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Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Nobody: 5:31pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
CeeJay9ja: She's been married to the man for 3 months without sex. She cries to me. I don't know what to do. Only a few of us in the family know. These pastors just make up things and we bear the consequences. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by CeeJay9ja(m): 5:41pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
FortuneTeller: More people especially the ladies will keep falling for it. Women are easily decieved. Only a woman a pastor will ask to sleep with him just to get a child from God. When did God started using adultery to bless someone? These women just become zombie unexpectedly |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Nobody: 5:46pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
CeeJay9ja: YESSS!!! I have warned her not to take the issue back to the pastor, lest he say he can help her with a child and impregnate my sis. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 5:48pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Such prophesy does not amaze me when men keep seeking pastor's validation on whom to marry.. Though, I'm a very good Christian but not a fan of "my pastor said this.. my pastor said that.. My pastor is the one to direct my life" I don't seem to understand all these spiritual incompatibility people normally use to discredit a parner gan sef.. Haven't you seen unbelievers who got married yet they enjoyed and reaped the fruits of marriage ni, while their pastor's will be wallowing in chaotic marriage? So the pastor never proferred solution to the perceived future danger rather than advise you to dissociate yourself from the lady right? |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by CeeJay9ja(m): 5:53pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:Pastor go collect his own share na I always tell young adults not to attend churches they are older than 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Amarabae(f): 5:55pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
My dear, go on and marry her. why will a pastor be trying to stop the marriage? We don't serve an unforgiving God. Her past repentant mistake should never stop her future joy. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by kaboninc(m): 7:49pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
olaszydaruma: Please continue dating her, getting to know more about her and work towards ensuring it works. Forget about that pastor. If there's God, he'll want you to be with her.. ..that's if other things check out. People see babe, them dey run. Me never see anyone sef and I dey cry. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by babyfaceafrica: 8:01pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Pray about it,the man of God might be right o..make you no enter once chance..no be people wey dey NL go help you then......may the force be with you |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by babyfaceafrica: 8:02pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
tosyne2much: |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by babyfaceafrica: 8:05pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:not all pastors make up things..the problem with most of us is that we are not close to God to validate what a man of God says....my opinion is that he should pray about it,the nan of God nay be right |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 8:24pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
[quote author=babyfaceafrica post=54624105][/quote] You quoted me without saying anything 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by babyfaceafrica: 8:28pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
tosyne2much:what I wanted to say is that..some pastors are equally right,why do we say its all fake...if the guy get problem for future now..na only him go suffer am..let's advise him to be careful and seek the the fave of God |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Stevengerd(m): 8:32pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Bro My Only Advice For You, Pray To God Tell Him Open Ur Eyes, Reveal Hidden Secret Concernhng Ur Gf To You!. Dnt Mind All Dis Ebinpami Pastors Out There. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 8:34pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:The problem we have in this part of the world is that we are too spiritual.. I believe so many things are taken into considerations before choosing a woman as your life partner such as culture, tradition, race, age, physical appearance, behavioural pattern and characters Why should much emphasis be only be placed on the spiritual aspect and therefore becomes a ground to discredit someone despite meeting all other criteria? |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by babyfaceafrica: 8:38pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
tosyne2much:my brother,the spiritual controls the physical, if someone fails spiritually,it will affect him.there is more to marriage than love..but my advise is that everyone should do what he or she feels like,so that only them will feel the repercussion |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 8:46pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:I beg to disagree with you brother because being a Christian does not guarantee a successful marriage... Are you trying to tell me that Buddhists, Atheists and other non Christian religion also don't enjoy their marriages? The truth of the matter is that you will start inviting problems and indecisiveness into your life the moment you keep seeking spiritual leader to help forecast and foretell your future for you, or to tell you how the journey of your life will go. I have a friend who does that so much and today, he remains in a spot So my brother, there's no woman destined for anybody in heaven.. When you get your priorities right, little prayer and the face of God is all you need to build your family We are trying to be logical here.. Not too spiritual |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Sammypeters: 8:47pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Alaye, spiritual guidance is okay but in a situation like this, go on your knees, talk to God (your father, creator and constant lover), and proceed with your actions to marry the lady if your heart is with her. The Pastor may or may not be right but dont forget you have direct access to God the same way he does. Cheers and stick to your babe |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by babyfaceafrica: 8:50pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
tosyne2much:your last sentence summarizes it,you are trying to use logic,and life doesn't always work like that!!!!...there are things the spirit sees but defies logic |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by olaszydaruma(m): 8:51pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
tosyne2much:The man took advantage of her innocence and probably ignorant |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by olaszydaruma(m): 9:01pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
VolTOxic:I don't have any intentions of leaving her. I'm only trying to seek people's opinion base on what my pastor told me in case they have come across such issues. I love her but I'm wary of the spiritual warning. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Nobody: 9:21pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
olaszydaruma: My brother, place aside Pastor's warning. Fast and pray about your relationship with this lady sincerely and God will reveal to u either through dreams or her actions if she's the one for u or not? Before in the past? I use to listen and adhere to Pastor warnings.. They will never say a marriage will end well anytime. U ask them for their opinion.. Always bad news at the end.. And with fear? I will then breakup. Now! I don't want to seek any Pastor.. I don't want to seek any friend or family advice.. Even me av fine tuned my instincts, am now prophetess myself and I can pray for 7days and the truth will. Be revealed to me.. So I don't need pastor or anyone to give me go ahead . Cause I know what I Want and I can decipher where it will lead me to at the end. All. Marriages have issues one way or the other.. It takes understanding, preserverance ,love , humility, faith and communication to scales thru crises in marriage. Follow yur heart after praying about it. It's well 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Nobody: 9:26pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Is ur pastor God? abeg if u love the girl and she loves u ...marry her. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Nobody: 9:33pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
lefulefu: Abi oo Lefulefu hottest bachelor in town.. Right answer! |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Nobody: 9:35pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
tosyne2much:gbam!
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Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
alexialin:haha i am cold oo not hot oooooo .some of these pastors sef i dont trust them .its even possible he might be eyeing the babe in secret .hmm any pastor wey tell me say i cant marry the girl i want to marry cos she be mammy water or bla bla just dey look for my trouble . |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Nobody: 9:51pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
lefulefu: Hahahahahahah Abi ooo. Some pastors are like that.. I even told. One in my former church that it seems he does not want me to Marry. Cause any guy I introduce to him as the one I wish to marry? Back then? He will just confuse me the next day.. Not to go ahead with the guy.. One day when he hugged me longer than necessary.. I pulled back and I said I hope you are not blocking me from getting married. Cause the way u held me now is uncalled for? He smiled and said haba! Why should he? He just saying what the spirit led him to say. Since that day.. God forgive me, I stopped confiding in any pastor for go ahead. Never again > Any guy that drops his fiance because someone said she's mammy water is really not ready for marriage. Even marrying mammy water sef na plus.. I like your stance.. Good one! 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Nobody: 9:59pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
alexialin:lol what ppl fail to realise is that these religious clerics are humans as well.they can only advice when it comes to love and relationship and shouldnt be choosing and picking partners for ppl.by the way its obvious the pastor u said was hugging was crushing on u . |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 10:25pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:Brother, in this life, logic plays its own role while spirituality also has its own role.. In marriage, we are told to open our eyes Baba Adeboye once said "don't let any pastor recommend a wife for you"... He said the highest your pastor can do is to pray along with you and give you marriage counsel 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by chiraqDemon(m): 10:54pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Bro Abwg nor fall my hand No ever go spiritual guidance from pastor or man of god again for ur life If God nor de ready to show u the thing personally make him keep am for heaven till when una see. Pastors destroying ppls lives since the time of jesus |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by babyfaceafrica: 11:03pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
tosyne2much:and the counsel is that the man should not marry the lady...no be counsel be DAT? |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by Csami(m): 11:53pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
In this century, pastors be dictating to you who to marry!? If the marriage no work then you divorce her na |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl But Pastor Say We Can't Marry. by olaszydaruma(m): 12:37am On Mar 16, 2017 |
tosyne2much:He said I will soon meet another young lady that the Lord has prepared for me. |
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