₦airaland Forum

Taiwo20:
You don't have to insult me. This is my opinion and you don't have to subscribe to it. That's why it's a forum.. I never said its normal and I never approved of polygamy. Anyway, I blame the guy that bought you this phone and the other one that paid for the data

NwamaziNwaAro:
8,000 Euros

So that kind money dey

And im pastors dey do MMM.

Timelezz:
Tosynebaba, that's my mind in black and white

Olu317:
You need not make enemies bro on a Funky Friday.... He could end up being a fan of yours. Perhaps, he is already a fan. More fans =more l'argent...

Aminat508:
Tosin

ImDharay:

You punched her fat ass walahii.

ImDharay:

Oya guy man dun retaliate, lez go dia....

EmperorShizzy:
Baba Don vex

malikah09:
Can you now type with sense and stop spewing trash like you have an idea of what you're saying? I'll be so grateful. It's okay to have an opinion but quit with the ignorance please. Thanks.

Timelezz:
When I found out I had few faults and sexual rascality was one of them, I resigned my striving to the fact that the body of a woman remains the greatest architectural wonders of creation.

And the soft curves and yansh of a woman convinced me more that there's indeed God more than any flamboyant pastor has ever done.

malikah09:
Look at this idiot talking about endurance. Do you think marriage revolves around the man? Do you know the emotional and mental damage that cheating can do to a woman? But she should endure right? I Believe every marriage consists of patience and understanding. If a woman decides she cannot tolerate cheating, does that make her fool? Stop trying to justify cheating , your posts are really starting to irritate me. You're talking about enduring? Can your useless ego endure cheating if the tables were turned? Are you sure you will not begin to verbally curse your wife and leave your marriage? You expect the woman to be prim and proper and endure all sorts of bullshi!t You prefer her to suffer in silence for the sake of keeping her marriage? Who do you think you are? Do you think you're doing the woman a favour by marrying her? Gerrahere with your stupid mentality.

obiorathesubtle:



See as you bite am..

obiorathesubtle:



Tosyne!?!! Chai.. Ya a spoilt shild

Shortyy:
Mr Freelancer, did you see how I didn't mention you in my post? that's cos I don't mention irrelevant people. You and your posts are irrelevant. Ever seen me comment on any of your idiotic posts? That's cos they mean crap to me.

And you saying I don't have any intellectual capacity to feature in this kind of argument, but you do have? Really? Because a man cheating on his wife is justifiable right? Mr freelancer. please don't get me started. Just move on like you never read my post.

FTBOY:
this is not a counter thread! DOA.

her faulty thinking and understanding of lawladey's thread, and the urge to please those who were embittered by it, led her to write this junk of nothings in a hurry.

can you show me where lawladey wrote to support cheating husbands in her thread? or where she said your husband must cheat whether you like it or not? the young lady simply tried to help open your mind to accept the bitter realities in today's marriage.

and for those comparing us with our parents...

ask your mom if she ever wore bum shorts and spaghetti (abi wetin dem dey call am sef ) to the market when she was still growing up.

did she have a badoo or an instagram account to advertise her wares?

did she occasionally leave her parents to spend some time with her boyfriends?

did she send her toto pinshures to men and have sex chats with them?

did she give slurpy blowjobs to her boyfriends and have anal sex with them?

so how fucking dare you compare yourself with your mom when you're 101% worse than her as a teenager?

toto decay was a known crackhead who used to upload pictures of herself smoking in shower on her instagram account; she dated different men and discussed her sex life in public. but today she's running out of her marriage and crying for sympathy because her husband cheated?

so, you emotional girls and sissy fuckboys need to wake up - the whole system is going bizarre. people now marry pigs and adopt toys as their children. a very wealthy american lady with a large family died but 98% of her property was willed to her german shepherd. you will definitely hear worse very soon...

nobody wishes to have a cheating partner, including me. but if you're looking for that man who would leave his dick with you whenever he's going out, i say "good luck!"

Shortyy:
And that guy is someone that gives marriage advice here every time. 10 ways of this, 15 ways of that. SMH.
Men really think this world revolves around them.

Laveda:
Okay I need to get this straight, y'all are advocating for promiscuity?

Like it should be an open marriage thing and we should go about sleeping everywhere outside marriage, why should we even think of condoning a cheating partner?

Ah! What a crazy world I live in.

Aderola15:
Since they aren't ready to listen to advice concerning the dangers that surrounds divorce... Make dem kukuma experience it themselves na, abi kilo feel?

Mizk:
what you sow you shall reap, i pray you also marry a wife who'd not only cheat but flaunt it to your very face, and guess what, i expect you to be quiet about it and act like its normal, and your family will be a very happy family

Cutehector:
its very obvious.. They are not exposed to real life worse case scenarios.. Scenarios where men have dumped 7yrs of rship or more.. Where men will love and cherish their wives to a fault and she says he isn't good in bed and cheats on him, where women have left their men due to financial constraints..

These small girls just come in here to showcase their inexperience . well I wish them well in life

Yes you're very much on point.. Most of them are living in the europhia of fairytales and the Nollywood/ Phillipines movies they watch

The truth is, marriage is not as smooth as these Nairaland ladies watch in movies.. Ladies who are able to tolerate poo and endure are actually the ones enjoying their marriages. . If you're a lady and you still exhibit the character "I don't take nonsense from any man", you're not yet matured for marriage because you will only end up in miserable marriages and will keep changing husbands like bathroom slippers.

That was how a lady was telling me last month that she wouldn't take poo from her mother-in-law nor sisters-in-law when she marries, and that she will give them hot any time any day they provoke her.. I just looked at her and shook my head at her ignorance


This keep me wondering the mentality ladies carry into their marriages