₦airaland Forum

lalaosky: like i said earlier, if i was to be a girl, i'd never ask a guy out not that it's bad or that those that do it are stupid but cos' the cons outweighs the pros.guys are naturally the chasers.we are the hunters.in foreign countries, this ish is a normal day routine but over here in naija, i've seen most cases where the some of the guys soils the name of the said lady that wooed them.they end painting a bad pic of the gurl.telling their friends that such a gurl is cheap et al.

so i'll advice every girl to carefully weigh the pros and cons of such actions before letting the guy know how you feel.and most improtantly, do such with a matured guy that not silly guys that can't wait to drum it to everyone's ears that a gurl asked her out

with that being said, i think a gurl can give subtle signs to a guy that she is into him.like being there for him, making him laugh, bringing up romantic topics whenever they are together, playfully hitting on him and many other stuffs that shows a guy that this gurl is really digging him.if such a guy doesn't seen these signs, they you can openly tell him how you feel but if it was me, i won't.i'll move on

Lo! Bro sorry to say all these in NIGERIA stuff are now beginning to sound some how """the question is ladies when you where kids don't you approach guys and also had some as your friends? Ladies if you want the guy watch his character for sometime after that do what your HEART says, over here ladies do ask guys out it's no big a deal, am in NIGERIA FOR RECORD SAKE.

the first gurl i dated used to have pillow fights with me.asks me about my girlfriend all the time and stylishly tell me that she is single and whenever she is about to leave, she will playfully peck me on the cheek.i saw the signs and then made me my move shikena.

crispgg: I remember this woman.

There was a show about her on DSTV some time ago, I think last year. Doctors were making attempts to get her lose some weight prior to doing much needed surgery. But that woman was totally non cooperative, she would be screaming at her daughters to get her snacks and junk food. Her doctors would come into the house and start packing out junk food and drinks from her she hid them in her room. Her older daughters would refuse to get them for her but she always managed to get the last daugther to get it for her.Very emotional..., it was a serious addiction, if her screaming and getting angry failed to make her daughters get her junk food, she would start pleading and crying. She even called the cops on her daughters once.she would be crying, her daughters would cry too. Her last daughter is the most beautiful of the lot. I remember her singing and dancing for her mum towards the end of the programme and the woman was smiling.

Its totally unfortunate that she did'nt make it.

Ada Nri1: Are you sure

Babasessy: According to former Head of State, General Abdulsalami Abubakar, it will be at least 20 years before the North clears the mess created by the security crisis.

The ongoing Boko Haram insurgency has held the North down, killing thousands of people, crippling businesses and reversing the gains of education.
Also yesterday, President Goodluck Jonathan called upon North-Eastern political leaders to explore a long-lasting solution to the menace of the sect. He made this statement at the opening of the North-East Summit hosted by Bauchi State Governor Isa Yuguda at the Yankari Games Reserve.

General Abdulsalami, who was speaking at the Arewa House conference on strategies for sustainable development in Kaduna, bemoaned the lack of unity among Northerners. He said insecurity has done so much damage to the social and economic livelihood of the region.
The former Head of State said, “Certainly, if there is unity, we wouldn’t be here at this conference and since there is no unity, that is why Arewa House is trying to galvanize it at this conference.

“It will take 20 years to revive the North. A lot of socio-economic damage has been done. If you go round the areas; that is when you will appreciate the extent of damage to the region. We have to work together to revive it.
“All of us should join hands; we cannot leave security to the government alone; every Nigerian is a security officer. Let’s try to join hands and report what we see, so that the government will be able to take action. We should be the government’s watchdogs and also watch our communities.”

The Senate Minority Leader, George Akume, on his own part, expressed sadness that the North was no longer safe for both its people and visitors. He implored the people to imbibe hard work, integrity, honesty, respect and determination to restore the lost glory of the region.

According to him, an atmosphere without peace will make it impossible to achieve development, no matter how determined the actors were.
“The theme of this conference bears direct relevance to what is happening in the North. The topic for today is value and leadership. I do not intend to go into the conceptual definition of values and leadership.

“In every society, there are norms and values. These are highly respected; respect for sanctity of human life, and where this is not respected, there is no way you can have peace. This is a very big challenge, particularly in the North.

“I am very sad things are happening in the way they are happening now. I was in Borno about six months ago when my friend and brother, Governor Kashim Shettima, gave out his sister in marriage.
“We were about 30 that were supposed to go to Borno, but in the end, only 8 of us went.

The others gave different reasons for not making it. We must imbibe the values of honour, respect, integrity, hard work and determination because they have a direct bearing on the development of the North.”
Former Secretary of the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC), Hakeem Baba-Ahmed posited that the next two years would act as a test case for the country and the North’s case to bounce back to reckoning.

“The next two years will test the resilience of the Nigerian State and the capacity of Northerners to bounce back. Right now, the Boko Haram insurgency is eating up like a cancer, and it will require bold initiatives by Northerners to find a solution, by influencing both the insurgency and the government.
“Not all Nigerians are comfortable with a united and strong North. Its current position is therefore a welcome development to its rivals and detractors. They will not lift a finger to heal the wound. This will have to be done by people in this hall who feel the pain the most.

Meanwhile, at the two-day Northeast Alliance for
Transformation which commenced yesterday, the President, who was represented by the Minister for National Planning, Dr Shamsudeen Usman, asked the six governors in the zone to come up with a framework for addressing insecurity. He also expressed happiness that the governors were waking up to deal with the security crisis.

“I hope this summit will not just be a talk show; I hope you will identify at least four to five ways in tackling these problems in the next one year. Governors of Northeast region should work collectively to solve this problem in order to have peace in the region because insecurity is a reality in the region,” he said.

The host governor Isa Yuguda, in describing the summit as historic, said, “For quite a long time, the sub region has remained one of the least developed, if not the least developed of the six geo-political zones in the country in all spheres of human endeavour.” The Governor, while lamenting that the underdevelopment in the Northeast had been compounded by the security challenges which have adversely affected the socio-economic activities in the region, said that the problem of the region was not a lack of resources but failure to harness the abundant resources for its development socially and economically.

“It is expected that at the end of this summit, recommendations for setting in motion the machinery for the Northeast sub region to use its comparative advantages in agriculture, solid minerals and tourism to fast track the development of the region will be made.”

Mike Okiro, a former Inspector-General of Police, noting that insecurity had dampened the economic livelihood of Nigeria in general and North-East in particular, also called upon the summit to look critically at the security challenges and suggest practical solutions.

Chairman of the Summit, Gen T.Y. Danjuma, represented by Maj-Gen Tanko Nuhu Abdullahi, urged the participants to tackle security and its facets such as education, food, health, technology and a solid industrial base.
The 2-day summit has in its attendance the governors of Bauchi, Borno and Gombe. The acting governor of Yobe State and the representative of the Adamawa State Governor, in addition to the Senate Leader Abdul Ningi, Senator Babayo Gamawa and some royal fathers are also in attendance.

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2pence: Mohammed Jammal AKA ‘White Nigerian’ is a 25 year old graduate with both a Bachelors and Masters Degree in Global Management from London Metropolitan University and Regents Business School London. He was born in the City of Jos, Plateau State where he completed his secondary school.
Jammal joined Nigerian entertainment industry whilst studying in London. His debut performance was as a guest comedian on the AY Live in London’s 02 indigo show in 2010.

He’s also performed in different shows including AY Live (London, Abuja, Lagos, Asaba), Lord of the Ribs with Basket Mouth in Abuja, Nigeria @ 50 in Trafalgar Square, London, P-Square’s Album Launch in Lagos, Harp Rhythm Unplugged, Crack Ur Ribs and many more.

Jammal recently moved into the music industry collaborating with artists JJC and Terry Tha Rapman and released popular club songs in 2011 rapping in both Hausa and Pidgin English single called “Taka Rawa” His latest effort is a single titled Dirty Wine, the single made it to the No. 1 spot on Wazobia FM and No 10. On MTV's top 10 Afro beats songs.

‘White Nigerian’ is currently in the NYSC Orientation Camp in Nasarawa State Central Nigeria. Jammal is arguably the first ever full "White" or Nigerian participate in the National Youth Service Corp scheme, a programme established to expose young Nigerians to cultures and people they would not otherwise have contemplated knowing. NYSC came into being in Nigeria in the 70's.
‘White Nigerian’ Jammal does not have dual citizenship. In his words ‘Nigeria is the only country I know. It is my homeland and with all its challenges it is a place that will make substantial progress if we all decide to commit ourselves to his betterment’

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NessaFresh: On the first date...just give him a Haand Job

On Date Two.... Just suck the tip of his diick

On Date 3......U can suck his diick fully


By now u guys woulda been pretty acquainted to each other and stuff

U can now spread ur honeypot for banana

akpomeme: This Iron Lady just turned 52 today. Love her or Hate her. Drop a word and wish her something. I personally wish her long life and good health. May God grant her strenght and wisdom to chart a new cause for the Petroleum Industry.

cindyrella: How about a romantic and responsible man? Or is it too much to ask?

luvmijeje: @Mynd we are talking of a date that we probably lead to an established relationship!and d guy can't pay 4 d tab.
If I pay,dat's d end of dat relationship.

cindyrella: Lmao! for your mind now you be player abi? .

@op
nice piece.

EFULEFU1: its like
8 out of every 10 9ja men na ugly!
as i compare dem to other men outside, its just pity. .
yet dem dey run mouth.9ja men, sit up.

moneygame: If you have ever talked to a lady before and she rejects you before you finish talking to her, then you will value the five tips to winning a lady, I am about to share with you now. Have you ever dreamt of winning a girl you love and she rejects you? Then let’s evaluate some tips to help you win her starting from today.

* 1. Believe in yourself- have you noticed some kind of nervous you get when approaching a girl. You are always negative that the girl may not agree. It has happened to me before and the next time, I applied this principle and it really worked for me. Before you ever approach her, just conclude in your heart that she is yours and go with confidence and definitely you will get her.

* 2. Engage her with good communication- girls like guys that can tell them good stories always. They really like to listen to guys that are in the flow and bet me, with only this one you can win the babe easily.

* 3. Praise her- make sure you praise every bit of her. Her dressing, her body structures, the teeth settings, every thing you can think of that is pertaining a woman’s pride.

* 4. Promise to take care of her- indeed women like a caring man more than anything in the world and would do anything to have them. if it is possible begin immediately that same day to care for her in your own unique way.

* 5. Never boost of your achievements-l have some folks out there always boost of what they possess in order to make the woman believe that they are capable of taking of her. A nice woman will never accept you even if you are the wealthiest man on earth.

With this five tips shared, I believe that when you go out there and practice them, you will be sure of having the girl you love in your arms even today.

lovingsoul: A player is a sleek, smooth and supposed perfect guy. To the eyes and sometimes the mind he is the epitome of perfection, but if only you will listen to your brain, then you will discover that what stands before you is a certified player.
To him, his entire goal is to get you on your back not once but at least (3-4times).

In the mist of his friends he is an authority in the field of messing with peoples mind, in his mind every girl that have fallen for his subtle personality lives on like a trophy won by a football club.
So the question is how do you spot or identify a born player. Note: not every guy that fall in this category is confirmed player, but just be careful and let your brain work instead of your heart, players work on the heart and mind of their victims.

1- His weapon is his appearance and persona. Most times he is blessed with a body to die for, a lips to kill for. He is fully conscious of all these mouth-watering qualities, so he puts it to judicious use. Most players knows it all, in terms of how to look and what to wear at the right time. He is 90% conscious of how you see him from the outside, even though the real him has been covered up.
He knows the perfume that can shut down a train station, he doesn’t mind spending his last penny on very outrageous clothes, because most times that is what he uses to shield and camouflage who he really is. Not every guy that likes to dress well is a player though but most times players take it to another level. He could appear so cooperate, simple, hippy, rugged or creative, but just have it at the back of your mind that he could actually be a player.

2- Every player till date are good with words, they most times are smooth talkers. They know what you want to hear because you are not the first neither will you be the last. Their words are so convincing and reassuring; it could make you jump in front of a moving train without thinking. Quickly and swiftly like a 4G connection they appeal to your emotions, compassion and ideology.
They flow with time and they are never caught off guard. So be warned, most players are smooth talkers.

3- A player is so quick to use these words “I LOVE YOU”, “I WANT TO MARRY YOU”, “YOU ARE MY SOUL MATE”, “WITHOUT YOU I CAN’T CONCENTRATE”,”AM SORRY”, “IT WON’T HAPPEN AGAIN”, and so on. The ease at which they use these words makes any one fall so fast. With light speed.

4- They ooze out some unbelievable confidence. Sometimes you even think he is superhuman. He looks you deep in the eyes and lie to you. They hardly stutter or miss words, they are very good Hollywood actors. Just give them the script and they play any character of choice.

5- Most players are sociable; they thrive in the atmosphere of conviviality. They never get tired of meeting people, always looking for the next catch.

6- They use reserves psychology to the best of their abilities. They know every rule in the book, so that makes them an excellent choice; with ease they play the mind game.

7- A player would not want you to leave any of your things behind when you go visit. Even if you did, he will remind you and get it for you as quick as possible.

8- He will tell you to always call before you come over, they hate surprise visits.

9- A player’s home/room most times is always well arranged, like that of a presidential suite. You just find out that everything is in place. A player’s room is his altar, so he keeps it so clean, cosy and comfortable, it helps facilitate is quest for glory, if you know what i mean. But most of the ladies think otherwise. Some even fall in love at the sight of a beautiful room/house.

10- Most players are so protective over their sisters, and they love their mothers, surprisingly. Don’t mess with a player’s sister, he could kill you. Why, is because he sees every other guy that comes his sister’s way as a potential player. So watch out, even though it is good to watch over ones sister, but it gets annoying when you try to control her life.

11- Watch out, if he picks your call, he may not talk for long and he may not disclose to you his rightful location at that point. Their rule is, hide your location to foster you mission.


12- Check their contacts, they save phone numbers in a very funny way, a way no one else except them can decode. They hardly use full names to save numbers, especially female contacts. They are so careful with their phones, for you to handle it; they must be at sight to know what and what you are checking.

There are so many things that one can use to spot a player, like they say “NOT ALL THAT GLITTERS IS GOLD”. Also the more you see the less you know, the more you look for ultimate perfection, the quicker and easier you fall into the hands of a player.
ALWAYS REMEMBER NO MAN IS PERFECT, SO WHEN YOU SEE A SO CALLED PERFECT MAN, BE CAREFUL AND PUT YOUR SIXTH SENSE TO USE. Don’t say you never knew because that is no excuse..

Leadn: Lol, that's the thing,,, though I heard she had FOUR grown up male (I didn't hear any female child though)

nneh1: And how many % of men are husband materials? I am yet to find a guy that is still chaste at 30yrs let alone being responsible. You can get a prostitue that can build a home but i can't find 5% of men that can so barrister promiscuity shut ur mouth.

remmyton: yeah, u got me there, I didn't notice d seventh point is missing buh not because I was thinking about someone, but because I wasn't looking at d numbers

Joanna Sedley: Please explain the scenario in detail, i will like to hear more