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Politics / Re: Thread For Nairalander INEC Adhoc Staffs by totoakins(m): 1:39pm On Mar 27, 2015
vote GMB

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Romance / Re: When Did We Become So Tolerant Of The Other Woman? by totoakins(m): 3:30am On Mar 26, 2015
mollysteeze:
Over the years, in what is a total paradigm shift from the values a lot of our mothers had (well at least some), the "other woman" has now become tolerable. I am not sure when along the way it happened, and no one remembered to send me a memo but it appears to now be the norm.

I always have some nagging urge to blatantly say "No babe, it is downright unacceptable", when my friends broach me on this subject, but you end up being the friend who likes to break up homes because she's not married yet. People say if I was in those shoes I would feel differently.

Well Maybe.

However, no matter how much shame I would feel, I knew myself before I got married, my values remain my values, knowing my self-worth is what shapes every corner of my life and that is the core of me. To change now or later would be to deny who I have been for 26 years. While I am never an advocate for divorce, I have realized people do not change overnight.

A year back, my friend's boyfriend told her he was confused who to pick between her and two other girlfriends. Well she fought for "her man". Trouble is today they are married, and he's still seeing one of the other girls, who he has now rented an apartment for in Nigeria, and he's here half the year.

I've realised, the people who complain about there husbands or fiance throwing some other woman in their face mostly had an inkling they were cheats while they were dating. They were the ones who fought of five other girls to get their man. But the question is, if when you were dating there were five of you, why do you think today he would be satisfied with one. I have no doubt in my mind, everyone has an idea of things their partners are capable of in their subconscious, the trouble is a lot of us convince ourselves to believe some other truth that better suits our wants.

My mama has taught me, life is too short to jump into something you can't tolerate all your life, the sole reason for sharing your life with someone and giving up your freedom should be because they make you happier than anyone else in the world. Do not compromise your values or one day you would wish you had not.

But then, on the flip side, if you like smelling some other girls perfume on your man and having your kids run into daddy and "Aunty Bintan, the side chick" at the hotel near their school then go right ahead.
there has always been the other woman after all our fore father's always had several wife's so women shouldn't be so surprised

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Politics / Re: Nigerian Army Noticeably Absent In Town Taken From Boko Haram-new York Times by totoakins(m): 3:06pm On Mar 20, 2015
if this doesn't make ppl vote out Jonathan I don't know what will

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Education / Re: She Is 23 And Graduated With A Thirdclass Grade With Suicidal Attempts by totoakins(m): 2:55pm On Mar 13, 2015
may she go for husband

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Romance / Re: Things That Go Through Your Mind When You Spot Your Ex's New Boyfriend by totoakins(m): 9:57pm On Mar 07, 2015
the only thing that goes through my mind is. are they straffing!!!
Celebrities / Re: Davido's Camp Reacts To Reports Of Impregnating Older Lover by totoakins(m): 8:19am On Mar 06, 2015
soul calmer hmmmm
Celebrities / Re: Baby Blanche: "Why I Wear Lingerie And Not Panties" by totoakins(m): 3:42pm On Mar 05, 2015
is it only me that finds panty lines sexy?

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Family / Re: Is There Anything Wrong With This Kiss? (photos) by totoakins(m): 8:41am On Mar 03, 2015
passing by
Family / Re: My Dad Often Gets Unclad In The House And I Don't Lyk It by totoakins(m): 8:44pm On Mar 02, 2015
Pictures or ...........?
Politics / Re: Nigerians Reacts To Adamu Muazu On Twitter Over Opposition Hoarding Fuel Hike by totoakins(m): 7:32pm On Mar 02, 2015
just to be on front page
Education / Re: Mention One Crazy Thing You Did In Secondary School by totoakins(m): 12:44pm On Feb 26, 2015
vicechopsticksz:
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grin.hehe she was shitting nii....wif very bad smell
damn
Education / Re: Mention One Crazy Thing You Did In Secondary School by totoakins(m): 1:24pm On Feb 23, 2015
vicechopsticksz:
dat was in s.s.2 wen we strtd being naughty as pet senior levels nah..our physics teacha always visited d toilet atleast 3 times a dai..i nd sum crazy frirnds decided to peep on wat she does dere..lol we stood on d soak away nd peepd thu d window...na so 1 s.sm3 student burst out from one corner...he threatebd to report buh we overpowed im dat if he does we will also say he masterminded d whole tin as our senior cheesy grin.....
so what was she doing in the toilet?
Crime / Re: Police In Imo Discover Unclad Body Of A Rape Victim A Day After Val(Graphic Pics by totoakins(m): 10:30pm On Feb 19, 2015
cycline404:
I cant stop weeping after reading this!
The evil that some useless men do.
Women are so precious how can you gang up and rape someone else's future off
They will definitely see this, they should ask them self if they are really happy now.
If there past hunt them soon now people will never know the depth of there wickedness.
I can bet a million that you didn't really weep
pictures or .....
Politics / Re: Charles Eruka Reporting Live In Rivers Amidst Gunshot (pic) by totoakins(m): 3:24pm On Feb 17, 2015
ppl were walking about freely Jo everything he did was for max effect. would he wait if they were trely shooting?? abeg Jo

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Phones / Re: Bad Things About Rooting Your Phone (disadvantages) by totoakins(m): 8:30am On Feb 14, 2015
I rooted my tecno s5 and briked it eventually now I bought a tecno h6 and am reluctant to root it

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Education / Re: Hilarious Nicknames Given To Your Teachers When You're In Secondary School... by totoakins(m): 11:09pm On Feb 08, 2015
mayflower sec school
owiggy for our physics teacher that was always on wig
chame(chameleon) our hostel warden cos he looked like one
Education / Re: Reasons Why Students Fail In Their First Year by totoakins(m): 5:57pm On Jan 18, 2015
na part two I sabi say people dey fail the most
Celebrities / Re: Chacha Eke Gets Drunk At A Family House Party In Lagos, Poses With Denrele by totoakins(m): 5:39pm On Jan 12, 2015
derele is gay so nothing could
have happened
Romance / Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by totoakins(m): 11:20pm On Jan 02, 2015
I don't care much for dos and don'ts i do whatever feels right in the moment. sometimes a well placed text goes a long way
p s am not much of a texter

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Celebrities / Re: Photos: Ese Walter Ark Proudly Flaunts Her Huge Baby Bump by totoakins(m): 8:22pm On Jan 02, 2015
make the husband do DNA test for the children o, as for my oga born2boink(Bleep) hahaha . the moderator should be sanctioned
Phones / Re: Top 10 Android Browsers 2014 by totoakins(m): 2:05pm On Dec 31, 2014
uc and opera does it for me opera for normal browsing and uc for video or downloading or sites that are interactive
Career / Re: Pharmacists, Pharmacy Students And Interns. At Home Or Abroad, Let's Meet Here. by totoakins(m): 5:13pm On Dec 30, 2014
please there is a locum pharmacist position open
from at medkonsult pharmacy, ile-
epo bus stop berger lagos. Please interested
people can submit their cv to the pharmacy or
contact Pharm Oge on 08033576300 and
totoakins@yahoo.com.
They can also submit their cv to Medkonsult
pharmacy green roof plaza,isheri bus stop,along
old-olowora road magodo,berger,lagos.
pharmacists awaiting induction can also apply .
Attractive pay and working hours
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Locum Pharmacist Wanted In Berger Lagos by totoakins(m): 5:04pm On Dec 30, 2014
a graduate of accounting called to apply .pls pharmacists only
Politics / Re: 2015: APC Slams Primate Olabayo Over 2015 Prediction by totoakins(m): 7:50pm On Dec 29, 2014
whiterock:
grin grin grin

Me too I have a prediction! Whoever pays 10m into my account shall win Lagos government house. If you pay 50m, you shall win the presidency. Senate and house of reps are 5 and 3m respectively. State assemblies are 1m.

Their time starts now!!!
bro your account number please
Politics / Re: 2015 ELECTION: INEC Releases List Of Ten Presidential Candidates by totoakins(m): 11:21pm On Dec 28, 2014
Jonathan is a proven dishonest person he promised not to recontest and yet here we are
Politics / Re: Igbo Group In Lagos Writes Fashola, Complains About Marginalisation by totoakins(m): 8:18pm On Dec 28, 2014
[quote author=dontjealousme1 post=29283388]

Bullshit, u cannot tell people born and raised in Lagos to travel back to where?

Lagos is predominantly multi-ethnic.. It was a former Federal Capital and has alot of money and investment from all corners of Nigeria.


It is not a yoruba State and government in Lagos should reflect this.
[/quote ]
where is the census showing the the ratio of tribes in Lagos?
how do u determine which tribes get positions?
abeg go back to your father's village stop claiming rights somewhere else

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Politics / Re: Igbo Group In Lagos Writes Fashola, Complains About Marginalisation by totoakins(m): 7:35pm On Dec 28, 2014
dontjealousme1:
Lagos is multi-ethnic and not yoruba.



Lagos is a State and not a region and as such governance should reflect its multi-ethnic character.
and not regional character.
name a state that is not multi ethnic?
should a census be conducted in every state and the political offices divided as such?
please stop sprouting crap
if you have political ambitions travel back to your state
p.s am not from Lagos

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Politics / Re: Igbo Group In Lagos Writes Fashola, Complains About Marginalisation by totoakins(m): 7:27pm On Dec 28, 2014
this ibo people must be very funny. why can't their association in kano write to the governor or in any other northern state? it is simply because Yoruba ppl are generally non violent towards other tribes that they sprout crap

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Romance / Re: How A Married Man She Met On BBM Almost Killed Her With Sex And Drugged Drinks by totoakins(m): 10:37am On Dec 28, 2014
first time on FP hehehe
@op sorry o

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