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Cutehector:
lol just pray that you don't marry any of their kind... Always test the extent at which a lady can act in anger before you say I do

royalmoron:
diddydiva now alesandese

royalmoron:
Tosyne2much your ex is viewing the thread.

babyfaceafrica:
Lolz...1. Too many generalizations.. Who told you there are no men that have caught their wife cheating and have not forgiving her and moved on..the problem with ladies is whenever it happens they dramatize it case study... Tonto and tiwa.....if you catch you hubby cheating and you cannot forgive him...divorce and stop blabbing to gain sympathy.

2.Let us face the reality,true love is rare,so what happen nowadays is that people get married for selfish reasons.men get married for citizenship ,because of boobs and butts(full of poo),cause of money e.t.c),ladies get married because of money, companionship, handsome face(WTF),pity,British and american permament stay.Most marriages are based on illusions.ladies now judge men bases in telemundo and fictituos story lines.the reality is that you have to make your marriage succeed based on reality and that is where lawlardhey is right

3.I have no pity for the likes of Tonto and tiwa savage,their marriage is based of falsehood and deciet.

Why do you think the likes of olu jacabs and RMD has been scandal-free ,it is simply because they have both decided not to put their marriages in the eyes of the likes public and not make their marriage a drama series.No marriage is trouble-free...cheating is real and it is everywhere... I will end my epistle by saying whoever sleeps with a married man or woman ,the person that will sleep with his or her spouse is doing junior waec

Jostico:
That's what will be going on until osinbanjo is being impeached and replaced by another Northerner .Hausa (Fulani) fear them

REIIGN:
List loading abi?

REIIGN:
Lol, I already said my piece, bruh.

The OP is right, but then again, it doesn't mean we have to conform with what she said. Opinions will always differ, but her stance is rather mature and for that, she's earned my respect.

corperscorner:
U too go drink palm wine for der?
Ow e taste?

REIIGN:
Una still dey here?

wordbank:
Prolly, she want her dad to come home with a proof of a step kid
So pathetically folly

Toks2008:
Ironically, she is spot on.

Jman06:
@tosyne2much, those celebs who cheat are irresponsible! the responsible ones like Omotola and co are faithful to their partners despite meeting many hot babes and guys both on and off camera. It is an individual thing.

iLegend:
But sincerely, take away money from OBJ and OSHIO and watch how faithful they'll be. Lol. But MMMScam disproved me on that, and he's right. Anyways, it's in the mind. MINDSET. Mehn! I'm listening to Lil Wayne's Amili and PSquare's Temtation. Jamming the oldies today. Whayasay?

wordbank:
In as much as I don't dispute your argument on polygamy, I can't seat back and watch you talk like you're the one who took the oath to be faithful on behalf of your dad.
I grew from a boy to a man, and each stage comes with its cons which even men can't explain.
Now, no matter how confident one is, until a counter-situation show up, there's nothing to take home. So, I say to those still standing and blabbing just like you, there's a flip side

JeffreyJamez:
... and like I said before,if it's in your DNA,it's definitely not in mine.

JeffreyJamez:
You're right , I don't have ladies stalking me because I put everyone in their place and no be woman I come life come pursue. I have goals and Ambitions and frolicking around women is definitely not one of them. I have female friends.... not female stalkers. I have female friends who have a purpose in life and not the ones who are looking for the next guy to milk. Those are the kind of people I surround myself with.

The fact a few weaklings are not able to control their sexual urges doesn't give y'all the right to be throwing absurd statistics and theories up and down.

Jman06:
Just imagine what a supposedly matured guy is typing. So, because you've got ladies around you you must cheat? We know that in most cases these ladies don't talk to you about their feelings first, you make the move! Now, relate that to ladies who get bugged by many guys on daily basis, yet don't cheat

FTBOY:
this time i agree with you 100%.

JeffreyJamez:
You're right , I don't have ladies stalking me because I put everyone in their place and no be woman I come life come pursue. I have goals and Ambitions and frolicking around women is definitely not one of them. I have female friends.... not female stalkers. I have female friends who have a purpose in life and not the ones who are looking for the next guy to milk. Those are the kind of people I surround myself with.

The fact a few weaklings are not able to control their sexual urges doesn't give y'all the right to be throwing absurd statistics and theories up and down.

iLegend:
Honestly, I only read the OP's post, Tosyne's reply and yours. I don't want to argue with anyone. The truth hurts and no one likes it, including myself. Obasanjo and Oshiomole are not good looking, but they are rich. Have you ever read the Bible? It says, "Money answereth all things." And my #1 on the list is talking about poverty. The reverse of any of the things I listed will make the man have an option to cheat. Weldon Sir! Let's not argue. iLegend is always wrong. Lefulefu my man! Carry on!

The truth is, most of these guys claiming "Mr nice guy" never can tell if they will cheat until they own cars and become rich... Most of the guys throwing shades at the OP are using their current state of financial instability to judge that they will remain faithful when married.. Let them own a car and some millions in their bank account, you will see the unfaithfulness and promiscuity in them

The same way students throw shades at lecturers for sleeping with female students in order to earn marks.. But when they become lecturers too they tend to do worse

Cutehector:
it strikes me when girls who aren't righteous claim to be saints when attacking someone else because of her views.

Jesusgirl92:
Check the circle of people you roll with. #just_my_advice.

JeffreyJamez:
If promiscuity is in your DNA,I know for sure it's not in mine.... and I can confidently vouch for a few others.

You sound like someone who doesn't have what it takes to attract ladies to be hovering around you.. Cos with the way you're talking, on can doubt if you've got ladies stalking you, If you do, you wouldn't be saying all those things.

Even some married men in the remote village where I live in Ekiti still play side games despite the fact that they look ugly and unkempt much more of a man that's got what it takes to win almost every lady.

As a very handsome dude with nice swag, good dress sense, good oratory ability, and to crown it all, money still dey your pocket join ... Even if you get married, you will always fight to be completely faithful

iLegend:
I haven't read any comment on this post. I just read the entire post and I already know 99% of the people that'll comment will be against this post. If I had read this post 10 years ago, I would've said, this girl is mad. Trust me. I'm an insider in the dating world and I also understand psychology. Most people who will read this post will think the way I would've thought 10 years ago. Thank God, 10 years ago is over.

There are only 5 types of faithful men left in this world and they are the types of men most women don't even admire.

1. The man is too poooooor. (Too poor to the point it affects his brain. Just like me Lol).
2. The man is uneducated. (So uneducated to the point he can't spell his name, let alone compose a coherent sentence in front of a lady).
3. The man is too ugly. (So ugly to the point he, himself, is scared to look at himself on the mirror).
4. The man is extremely short. (Too short to the point Aki and Pawpaw will look like giants).
5. The man escaped death or a severe sickness. (He escaped a kind of situation where he asks God to save his life and he will forever serve him and him alone).

If you're a man and you belong to any of the above, then being faithful is your default duty. So, we don't see this as being faithful. It's your job. Any man who does not belong to any of the above CAN NEVER BE FAITHFUL. Although, he'll promise his wife or girlfriend he'll forever remain faithful, and to be honest, he'll try his best to be faithful, but the devil will NEVER let him keep his promises. It's just a matter of time. When this happens, some men will commit suicide for not keeping their vows, other men will confess to their wives or girlfriends, while the rest will forever keep silent by telling themselves, "as long as she doesn't know, there'll be peace." (He'll promise himself never to do this again, but don't worry, it's just a matter of time as usual). The truth hurts and no one likes the truth, including myself. If I'm ugly and you tell me I'm ugly, I won't like it, even if it's the truth. So, the truth hurts and no one likes it.

When I post dating tips for men all the bad boys moderators know it's the truth, but they can never move it to front page, because the truth is bitter. But the moment importexpert goes online and copies other people's dating articles that are untrue and written by Mr. Nice Guys, the moderators move them to front page (knowing fully well dating is not his Jagaban specialty). They do so because that's what the masses want.

Nigerian song lyrics suck, the beats are great, but because the masses like it like that, it will sell. Do anything contrary and no one will give you attention. If only Mode 9 and MI knew, they would've started singing like Olamide at their initial time in the music industry. If they try to sing, they'll call them sell outs. In this world, when you say the truth, they'll call you a fool. When you don't say the truth, they'll call you a pretender. Any lady or man who says anything bad about this 100% truthful post will ONE DAY remember this post. I promise.

They say if you can't beat them, join them. But for me, if I can't beat you, I'll look for someone who will fûcking beat the shît outta you. Tosyne I'm glad you know what's up. If only I wanted to fûck other people's wives, do you know how many of them I would've fûcked. If someone like me who's not extremely good looking can achieve this, then what will the extremely good looking guys achieve? Now, reverse the gender and see the atrocity (or should I say fornication), going on and most will NEVER know. I have so many things I would've said, but this world wants untruthful people.

When I created a thread telling guys to lie soft and resolvable lies to women, they came for my neck. I created another thread telling guys not to lie to women, people also came for my neck saying women love lies. In fact, me I done tire. I wan go back to my village. Lol.

Wooow!!! This is brilliant!!

If I read this article a decade ago, I would also bash the OP and call her all sort of derogatory names but now, I think I can relate with the message she's trying to pass across

You should know that most of the people who throw shades at the OP are still teenagers and even if they're not, they're still ignorant people who know little or nothing about marriage. People who can't even manage "boyfriends and girlfriends" let alone marriage

The question is, how old are they? How many married men do they keep as friends? Do these men discuss with them how hard they find it to remain completely faithful to their wives?

Once again, nice one boss

Aderola15:
You get time Tosin, you really do.

JeffreyJamez:
Comprehension problem?

When you lot start raising boy child,sing into their ears that they have cheating in their DNA.

JeffreyJamez:
If promiscuity is in your DNA,I know for sure it's not in mine.... and I can confidently vouch for a few others.

Toks2008:
If nah my thread some ladies will curse and rant but thank God this is coming from a lady.