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 Romance › Re: My Fiance Just Called Of Our Engagement After Four Years by tosomaju(m): 6:28pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Look at it this way; He just lost someone that still love him. You lost someone that no longer love u. Who loose? Cheer up girl, it's better now than when he marry u. Most times the first are not the best.....if he don't go, how will the best come? No man deserve ur tears, and u deserve better man than him. 2 Likes |
| Education › Re: 7 Nigerian Varsities Emerge For World Bank Sponsored Projects by tosomaju(m): 2:58pm On Nov 22, 2013 |
this thread is not about ui vs funaab. u guys can create another thread for that.. u dey waste ur mb over one school wen no care weda u grow white bear bear for house i sorry for una condition 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: by tosomaju(m): 10:41am On Nov 19, 2013 |
If not for any reason, but for transparency purpose. I need to know why my last post was hidden. U can't just hide post because u feel like hiding it. |
| Romance › Re: Somali Man, '112' With 5 Wives, Weds Girl, 17 by tosomaju(m): 10:12am On Nov 19, 2013 |
This has gone beyond child abuse, this is child insult. Who allowed that girl to marry her ancestor?  |
| Family › Re: My Wife Says She Deserves"thank U" After Sex - Can U Say That? by tosomaju(m): 8:29pm On Nov 18, 2013 |
I think the op use to say thank u after sex but have stopped. and she has gotten used to it. i also think the op always beg his wife for sex instead of stimulating the mood, and it is natural & ethical to say thank u after begging for something and u are given i also think that the op is a 2minutes type of guy and doesnt contribute much in the act of s*x. lastly i think that the op should not just say thank u but should also add "god bless where that pleasure came from, it wont run dry" |
| Celebrities › Is Nollywood Actress Ngozi Ezeonu Sick Too? She Loses Weight Drastically (photos by tosomaju(op): 3:58pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Nollywood actress, Ngozi Ezeonu who beforehand possessed a more robust stature, was lately spotted with a feather-weight which got many mouths opened. Months back, supporters have noticed her new appearance after she starred in a current flick that exposed her new look. Her look at the premiere of ‘Briefcase’ at Odeon Cinema disclosed that the favorite Nollywood starlet has shed more than half her normal weight . What is your thought? Is she too slim or is she good-looking like this? See Photos:
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| Romance › Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date ‘nice Guys’ by tosomaju(op): 3:51pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Eobiabo: Nice piece, permission to copy and pastepermission granted |
| Romance › 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date ‘nice Guys’ by tosomaju(op): 3:08pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
If you are a guy reading this, you have probably noticed that, instead of opting for a nice and calm partner who would treat her right (you), the girl usually chooses a ‘bad boy’. If you are a girl, then you probably are wondering why you are attracted to and end up with a man who treats you badly. We’ve tried to come up with sensible reasons why this happens, but you are very welcome to add some new insights on the matter in the comments! 1. Not real. Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctually don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real.” Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart. 2. Respect. No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control. No respect equals no attraction. 3. Predictable. Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge. 4. Mother Nature. Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys . They think their love will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved. 5. Fixing. Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. Women think if they can “create” the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives. 6. Genetic wars. Women are designed to procreate with the strongest possible genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious message that they have great genes, so they’re not afraid of losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don’t think their genes are good enough, so they won’t misbehave. 7. Fear of intimacy. If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy , since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that’s scary. 8. Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable with people who treat us better than we treat ourselves. If you don’t think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you’re not familiar with. 9. s*x. Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in bed. They sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case. 10. Hot. Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t hot? They probably wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy , she means, “He’s not hot.” 11. Charm. Nice guys don’t always know what to say and are sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen for them and has a hard time letting go. 12. Protection. Historically, men have protected women — physically and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women, while with nice guys , women aren’t so sure. Life is about balance. Most men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy category. The ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between the two. Until men learn how to do this, more often than not, women will choose the bad boy , until they realize that his bad qualities outweigh his good ones. http://m.nigeriana.org/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnigeriana.org%2Fblog%2F44871.html&dm_redirected=true
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| Romance › Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Freethinker/atheist? by tosomaju(m): 6:11pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
booqee: so jman, you're an atheist..didn't know. Well @topic. No i can't date an atheist,an agnostic or a free thinker.but u can date a guy that à$$ the title christain even though he is a serial sinner..   3 Likes |
| Sports › Re: Mexico Vs Nigeria FIFA U17 WC Final (0 - 3) On 8th November 2013 by tosomaju(m): 7:36pm On Nov 08, 2013 |
YES YES YES YES YES YES YES
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| Family › Re: Pregnant Wife Caught With Another Man In A Hotel by tosomaju(m): 7:51pm On Oct 25, 2013 |
what kind of young pregnant woman will fv.ck an old pregnant man on a promiscuous bed?
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| Romance › Re: For Them Nice Guys Like Graham And Danhumphrey by tosomaju(m): 6:14pm On Oct 25, 2013 |
Matthew briggs: Different Stroke for different women. Some like their guys nice, some like jerks. I think over time I am gradually meter-morphing from a nice guy into what I call a nice jerk.. Reason been that certain traits of a jerk is quite useful in a relationship. Merging it with my default Niceness, it can help keep things interesting and unpredictable. Enabling one to Stay in control, keeping her on her toes, Making her never see you as weakling or puppet that's predictable or boring.
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| Romance › Re: Would You Dump Your Fiancé/fiancée If You Are Offered N20 Million? by tosomaju(m): 11:13am On Oct 24, 2013 |
the james na maga na... abeg u get his fb handle? me and my babe go just open office on top his head. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland Virgins' Lounge by tosomaju(m): 10:50am On Oct 24, 2013 |
it seems this V-connect is coming back to vogue. i am willing to port. i hereby declare myself a V. old memories have passed away and i am now a V. una no dey welcome new comer? 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: , by tosomaju(m): 9:58am On Oct 24, 2013 |
what do u want me to say the fact that u came crying means u think its wrong. there is no right way in doing the wrong thing... i am not saying what u are doing is wrong.... but if u think so, who am i to think otherwise. dont allow woman come between u and ur brother. she doesnt worth the stress. go back to where u saw her, there are many more. #my2shillins |
| Family › Re: Married Couples, How Many Times Do You Make Love In A Week by tosomaju(m): 9:24am On Oct 24, 2013 |
one after every meal to step down, one during every bath to brush up 2 bonuses during weekend days to make up 2 extra during public holidays to match up mathematically; 39 on a regular week gawd help us, if there is holiday the whole week it will be 49. therefore; 39<or=seX<or=49 |
| Romance › Re: How Did You React the first time You Met Your Blind Dates? by tosomaju(m): 3:28pm On Oct 15, 2013 |
robonski15: Met a nairalander last week.. I have been following her comments for sometime now because she is someone that has a good sense of humour.. I decided to drop a pm and we began talking then later exchanged bb pins..mark my word; u won't see her again. don't u know that there is a reason behind every visit? she transported kpekus all the way 100s of miles to u and all u could do was to price and don't buy? u fall my dee.k. sweetheart, I know u are reading. visit me and Ur life will never remain the same. u will come and give testimony here on the healing power of a dee.k. I feel Ur dejection and pain that this guy caused u. I am willing to make up for it. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: How Did You React the first time You Met Your Blind Dates? by tosomaju(m): 7:44am On Oct 14, 2013 |
Olajumokeibk: I've had so many blind dates and sadly I don't av good lucks with them. Lemme share ...we seem to av similar stories about blind date. getting carried away by lovely voice. let's give it another shot. u&I just pm me. the rest will makeup a lovely thread on nairaland |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Aptitude Test For TOTAL HND Operator On 16th October by tosomaju(op): 5:33am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Phikom: k...tanks...God bless youu are welcome |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Aptitude Test For TOTAL HND Operator On 16th October by tosomaju(op): 5:22am On Sep 26, 2013 |
pat077: also got d invitatn. but, mine is on d 5th of oct and my venue is lag.wow. i never knew lagos is also a venue for the test. that would have been preferable by me. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Aptitude Test For TOTAL HND Operator On 16th October by tosomaju(op): 5:19am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Jummylilly: Thanks Emmydeb, i'll do that right awaywhen and where will u write your's? |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Aptitude Test For TOTAL HND Operator On 16th October by tosomaju(op): 2:38pm On Sep 24, 2013 |
Phikom: even contacted them to change d location for me probably to Lagos...yet no luck...so i have made up my mind to give it a go agead in port harcourt cos its worth more than that...as regards inductive reasoning...how do they frame questions on such section? i.e what is nature of questions in that aspect?it has to do with questions relating to shapes and symbols. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Aptitude Test For TOTAL HND Operator On 16th October by tosomaju(op): 1:08pm On Sep 24, 2013 |
Phikom: mine was also scheduled to come up on 16th of October 2013 in port harcourt. do u have the idea of how total conduct their aptitude test?...my only problem is the distance cos i will be coming from ibadan...from ibadan to port harcourt is such a long journey...i think its going to be numerical, verbal, and inductive reasoning. i will be going from lagos. yes its far, but its worth a shot. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Aptitude Test For TOTAL HND Operator On 16th October by tosomaju(op): 10:00pm On Sep 22, 2013 |
did any body receive a message for the aptitude test coming up in portharcourt next month? lets discuss |
| Phones › Re: iOS 7 Download Day Worldwide Release Time [chart] by tosomaju(m): 8:17pm On Sep 18, 2013 |
6 Reasons to Upgrade to iOS 7 Right Away and 5 You Shouldn’t Should you make the leap? Let's run through some of the pros and cons. By Matt Peckham @mattpeckhamSe[b][/b]pt. 18, 20138 Comments ShareRead Later Apple It’s that time again — time to decide whether to hop on the bus to early-adopters-ville, or hang back, maybe sipping your mocha latte, knowingly watching the bus’s taillights disappear into the gloom from beneath the brim of your won’t-get-fooled-again beret. Of course you don’t need to upgrade to iOS 7 immediately. You can bide your time, ignore the hype and just skip the longish wait times you’re likely to encounter downloading the update on launch day. And yes, iOS 6 works fine and should continue to indefinitely. There’s nothing so pressing or fantastic about Apple‘s mobile OS makeover that your iPhone or iPad or iPod Touch can’t live without it. But…it’s a brand new version of iOS! I share your Christmas-in-September enthusiasm, and I can tell you I won’t be waiting, but then I’m paid not to. Should you join the throngs about leap? Let’s run through some of the pros and cons. It’s the biggest visual overhaul of iOS since Apple introduced the iPhone. iOS debuted in 2007 with the first iPhone and it’s changed relatively little since, visually speaking: applications shuffled around, some icon tweaking and polishing, an extra row on the iPad and iPhone 5, some nips and tucks here and there. iOS 7, by contrast, changes everything, the vanguard of Apple’s ostensible quest to liquidate skeuomorphic design (a fancy way of saying iOS calendars and notepads no longer resemble their physical analogues), a shift that’s as significant, aesthetically speaking, as the leap from Mac OS 9 to OS X. You don’t have to hunt for common settings anymore. Swipe up from your iOS device’s bottom and you’ll conjure the new Control Center, a place to get at some of the phone’s most commonly adjusted features, from brightness to Airplane Mode to a new build-in flashlight that uses the phone’s camera LED (simultaneously eliminating your need for a discrete, ad-littered freebie flashlight app). A much improved, customizable App Store. Tired of having to manually update each and every app when that red notification number pops up in your home screen icon? iOS 7 lets you turn on automatic updates — problem solved! The new App Store also lets you search by age range, which, assuming vendors utilize it properly, should be a boon to parents wondering if an app is appropriate (both functionally and content-wise) for a two-year-old, five-year-old, 10-year-old and so forth. Siri can now be a dude. No, not the sort of dude that’s responding to your questions like Alfred Pennyworth, but a “personable male voice,” says TIME Tech’s Harry McCracken in his review. What’s more, Harry says Siri’s female voice sounds “sounds less robotic,” can multi-source content from additional sources like Bing or Wikipedia, and can present more info inline instead of launching another app. Multitasking is significantly improved. iOS has had multitasking — the ability to have multiple apps open simultaneously — since iOS 4, but through iOS 6 it’s had notable limitations. iOS 7 improves switching between as well as closing apps: no more stabbing at those tiny red circles — now you just swipe upward, or swipe with more than one finger to close multiple apps. You can also use updates while they’re updating. Upgrading is free — and easy to do. I know, what else is new about iOS upgrades — but some people don’t realize the gratis part. All you need to get your iOS 7 on is tap “Settings,” select “General,” tap “Software Update,” then follow the prompts. And here’s the cons list: It’s the biggest visual overhaul of iOS since Apple introduced the iPhone
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