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vedah:
So you'll be comfortable when you get married and your wife doesn't trust you because of the embolden. You're giving justification for cheating which is morally wrong?

JeffreyJamez:
What is she right about?.....That there are no faithfull men?... or women?

Toks2008:
I'm happy seing a lady taking the heat...I'm so happy this is coming from a lady.

MathsChic:
I think you are under an illusion of grandeur. You have a feeling you are smart. But indeed you may not be as smart as you think. It's the wrongest thing to think a boss who remarked, even if in passing, about your superior presentation skills, would now be thinking of bringing you down, when all he needs to "bring you down" is to merely fire you. And hire someone else.

If he found work for you between 10am and 4pm, it could be for a host of other reasons, and for nothing related to your paranoia. If he thought the DSTV needed to be shut down, there could be a thousand other reasons for it and not for the hunt you think.

You need to watch it. Sooner those feelings you harbour will creep out and in no time will become perceptible to your boss. You should know that once that happens, insubordination is the interpretation. I'll suggest you simply do your thing. Do your job and don't entertain those feelings of greatness, which, frankly, ain't even great anyways. Concentrate on honing your skills and not on who's after your phantom glory.

In other words, stay focused, oga.

wapadunk:
You would end up one day moving from one place to another without consistency and achievements because of your ego. Mr Orator.

Better Still start your own business, cause you won't Last long under someone. You want to be noticed, seen and shining. So, be your own BOSS.

iLegend:
Wow wow wow. Since I came to Nairaland this is the first post by a woman I'll rate 100/100. Larabae13. Come and read what this girl is saying. I may be wooing her soon, cuz she sabi book just like you.

Davijunson:
I'm Jes speaking for myself and not for anyone else. I know relatively very few men out there are faithful. I quite understand her point. like I mentioned, cheating is a choice. that the OP hasn't found or seen one who is faithful doesn't mean she should write off all men. she didn't even mention if quite a few are faithful or not, she Jes wants women not to expect their man to be faithful.... but then why marry him if you can't trust him to be faithful.

Aderola15:
Very well ooooo

Davijunson:
Anything wey person do for this life, it's all a matter of Choice. you Cheat, it's a Choice. you're faithful, it's also a choice. as For me oooo, I have made a Choice never to Cheat on ma Spouse (whether wife or fiance or GF) and so far, three years into my Current relationship, we're still good together. it's not like tots of cheating or ideas don't come to my head but my Decision and Mind have been made up neva to cheat. that is why I maintain my own lane and keep my bae as my only true friend. no time for long turenci.

the OP is one of those ppl who because they can't have what they want, they settle for what's available. if 1000 men are in this World and 999 of them are cheats, I want to be the only one who doesn't. yup. that's me. I jes want to be different from every other person.

Aderola15:
Uncle 10/10

EmperorShizzy:
I wanted to quote you before but stopped to respect your wish

frenchwine:
Was he only spotted by Garba Shehu? No other Nigerian spotted him?
You mean to tell me that a President of Buhari's clout would go out and the aura around him wouldn't draw peeps to take selfies with him?
Looks to me like he was driven to that point, dropped, took a pic or two and then driven back to Abuja house.
Next we would see is : Buhari watching Arsenal match

bellenornor:
Why did u kill it?

dollyjoy:
I'm very fine Tosyne. Trust you are good too!!

dollyjoy:
What up with the generalization? I wonder the numbers of Fulanis you've relate with before arriving at the conclusion that 'Fulanis are most heartless and blood sucking demons'

chiraqDemon:
1,3,4,6,7
Those are wrong
Ion visit brothels and most my fellow chronic single guys dont, in fact im a V
Ion hire gfs for my parties
I might or might not stay inside like this val i was at the bar with guys then went to watch match
I dont discourage guys from having babes
I even encourage them coa i like hearing their stories when they quarrel
Guys even call me to come and settle their relationship problems cos im good at convincing ppl to reason logically
I do have abt 2.6gb of porn on my phone tho

iamdurent:
Mehn. Tosyne dis has to be ur worst thread.

You are a better writer than this na!

Bumbae1:
Lolz that pic thoug
Nice one Op

Number 8 though 'wicked'!
Number 4 ... I mean wow!

arowtop:
You are wrong with number 1, 3, 6 and 9.

Echelle:
Make this man change cloth naaah...
...I know some people will actually come here to give a Bleep with I DONT give a Bleep picture...

ajigiteri:
The noun form of the verb unfortunate is "misfortun" which is translated as. "Oriburuku" in yoruba

UjSizzle:
We don't have to feign modesty. His blunders could be a contributing factor.

Divay22:
I'm all good and you?
Good morning

Daddybright1986:
My brother your village people get hand inside this matter

Divay22:
Nah...i don't break hearts