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there is nothing like being mean,i just said it now,because so many men here r always telling us to copy from her marriage,i can't copy from a contract marriage,i only do real ones

harsh?I'm not ,just stating fact here

RichyBlacK:
You girls are horrible. So, because sistawoman is not as angry and depressed as you all, you've resorted to abusing her? [size=13pt]You all should be ashamed of doing this to one of your own just because she has the common sense many of you lack[/size].

If that is what you call common sense, than am glad to be a dummy
ahaha oh boy I pity you

RichyBlacK:
Siddon dia. Berra shange before you go clock 50 still dey single

ahahah single ke

@jgirl
serious love no be small thing,

Saw fergie in Hyde Park last year

Met her ones after the concert with Pussycat dolls, she invited us to the VIP section, damn her face is missed up , but nice body

adexcarz:
Osun state Governors, : Olagunsoye Oyinlola, Adebisi Akande, Isiaka Adeleke,

Osun Politcians (Senators): Iyiola Omisore, Simeon Oduoye,

Osun House of Reps member: Wole Oke, Adeogun to mention but a few.

Osun State Governor Olagunsoye Oyinlola and Deputy Erelu Olusola Obada have both been to my crib. They seem nice though we have met several times on different occasions. Oyinlola made me appreciate my perfume bcuz he too was wearing 212 Men.

Ummmm I remember meeting Oge Okoye at Selectives at Allen. Modibo FCT minister at Ceddi Plaza Abuja. Ummmm, MGBN 2008 met her also at Ceddi i didn't know she was even MBGN it was later that i got to know she was the one.

Ummmm Governor Bukola Saraki and wife,

Ummmm, Will update more soon.

LMFAO
SHOW OFF

4 Play:
Fowl language? So Outlawz dey talk like fowl?    

sistawoman:
I really could care less if i am someone elses role model.  The only person i want to see that in me is my daughtar.  And the only person i seek approval from his hubby.

This is really exciting! Black women now have better choices as role model, not those angry, bitter, in-da-closet feminazis that have been feeding them h-shit for years. White women have always had great role-models and that has helped them so much.

Michelle Obama is the way forward!

Do your wifely duties with a big smile on your face! It shows you love what you're doing and the smile comes from the heart. I wonder why some black women can't believe Michelle is enjoying her role as a traditional wife. They want to paint Barack as a closet-wife-beater. No way! They're a happy couple because Barack loves and respects her wife and Michelle loves the traditional role of a wife.
This is a huge turn in events for single black women everywhere

RichyBlacK:
Why not?

Becos she isn't fit 4 one

whatever90:
*yawns*

next


role model my ass

sistawoman:
my opinion matters but the final decison rests on his shoulders as the head of the house and what he says goes.  There can not be two heads, one person has to be responsible for those things, at least that is how i was raised and how i function now.  When the shit hits the fan he has to fix it too, so with that power comes responsibility and a real man wont buck under that presure but will welcome it.

I would never ever expect my husband to serve vistors that come into our home, i would feel embarrassed and would for sure chop off his head in private if he ever stepped into my terrorty to do that.

I would never feel comfortable with my husband serving me a plate of food, unless i was sick.

Does that make me a slave, I don't think so, i just know my place in my marriage and my worth in his heart.

Good for you, abi whateva rock your boat jare, so enjoy

DavidDylan:
limit to what? Abeg be submissive to your husband joo before you start claiming "In Jesus name".

hehehe maybe in the next life

sillyboy:
What if a compromise is not reached?. . . .does that mean the decision should be left undecided?

The funny thing is that when the "left behinds" realise that they are almost "left behind" they now start to do what they should have done in the first place in desperation. Most of them now end up with low-life guys. Start cleaning up pews in churches and keep disturbing their pastors . . . . .shior!

Oh come on, we have to reach a decision no matter what happens

Too bad for the ladies that ended up with the low-life men

DavidDylan:
Even Jesus said you shld be submissive to ur husband.

you must be living on a parallel planet.

LOL but there is a limit
No I don't live on a parallel planet, we just understand each other better

sistawoman:
I want to explore this  a little more so tell me what are the following:

Your husband making the final decision

Preparing his plate first at dinner

Following through on his decisions even when you don't agree

lowering your tone when you address him or using a different tone to address him then you would another male.

leaving him alone to discuss issues with his male friends

serving drinks or food when people come over

preparing his favorite meals.

which ones are submissive, which are not and what do you find to be slavery.

This is open to everyone.

DavidDylan:
You wait until you get married. you're still at the "everything is all rosy" stage.

Sex with you must suck then considering white guys don't want to be with you.

That aside, your claim is bogus . . . many loving interracial families springing up everyday . . . wow its hard to see a 10yr marriage based on sex alone.

@the sex lmfao, very funny
Do you have an idea how many white men hit on me per day,but the truth is I will never never date a white guy, God forbid bad thing

the % of white ladies marrying blacks is very small, so the marriage lasting 10yrs is out of the window

snazzy82:
Buhahahahahaha! Ur profile pic.I love that.Check my e-mail there and add me.Lets chat

Oh come on how did you get the pic then, if it wasn't from my profile , so take the pic down

spikedcylinder:
Sikiratu Sindodo? With a name like that, why would anyone expect better from her?

ROTFLMFAO that is the funniest comment have seen today

DavidDylan:
God help your marriage. Say amen.

sillyboy:
This is a typical attitude I was refering to . . . Can you all imagine me saying what I said to Troooe?. . . with her reaction, it proves she will just aim to slap me straight! This kind of attitude will always scare a man signing a life time contract with african women with such attitude.

Being submissive doesn't mean anyone is stupid. It just goes a long way to show how aware a person is about where he or she finds herself. One could be submissive and still call the shots. Untill african women learn to be submmisive and at the same time learn to control her man in a loving way. . . . .guess they may keep loosing their men to the white ladies.

Heheh what attitude, because I stood up to you, you should be lucky it was e-slap and not real one

In my book, submissive means slavery
Submissive doesn't mean respect
African men are bunch of control freaks
Do you really think white women want to settle down with your black men, they are just doing it for the sex

whatever90:
yea,d last time,it was her sis,how her sis is jealous of her because she happend to gain a lot from d country they live in,like having kids and husband,while her sis have none,after reading all that,i was wondering who the jealous person is,she or her sis?

get a hold of ur family's life off this forum poster

DavidDylan:
i've been grooming one the last few months. Will you take me now?

the guy try small . . . 5ft 9in, not bad.

you are not serious

OBVIOUS:
Let me slap him (poosa, poosa) sillyboy!!

Thank you jare
Don't mind the yeye poster, the statistic is so wrong, i doubt he did a survey sef

sillyboy:
I have never dated a white woman. . . but I think I understand why black guys tends to prefer white women to their black counterparts.

I believe the problem has something to do with the attitude black women exhibits. Now when I say black women, I mean both african black women and african-american women. The funny thing is that, even african women that haven't stepped out of the shores of Africa (most especially Nigerian women) imitats this unspeakable bitchy attitude.

This attitude "pisses" off a normal african man who believes that a woman should be accommodating and a bit respectfull to the man. So when a black man encounters a black woman that has got attitude. . . .the dissappointment doubles and kind of gets unpardonable.

Now white women could be pardoned because black men understands that their race is quite different. Black women should learn to be more african women when it comes to relationship. . . they should be more accommodating, submissive and not immitate the negative attitudes of the environment they find themselves.
Like I always say, a woman drives a relationship. . . most of them just don't know how to drive yet.

Can someone e-slap him for me
What kind of nonsense are you yawning, I hate that word **submissive***, are African women slaves, you better wake up and start smelling the coffee, things are changing and the women are taking over
No woman i repeat, no woman should ever bow for her husband.

DavidDylan:
so he's a doctor, rich, handsome but 5ft 8?

Not a doctor but he studied in a medical field
And nope his 5"9

whatever90:
@poster

first of all,anytime u open up a thread,u always or rather like shifting the blame to the other party,and then leave yourself blameless,ive noticed this,d last time it was ur sister,now ur brother,I'm not going to judge or insult him,or support u,like u want us to,no way,because i don't know d full story

@topic

what is ur husband saying about this?

DavidDylan:
Yeah but it would be nice if we didnt have her breeding another droopy pants gangster.

DavidDylan:
are you 12 years old?

It's her money, and that means she can do whateva she feels like with it

chaircover:
Thank you o my sister carry go. I totally agree with you

I rather spend the money on my kids than some distant far far relation who after bombarding you with flashing & text messages (its cheaper than ringing you) and you give them the money, they don't even have the decency to text, flash or ring say thank you.

Yeye people. . . . .oops sorry that is for another thread.