*tch it can be Abi?good am sure u av brothers and male relatives and also might av a son one day,just don't forget what goes around comes around..am not saying don't ask for things o,but don't take advantage of people and make them fools intentionally only to laugh and brag about it to others,shame on u babe,get a life joor

osedvgirl:
thank you, this is the best advice

;DU welcome any time..

osedvgirl:
I think i am pregnant, he said i should marry him, should i marry him or? but his pepeye is very very, too



jolllyjoy, what should i do?

Don't worry,u still av till like January to complete the two weeks straight humping on his d*ck that u told us about and by the time ur done,the pregnancy will disappear cos research has shown that two weeks of d*ck riding is a lot more effective than postinor2,plus it also helps to make the d*ck larger so u can now marry him since the d*ck will become bigger,then both ur problems will be solved like magic..thank me after ur done..

Emac34:
Why cnt u guys appreciate someone courage for ones
Can u do dat
Just asking no offence

Is this your definition of courage? he no see book haram to show courage?this is not courage but foolishness at its peak and to answer you..NO I can't do this no offence taken..if I want to be romantic there are a million and one ways I can go about it not doing it like a 12year old..first u attack her then u say u like her..pls that's what we did in kindergartens,if you ask him now wat his long term plan if she decides to get involved with him ul probably be disappointed,this isn't normal behavior, this guy has serious mental issues and needs to be locked up and treated..someone who threatens suicide and u call it courage?if you encourage this behavior tomorrow he will graduate to stalking kidnapping and even murder cos he already exhibits the tendencies..

siamia:
Gdmrn peeps, fine guys and babes of 30plus and singles thread. Happy sunday to u all. How was ur weekend? Hope it was cool?
I had a busy weekend. The whatsapp chat for this thread had a very successful party yestdy. It was the bomb. There were lots of handsome dudes and beautiful ladies in attendance. People came from different parts of the country, one or two flew in from outside the country. It truly showed their commitment to the vision of the chat, and their seriousness to the biz of finding a life partner. The dresscode was casual chic/casual dude. It began from 12noon till mama calls. There was surplus food and lots to drink. We were all like a family. U can imagine when a group of people have been chatting since october 6th, and finally meet for the first time after 3mths of relating online! There were sparks in the air! Friendships were formed, relationships made and engagements announced. I tell u, it wasn't only the sound of jingle bells I was hearing! I cud hear the toll of wedding bells! Yay!
For those who are wondering, the whatsapp chat is the baby of this thread and is meant for serious 30plus ladies and gents who want to go to the next level. The chat is responsible, as secure as can be, and operates under a controlled environment of love, respect and fun. If u like what am doing on this thread, then u shd be a part of this chat.
I am glad to announce that in january, the whatsapp chat for 30plus and single is officially entering Season 2.
For all those who asked to be added and were told to hold on till Season 1 wrapped up with this gtg, I thank u for ur patience. I'll be sending u a msg this week.
If ur single and searching, if ur tired of trial and error online, if uve been hurt too many times, or fallen into the hands of 'one chance babes/dudes', if u just want to meet that serious guy/girl and ur 30+ hit me up on 08180632132.
Note: I've had requests from 19yr olds. I've had requests from married men who are looking for 'friends with/out benefits'. Pls, before u apply, scroll up and read again. Like I always say, if ur panda, don't shop for gold. They just don't mix! Phone line is open. Send me a txt, whatsapp or call, and I'll add u!
Have a good week ahead! Muahhh

A lot of us couldn't make it but from the pics I saw I most certainly will not miss the next one,Siamia dhl my cake o lol

The human brain is truly amazing, wow truly some people are hopelessly stupid and their foolishness is outa this world and beyond redemption..anyway if you think about it,fools make life kinda interesting as they keep us entertained with their stupidity..what an embarrassment to the male species tho..smh

DAVIYJONESS:
you know nigerian girls she will probably deny or promise not to see the guy again.

Lol..@Nigerian girls,ur right sha most of them want to eat their cake and have it,they don't seem to understand than when a man becomes a jerk its cos they pushed him to the wall..anyway that's y u have to make urself CLEAR to her and if u still catch her cheating then u give her the boot mate..

DAVIYJONESS:
I want to marry her I've met her parents how else do I prove?

Then u need to av that talk with her and let her know that u are aware of the other guy and tell her to focus or u move on,if she is someone u think u can spend the rest of ur life with then u should be able to voice ur concerns freely..goodluck