Omudia11:
Eternal fool.

Nchetttaa:


Welcome to my world.. I have not being intimate with any guy for 2 years now.. That's because I don't trust them..

gloria34:
Thats d problem, i see him as a partner. Someone i'm Comfortable talking to, have fun etc but then, i Dont have any romantic feelings towards him

blackgold2018:
You are really CONFUSED and sound stupid with this you said. The same stupidity probably made you a single mother.

victorian:










God bless you!

You will live long!

Amen.


Men of these days are crap, all they think about is sex. Always in a hurry to fuccck!

Gloria34, you are not weird, there is nothing wrong with you. The only thing is cut him loose if he's not ready to be patient. I hate impatient guys.

zenith4biz:
We are pencil in the hand of the creator

bamidelee:

how did you come about your son sef? outside wedlock? Why don't you settle down in marriage once instead of tasting different man and you'll be fine.
I dislike courtship in totality

Rulina:
Gloria, I think you need to take some time to evaluate the relationship. Decide on what you want and why you do not want to be touched. I feel it is a defensive mechanism your body has developed as a result of your child before wedlock. If the guy is being too forward, have a heart to heart discussion with him (that is, after you have decided on what you want). If he loves you, he would understand and take it slowly with you. You need to work on yourself too. The guy might be someone who just likes body contact and no sex . it depends on his love language.

gloria34:
I am one confused being right now, sometimes i feel d relationship thing is not 4 me, its not just him

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months.

I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc.

The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so.

Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

gloria34:
He has always been cool so i assumed it will always be so, truely i'm at fault

sassysure:
No wonder many marriages don't last these days.

The girl did nothing wrong.

And maybe we don't know the meaning of courtship any longer.
What we have today is sexual relationships that leads no where.

Sexual attraction doesn't hold a relationship.
For most girls, it takes a long time to build strong attachment for body intimacy up. They have to study u for months. A guy that has already fallen for you will wait and give you more time.

If I'm this babe, that comment from him has already disqualified him even if I have fallen for him.
That's a big red flag. What he want is sexual relationship and is restless you aren't reciprocating. Some times deprive the person of ur presence. There are many ways to break a girl.
Everything isn't about sex.
Maybe you guys will have to go and learn how to woo a girl silently. You send signals without violating her space unexpectedly and see her caving in.
Also some don't know how her previous relationship was.
She is definitely attracted to him but is not yet settled in her mind and then the guy is destroying the fantasy she is forming in her mind(without knowing it).
And pls can you all stop with the gifts?
I will eye a guy that wanna spoil me with gifts at our initial dates with side eye as he isn't to be trusted. He is definitely after something.
Oh well, what do I know, girls use that to define a good man