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Hi All,
I hope u all had a wonderful xmas celebration, n am equally wishing u a luvly new yr in advance.

@ESLYNERA,
the point is, read the last two line of the original post copied below anyway:

"[b]All that glitter is not gold, ladies out there beware. That fine boi out there might not be the one for u!! Cos we are nothing but heartaches in most cases, thou not true for some cases anyway."[/b]

to be a man is not a days job. ordinarily it shouldnt be a one way spending, both parties are suppose to shower gifts on each oda.
but if you choose to be a playa then be man enuff to carry the responsibilty and in this case wife/wives, galfriend(s), and concubines should be ur responsibility.

Did i hear u say ur ex is 29? then that sums up her desperation. about you bein the only one i her life actually mean u r her last hope/bus stop. tellin she was pegnant was a big lie, cos if she truely was , no force in jupiter will make her terminate it cos she will us that to black mail n hold u to ransom.
Actually age aint on her side n she wants to play on the soft side of ur emotions(as per all wat u v gone thru and d good times u ve shared before). she being smart n u r actually buyin her smartness for real.
So she didint date/sleep with anybody all thru the time u werent there abi anoda big lie n thats enough reason not to trust wat ever she says cos even reading a mail sent to sum1 by her was to spite u cos it wasnt real abi!!!! wat a lie!!! dis gal will spurn/churn out any thing from her mouth to make u believe her.
Every thing abt her points to the fact that shes a desperado, goin after the other gal is quiet uncalled for and further deepens the fact that this is more than meets the eye.
u never marry am she don dey exhibit this kain behaviour wat if u marry am? then u go see helele.

in conclusion i will advice u to stick with the younger gal.

just my toro.


(send me a mail lets take this outside NL, we have a lot to talk abt)

smart chick - meanin if any thing go wrong/awry there wont be a loser rite
funny!!!

@jammin,

ROFLMFAO, men i cant laugh enough, being sexually active @ 7?

"u pay a one way bill first, n if lunch no come then she sorts herself out going bak!!!
who be santa claus. u no just sharp at all."

if u quite understand this it surely mean splitin the bill 50/50. but i am of the opinion that a man should pick the bill 100%. but after payin a one way trip n no breakfast/lunch/dinner, she finds her way bak from her purse. shikena. case closed, finito.

SURE BILLS VE TO BE PAID BUT THE QUESTION IS WEN
IS IT PAY BEFORE SERVICE OR PAY AS U GO OR PAY AFTER SERVICE?

@JAMMIN.
lets get logical hia!!
how can a chick come all d way from God nows where to the USA to show her pretty face??
if u are very conversant with women and their antics, u will know for sure that non will ever tell u that she will come roll in the hay wit u, except u have done it before now. but deep down in their heart they ve concieve the the fact that it will be an inevitable deed.
so my guy, the fact that a girl wants to visit u means she digs ur shit. guarantees or not breakfast/lunch/dinner/supper even brunch shall come ur way.
i am talkin from experience man.

@jammin,
i laugh wen i hear guys like u talk gibberish??
wat lunch r u talkin aint u a man any more.
u pay a one way bill first, n if lunch no come then she sorts herself out going bak!!!
who be santa claus. u no just sharp at all.

where u enter since sef
aws school n all dat
is d spain deal still in d pipeline

Hmmmmmm,
an interesting thread. Bills, 50/50,
My conclusion, Any guy worth his own invitin a gal over to his place even if its d end of d world should foot such bill. u can make an omelete without breakin an egg,
He be like say dat guy never find wife, so true.

@rady,
aw r u?? long time,


@Lexi,
Nice to meet u hia again. good luck in ur quest, u know wat i mean, dont u??

@SUGER CHICK,
WATS D BEEF FOR?
ONE OR TWO PERSONS ON NAIRA LAND KNOW ME N VE SEEN ME. BUT I WOULD NOT RATHER SHOW MYSELF TO ALL NAIRALANDERS FOR CHEAP PUBLICITY. IN MY PLAYING DAYS, I USED TO ENJOY SHUFFLING HONEYS AND ARRANGING A WELL DETAILED TIME TABLE, EVEN WEN A CLASH OCCUR, THE GALS PLAY COOL WITH THE HOPE OF WINNING THE FUNNY GAME. BUT NOW WITH THE PRESSURE OF WORK N AGE CREEPING ON ME I PLAY LESS OF SUCH GAMES N TEND TO GET SERIOUS. I VE NEVER,NEVER AT ANY POINT IN MY TENAGE/ADULT LIFE LACKED A BABE.
I ONLY WANTED TO HIGHLIGHT MY OBSERVATION BOTH IN MY PERSONAL LIFE AND THAT OF GUYS AROUND. GO TO ANY CAMPUS AROUND AND SEE HOW GALS FLOCK AROUND FINE BOIS. ITS ONLY WEN U R POOR N RICH THAT CHICKS FLOCK AROUND YOU AS WELL.


@JAY BABY,
IF I NO WELL @ ALL I FOR DEY INTENSIVE CARE WARD FOR HOSIPITAL. OK.

hey for all the playa haters, just have a little feel of moi

i was supposed to meet with my friend this weekend but had to travel out of my location on some official stuff, meaning it will have to be this weekend or there about.
In essence, more advice and words of wisdom will still be welcomed and entertained from all and sundry.
cheers
@desiree.

desiree:
yeah you are right, i meant girl no 3.

I experience on issue comes from having multitude of single female friends. I wish your mate good luck in his search.

I kind of of have a strange feeling that the Bleep in the story might be you

lol, lol, wat in Gods name gave u the impression that Bleep could be moi lol
Wanna know the inferences dat lead to ur deductions please?? Cant help but keep laughing, lol, lol.

Senetor 100,
foolin who here? please u r in an undefined relation ship and anything goes for all i care, helpin and givin money could be your own poverty allevation programme as a good citizen of OBJ.
So stop whinnin n crying over wat u dont own in the first place.
On a more serious note, if u actually want sumtin more fulfilin and rewarding from the gal, seat her dow n have a serious talk with her, only then can u get to know if she wants u as well n invoke commitment , oda wise u r wasting ur time n runnin a one man charity organisation wit one babe as beneficiary.

@desiree,
I believe u meant gurl no3 in ur last paragraph.
and thats some serious food for thot that most guys might not look into until they fall in to such traps.
aw come u sound so experienced? it beats me . just kiddin

@ FUNLOVING,
UR OPINION IS BIASED, REASONS CAN BE SEEN ANYWAY.
BUT UR ADVICE SOUNDS NICE AND COOL. I WILL LET HIM KNOW THAT.

@BUSTA,
ITS WRONG TO GENERALISE U KNOW, ONE ROTTEN BANANA DOES NOT SPIOIL A WHOLE BUNCH. THERE R GOOOD BENIN CHICKS OUT HERE.

@HARVEY,
STARTING ALL OVER AGAIN MIGHT BE A VERY DIFFICULT OPTION.


STILL WAITING FOR MORE PLEASE AS I AM BILED TO SEE THE GUY THIS WEEKEND.

Choose today whom ye want to follow - ur boyfriend or strangers!!!!!!

its an ego issue.
On the guys part he is like: am cute enough to go meet her, let her create the enablin enviroment, i may end up toasting her.

while the gal is like: am a very cute gal y should i be seen droolin over him, when there r lots of guys waiting to ask me out.

But realistically, they both want each oda.
mind u its not a one way thing!!!!

I dont see a big deal in this. i ve had a couple of shorties come my way asking me out : some direct and some indirect.
In all, if see wat u want , GO FOR IT. Ce finis

@kkutecolo,
its simply internet lust/infatuation/obsession. for sum1 u v never met b4??
how funny that sounds

Wats all these virgin, virgin,virgin shit all about??
If u r so proud u r still one then go do a badge n wear it on ur chest/privates announcin u r virgin!!!! wat trash.
or betta still go to CBN to get money with ur virgin certificate.
abeg make we hear word pls

@oracle,
u know d way we guys r, especially wen u r young n upwardly mobile in naija with a wonderful future ahead of u.
if u no find them den go find u.

@dvimpire,
babe no 2 is not domestic at all, u know their types now - eating out kinda gal n a cream gal to the core.

@naijacutee,
A gal will take u serious if u show commitment towards marrying her esp wen u r comfortable n not strugling from hand to mouth.


To all on nairaland,
more opinion needed please, plaese, n please.

A friend of mine need advice urgently and met me. Not being an island of knowledge , i decided to bring the issue to the house.
lets call the guy Bleep.
Bleep has a good job, almost thirty, n thinks of getting married late next year or early 2008, but to whom
He has 3 galfriends, and want to streamline his option to just one whom he will henceforth be loyal to.

Babe no 1 :23yrs, a fellow banker like Bleep, fair n pretty, quite a jolly good fellow, a yoruba like Bleep,
but lacks time for my friend.

Babe no 2 :23yrs, a corp member, very pretty, good to be with fair in complexion and a very
likeable personality, a benin gal.

Babe no 3 :23yrs, a final year student,extremely beautiful n stuning,very fair in complexion.
a very good cook n takes care of his house very well weneva she comes around,a
calabar gal.

My friend is not particular about tribe, n he is kind of in a triangular qiuigmaire right now, how do i advice him pls. only serious opinion wll be welcome pls.
Cheers

Sincerity of intention and purpose is the most important thing hia. First be her friend, then try and gain her trust over time, before u know it wat seems impossible will fall in place at no extra effort.
U dont ve to convert to a muslim to marry one! Cases abound of married couples bearing different creeds and beliefs, though a concrete agreement has to be in place anyway.
Love they say transends barrier, obstacle and frontiers like age, religion , race etc

@ Gbenga


Did u serve at itakpa in Obi LGA?
let me know please

Am not an IBB apologist nor an avid supporter of that crazed self styled and acclaimed evil genius, but recent actions within the cycle and corridor of power gave a whole lot of credence to this.
IBB went for PDP presidential tickets yesterday and guess what?
1. Amodu Ali was on ground to recieve him and even gave a speech addressing the mammoth crowd IBB came with.
2. IG of police - Sunny Ehindero personally escorted IBB into town from God knows where to the PDP national secretariate in Wadata plaza, zone 6 abuja.
3. Atikus' travails in this present regime might not be unconnected wit IBBs' candidacy - ie to remove the biggest opposition within the party so He IBB can have the Ticket on a platter of Gold
4. Remember the infamous pact OBJ had wit IBB in 1999 as per handing over to the latter come 2007
With all these, one may just wonder if OBJ n IBB are not all taking us for a ride
May God help Nigeria

Good riddance to bad rubbish i think dat says on Britneys' side
But k-fed aint gettin nuttin due to the water tight Prenupt on ground except she pities him n hands out peanut to him on compassionate grounds, better still for old time sake

Good riddance to bad rubbish i think dat says on Britneys' side
But k-fed aint gettin nuttin due to the water tight Prenupt on ground except she pities him n hands out peanut to him on compassionate grounds, better still for old time sake

Its such a pity that babes do run after fine bois like moi why all the not so fine n ugly guys find it hard to hard to date a gal.
Ladies i believe this is true. but ma question is why?
Cos most of we fine bois are only out to get 1 thing - hump in between ur legs and move on , as all we are after is just to bloat our statistics in dat regards, while the average jones will probably want to date a gal for luv.
Thou used to be a player, in my playin days , i ve had friends- 3 friends n even cousins. Had no problem with multiple dating as lies spur forth from ma mouth at no extra stress n if i get caught by one i dont bother apologising.i rather move on cos i must ve had wat i wanted. but i am like changed now n wanna be a one ladys' man cos aint gettin younger nomore .
All dat glitter is not gold, ladies out there beware. That fine boi out there might not be the one for u!! Cos we are nothing but heartaches in most cases, thou not true for some cases anyway.