₦airaland Forum

She seems to have more haters than fans on nairaland

Is she capable of taking care of herself for six months with the standard of living you have set. Think am again.
Don't make her think that you are tormenting her because she don't have.
Make up your mind if you are ready to be with her

SecretSpy666:
Greetings Nairalanders,
I want to seek for you peoples opinions regarding my family challenges.

I'm from a broken home. My parents divorced when I was a child of two years. I'm the only child from their union. My father and mother abandoned me and remarried to other spouse each. I passed through hell growing up with relatives who insulted me with all kinds of names and I was treated like a slave to their own children.

Because of public outcry about my dehumanizing treatment, my father came to village and took me to the city. It was from fry pan to fire experience as my father's new wife was maltreating me. At a point, my father asked me to leave his house that since my arrival, he don't have peace with his wife.

I packed to the house of a relative and work in a block industry to help myself. Most times, I slept in a CAC church close to the relative house as the two-room apartment is not enough for his family. My mother never care if I was alive. She never call me nor reply to letter I sent through someone to her. I continued working in the block industry and started a part time programme. I completed the part time programme and did my NYSC and master degree. I got a job with University of Ado Ekiti with the help of a course mate, managing myself now and surprisingly my mother and father started calling me often.

Both of them have 6 children each with their respective second spouse. Mother want his son to come and live with me, I refused and my father too have been requesting for financial assistance which I also refused. I don't want to have anything to do with both of them. My father's daughter recently called me to help her with school fees, I bluntly told her to ask her mother what she did to me and caught the call. Since then, she never call.

I'm alone and have just two friends. I don't have family. All of them calling now are just looking for what to get from me, not that they care about me. My mother never call me once to ask about my welfare even when I sent my phone number to her through her relative. I wrote WAEC, completed degree course before she started calling me and it is only to request for one thing or other. I'm planning to get married without telling them and build a separate family.

Your story is an inspiration to someone in same condition. If you have excess money, spend it on people still in similar situation you were rather than your parents that lack shame to even ask.

meobizy:
Abeg, how many does Eric have? I'm checking for a friend.

You and your friend are wicked

Lagos is working

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Ok. Manage am bro

Try charge your phone

osaskywire:
Ok let me start from here ..
The girl am dating now I met her through my friend because they stay together in same compound, since then they were closer infact I brought them close, (please I no what y'all are thinking nothing of such happened ok)...
Fast forward to yesterday we were just outside gisting and laughing the 3 of us suddenly they started yabbing themselves I know it was already getting out of hand because my friend gets angry easily so I told my gf to stop with the insults but she wouldn't listen (that's what I don't like about her she's too stubborn) then the unexpected happened my guy landed her 1 dirty slap like this even my eyes sef red the thing pain me may I no lie....so I had to hold him because he was already charging again to lunch another 1, even my gf won't keep shut she was still insulting him with her one hand covering the side she was slapped...at Last I separated them and I was disappointed at both of them,I was angry at my friend so I told him to stop talking to me,my gf called me and was angry at me because I didn't supported her..
Infact to cut the long story short ..
How can I resolve this case abeg coz am just confused my gf no dey pick my call again,as for my friend it's just a minor thing that we can settle between ourselves....
lastly whose fault is it?.
(pardon my typos abeg)

Since both of them did not regard your presence. From this day henceforth, kindly disregard them.
Kind regards.

light099:
You perfectly summarized your life in this above statement you made.

You don't have to prove my point

Mrpsly247:
07036133128

I'll transfer to you tomorrow. I've exhausted today's limit.

light099:
Because you see it's a female moniker.
Can you do that to a fellow guy?

With this mentality, you can't make it in life

Esteemval:
Good morning everyone, please someone should subscribe for me, let me browse my course outline please, the lecturer didn't complete his lecture and exams is few days away. #1000 will go a long way, thanks and God bless you

Give me your number let me transfer data to you. I have more than I can exhaust for 1month

It is high time Nigerians started taking care of our environment. The way people liter the environment calls for national concern. No state is exempted.

The other day I was on a BRT queue at TBS, Lagos and a man dressed on suit threw a plastic bottle of water on the floor despite availability of waste bins at every corner. It hurt me when I see such unpatriotic and unhealthy attitude on display.

I think the overall mentality of Nigerians regarding who is responsible for environmental cleanliness or it importance need to be re-calibrated.

I foresee a country floating on trash in the nearest future if nothing is done.
Nigerians are very religious yet cannot understand the part of the good book that says "cleanliness is next to godliness".

Apart from the indiscriminate dumping of solid waste. The emission of gaseous waste is another pain in the a55. Little wonder the average lifespan of a Nigerian is gradually dropping from the 40s.

I urge well meaning Nigerians who understand the health and other benefits of a clean environment to foster a campaign on clean and healthy environment. Our homes should teach children and schools should make them understand. Churches should preach about the need to be clean physically and not just spiritually.


Tips to have a clean society

Use dustbins. Nobody can deny the fact that most of the garbage gathered on the streets is because of irresponsibly throwing packets on road. Try to use dustbins as much as possible. If you don't get a dustbin nearby, carry it in your hands. I'm sure you won't have to wait for more than five minutes to get a nearby dustbin or some place where you can throw it. Your next task will be asking people to use the dustbins when they are not doing so. Stop that aunty or maid in your locality who throws their garbage on the streets.

Ask your child or other children to keep the society clean. This is the best thing you can do. The reason is that these children are going to be the future of this country. If all parents teach their child that how we can keep our society clean, believe me none other country in this world will be able to compete with Nigeria in the matter of a hygienic society.

Stopping the use of polythene bags. Polythene bags not only cause land pollution, but also chokes various drainage systems. We should promote the use of recyclable paper bags and jute bags for carrying items. Household wastes should not be thrown in poly-bags and use of disposable garbage bags should be promoted.

Plant a sapling. I know it is not possible for everyone to start gardening. But everyone should try to plant a tree at least once in a year. Greenery is the best way to add beauty to our surroundings. Ask your neighbours to plant trees instead of cutting them down.

Go eco-friendly Try to use eco -friendly products as much as possible. Try to celebrate the different festivals in an eco-friendly way i.e. celebrate Christmas with herbal colours and don't use fire crackers.

Save water. Yes, saving water is also important for having a clean society. Our country is facing a lot of problems due to the scarcity of water. We cannot be hygienic without water nor can the society. So, utilise rainwater and try not to waste water as much as possible.

All I see here is your greatest sin hunting you. Babe has moved on and you are here lamenting. Go and do a root cause analysis of your problem unfortunately Nairalanders have no clue

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There should be travel alert to these countries

54 on the list and topic states 45. You see why students fail? Not paying attention to detail.

Charcoal cosmetic day

Everything get spirit now.
Spirit of billionaire where art thou

Hence forth stop blaming people for anything. Blame the spirit.

Two sisters, who were joined in the chest and abdomen, have been successfully separated in a surgery by a 78-member team in Nigeria's capital, Abuja.

Mercy and Goodness Ede are now well enough to go home six weeks after surgery, according to pediatric surgeon Emmanuel Ameh, who led the team that performed the operation at the National Hospital.

The surgery to separate the twins happened in November last year but details have only just been released by the hospital, because they wanted to ensure there were no post surgery complications.

The girls are the first to be successfully separated at the government-run specialist center, National Hospital spokesman Dr. Tayo Haastrup told CNN.

It took around 13 hours for the team working from two operating theaters at the hospital to separate the twins, according to the hospital.

"We are just happy and proud that the team that worked on this surgery were all Nigerians. It was done in Nigeria and the parents didn't have to go outside the country," Haastrup said.

Haastrup said the surgery, which runs into thousands of dollars, was done free of charge to the parents, who work in menial jobs and would not have been able to afford the surgery.

A dangerous procedure
The twins were born on August 13 last year but Ameh said the surgery was delayed until November because of some complications.

Separating conjoined twins is a complicated and dangerous procedure, and not all twins -- because of shared organs or other complications -- can be separated.

Aside from being joined at the chest, the Martins twins were born with a condition known as omphalocele, a birth defect that left a section of their intestine sticking outside their navel, Ameh told CNN.

Ameh said the girls underwent surgery to repair the area that had been torn open at the navel and doctors had to wait for many weeks for them to recover from the procedure.

They also had to manage a number of complications in the months leading up to the separation in November.

Ameh said plastic surgeons on the team were worried that a large section of the girls' chest would be open and at risk of being infected once they were separated and they had to create artificial skin large enough to cover the area, which took several weeks.

"We needed to determine if they could live independently when they are separated. We found out that they were sharing a diaphragm and one liver was serving both of them, but all other organs were separate," Ameh told CNN.

"We also had to get some medical equipment that were not available," he added.

According to a 2017 paper in the journal of Clinical Anatomy, conjoined twins are extremely rare, with an incidence of 1 in 50,000 births.

However, because around 60% of those cases are stillborn, the actual incidence rate is closer to 1 in 200,000 births, according to the study. About 70% of them are female.


https://www.cnn.com/2020/01/08/africa/nigerian-conjoined-twins-separated-intl/index.html

I have only one question
What did the other members of your squad finished with? Especially the one that made mockery of you.

Ebuka wardrobe shall

The rate of suicide attempt in Nigeria is on the rise. This calls for concern.

Is it better to be a dead man than to be a Nigerian?

Why in Abuja?

Sweet family

NaijaRoyalty:
Gatherings of wolfs and cultures

It's their own turn to chop and loot the national treasury dry .

I see Bola Tinubu , licking Buhari ass as usual .

Vultures you mean ?

hisgrace090:
Being under somebody doese not make you lesser.

I agree with you, it makes you greater

Despite: Honda is still under Toyota

My Supervisor changed my project topic to *Determination of Polycyclic Aromatic Hydrocarbons(PAHs) in Fried Sallah Meat using the microwave extraction method and Neutrons Activation Analysis instrument*

And am to Run 500 samples. Presently Iam at data collection phase. Please friends, endevour to weigh 200 grams of your fried sallah meat and bring it to me.

*NB* Please don't forget, you should take the sample aseptically in a sterile polythene bag.

All samples collected will be used only for the: purpose of my thesis. Just call me to submit yours.

Thanks in Anticipation.

#onelove#✌

Transformation in the complexion too