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harriet412:
ermm, I quoted u a long time , can't even remember why I did ...So why are u just replying now.... what picture sef

I have not used this account in months so I just saw the mentions hence the late reply sorry ..Am i forgiven?

omoharry:
ouch!! that was harsh.

Lol was just trying to be honest and not mean

harriet412:
torqque7

Do you have a picture of it to show me

harriet412:
They're talking prison, u talking Jonathan..Do u have sense at all

Bhahahahaha ;DCome Let me wash your mouth with soap..Savage

People be deceiving themselves up and down, who in His right Mind would pick an overused car to a brand-new tear leather car? Same with female virginity. Il pick a Virgin for a wife any day anytime.

Doesn't mean a Non virgin can't make a good wife tho,she can be managed but a Virgin Will always be my number one choice. Advice for Virgins be smart dnt listen to those saying virginity is overrated because its only jealous females who lost theirs that say things like that. Keep yourself for the right man your husband and stay away from relationships with young boys who clearly have no marriage in their plans for the nearest future,so date only guys who are mature and comfortable enough to get married.

But this applies to men most times, Because most females would prefer a Non virgin male for a partner because she wouldn't want to be the one to teach him how to make her feel good. Women naturally are followers not leaders so she would rather follow your lead in the sheets than have you following her.

Ode

Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

First of all how long have you guys dated? You should have picked little red flags that he isn't mature, probably he gossips and shares too much with you and talks anyhow. Or maybe you were his side chick cos no reasonable guy will discuss his sex life with a girl he truly loves and respects with any friend, because his friend will disrespect his girl and no reasonable man will want anyone to disrespect his girl.

Anyway I am not going to try to convince you to change your mind about the way you view men now, on the contrary, you can even think all men dine with the devil, that's fine and your opinion but it doesn't make it true..but NOT ALL MEN ARE SCUM just like not all women are sluts and manipulative. Good luck tho

OMEGA009:
I wouldn’t be surprised if this girl is chopping Davido’s father while the borrow-poser is swooning over her like a love sick pup

Lol..its possible, I just hope it doesn't end badly for him.

williams969:
babe na for uni oo, its my first experience with such man killer, infact am grateful i survived, i don fear una kind ever since, i cant come and die and bury myself ooo!!
Even my friends then reduced drastically, as if a plague struck, no one wants to visit.

I cant help but imagine, what if i used to cheat and she caught me? Hmmm, its better left unimagined.

Forget maniless oo, the more you hit her, the more stronger she becomes and chance that she can attack when you least expect are tremendously high!!!

Hmm we are waiting for the thread about your experience o...I have experienced something similar,every guy calling u names wont understand until they experience same..manly kor,u want to destroy ur life be that because its either u kill her or she kills u if u decide u want to be manly about it with a mad woman..

Denko2721987:
I would love something like this but i dont trust this link.. Can u confirm its authenticity dont wanna get slammed by some trojan virus or ransomeware??

I got on it and no virus so far and none that I know of bro

Hmm I wonder if they have sex and how they know how to go about it..

Lies...where then will you keep Kenyan and S. A women?fake stats

davidif:
Typical nsija mentality. No matter what a perpetrator does to a victim you must always find a way to blame the victim. As if it's not possible to be so deceitful as to hide things from people you love.

For every action,there is a reaction and that is what she got for her carelessness...how can u joke with something like HIV?even if it where his friend who told her to ask him,that is enough for her to become Usain bolt let alone the mother of the guy..Adam was careless and got humanity into this mess so it's always that carelessness that puts people in trouble.. I still say it, I don't feel sorry for her 1BIT

Abegi make we hear word..his mum told you to ask him about HIV and that didn't seem like a red flag to you?yet you went ahead to marry him and now complaining

Inanna:
And when we say men are scum, you'd see them foaming in the mouth like deranged, rabid wolves.
Imagine the sheer effrontery of the so called side chick. I really do not blame her. It's the useless dog of a man that debased himself and made a mockery of his marriage by chasing after her that gave her such guts. This is highly revolting!
Nigerian(some) men aren't worth my dog's shît. And to think that some of them brazenly justify cheating just makes me lose hope the more. What a generation of perverse and hopeless men!

Oya sorry no vex..come and seat on my lap let me feed u strawberries and icecream so u can calm down a bit.

Yeah a lot of men are scumbags but not everyman,the thing is maybe the wife let herself go and stopped looking sexy or she isn't giving him enough sex..Truth is men love sex so if you deprive him of it ,he will look somewhere..To be fair women also cheat,imagine a married woman screwing her husbands driver..so the thing is not about gender it's just basically personality,a cheat will cheat if he or she wants to but there are still good people out there u know.

Khallyella:
Sorry dear, I can't be reached via pm

Oh wow..and why is that?or you don't reply pms you mean? ok it's cool,anyway I trust your weekend has been awesome so far?enjoy your day miss take care.

Khallyella:
Thanks hun

You welcome miss..I'm curious tho about a few things,anyway can I dm u if u don't mind?

Khallyella:
I'd love to date a normal hustling guy, once I know you're into yahoo, I'm gone

Some may not let you know until you are deep in love,the money would have blinded and confused her by the time she'd realise it'll be late..Nice nose ring btw

TheAngry1:
Who be Charles ogbu? This stupid article is been celebrated by Igbos...wow! How low can a people get? Nnamdi Kanu lived and worked in the UK but still wasn't made Prime Minister....he is a classic example of a slave. Igbos are the most pathetic people on earth.

I'm so baffled at the way they are so happy with this stupid article by the Charles guy,smh so pathetic..Joe is a millionaire and happy with his life and they who are not even close to him in anyway are also calling him a slave?can you imagine? ha if that is what a slave is then I'll gladly be a slave and become very successful in life.
Sometimes I really wonder if people use the brain God gave them,anyone who tells them the truth the tag an enemy lol really pathetic I must say.

tspun:
shut the fuvk up pedro... I am above what I gave her. I can't apologize to her she is the one begging. I know u are a thief just like her believed me one day you will get caught and you won't be as lucky as she was.

Just ignore that guy..obviously he is not OK upstairs so he doesn't even worth a reply..sha personally I can't spend another sec with a girl if she steals from me..where is the trust?if she can steal from you then trust me she can cheat on you and even betray you..thank your God you found out early.

Bestie0309:
Can I give you my number so that u can send it tru whatsapp or better still can u give me the download link

How much will you pay me to send it to you in this recession?? I have the remix,the mixre and any other version you may want

Benita27:
I've never wooed a man so spare me the "Change your circle" mantra. Have got none to change, and what I stated is fact which has nothing to do with maturity. Have you read "Why Men Love Bìtches?" by Sherry Argov. She also pointed out the implications of asking men out and this is a best seller.

Really?so you are telling me (a guy) that you know men because you read a book about men written by a woman?lol really?smh anyway like I said before change from boys to men

Benita27:
No sane girl should ever try that. If they eventually date it's out of pity or the guy probably wants to use the opportunity and get fùcks given for free. In most cases, there's a serious date and you won't be taken seriously.

Second of all, girls in such relationships usually have doubts if the guys even have an atom of love for them when feelings are not overtly reciprocated. It's best to be on the safer side.

Start meeting grown up men who are mature and stop hanging with little boys,when you eventually change your class of men then this your opinion will change. A grown man knows it takes guts for a woman to tell him she wants him and he will respect that and her...I can't say the same for little boys