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havent read the thread in question but the real issue for those preaching against casual sex is


1. Not to fall into it yourself. This can happen especially when someone is careless or discouraged.

2. People will still practice their premarital sex anyway regardless how many others are "judging" them.

3. Everyone judges everyone else in one way or another.

you'd better pretend to be young and senseless if that type of crap is your handle in this place.

guilty conscience.

ta lo koko bere oro oshi nbi?

okooyinbo:
Young man, I sympathize with you really. If she keeps calling you and you loved to be called by her, why dont you go for the kill? Confront her and ask her what she wants. Forget all these bible quoting "omo ales". Even in their Bible, David and Solomon did took away other peoples wives. What did God do when David collected Uriah's wife and murdered the husband? The GOD of the Old testament punished David so bad that the first child of Uriah for David died. And there were woes in the house of David. Absalum lusted after his half sister etc. In short, I would say David suffered, because the people punished knew nothing about David's sin. That's to tell you how irrational this their socalled God can be. It is even worse when it comes to the muslims. Religion has never advanced people without people fighting for their right. Human rights as we know it today was never a handiwork of the religious leaders. Left to them, things would have remained as it were thousand years ago. And only them would be enjoying the priviledges.

Dont let me derail jare. I just can not bear it when people come here quoting some fcking books written over some thousand years ago. My advice is thus: Ask her what she really really want. And you yourself should be sure of what you want too. If you both are really much in love and are certain that you can and are ready to weather the sturm, I dont think anything should stop you from taking the risk and getting together. Afterall, in the book many are quoting, it is also written: Why do you fear humans who can only kill the body, but not the soul? Go for her jare. I am very sure that nothing will happen that has not happened again.

The husband should even be thankful that you wont be killing him because you covet his wife. Examples abounds where husbands of such wives never survived to tell their tales.

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^^iwa tie on se nkan t'enyan ponle.

oo m'oro so rara.

esu ti jebi lori e.

awon mi on gb'eko- won ko e sugbon o gbeko.

abi won de ko e ni?

sagamite

did you grow up as the only boy in the middle of about 7 girls or why are you so hooked on women.

just curious.

boya nile tie, omugo le ma npe ni ologbon.

ko ri be nibi temi ti wa.

iwo ni mo nbawi.

poster

you can see the pit in front of you.

if you lack wisdom, jump inside.

^^shut up there.

oniranu.

nigeria don suffer if even malaysia is looking down on you.


however, we cause these things for ourselves, in a way.

and yes, the cults are very strong in emigration matters and good at exporting their members to different parts of the world for reasons related to cash flow.

that's the US govt classification, which goes by ancestral and historical ethnicity.

the black institutions break it down into more specific options such as african, african american, carribean, etc.


however, it's not a big deal imo.

in addition, they [US govt] are providing more options now for mixed people.

so maybe they'll reclassify everybody else as well.

. . . . . . . .


wbb

Feel free to get something useful to do, there opportunities in this country if you know where and how to look. If you don't want that, feel free to negotiate your way back out of the country

true talk.


most of them will still travel back out anyway.

once you leave nigeria to take up residence elsewhere, its very difficult to return.

Randiness is embedded in all tribes but no tribe comes close to we Yorubas in extra-marital affairs . .  both males and females . .  . . the institute called marriage has been subtly eroded in our culture

@ bolded

to the best of my knowledge, the men consistently outshine the women when it comes to adultery.

its only on nl that i hear yoruba women are supposed to be licentious as the men.

maybe these "statistics" are based on region, perhaps?

they've drugged the girl like there's no tomorrow.

lord have mercy and deliver these girls from wandering pr*cks.

hope it wasnt "open eye" that led the woman to these jaywalkers.

PhysicsQED:
@ tpia, regarding your statement that Benin was preparing for an all out attack on Ikaland, I am very skeptical of that claim and I would like to know where you came across it when you remember your source.


So I don't think Benin was planning anything against the Ika when they had other serious issues to deal with.

I think your source possibly mixed up a Benin princes in Esan land (Orokhorho) with Ika land.

remember back then there was no ika.

i believe the punitive war was planned specifically for a town or village/s in that region.

i got this information before i even joined nl, so i cant recall which source it was from.

however, the attack would have gone ahead had the british party not been killed.

from all indications and as far as i know, which isnt much.


also, it was centuries ago so all things being equal, isnt supposed to still be a problem or incite emotions now.

PhysicsMHD:
I also responded to your statement about a planned "all out attack on the Ika area" by Benin under the moniker PhysicsQED, but the spambot caught/hid the post.

what was the response?

you're welcome to feel it didnt happen ie that there was no such planned attack.

i just study history that's all. And unraveling the history of nigeria is very complicated, hence the need to have better understanding of particular eras.

abagoro:
@tpia.Read this link.I opened up a thread on it but I just discovered that it was deleted.I think there is conspiracy to cover up some truth on nairaland.http://www.tribune.com.ng/sun/index.php/features/2357-a-yoruba-enclave-in-the-heart-of-igboland-story-of-ugbodu-others-in-delta-state.

Read it before they will delete.

this is actually common knowledge to people around that area and i have no idea why it's just coming out now.

like i noticed, i dont think the issue is considered that important by the people there, because they've blended into the general ika identity.

creolized as a matter of fact.

but its very interesting reading, i agree.

seanet02:
Dede1, You only like Lashing other tribes even when you see the brazen show of stvpidity by ezeuche, chino and co. This is something that makes Katsumoto and Dayokanu stands out as above you. Did you know the number of times Katsumoto have scolded me here, many times but as Mature and Intelligent as you Partiality is your proble.
I still hold you in High esteem shao

dayokanu did you just say.


your role model and hero.

PAGAN 9JA:
never. i dont want to interfere in their lives.

you dont say.

It is expected that the move to create Anioma state will meet with great pushback in both Edo and Delta states

most likely it will.

havent read through the whole thread from page to page.

From what i gather so far:

1. ogbuefi believes ika are igbo

2. agbontean says ika are closer to benin, not igbo, with some exceptions being communities which are directly descended from igbo

3. negro ntns says ika should align with benin, not igbo [not sure what your view of their origins is]  and also, you do not accept ogbuefi's account of benin war strategy

4. physics hmd says some people [ikas?] are insulting benin and he wants to reply them

5. some other folk are also contributing- dont have the breakdown- i think someone said igbos were insulted and so he's responding to that.


also not sure if nos 4 and 5 were from this thread or a different one.

PAGAN 9JA:
they dont eat their own people. they just prefer the flesh of the occasional foreigner/fisherman, who has had the misfortune to wash up on their shores. wat beautiful & unique race.

Will you be visiting there anytime soon?

enjoy your trip.

^^back then there was no yoruba land [or anioma land for that matter].


the thing is, these issues arent black and white.