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Wow..so u mean with all these shows and notice me u do up and down u are this ignorant and clueless?hmm sha I can't really say I am disappointed tho,but instead of all this time u waste putting up senseless shows online y don't u use it to do more research and broaden ur horizons,therz nothing sexier than a beautiful woman who is smart and well informed.

lwtmb..op funny die..ehnn as u de play try romance am carry hand go down there to confirm the package..e be like u are not as bad and sharp as u think o..no time to dull

dovelike:
Why the PM?

Smh..women ehnn ..man no toast u ul say y don't u have toasters, something is wrong and all,now a guy sent u PM and this ,to u is the best way of handling it?plss next time go about it in a more mature way,u think u embarrassed him?last I checked men are supposed to go after ladies and whether or not she answers him life goes on,but now ur actions just gave people a very bad impression about u,my 2cents,u better change that attitude if u don't want to be single at 50..a word is enuf for the wise.

Smellymouth:
Moral of the story

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1. Never vouch for a woman,especially when money and emotions are involved and u have not done proper investigation because in the end u will be so disappointed.

2. I have a new found respect for Ghanaian girls,imagine this small babe causing wahala everywhere and making two strong contenders fight and make fools of themselves in public eye,all these Nigerian babes no be una mate she be?all the way from Ghana she draw two strong nigerian men and u girs will be here forming hot and hard to get abi?keep it up and watch other women take all ur men away,make una follow her go collect the same jazz from Ghana way she de use lol(kidding)

3. If u have an issue with ur spouse about infidelity, take it out with ur spouse instead of the other guy or girl like ice price foolishly is doing with the akin guy,after all akin saw a girl he liked and went after her just like every man would do including ice prince himself,so the dude should man up and trash the issue with his girl and forget the akin guy,the only exception is if ur so called gf clearly tells him off and he resorts to threats and violence to intimidate her when toasting her,then and only then is it ok to fight him,but in ice prince's case,his gf obviously was enjoying the mr Akins company.Guy wise up.

4. U can't eat ur cake and have it,especially for the females cos I can't understand why she would not stay put with ice prince when its not like he is not giving her what she needs and wants,smh..greed has a way of f*cking things up,pls be contented with what u av especially if u know others will kill to have what u have.

5. What can I say,MONEY is good,money talks,bullsh*t works right?this is what money can do,imagine akins wife and family members didn't even come out publicly to say anything or condemn the dude cos he throws money at them anyhow,and of course its the same money that is drawing ice prince's gf to the man. Yeah they say money is the root of all evil but I say I'd rather plan evil in my range rover than on a bicycle.. Get rich everything else will follow,even oxygen go the blow ur face pass other people's.

Finally of a truth love is sweet and no doubt it is good to love and be loved,but these days,we make it impossible for people to love us,just imagine the heart break the young man will be going through after all the gf bragging, but love now has become survival of the fittest btwn both spouses so it will be in ur best interest to not just love with ur heart alone,but use ur head too so u survive the game..never hate the player but hate the game.
Pls add urs too.

HateU2:
You get it wrong. Visit www.naijajournals.com to read definitions of feminism

Dictionary definition of a feminist is A person who supports the equality of women with men.
while feminism is A social theory or political movement supporting the equality of both sexes in all aspects of public and private life; specifically, a theory or movement that argues that legal and SOCIAL restrictions on females must be removed in order to bring about such equality.
Every religion clearly makes it known that women are not equal to men,women are help mates,u shouldn't be dragging shoulders with a man,anyway I believe u are an adult so what works for u is fine, u know what is good for u and what is not..like I said b4,I am a strong advocate for women empowerments but am against feminism..a man can say he went to pay for sex with a prostitute but a woman can't dare try it,that's just how the world works,its natural..its just like asking men to get pregnant or wear makeup and move around with a mirror..even u self go look that kind man with disgust and think he is abnormal.. hmm this babe see as u de make me preah plenty lol..u better follow ur culture and what ur mum taught u o

HateU2:
Yes, I'm a feminist but what's your definition of feminism? I like your mature approach to that.

Well for me and a lot of others,when we hear feminism what comes to mind is a woman who believes she is an Alfa male and lives her life with little or no interference or influence at all from the male specie,and doesn't believe women should be submissive in nature to any man,hmm so if truly u r a feminist then u are looking for trouble, cos even if u don't regard any man,then at least u should regard ur husband,that of course is if u value ur relationship cos my dear no man wants to keep a woman in the house that will challenge his every move,cos that's what feminists do. Personally I believe in women empowerment and all that but feminism is a different ball game.

StrawberryCream:
Excatly its like men
Should now carry hate campaigns because they cant have kids ... Tney Should cool off n focus on theirselves instead of worry their lil brains about what guys are doing wrong if we women start to change n focus on more important issue , indirectly men would change too ..

Wow there's nothing sexier than a woman with brains that work..I wish we had more women like u babe, just marry me shikena..

HateU2:
My bro, I'm telling you. It will soon get to that point where ladies will wake up, work for their money, get s3x toys, buy sperm nd take care of kids. Some ladies are living single even thou they are married. You need to read stories of married peeps and what they are going through emotionally but they have to stay bcox of kids.

Are u a feminist?.. look that's how the world works,its like saying the moon should shine and share daytime with the sun..a man is wired differently from a woman,each species with its uniqueness and character, even if u make 1million threads it won't change anything, live ur life and do ur part,it has always bin like that b4 u were born and will continue after ur long gone,if any woman wants to buy sperm or sex dolls or live without men then by all means she is free to but it only affects her and doesn't change anything men will always find women that enjoy life as women and life goes on,If u want to do things cos u feel women should be allowed to do things like men then get ready to be alone at 50.

yinkeys:
Bros love ke, Even Ice Prince & Chris Brown got dumped because they gave their all to one babe that's why. I think you need to study maybe J. Cole & Jay Z's love life. How do you think they are able to control their women despite them cheating. It's a mans world & women just aren't attracted to emotional men.

Gbam..seconded and thirded kwa..imagine a guy working in shell na I'm one small girl the use play anyhow,.SCANTEE u better don't allow one small pikin dictate ur happiness o..ur a great catch for women far better than her..u need to be strong and MAN up,beautiful women ARE NOT in short supply yet biko..

scantee:
ya bro for the past 2yrs i was a dream wife that i trusted her wholeheartdly, even guys jealous of me and kals me lucky guy, everybody have good testimonies about her, i even quarrel/fight any of my guy ever bring up issue of my gal could be cheating, because her atitude was a dream for the past 2yrs, believe me i can take an oath 4 her then that she can never have the thought talk more of cheating, my entire family calls her princess, even her mum said is the only of her daughter she can voch for, her friends always like hail me then if i use jazz on her that all she thinks of in sch is me alone, she kals me even when lecture is on just to hear my voice, everything was ok, for the past 2yrs, she even chat with my ex on fb several times, who always assure her she regrets what she did during Nysc that made me to do away with her...u see all these made me love her unconditional.

Wow I understand sha...but over the years I have come to realise that women are the same everywhere o,they get bored with nice..they like mystery and if u become too predictable and she can tell what u can do then I can assure u her eyes will wonder off..u have to be strong to keep a woman o,and being strong means ignoring somethings that love would make u do normally, once a woman is comfortable that she has a grip on u then ur in trouble,I am sure she felt u were desperate to wife her and ur not going anywhere.. next time let a woman know that u can find someone to replace her any time..good luck bro

scantee:
ya the signs are there, but she hardly admitd she feel less about me now, she kept re-assuring me she loves me but get confused @ times and want to be left alone without thinking about anybody...but the SIGNS are getting more obvious

Lol..bro now love na survival of the fittest o,ur too soft and mushy..that doesn't help a man in marriage let alone relationship,havnt u heard stories of working class guys not wanting to date students cos of issues like these?u should av had it at the back of ur mind that shit could happen to u too so y did u put ur whole heart into it?smh people will never heed the warnings signs and then latter complain..sha the damage is done already so man up and move on,they say the best way to get over someone is to get under another so find a rebound chick ASAP and when u eventually get into another relationship, use ur head too not just ur heart,and please try to stay away from student girlfriends,its very rare to be lucky and find a good student girlfriend, this h oes aint loyal bro..girls make it sooo difficult for guys to love them these days,now who will blame this dude if he decides to become a bad player cos of this bad experience??like I said bro survival of the fittest

Hadez:
This is wrong sis.

lol..u are new on naira land so u don't know who u are trying to advice.. b4 u advice next time go check out their profile,this person ur advising is a notorious troll and a regular crazy so don't waste ur time,some people are beyond redemption

Hadez:
Just got back from class. So bored rate my pix from one to 10

Nice hair..the blue gown is nice too,wish I could get the exact for my gf.

saintloveren:
she is famous in romance session 4 her boobs is now an acheivement right?

[rotfl..

bloodyBLOGGER:
Can you marry a girl still in the university?

Okay, so I was having a discussion with a colleague when he told me about a girl he saw a day ago. He spoke of her awesome beauty as he said he won't hesitate to get her pregnant if he should get the chance to date her. His aim is to prevent prying eyes from snatching her as the pregnancy will keep them off. This was just a 200level girl in the university. He said if she doesn't agree to have sex without condom, then he will marry her while she's still schooling.

We spoke further in which I reminded him of the problem of being married but living single which are cooking meals yourself, feeling cold with no one to warm you etc and the dangers of having your young wife in a campus surrounded by the entities in the list below:

muscular guys
Handsome baby faces
Yahoo boys(I hail o!)
Mr lecturer
Sugar daddies

Can you still go ahead to marry that campus girl you so much love?

Capital NO..I know what I saw when I was in school and that was yearz ago,its way worse now..I just can't except she has something huge to offer besides looks and love..(plenty money(PLENTY O).)dazall..

Melsan:
Hmmmmm

[Hi..happy sunday

petkruz:
Well this whole drama started 2yrs ago when we both moved into this new beautiful house.Initially his girlfriend comes from portharcourt to spend a month,she was always around. I never visited them,we just greeted from afar maybe weekends when they finally see my face due to my Job. Before I forget,i was still single and minding my business.

After some months I noticed his girlfriend wasn't coming around,even when she did they quarrelled through out her stay! Then again it wasn't my business. After sometime she collected my number and said she would like to discuss somethings with me. 2days later she called.

To cut the long story short she told me that my neighbour has decided to end the relationship because she's too fat and didn't have a job. I was confused because these 2 were so much inlove few months ago. I now noticed he was coming close to me! We normally contribute money for our prepaid, security man and maintenance guy,he stopped collecting money from me! When I asked he said he has paid,when I give him my share of the money, he rejects it.

Now my boyfriend comes weekends,he doesn't greet him,even when my bf hails him, he answers reluctantly! He then puts off all his electronics hoping to hear moanings and ends up disappointed. If I pack my bag for the weekend,he jumps out of his flat to stylishly ask if i'm going to the mainland or my aunty's house in Oniru. I usually give him same reply "i'm going to Aguda to see my bobo" He then offers to drop me off at the bus stop which I always turn down.

I'v never seen him with any lady, neither has any lady come to the house to visit,he's always alone.Even when I encourage him to start dating again,he usually says Slim, hardworking independent ladies are hard to find. My rent expires December dis year, what do you all think I should do to make this man look somewhere else because he's only wasting his time hoping that one day i'd look his direction.

PS: He's 13years older than me(got that info from his Ex) we live in separate flats and have a lot of boundaries! He has never visited me neither have I entered his house. Matured comments please!!!

Chai guys don suffer,u by urself without any word or pas from him concluded all in ur head?every lil friendly gesture a man makes u people will either say, "he likes me,'or 'he is toasting me'smh..plss wait till he actually says something b4 u start feeling like Kim kardashian cos e be like say na u de attracted to the guy and ur in denial..hmmm girls bin deceiving themselves since b4 adam

Strahovski:
I don't know where to post but since this is my active section I post here. So mods please move to correct section.

Today someone post about our excuse for our sins if God suddenly comes. That thread made me remember my greatest sin. Like I mentioned on that thread. I have not committed adultery as I'm the most faithful of all time. Neither have I stolen or fornicated. My only sin is a LIE I told to save my friend.

Flashback!!! My friend did something. He actually did it. He raped a 12 year old orphan girl and in our place it's death sentence for a man to rape a woman let alone 12 year old. He was drunk. We went to this party and he drank too much. Both of us were walking to our car so I drive him home then we saw this little girl. Even at 12 she looked 21 so perhaps my friend in his drunkenness over the wine got carried away and went after her. I tried to stop him but u could not. Right he front of me be hurt the little girl and someone caught him ad called it in.

We were both arrested. The person confirmed I was innocent that it's my friend who did it. But my father once worked in the Navy before retirement into private business, so alot of the police and law officials in our town know me very well. So they said I should give testimony in court of what i saw. I looked at my friend this is friend since childhood. This is friend that taught me how to use the swing. This is friend who taught me how to write my first code of programming to which I'm I'm a veteran now in programming. I cannot just throw him out the window. Then I said to my said elf "The devil you know is better than the angel you do not know"

I told the court the woman who saw us lied!!! That it was another man (actually her fiancé) who was with her that committed the crime and she want to protect hin. I said it with authority and confidence even I believed it to be true.

And like I said my father has reputation in the law enforcement so the judge said that based on the reputation of my father n the country (a navy chief) my words do hold water and the court will take it as true. Another lady (my wife now) backed me up. Perhaps she liked me. Said she was also there. That it wasn't my friend.

Long story short, the innocent man who was to marry his woman faced the death sentence just because i lied to protect my friend. My wife lied too (to support me) but she is fine with it. I was even discussing this with hr this morning that I'm feeling guilty now. She said I should forget it that people die everyday. That sometimes people have to be sacrificed to save another. She is just cool like it's nothing but I keep seeing flashes of the woman when she cried and her fiancé was taken away for what he did not do. It's driving me crazy

Please nairaland what do you think is the right thing I do?

No jokes here this is serious.

Thanks

what terrible dilemma.. u should av said someone else who escaped not an innocent man that had nothing to do with it..hmm I hope u know karma is a b itch and that's guys blood will be on ur hands?ur even lucky ur still alive,hmm his relations might come after ur life too so brace urself..be careful with that ur wife too,I know she loves u that's y but her saying people die everyday just like that means shez cold hearted and can seriously hurt u when things go sour btwn u two.goodluck

Mercedes65:
Hello nairaland. I am a 23yr old lady seeking for a way to overcome my shyness and get views on how people deal with different personalities. Last week i was sent on a quick errand to a shop close to my apartment, after purchasing what i came for, the shop owner told me i needed to change the way i treat people and stop being a snob. She proceeded to say that the last time i came to her shop, i just came down from my car and didn't greet anybody despite seeing a lot of people there . I became sad because this was not the first time i was getting judged unfairly, it is upsetting that people think i am a snob and arrogant while in reality i am shy and awkward; i like to think that i am a warm, peaceful person and being rude is the last thing I'd want to be intentionally doing if i could help it. .....i have never been lucky with friends so i fly solo most times

I wish i could walk into a room without attracting attention but no, people always look at me and i get panic attacks and end up behaving awkwardly and silly , being seen as a spoilt brat doesn't help either, if Miss A forgets to say hi its fine but when i do; oh my! she thinks she is a mini god.... It is funny that i see myself as nice but awkward person while others see me as a snob and a show off, i wish people understood shy people better and stop projecting their insecurities onto things that they don't understand, i wish people will learn to be nicer to other people instead of being so mean & ignorant

Gossips don't normally get to me but i am tired of getting; so you are nice i thought you were arrogant speech from people , how do i cope with dis issue without losing myself ?

Hmm I can relate to your feelings.. you know humans use looks to judge,I just learnt to ignore most times but sometimes u av to go out of ur comfort zone cos the truth is peoples impression about u matters sometimes,it could either help with getting favours or not so put up a smile and try more to just say hello,it helps a great deal..make more friends too online and meet the good ones in person so u can develop ur social skills OK,ul be fine,Most times those that matter don't judge,its those that don't matter who judge..life is too short not to make the best of every moment..goodluck

kateskitty:
Oh dearie me, I don't know how to send you the glasses. Don't be heart broken

Well I could suggests another way for u to go about it but am not sure if it might be exactly possible, we might need to seek a second opinion from a small professor, profs are supposed to be smart so am sure with a help of one something will come up..but in the mean time, think about it over the night too and by tomorrow if u still cant find a way to send it then u and i will av to consult our small professor seating in that oversized chair.. lol,.av seen parts of how to get away with murder but was never really following.. so who exactly should I learn from?analeas or that black boy?

kateskitty:
I don't have any ticket to give away, I made my own way here. As for being on fire, I'm flattered

No ticket to give out?what about my glasses?I just checked my messages and didn't see the glasses in any of them..I am so heart broken,that's two hearts ur breaking in one night,..btw anyone who is on fire is definitely above average in the looks department so,am just saying the truth and not trying to flatter u

kateskitty:
Anyway that guy asked for it, I gave him options and he choose to be friendzoned. Like literally isn't that the worst option to choose?

hahahaha u gave him the option of bin friend zoned or opt out,he'd rather be friend zoned than nothing which was the second option on the table..anyway dude wants to get d next ticket available to ur location,ur on fire babe [

kateskitty:
Who said anything about a reward
BTW someone said and I quote "I'm even average looking and not that pretty" I wonder why he should go to that level of trying to dis someone he doesn't even know

Lol..I was hoping id get one for saying what u said u were waiting to hear from guys even tho i know u were been sarcastic.. don't worry just send your glasses to my inbox,its a good enough reward..anyway u know guys don't like when girls act or sound arrogant,so am guessing ur friendzoning the other guy made him think of u that way,this is the internet, u should let stuff like that get 2u..some girl here said I was ugly as hell too some time ago cos I didn't av likes on my pics,I laughed about it,u should too,besides u and i know u are not ugly so forget about it and av fun,everyone is entitled to their opinion but it doesn't in anyway change the reality of anything.look in the mirror, u r beautiful

kateskitty:
Got my attention

Your geeky look with the glasses and I av got this idea that u are kinda petit too..smh so that's what got ur attention? lol,anyway still waiting for my reward tho

kateskitty:
I once heard a guy say some women are like fine wine, the older they get, the better they are. Waiting for them to come and say the wider, the better

The wider the better..OK I just said it,what do I get as reward lol?u looking like a small professor

ebrochukwu:
For where you see we won for ticket, you go show me if your name dey the ticket

lwtmb..guy u de vex o

Smh..stupidity at its peak

Hmm kanu shouldn't have come to nija in the first place with all the heat on him,the way things are going If he makes it out alive he should consider himself real lucky,definitely some of those security personnel would be plotting his death for sure,too bad

Hmm I know how u feel,experienced something close to that b4,u self get mind o to still sleep for same bed with am,mehn u could get drugged,I'll advice u to move out and warn the guy with all seriousness and tell him if he doesn't stop telling u crap ul expose his gay ass..its annoying thinking y a guy would be attracted to u,smh,guy give urself plenty brain.

Evathyst:
I've been observing some guys here with their Lady-bashing attitude. The likes of Tosyne2much, Emusmith, Tomfrench, Falconey and co. With their long epistles on '10 this, 10 that about ladies'.


So, I decided to post this price which I stumbled upon on facebook. Enjoy!



20 FACTS ABOUT NIGERIAN GUYS;
1. They can never love one lady.
2. They love sex more than anything.
3. They are very talented in lying to a lady.
4. They talk softly while conning ladies.
5. They are Heart breakers.
6. They can promise girls heaven on earth without fulfilling any.
7. They love we ladies before sex, after we do it with them, they hate us.

8. They fear pregnancy, but hate protected sex.
9. They are specialists in confusing girls.
10. 80% of conning boys are broke.
11. They're wicked.
12. Using and dumping girls is their hobby
13. They want to bear the title I'm the one that
disvirgined this girl.
14. Many of them are jobless.
15. A lot of them are pretenders.
16. Their 'I love you' means I want to have sex with you
17. Guys don't believe in relationship without sex.
18. All they want is sex. No sex, no dating.
19. They don't ve one girlfriend, on 2go or
facebook or whatsapp they'll keep asking any girl out.
20. Naija boys like sex pass their life.

TRUE OR FALSE


#All pun intended#

Cc:
Lalasticlala
Ishilove
Farano
Avicky
Estharfabian
Cutehector
Ritababe.

Funny u think this is peculiar with just nija guys..well its everywhere and not exactly everything on your list is true,who doesn't like sex?I have been in relationships where the girls cry when they get h orny and I am not in the mood, so its not just guys that love sex my dear,u guys are just as guilty of the crime..by the way a lot of us love money than sex