₦airaland Forum

fumiswtpusy:
We yorubas are just senseless people,how cwn we be fighting ipob whom are helping us to liberate from been slaves to the northerners.
Seriously I fumi love igbos becuase you can't enslave them.they rather die fighting than live as slaves.
While an average yoruba man like tosyne2much have these slavish mentality using different monikers and even his own official moniker to insult people helping us southerners.
I will file official report to palm chat and know if they support what these touth is doing so that biafrans can stop using their social media.
Suen how much will I pay you to sack these useless Tosyn2much .email me iwant tosyne2much to kicked back to the streets were he truly belong.
He is even asking women out with his moniker without shame.
I await your reply suen.

sunshineG:
Please let my dullard self contribute to the topic intelligent people are discoursing

Now according to the dictionary a submissive person is a person who is ready to conform to authority or a passive person

While decisive person is a person ready to take decsion quickly and effectively

Clearly these words are not the opposite of each other
However, there is a small diffrence between someone who is passive and a person who takes decision quickly but that doesn't mean a passive person can't take decisions too

But let me mind my business

Benita27:
A typical example here.
A married woman is submissive to her husband in the sense that she isn't cheating on him and has never cheated on him even when tempted...of course she's submissive to her husband. Again, this same woman is very decisive in the sense that; she takes decisions on how certain things should be done in her home and stands by her words or says "No" to her husband on certain absurd suggestions. Such a woman is submissive and decisive. So you didn't make any mistake in quoting both words as your desires in a woman.

DarkRebel69:
There's some correlation, however thin it might be, between submisiveness and decisiveness, so yes, it has everything to do with it. Submissiveness comes with connotations of dependency on others, which could further be construed as the inability of an individual to think and act independently.
If you crave a submissive woman, then what you want in essence is a thoughtless ornament, a servile yes-man, an Uriah Heep who would acquiesce to all your vagaries, and who wouldn't think to oppose you in any way even when you're in the wrong and in dire need of opposition.

The example you gave of your girlfriend poorly depicts desiciveness. If a girl has a boyfriend and is being hounded by another guy who keeps asking her out, what it takes is common sense to turn down the advances of said guy, and maybe loyalty, too.

If I may ask, are the parameters of a boss-staff relationship the same thing as one's relationship with his wife?
I think that is where you've got it all wrong. Spousal relationships are not like the relationship a boss has with his staff, or the relationship a master has with his servants. In its most ideal sense, it is rooted in mutuality and co-depedence, not domination or submission.

If submissiveness is what you crave then it'd be for the best is you'd be kind enough to apprise your would-be wife from the outset that the marriage is mostly to be of the _BDSM variety, because, trust me, it's only in that setting that the words “domination” and “submission” rightly apply.

Benita27:
It's only an overly docile woman that can't be decisive, and such women get treated as slaves.

Benita27:
You needn't use the employer/employee example to explain yourself to him.
A woman could be submissive/faithful and still be decisive when it comes to decision making. There's big difference between both words.

cooldood:
Nawao, person write wetin he like for the opposite sex,u de try correct am... you go be correcting machine o...

DarkRebel69:
How is submisiveness in a significant other a quality that any sane individual should wish for? Are you a slave driver?

It's funny how you contradicted yourself without even knowing it. You wish for the qualities of submissiveness and decisiveness in your to-be spouse, whille forgetting that submissive people are hardly decisive especially since they are used to delegating responsibilities to others whom they've accepted as superior authority.

Instead of craving for a submissive woman, how about pining for a woman who would accord you respect without sacrificing her dignity in the process?

UnicornPrincess:
Rude that's someone's body

NCANChairman:
See his head

VickyRotex:
Who asked the question? Tosin ma foro simi lenu.

VickyRotex:
lol. I dint say that. The base of our conversation was that some men dont know what they want. And it aint same with what they like.
Btw, you and I know that marriage is not for everyone. Everyone got their choices to make.

VickyRotex:
Biko no use gun o.

lol. Abi. How can you kill yourself for someone who doesnt even know what he wants?

Nikita1:

I will use gun for you o

I'm telling you...they don't know what they want.
A lady will kill herself trying to satisfy them..better be yourself and enjoy life as it comes

Gladiator1:
Ask Tosyne2much, he's the one that made that suggestion

Romerocollins:
Cease breath, how?

Homeboiy:
Don't ask me for money after sex

mikeycharles:
Sorry, excuse me, did you say 60k for 4gb internal memory

sexybbstar:
Always following boobs

olajizz01:
Because i have known you for a while on nairaland and concerning your advise to op,i attest you still dey gidigba.

edoboy33:
seriously me a broke dude ??
well I can admit that I have once tasted poverty but being a senior aide to one major political bigwig in Nigeria and former administrator of sure p I don't think I can be referred to as broke dude

IamLovely:
me haven't seen my prince charming yet..

You have seen your princess charming so what else are you waiting for..


You want to be a baby daddy first?

olajizz01:
Lol, minister for women affair on nairaland.