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Onukube1:
better act well sweetie...
how are you doing jare??..can I have a date with you Tosyne when I come to Nigeria?..#no string o

No problem about that...

Such prophesy does not amaze me when men keep seeking pastor's validation on whom to marry.. Though, I'm a very good Christian but not a fan of "my pastor said this.. my pastor said that.. My pastor is the one to direct my life"

I don't seem to understand all these spiritual incompatibility people normally use to discredit a parner gan sef.. Haven't you seen unbelievers who got married yet they enjoyed and reaped the fruits of marriage ni, while their pastor's will be wallowing in chaotic marriage?

So the pastor never proferred solution to the perceived future danger rather than advise you to dissociate yourself from the lady right?

Nawa ooo

The girl try sha

olaszydaruma:
This is my first post on Nairaland, so please don't mind my grammar, in case I made some mistakes as I was in a hurry typing these.

There was a girl I have being dating since August 2015. I met her at a computer IT place, she was learning as an apprentice. I spoke to her and I asked for her number but she was reluctant to give me. Few days later, I went to the place to do some computer graphics work and she was the one attending to me. When she was about finishing the work, I stylishly asked for her number, she didn't give me but collected mine; her excused was that she has lost her phone and planning to get a new one. To cut the long story short, she called me and I make my intentions clear. I was put on trial for three weeks before she could finally said yes.
Midway to the relationship, she decided to take me to her place for the first time. On getting to her place, I saw her sisters and brother and one young child probably between the ages of 1 to 2. She introduces me to them and I was very happy to meet them.
Since then, she has been disturbing me that she has something to tell me but when I asked her what it is, she will only reply later. I'm the kind of person that always anticipate whenever someone has something to tell me. I called her and told her that I hate her attitude of delaying whenever she has something to tell me (its not the first time she will do that), she apologise and promise to tell me at the weekend.
Few days after, she was at my place and after we enjoyed watching a movie together, she looked straight at my face and told me if I could remember the day I followed her to place and I replied yes. She said that young child I saw is her baby, I was really shocked and I thought she was joking because she doesn't look like someone that could have gotten pregnant not to even talk about having a baby. She said she was not joking and I asked her how did it happen. She narrated to me that a guardian who her mother trust her with got her pregnant.The man was to help her study but was adding the other room stuff with it. She said she could not tell her mum because of fear and she did not know she's pregnant until the third month. I asked her if she didn't notice her period will have stop coming during those time, she said she notice but thought it was just a mere period disorder. I was just in awe of everything and could not believe a girl I had wish to be serious with has already given birth before. I asked her how did her parent took the issues, she said they were all mad at her and had the man(married with two kids) that got her pregnant locked up. The man was later freed. She said the issues affected her relationship with her dad and they seldom see face to face. She was in tears narrating all these, all I could do was just to calm her down. I told her nobody in this world that is above mistake and she should try and learn from it.
Since then, I have always acts like a normal boyfriend. I didn't allow what she told me affect our relationship, in order words, I was glad she told me early and I made her know everything is alright between me and her. I was in school then and sometimes she do help me with money when I'm broke.
I decided to seek spiritual guidance about her from my pastor but I was told we can't marry(my pastor have not seen her before). The reason my pastor gave was that the beginning may be rosy but there would be lot of hardship for me in the future. I have grown to love this girl but I don't know how to leave her. I have already been warn not to tell her with words but something will happen that will cause breakup between me and her. Nothing that could cause breakup up is yet to happen and we are still doing great together.


So nairalanders, should I leave this girl or continue dating her and risked what I've being warn, she has really help me during my school days and I believe it will be very harsh on her to leave her after everything we have both pass through. Advice your brother, no insult please.

The bolded got me laughing

OP

Mimzyy:
Why will you subject people to making a choice between the devil and deep blue sea?

Mimzy how are you now? Long time

Very good of you OP

Even if it's Nokia 3310 some will still not return it.

Im thinking you take the phone to an engineer for unlocking.. After that, this will grant you access to the phone contacts. You can call any random number for guidance on how to locate the lady in question

Be like say dem talk say na doggy dey sweet pass?

ednut1:
a gal told me to stop while romancing as i wan proceed with a serious angry face ,as i was not a rapist i stopped. dat night she abused and blocked me on whatsapp say am not a man . how can u stop cos i told u to, u know am a lady do u want me to appear cheap. i weak abeg

Hahaha

Hmmmm

Tomity:
hmmmn

You disagree with me?

There's a wide difference between being a Christian and being ignorant.. One can be genuinely born again yet that person may still be wallowing in ignorance.

And many women go full this crusade oooo

And this man has a wife sha? .. As tall as I am, I no gree see woman

08064787957

Cc
Greenlandncom

HardMirror:
Hehehehe.
You not serious. No be only food, na drink

You know say na dem go flood this thread pass

kpekusPikin:
After all your Top ten write ups you still join for these petty tribalistic BS. You just fall my hand

What's tribalistic about my comment? "Atheist food don come?

Kindly point to the tribalism in it cos I don't know if "tribalism" now has another meaning

Lemme prescribe this v-jay lipstick to these ladies

Cc
Sexybbstar
Vivaciousvivi
Rosalieene
Nickymezor

Oyah guys don kill themselves on top this thread

This is funny

ATHEISTS!!! food don come ooooo

sixtus3606:
Thanks bros. Biko help me wake uncle Lalasticlala make e drive this thread to the promised land. people need to be inspired!

*MODIFIED*

FP things. Thank you

It has crepted to the FP baba

Xbursta:
this case is a serious one but I can handle it...

Her number

Abeg go sit down jawe... Na where dem dey see you be that

Nice one Bros

Cutehector:
dat day will never come

If that day eventually come, na your name go top the list

Waiting for the day a female Nairalander will expose a sex starved Nairalander disturbing her

MarieSucre:
Do you think that its all the things that interest men that interest ladies. Look at how all you guys rushed to this thread. To see a woman show nylon condom fa?! Smh for y'all

As if you don't fantasize sex too

sexybbstar:
I'll rather stay single then.

Eeeehyah.. Pele dear

booqee:
You can become an atheist..

Hahaha hah lmao... No every philosopher ends up becoming an atheist jhor

Nicepoker:
advice from mr. 10

Bros I hail ooll

He can be a Nairaland moderator pushing sensitive topics to the FP

Omo nawa oooo.. Abeg who get that Mr. Ibu picture?

I dont know why I just like this man so much.

Abeg I just dey joke oooo