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united442:
Good-day landers in house.
sorry for the lengthy and a bit boring story. but....
Please i need your help, strong and sincere advise.
am emotionally heart broken, scared and seriously depress at what is happening in my relationship now.
have been dating my girlfriend for about 5years now, we both love each other so much.

cutting d story short.

we both attend the same institution,while am in my finale,she's in a par-time program,200l to be precise. while she's currently in school attending lectures for some time now,am preparing for resumption due to the ASUU strike.

Of recent, she has been changing her attitude and character towards me to something else i really do not understand. all this started when i couldn't pick her calls because i was seriously unhappy with her recent i dont care attitude. recently i noticed she hardly pick my calls,takes about 1hour before replying my whatsapp text, sometimes blaming me for any failed plans or agreement,hardly apologize when she's knows that she is 101% wrong, even when i try to caution or correct her on this,she takes it personal,pretend she don't care and i will end up apologizing for both what i did and did not do,recently always taking advantage on my feelings for her cause she knows i love her so much.

of recent, have been generating this mindset that things between us isn't normal,have been worried and scared cause i love her so much and i don't want to loose her. so i had to text her yesterday that i don't like what's happening between us, i don't feel good or comfortable and this her recent attitude is not normal, i had to apologize and apologize both for what i may have done in the past, present and had to even apologize for my wrongs in future if actually it has anything to do with me..i told her all my feeling about her and that i cant bare the pains of loosing her.

she told me nothing has change between us and that i am her first love and she still love me..she keeps on telling me this anytime i try to dig deep on what is bothering her.

i was very scared, worried, bothered, and heart broken when she ask me if i still remembered a guy she told me about that lived very close to her elder sister's house, a friend of her elder sister's husband, i told her yes, and she told me this guy has been having feelings for her that this said guy has to tell her elder sister's husband that he is liking her.

i was so worried and scared cause this is my first love and i love her so much, and i myself knows she still loves me, at that moment,i dnt even bothered to ask more about the guy,i started expressing my feeling 2 her, that i dnt want to loose her,i love her so much and wants 2 have a future with her, i just keep saying things i really cant remember and alots of promises i made, telling and pleading to her not to hurt me with all this.

i try to ask her about her feelings and her own side of the story, she wouldn't say cause she said i overreacted when she told me,i told her i was only scared of loosing her and she keeps on telling me that she still love me and that nothing has change between us. told me not to think much about it that she is still with me..

please landers in the house especially the females, please i need your advise, please, i really dnt know if i should be patient with her or my days with her are numbered...please no matter how short,lengthy and hurtful it is, please i need your MATURED advise!!..

Thanks!

PATHETIC you such a weakling

gloria34:
He has always been cool so i assumed it will always be so, truely i'm at fault

The guy has time to waste o no offence,I dnt have that patience sha,if I notice you dnt let me touch you, trust me I'm done with you,il drop you faster than hot garbage and move to the next girl better than you.

You are not a virgin and you now want to be doing rubbish with me lol,nahh..the worst part if you no come fine then sorry is your name.

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Amakavula:
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I think it's unnecessary to force a lady to change her name after marrige just to please her man especially it is a famous one; imagine Opera winfery or Kendell Jenner or Kardashians changing to a nobody just because of marriage

Well these women you just mentioned are world celebrities who are very wealthy so it's a totally different ball game,yeah Il even change my name to Oprah Winfrey if I was her husband and she asked me to, until I file for a divorce and take half of all she has,that ofcourse is if I don't love her tho,but if I love her then I'd stay.

But one broke nija girl can't come and be dragging surname with me because I want to give her a ring.

Amakavula I hope you are not serious about thinking it's not a big deal like the girl who made the statement because I am bringing ring for you today so if you will drag surname with me just let me know now let me put my ring back in my pocket o

funmisticqueen:
No she isnt, and he slept with her for free. that is the only thing that made the girl mess up.

He slept with her for free? Are you kidding me?so in other words you are encouraging prostitution yeah?pay before f@ck right,shame.

hpretty:
Abuja

Abuja based too..il pm u

I don't feel sorry for her one bit,if you have an encounter with this animals called FRSC you will know why the lawyer lost his cool,this guys the corruption in their system is so terrible,they stop you and make you pay almost 30k just for using Google map on your phone even when you are parked on the side of the road,they do that because they have a commission from the money.

Mtcheeew weak men everywhere these days. You are the cause of your own problems, so many times life gave you the opportunity to be wise from a bad experience only for you to form lover boy and do something more stupid than the last. How can you trust women whole heartedly like that?you no de hear stories ni?

First of all it was just you and the girl staying together and therefore just you two knew where your documents were so if they got missing you should have suspected her and taken steps to investigate and then learn from the experience like everyone learns from a bad relationship.

As if that wasn't bad enough to keep you sharp in your next experience with a woman,still you decided to give your girl money to pay a guy to get you a degree while acting like you? have you ever heard that happen before?even if that were the case,why didn't you ask for the admission letter and even go to the school once in a while when you back on land to see the progress of stuff? You just kept sending money to your girl because na you sabi love pass and was forming boss, a normal guy self would suspect his girlfriend might be f.ucking the dude because she always supports all he says everytime, but you were too love stoned to think well.

You sent money for tv and electronics and it didn't occur to you for once to ask baby bring all the receipts let me keep because of police?smh..

You send money for land she show you land without papers and you swallow the bobo just like that? Bros you never hear say brothers the scam each other ontop land matter let alone woman wey you never even marry? You even told her to keep the papers? like who does that?when she isn't even your wife yet?Baba you too slow..

The nature.of your job self is suppose to keep you on edge with the thoughts that your girl might be bleeping another guy, you no know say ph girls no get joy abi?smh.

The only thing I can say wasn't your fault was your dad's death,you couldn't have known but still if you were a sharp guy you should have picked the signs when she made that statement that you will die like your dad. Your girlfriend opens her mouth to say something like that and you no code say na bad human being? yet you went back to her after the fight until you found out she scammed you with the other guy then your brain started working.

If you want to hate all Nigerian girls then it's fine,we love our nija girls because we know how to handle them and be a man in our relationships so not all are bad. Do you know what men have also done to some women? Wickedness is not associated with gender,because both male and female species have bad people so that is life,deal with it. They keep telling you guys good guys always loose yet you will not learn and will be doing good loving guy always and getting hurt every single time. Just see how women destroyed you just like that, Love with your heart and brain not just your heart alone. Too bad this has scarred you for life .

We all have had one or two bitter experiences before with women but I don't use one or two women's fu.ckups to judge all others, I just learn and get smarter not to repeat same mistakes in the next relationship. By the way women are the same all over the world just like men.

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Your opinions Still doesn't change anything and is so insignificant so get use men and all the scum that you have met and will meet. Ode

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
yawns. Gayest comment I ever seen.

Had to go check your profile after reading your comments..anyway so I discovered you in Abuja too can I pm you?

funmisticqueen:
Yeah, he's definitely gay. Now you know what it feels like when men think they are toasting a girl

It is NOT the same thing madam..being toasted by the opposite sex feels good but by same sex it feel disgusting,I know because I have experienced both so biko don't say now he knows what it feels like when men think they are toasting a girl,except that girl is a lesbian.

Look Op didn't force her to his room,and didn't force himself on her for sex,there was no struggle and it was hours latter when the effect of the drugs wore out so she is just feeling cheap and cheated but she knew exactly what she was doing, o.p is a weak ass letting her make him feel guilty and threatened..dude you did nothing wrong.

Alot of guys would still want to hit that ass including me,but taking it to a more serious level like a real relationship or marriage? Nahhh cos I can never see her as someone reasonable enough to get wifed..let me reiterate, il still gladly hit that ass but can never take her seriously.

Born2Breed:
Sex has cost her more than she could imagine.

RIP

Interesting Monika..wonder What inspired it lol

TrevorFitness:
Thank you, thank you


More input welcome. I enjoyed your suggestions. Initially when this conversation started, I was falling for Honda. A few comments later, i had reservations about it. I love your input on all the cars.

As for those thinking I am joking or not serious, I have uploaded my account here. I shaded some details for security reasons. I am quoting a doubting Thomas as reference

Lol I'm not sure that was necessary, if every multimillionaire here post their account balance I wonder how it will be. Number1 rule of the millionaires club,wealth can be flaunted but never account balance bro.

Daeylar:
Hope you kept this same energy with men when they complained about the same thing?
Isn't it the same nairaland where men regularly Complain that naija women are boring and can't carry a conversation.?
Did you give those men the same men are complicated speech?
Or it's only where women are that you find strength? mtchewwwww
She never complained about the guy not listening, her point is very easy to understand. Smh

How many times have you heard a man complain about a girl talking too much and then still saying she is boring to chat with? That rarely or never happens,it's either shez a talkative of which most men don't mind compared to being boring and aloof,so it's not the same thing here. Read what she wrote again carefully.

zinnyzee:
Lolz... Now that's a funny one.
I'm sure you didn't exactly concentrate on the sex videos you were watching. Parhaps you only sought to derive pleasure from them, not exactly learning a thing.


Pornhub videos are damn helpful.

Interesting signature you have there lol..but I am a bit confused tho..

By the way im not sure you need alot of concentration when watching porn in order to learn a few tricks,you just watch it and see what was done and do it when the time comes for that. Don't know about others tho but that's how it works for me.

Shugavee:
My biggest turn off is a guy listening to me with out contributing, some guys think it’s cute, but its not, u wanna know a lot about me but u don’t wanna talk about you? As soon as I notice, I either lie abt myself or keep quiet n let our friendship die a natural death

Ha women are very complicated. If a guy talks, you will say he talks too much, now he listened to what you wanted to say and it has now become an issue?Choi smh

mirexxx:
body n mouth odor, talking too much and gossiping like a woman, when a man is emotionally insensitive to me, turns me d'hell off! i might hate u sef!

Emotionally insensitive to you? How please? Pray tell

harriet412:
I didn't read that

I'm fine, how you?, how was ur day?

Oh I'm ok..can I pm u?

harriet412:
Lol, u are..
So what picture were u talking about.

..The picture of the man's testicle na, so that il know what mine looks like�..So How are you today?

harriet412:
ermm, I quoted u a long time , can't even remember why I did ...So why are u just replying now.... what picture sef

I have not used this account in months so I just saw the mentions hence the late reply sorry ..Am i forgiven?

omoharry:
ouch!! that was harsh.

Lol was just trying to be honest and not mean

harriet412:
torqque7

Do you have a picture of it to show me

harriet412:
They're talking prison, u talking Jonathan..Do u have sense at all

Bhahahahaha ;DCome Let me wash your mouth with soap..Savage

People be deceiving themselves up and down, who in His right Mind would pick an overused car to a brand-new tear leather car? Same with female virginity. Il pick a Virgin for a wife any day anytime.

Doesn't mean a Non virgin can't make a good wife tho,she can be managed but a Virgin Will always be my number one choice. Advice for Virgins be smart dnt listen to those saying virginity is overrated because its only jealous females who lost theirs that say things like that. Keep yourself for the right man your husband and stay away from relationships with young boys who clearly have no marriage in their plans for the nearest future,so date only guys who are mature and comfortable enough to get married.

But this applies to men most times, Because most females would prefer a Non virgin male for a partner because she wouldn't want to be the one to teach him how to make her feel good. Women naturally are followers not leaders so she would rather follow your lead in the sheets than have you following her.