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Romance / Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by totoakins(m): 2:37pm On Jan 24, 2016
all ya lairs,confess it was not ur first or only time

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NYSC / Re: How To Verify Your NYSC 2016 Batch A Senate List by totoakins(m): 5:50pm On Jan 23, 2016
Phoenix001:
The site displayed error when I checked mine. Anybody from OAU who has been able to check should quote me here. Thanks.
Oau I have checked mine
Romance / Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by totoakins(m): 12:16pm On Jan 21, 2016
heryourdayji:
I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.


The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.



After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site.


We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?


Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

next time remove ur pic b4posting such or open a new account thank me later
Sports / Re: Everyone Says I Resemble Mikel Obi, Are They Saying The Truth? by totoakins(m): 10:30pm On Jan 19, 2016
nairayouthcom:


Everyone keeps mistaking me for John Obi Mikel.
I don even tire sef.



cc:lalasticlala, r231 , Freiburger

I know d person in d pic and u are definitely not him, what shall it benefit you to lie
Health / Re: Agony Of Health Interns By Dr Kene (mbbs) by totoakins(m): 11:12am On Jan 06, 2016
guiltless:


did u finish from eksu?
narrh great Ife
Health / Re: Agony Of Health Interns By Dr Kene (mbbs) by totoakins(m): 11:11am On Jan 06, 2016
Redfruit:
Which medical tests will take 8k?
HIV,stool,urine MCs,genotype etc
Health / Re: Agony Of Health Interns By Dr Kene (mbbs) by totoakins(m): 10:09am On Jan 06, 2016
I just finished my internship in Eksuth and I can say u don't have to pay anyone money to get a placement ,u pay the 5k form fee n do an interview. the other point I don't like is you have to undergo medical tests of about 8k before resumption
Religion / Re: "TB Joshua Predicted The Paris Terrorist Attack" by totoakins(m): 11:16pm On Nov 14, 2015
Jan 19th 2013 was a Saturday not a Sunday
Religion / Re: Alcohol: good Or Evil. What The Bible Really Says. by totoakins(m): 6:48pm On Nov 01, 2015
OlayinkaM1:


Stop mis-interpreting d bible bro, according to whr u quote jesus was being accused σƒ being a drunkard wen dey didn't knw wat he's drinking either is it wine or water. If jesus had drink wine or alcoholic wine, all His disciple would have done d same after he's no more wit dem. Only peter drank wine and it's for health reason, so don't come here and be misleading pple
why would they call Jesus a drunkard if he only took water.

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Religion / Jesus Took Alcoholic Wine by totoakins(m): 3:55pm On Nov 01, 2015
Jesus took alcoholic wine
Luke 7:33 -34
New King James Version (NKJV)
For John the Baptist came neither eating bread nor drinking wine, and you say, ‘He has a demon.’ The Son of Man has come eating and drinking, and you say, ‘Look, a glutton and a winebibber, a friend of tax collectors and sinners!’


Jesus was saying that although john the Baptist did not take any alcoholic drinks people criticized him while he took wine (in moderation) people still called him a drunkard
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Religion / Re: Alcohol: good Or Evil. What The Bible Really Says. by totoakins(m): 3:48pm On Nov 01, 2015
the Son of Man came eating and drinking, and you say, ‘Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’
Luke 7:34
Jesus himself took wine and alcoholic wine for that matter the above scripture says so or why would ppl call him a drunkard besides
the bible says in deturonomy 14:26
When you arrive, you may use the money to buy any kind of food you want--cattle, sheep, goats, wine, or other alcoholic drink. Then feast there in the presence of the LORD your God and celebrate with your household.
I hope this puts the discussion about alcohol to rest
Adverts / Re: Get A Nafdac Reg Number For Your Small Scale Products In One Month. by totoakins(m): 5:36am On Aug 24, 2015
Good day I would like to ask how much it would cost to register an imported perfume including the trade Mark cost
Car Talk / Re: Check Out These 1 Lamborghini And 2 Ferrari In The Same Compound by totoakins(m): 8:49am On Aug 14, 2015
gidjah:
How we choose to spend our resouces varies from persons to persons, do you call this investmet pls??,what will i be doing with a ferari and a buggati and other exortic cars in my house at the same time, i really do not think it is wise sha, is there any end to investments, or has this cars now become investments now??
these cars are rare exotic cars that appreciate in value so they are a solid investment
Romance / Re: How To Become A Virgin Again (hymenoplasty) by totoakins(m): 2:33pm On Aug 12, 2015
once you wash the penis you become a virgin again
Romance / How To Become A Virgin Again (hymenoplasty) by totoakins(m): 2:30pm On Aug 12, 2015
Virginity Repair Surgery
These day, virginity repair or restoration surgery, or medically termed as
hymenoplasty, becomes quite popular among women. There are many websites on the internet, like revirgination.net, that offer many benefits and ease to this
vagina plastic surgery. Many of them come with reasons, such as to make their boyfriend or husband happy with the sexual intercourse they have, and so on. Virginity repair surgery or
hymenoplasty (or sometimes called as hymenorrhaphy) today is undergone by women from old to young and from many different countries and rages.
BBC interviews a surgeon that is able to perform hymenoplasty. Dr. Abecassis, the surgeon, recalls that in a week, he could perform two or three
hymenoplasties. The patients vary from all kind of social backgrounds, but most of them are young women with age about 23-27. Mostly, their reasons are about the need of virginity before getting married with their boyfriends because virginity becomes an important thing based on their traditions or family cultures. Dr. Abecassis admits that he never judges whether certain patient really has to undergo the surgery or not; he just does his task. For the record, Dr. Abecassis is one of very few Arab surgeons who want to talk openly about it.
For Dr. Abecassis, vagina repair surgery is both a mere medical plastic surgery and a taboo reinforcement. But for his patients, hymenoplasty is surely the only option—that makes them happy.
Hymenoplasty is proven to be low risk, but still it is quite expensive. The high cost of the surgery sometimes make another non-medical procedure become an interesting alternative. BBC reported that there is a website that markets Chinese-made artificial hymens for only £20 or about 23 euors. It is created with elastic plastic and filled with fake blood, so once it it inserted in the vaginas , after the first penetration the woman can drip blood out of her vagina just to simulate virginity. The problem with this is that many married couple will agree the wrong definition about hymen and virginity—that somehow, torn hymen is not always caused by sexual penetration premarriage.
This is proven in an interview to a young man, who admitted that although the society accepts that virginity is not in tact in making decision before marriage, he refused to marry such a woman with lack of virginity.
A website called NewHymen.dk gives a more arguable explanation about this situation. It suggests that women do not have to feel that hymenoplasty is the only option available to repair their torn hymen. This website was created and run by a woman who admits as “a nurse, a social worker, and a professional educator”. It gives several explanations that are against the old formula and taboo like using chicken livers due to the infection whatsoever. It even suggests the readers to ask for some pill prescription to doctor—or if the readers are currently consuming the pill, it suggests them to plan their period to match the first night after marriage. This is a little bit pragmatic, actually, but it comprehends the gap between the feeling of guilty that women had and the reasonable solution to fight it.
That being said, an alternative—a heart-pleasing alternative—to young women is already available with the presence of these kinds of sites. There is an available solution to deal with their past and heal the wound and fear about family culture or men’s perception. The good thing from these websites is, like in a forum where a member—a young woman—wrote about what she feels about this virginity problem, they provide solution to see that hymenoplasty is not the only choice.
source plastic4surgery..in/2013_04_01_archive.html?m=1
cc lalasticlala
Celebrities / Re: Between This Four Fast Rising Stars, Who Do You Think Is More Talented?(photos) by totoakins(m): 11:54am On Jun 29, 2015
me I love Lil kesh. let's wait for kiss Daniel to release something completely different from woju. rikado banks doesn't have a true hit. Korede bello too is good sha
Celebrities / Re: Charlie Boy @ 64, Says I Don’t Smoke, Drink Nor Abuse My Body by totoakins(m): 10:43pm On Jun 19, 2015
my only question is how does he makes money?

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Crime / Re: 31 Years Old Teacher Defiles Pry 3 Pupil by totoakins(m): 11:21am On Jun 08, 2015
I find some of the Fp's thread titles alarming. why most from the back be mentioned Seun pls warn your mods
Investment / Re: Steps To Owning A Pharmacy In Nigeria by totoakins(m): 2:24pm On Jun 03, 2015
As a pharmacist am absolutely disgusted by this thread, I hope the OP opens one about how to start up an hospital next

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Sports / Re: Carlo Ancelloti Has Been Sacked by totoakins(m): 7:09pm On May 25, 2015
booked
Celebrities / Re: Dele Momodu Congratulates Davido & Sophie Momodu, His Cousin On Their New Baby by totoakins(m): 1:57pm On May 19, 2015
I hope the baby's head is not as flat as davidos
Romance / Re: 10 Things Cheating Men Have In Common by totoakins(m): 6:31pm On May 16, 2015
maybe he is just bored and wants something new
Romance / Re: Reasons Why Every Young Ambitious Struggling Man Should Forget 'Love' by totoakins(m): 10:01pm On May 15, 2015
as for me love distracts you from your goal, it makes me soft. I have always performed better as a business man when am single than when am in love

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Politics / Re: Missing $20b: Alison-madueke’s Real Crime by totoakins(m): 9:46pm On May 15, 2015
calebo101:

Go jail her na make we see.
Obasanjo, Atiku, Amaechi, nkorr?
this is the wrong attitude let's start from somewhere
Politics / Re: Missing $20b: Alison-madueke’s Real Crime by totoakins(m): 6:53pm On May 15, 2015
calebo101:


It's because of illiterates like you this article was written. Prove you're not an illiterate and please tell me one crime, only one she has been convicted of.

Propaganda will not take you far in life. Just like blowing another man's candle will not make your own shine any brighter.
if 1.48 bn dollars is missing in nnpc which she oversees she should go to jail till the money is refunded
Romance / Re: What Would You Do When You Get To Know Your Partner Is Gay Or Lesbian. by totoakins(m): 3:41pm On May 15, 2015
if she is lesbian then bye bye if she is bisexual...... then game on
Religion / Re: The Church Might Be Leading You To Hell- Etcetera Writes by totoakins(m): 1:00pm On May 10, 2015
Deuteronomy 14:22-27: "You shall surely tithe all the produce from what you sow, which comes out of the field every year. And you shall eat in the presence of the Lord your God, at the place where He chooses to establish His name, the tithe of your grain, your new wine, your oil, and the first-born of your herd and your flock, in order that you may learn to fear the Lord your God always. And if the distance is so great for you that you are not able to bring the tithe, since the place where the Lord your God chooses to set His name is too far away from you when the Lord your God blesses you, then you shall exchange it for money, and bind the money in your hand and go to the place which the Lord your God chooses. And you may spend the money for whatever your heart desires, for oxen, or sheep, or wine, or strong drink, or whatever your heart desires; and there you shall eat in the presence of the Lord your God and rejoice, you and your household. Also you shall not neglect the Levite who is in your town, for he has no portion or inheritance among you

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