Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by tpiander: 7:01pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
preciousone123: My I wish I went for an older guy who can take care of me. But wait o...why cant some guys just tell yhe the truth when a woman has decided to spend the rest of her life with him.
Myself and my husband dated for 2 years of which we shared all with each other. However as we live in a western culture...we share our food bills when we go out. We got married 2 months ago and I am already regretting it.
Last month he told me that he invested in a business to surprise me when the money comes. However to cut long story short, business did not do well. I have a masters in business which I could have given him a feasibility study of the business succeeding or not. ?. As Some men like to keep money away from the wife he didnt tell me.
Now rent money is due in the house, I have to pay it. Now we need food in the house, I have to buy it.
My father had warned me against this kind of men who are a few years older than me...but I failed to listen.
The guy is so picky with food and I am thinking should a beggar be a chooser....I dont think so..
He is looking for full time work now but expects so much from me..
Honestly speaking I had options to marry other guys but I picked the wrong guy I guess.
Honestly considering a divorcee. Might as well cut my losses now. surely you arent the person waiting for the "doctor" in family section because your story mirrors that one. or you simply wrote your script and based it on that. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Love To Marry/dating A Man That Is Older Than Them by tpiander: 6:59pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
harmeyd: Opinions plz? you are just asking this question today because?  |
Romance › Re: When You Don't Know Your Crush's Favourite Colour (photo) by tpiander: 6:58pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Jollyjoy: dis is even worse dan the pix. 6ty6ix: go and read your books if you have nothing to do don't seem so desperate when chasing a man nitori Oloun. e never reach those levels na?  ewo ni "dressing in his favourite colour", we all know no normal man will start dressing like that simply because he wants to attract a girl's attention. |
Politics › Re: Buhari To Appoint Ministers At "Fullness Of Time" - presidency. by tpiander: 6:55pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
why is there so much biblical rhetoric in Buhari's administration. puzzling, does he read the bible?  |
Politics › Re: Fayose Offers Govs Lessons In Financial Management by tpiander: 6:10pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
great sense of humour. |
Family › Re: Benue Father Of Triplets Solicits Support For Children's Upkeep (PHOTO) by tpiander: 6:07pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
lord have mercy, cute babies. |
Romance › Re: This N*ughty Girl Gives Men Sleepless Nights After Dressing Like This To Work by tpiander: 5:57pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: 76-yr-old Retired School Principal Dies On Top 18-yr-old Girl by tpiander: 5:53pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Brytawon: In other news...
A GIRL USED HER DAD'S PIC AS HER PROFILE PIC ON Facebook, Few minutes later Her school mate commented on it: "Eeeii!! So you r also seeing that sugar daddy eh!? Do you know how I hate that old Fool!? He doesn't like using condom at all! so . . . . . . . . |
Family › Re: Brazil Introduces New Law To Reduce High Rate Of Caesarean Procedure by tpiander: 5:50pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
wonder if it will work. |
Culture › Re: Ethiopian Women + Nigerian Men (PICS) by tpiander: 5:47pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
I see where she said she's Ethiopian and Nigerian.
However her dad is clearly Ethiopian. |
Culture › Re: Ethiopian Women + Nigerian Men (PICS) by tpiander: 5:41pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
since her father is Ethiopian, that would mean her mum is Nigerian. Unless her dad is half Nigerian. or maybe she was born in Nigeria?  |
Family › Re: Why Women Treat Side Guys Better Than Husbands by tpiander(op): 5:37pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Family › Re: If You Ever Use This.... Type Yes Oooo by tpiander: 5:21pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
I never did.
Please stop reposting this picture or else open a blog where you can post it one million times if you want. |
Christianity Etc › It Is Dangerous For A Man To Marry More Than One Wife. by tpiander(op): 5:20pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
if they all oversalt his food or all putting different substances there, like maggi, that is a problem. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Marrying More Than One Wife A Sin by tpiander: 5:19pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: It Is Dangerous For A Man To Marry Only One Wife – Muyideen Bello by tpiander: 5:19pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
@ topic muslim section, why is this here?  |
Christianity Etc › Re: It Is Dangerous For A Man To Marry Only One Wife – Muyideen Bello by tpiander: 5:16pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: I just want to read what Aminat508 have to say... likewise. |
Romance › Re: When You Don't Know Your Crush's Favourite Colour (photo) by tpiander: 5:12pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
are you a mumu. |
TV/Movies › Re: Which Game(s) Would U Like To See As A Movie? by tpiander: 5:10pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
wbb |
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Culture › Re: Ethiopian Women + Nigerian Men (PICS) by tpiander: 5:01pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: South South: Learn Your Identity, South South Doesn't Exist by tpiander: 4:53pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
stop calling your folks Yoruba unless you really want them to be Yoruba. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Antichrist Will Be A Gay World Ruler? by tpiander: 4:50pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
vooks: Jogbaje please respond to this The desire of women is either a god women worshipped like Tammuz or Adonis or something women desire to have and that is messiah.
To give credence to this, look at this woman's reaction to Messiah; Luke 11:27-28 (ESV) 27 As he said these things, a woman in the crowd raised her voice and said to him, “Blessed is the womb that bore you, and the breasts at which you nursed!” 28 But he said, “Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and keep it!”
The Jewish women scripturally and historically regarded it a privilege to mother a King of Israel and Jesus was King. Look at how Mary spoke of herself; Luke 1:48 (ESV) 48 for he has looked on the humble estate of his servant. For behold, from now on all generations will call me blessed; of course Jesus disabused this notion by declaring his faithful disciples as more blessed. The woman in Luke 11:27 was actually referring to a sexual context. Jesus corrected her because if you look at Luke 1:46-48, you'll see how Mary raised Jesus and what things she taught him to place value on: Luke 1 46 And Mary said, My soul doth magnify the Lord,
47 And my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour.
48 For he hath regarded the low estate of his handmaiden: for, behold, from henceforth all generations shall call me blessed. Note the bolded and also note she did not refer to any physical parts but rather, spiritual ones. The woman in Luke 11, was an attempt to introduce a strange spirit into Jesus' ministry. He recognized this, hence his correction. Also note the preceding verses which explain what he was teaching just before this strange woman accosted him. What gave rise to the scenario in Luke 1 was the baby showed a sign which was translated to Mary. Not so for Luke 11, the sign was different, and not from God, unlike the first. If you still have further doubts, note what was recorded after the woman's attempt to derail Jesus in Luke 11. You are in the middle of being told what the character:antiChrist will despise. It's quite a stretch to jump into his sexual orientation and then resume enumerating what he will despise. Whatever desire for/women is, it must be some divinity as the gods of his fathers before it,and 'any other god' after it.
A third and simple explanation of the term could be the guy is a eunuch, celibate. Lacking desire for women does not automatically make one gay. Homosexuality is sexual attraction to members of the same sex and not merely lack of attraction to those of the opposite.
PS: This is not to mean that he won't be gay, just that there is no such evidence from this verse. Let's rightly divide the Word of God regardless of how we feel or believe about homosexuality not having the desire for women is a strong indicator of homosexuality. Women being added there to show there is a desire, just not for women. Of course you can disagree, your opinion is noted. |
Romance › Re: Photo Explanation! Will You Also Do This If You Were In The Girl’s Shoes? by tpiander: 4:13am On Jul 07, 2015 |
who is deleting who's number? |
Celebrities › Re: Daft Punk - The Faces Behind The Robot Helmet by tpiander: 3:53am On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Culture › Re: Ethiopian Women + Nigerian Men (PICS) by tpiander: 3:30am On Jul 07, 2015 |
^ why are you so sensitive yet you're the one opening threads here and there.
If you don't want polite enquiries about your subject matter, then say so in your opening post. |
Family › You Are Married And Your "Ex" Says He Cant Do Without You. Should You Be Happy by tpiander(op): 3:28am On Jul 07, 2015 |
at this state of affairs? |
Family › Re: After 5 Years The Prophesy Of Her Real Man Has Come To Pass, "But She Is Married by tpiander: 3:26am On Jul 07, 2015 |
prayer and fasting on top doctor.
na wa o, see greed. |
Family › Re: Why Women Treat Side Guys Better Than Husbands by tpiander(op): 11:40pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Why Women Treat Side Guys Better Than Husbands by tpiander(op): 11:30pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
you are free to type your opinion. |
Family › Re: Why Women Treat Side Guys Better Than Husbands by tpiander(op): 11:22pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Ladies Beware...keep Him Well(photo) by tpiander: 11:21pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
yemstok: A word is enough.....If she sends him bible quotes, Dnt worry, send him the whole BIBLE. KJV,NKJV,Amplified. send him everything. if he is not married, as in never been married, then what are you implying. in any case, like attracts like sha. |