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Dvd4:
First series exams have started
Second series exams is usually starting August ending. Reg. usually begins June

Thanks, second series is what I'll look out for.

Brooke60:
I cried watching that video!

I wonder what was going on on the mind of the guy.

Can't seem to find the vid, pls share the link.

Dvd4:
First or second series?

Both

I want to know the registration date too.

I am going to keep this as short as possible, I was very brilliant at school that I did very well academically, I was so enthusiastic about schooling that I hoped I'd reach PhD level, but life happened and I started loosing interest in school, my dad contributed to that sudden loss of interest, he made sure he scrutinized everything I did in school, when I ask for money he'll send a lecturer to investigate, when I ask to buy anything he'll scrutinize and insult me before handing me the money, he always made sure I live in the lowliest of houses with roommate, pocket money is hardly upto 10k, I got fed up, so I dropped out.

I'm good with graphics and other computer stuff so I capitalized on that and started hustling, doing freelancing, mini importation and other miscellaneous hustle, my interest died permanently and I didn't speak with my dad for a year,

I'm currently 25yrs old, I managed to raise a little money during my three years stay at home and I was thinking of adding another stream of income by investing it in another plan I had, then I saw my classmates posting on Facebook with their NYSC uniforms, I felt something for the first time in a long while, I told my mum and she told me there's a reason for everything, now I'm starting to think I should use the money I saved and go back to school, to train myself, I know I'll suffer and starve but I'll be able to see myself through school, but I'm having second thoughts considering the fact that I don't want to finish school, hide my cert and start hustling all over again.

Lalasticlala I need advice please.

ImaIma1:
No it isn't. However, it doesn't mean that if he has money for an important project he should give it her again knowing she might spend it and he won't be able to react and it will jeopardize my he project.

It's just like my friend who lost her grandma (father's mum). They sent money for preparations plus for coffin to their dad. By the time they went for the burial, there was no coffin and a lot of things were not done. They had to do last minute fund raising. Will you advise them to trust their dad next time?

So to avoid stories, he should look for other alternatives.

She hasn't done this before, and no one knows she's going to spend it, the money was given to her to help buy stuff for resale.

ImaIma1:
Try and get over it quickly and learn a lesson from it.

Next time trust someone else or yourself alone as the case may be

So its now wrong to trust your mother?

46O1CE:
I hope you didn’t make this story up.

You said she spent half of the money ? Good ! Go and collect the remaining half ASAP and never ! I repeat never do any business with her again .
My 10 kobo

Its not made up, its something serious, if it was someone else all hell would've let loose.

Nwodosis:

You don't understand?

I have been working really hard and saving some money, by may i gave my mum the money so she can help me buy stuff i can resell when the price skyrocket by dec, it is supposed to be an investment, when i resell those things I'll get like double of the money, whenever i come around and ask mum to show me those stuff i asked her to buy and keep, She'll tell me don't worry its safe, or she'll say don't you trust me, or she'll deflect and raise another topic, i trusted her so i just chill, until its time to sell it, i asked her about it and she started doing the same thing again, i got angry and insisted, only for me to realize she spent half of the money, to avoid doing something I'll regret i just left to a place where i can drink and think, she's like the only person i trusted, now this, what do i do?

Lalasticlala, dominique fp please

I have always been sick all my life, if it isn't excruciating joint pains its one infection or another, I'm always anemic, i was always treated in a special way, my innocent mind never knew that this is way bigger than me and it'll make life harder for me, everything a normal person would consider little is a big deal in my case, my immune system is so weak that common cold is an infection to me, people sneeze around me its three months of influenza, i can't do exercises, wake up early and go out like everyone else, chilly weather is my nightmare even if i am wearing the whole jackets i have, i was so tiny and sickly, i didn't understand why i was so different until jss2 when an angry teacher who was flogging everyone in my class for noisemaking made a remark I'd never forget in my life, when he reached me he said "Everyone are making noise you're making noise too, you're a sickler, if i flog you, you'll die"
The statement hit me like a thousand dagger, that was the first time i heard the word sickler, everyone in my class looked at me with pity afterwards, i waited till break time and i ran away from school, when i got home i googled what a sickler is, everything i read was a description of me, my whole world shattered, i cried and cried that day, it dawned on me why i was too tiny for my age, why i can't run around like other kids, why people always looked at me with pity and awe, why i was always sick, when my mum got home and found me crying she knew something is wrong.
I told her what my teacher said, she consoled me with lies but i was a brilliant kid, i could tell she was lying, i already knew everything, the next day she came to my school and gave the teacher a piece of her mind, and threatened to change me to a private school, but my dad refused since i already have friends in my school, i grew up hating myself but i couldn't resent my parents even though its partly thier fault, if not for the fact that they could afford my expensive medical bills what would've happened to me? For that i am grateful.
After the incident i had other incidents where people called me a sickler and I'll always cry my heart out but shortly after i got into a university i developed thick skin, i stopped letting it get to me, i use to try as much as possible to hide the fact that i am a sickler until i embraced it, immediately i embraced it, words stopped getting to me, i became outspoken and less timid, my self esteem grew so big that i can stand up to anyone without fear of being called a sickler, i became cooler and i made friends, i remember the first time a girl said yes to me, i was so happy that day, i was so popular and brilliant in school, my ailment made sure of that.
I'm a graduate today, and i am 26, i don't work, no i can't afford to get sick going to work everyday, but i earn a living buying crypto, doing freelancing, doing buying and selling and alot of other online jobs, i am comfortable and happy, though i still get crisis every now and then, That'll be my burden for eternity, its not as frequent as before, i make sure i eat good food, take lots of water, stay away from stress, cold weather, high altitude, smoking and drinking, i might never find a wife and its fine by me, i wouldn't want anyone else to experience half of what i experienced anyways, i hope there's still more years ahead of me, there's alot I'm yet to achieve.
The reason for my little story is not to get pity from people, its to advise intending couples to get thier genotype tested, if theres a possibility of getting a sickler just quit your relationship, no matter how much you love him or her please, that innocent child doesn't deserve to suffer because of your selfishness, i have forgiven myself and my parents because i might die any day, but the life of a sickler is not a life anyone should experience, have a rethink before you make a mistake you'll regret for the rest of your life.

Paul. A warrior and a fighter.

The job paid me well, and i was able to save a substantial sum of money in five months before being fired last week by my boss, i was double crossed by a co worker and my boss replaced me with him, he got what he wanted but thats not my problem, i already got what i wanted. My problem now is what to do with the money i was able to save.

I have skills i am eager to put to good use but i don't know if it'll bring results, I'm good with website creation, graphics, writting and a bit of programming, so i was thinking of getting myself a costly laptop capable of handling everything and hone my skills/passion, delve into fiverr and freelancing, then start a gaming blog, the first of its kind because I'm a game addict. Is there a way can succeed with this plans?

Lalasticlala please help a brother

greatnaija01:
with all due respect your BROTHER is an emotional AGBAYA.

has he not MOVED ON?
can he not find a better lady that suits him?

see ONE MANS VOMIT is another MANS JOLLOF

So why is he RANTING like a wounded dog... if she was truly his EX then that means HE LET HER GO..... if he didnt he would have been asked her back even before she met u and then can he have the guts to say its betrayal...

MANY PEOPLE EXPECT THEIR EX NEVER TO MOVE ON..... and when they do, they get hurt and start whinning....

TELL HIM TO GROW SOME BALLS AND MOVE ON.

lol funny but true

A new girl moved to the estate we lived last year and my older brother immediately took an interest in her, they got very close that sometimes she comes visiting and stay for a long time before leaving, I'm a quiet person so i hardly talk to her whenever she comes, she always tries to start a conversation but I always keep it short, but this didn't deter her, she collected my number, hang out with me more than my brother, gradually we became familiar with each other to the point where she tell me things about her relationship with my brother, sometimes she indirectly tell me I'm more matured than my brother, caring than him, good listener and all, anytime she sees me with a girl she'd want to know if thats my girlfriend because she never believed i am single, later on i travelled to my aunts place and i stayed there for a month, when i got back i found out she broke up with my brother, when i asked why her simple reply was my brother is childish, i know deep within me that he truly is, He even asked me to stop talking to her, But i asked him why would i start hating someone who never wronged me simply because she broke up with my brother? Then he started hating me too.

As time goes on we became very close and she asked me out, i couldn't believe it, i didn't find her attractive back when she was dating my older brother because she's dating my brother but when they broke up i kinda start admiring her, so i said yes without hesitation, i never hid the news from him because she didn't want it to be a secret in the first place.

Now my brother said she's dating me to spite him and get him jealous so they can get back together, that i betrayed him.

My life sucks, when people complain of relationships i just shake my head and wish I'm in thier shoes, i am 24, a virgin, presentable and a bit handsome, the problem is i have struggled to ask only two girls out in my lifetime, both of them declined outrightly, four girls have asked me out but they're ugly and i wont be proud showing them to my friends because they'll mock me Till i hang myself, so i put all my effort into making money, I'm doing fine but i can't say i have arrived, now my virgin status and no girlfriend forever status is taking its toll on me, i admire every girl now, i don't womanize but i get attracted easily, even a simple hello from a pretty girl turns me on now, i have wet dreams frequently, i can't sleep with a LovePeddler because i don't wanna loose my virginity to one, i have so much love to give but no girlfriend, the first real girlfriend I'll have, I'll make sure i give her my all, because I'm tired of being single, i loved it at first but its not funny anymore.

Administration1:
I don't understand, are you still suffering from the excessive pains and sorts?

yes he does

I was born a healthy baby, i grew up fine until nine when i started having pains in my elbow joints, i never had this pains growing up, so my parents assume i fell from a tree and dislocated my joint since i was a very active kid, they took me to a local bone healer who couldn't do anything except worsen my condition, so i was taken to the hospital where i was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, i started living off meds and local herbs until the pains finally died, i remained healthy until ss3 where i started looking sickly and aneamic, i tried every blood biulder but it only made my eyes yellowish in color, i became so weak that when i walk a few sec or run I'll feel like fainting, i started having crisis from time to time, all my joints ache and I'd cry and cry, i gradually learnt how to manage it and stay away from hardwork and everything triggering,

It stopped when i gained admission to the uni, throughout my stay in the university i got sick twice, only twice, then i graduated successfully.

When i returned home last year November, i fell sick again, this is nothing like before, the pain was so excruciating that i couldn't wish my enemy, i called my mum to my room, i didn't want to look into her eyes, because she loves me so much that she'd kill herself if anything happens to me, I've seen the limits she can go for me before, so i tried my best to hide my tears and be a man, with the pain i am experiencing the only thing i wished for that moment was Death, a quick one at that, aside the pain, i felt like i am gonna breathe my last that night, because i felt pale and ghostly, cold, my breath is short, i was turning blue, my whole body is in pain,

I told her to be calm, that if anything happens to me, she should look to my siblings and stay alive for them that they need her more than i do, i told her everything including how much savings i had, my social media passwords, my next of kin everything, and i was taken to the hospital that night unconscious, after i was given a morphine drip i felt bliss, i was dying slowly but in happiness, FOLKS DEATH IS NOT WHAT PEOPLE MADE IT LOOK LIKE, IT'S PEACEFUL AND NOT DREADFUL AS THEY SAID, i blacked out.

The next day i woke up to this cruel world again and i was annoyed i didn't die, the pains subsided but the doc said i needed blood transfusion and my genotype is SS, thats where the problem came,

Firstly since i was born i haven't been to the hospital more than six times believe it or not

Secondly i hardly fall sick, maybe twice or trice a year

Thirdly i haven't had any blood transfusions before

How can i be a sickler but haven't had a blood transfusion before, i was devasted, my whole world just shattered, i told my mum to let me die that i will never agree to blood transfusion, my dad yelled and yelled, they signed whatever crap the doc signed and i got the blood transfusion, i hated myself afterwards, when i got back from the hospital, my wicked brother made fun of me, that i was forming iron man, i am tall and never get sick, how does it feel to know i have drank blood, i cried myself to sleep that night, and that night i lost a brother, nothing would change that, he's dead to me.

When i finally recovered, i searched for my birth certificate and i realized that my genotype isn't SS on the cert, so i went to three different hospital, two cert came as AS, One is AA, i don't know what to believe in anymore, i have resorted to taking folic acid, and painkillers from time to time to help me stay alive because i don't know whats wrong with me anymore, i get pains or crisis from time to time and my eyes get yellow from time to time, but my test results said I'm not a sickler, i don't get sick everytime like they do, i work from Monday to Saturday every week no break, i do strenuous exercise, haven't been to the hospital more than six time in my life, one blood transfusion and I'm in my twenties. Any helpful advice would be appreciated.

Stan.

Dominique Mynd44 please fp, this guy needs your help
Doctors suggest drugs that can help him

I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

thesicilian:
Sleeping with someone you love makes the sex more meaningful, doesn't make her a sex object, except she decides to treat herself so, or you treat her so. Nowadays it's not even wise to marry someone without sex first, due to the rising cases of sexual problems in marriage. So the girl may have thought Mr. Nice Guy was impotent and went for other options.

hmm

thesicilian:
Same here bro, my deepest respect go to the OP. Some people mistakenly end up in the friendzone, others are pushed there no matter what they do, but this guy has worked very hard by himself to become the King of the friendzone. She even initiated romance he behaved like a 'gentleman' because he loved her too much to sleep with her. When she didn't tell him she was a virgin!

You haven't loved someone to the point of seeing her as someone you could biuld something with instead of a sex object?

kiddoiLL:
"she was like David meet my bae and bae meet my sweetheart david,” People dey this life ooo

I'm really short tempered, maybe its a weakness, but i get over things immediately and it makes me look weak

soberdrunk:
Hahahahahaha!! Take heart bro!! You are truly matured, the way you acted shows that you are a real "papas man". Its her loss but please explain how you kiss on the phone?

that stupid kiss they blow on the phone naw

We have been having issues lately and she called me on Sunday that i should visit her at home so we could straighten things out, i told her I'd not be able to make it because i had an appointment later in the day, she said ok and kissed me on the phone before hanging up, later on in the day my appointment got cancelled so i decided to surprise her,

I visited her and knocked on the door, she opened up and the look on her face is nothing but disappointment, she was wearing something raunchy, exposing her full bursts and laps but i behaved like i didn't notice it, she offered me a seat and before we could finish exchanging pleasantries, her phone rang, and she was like its my friend David he's outside, i behaved like a gentleman and showed no sign of jealousy, David came in and sat opposite me, she didn't bother introducing us, and when i gave her the look she was like David meet my bae and bae meet my sweetheart david,

I was confused, she then started behaving like I'm her close friend not her lover, she'd chat more with David but ignore me all by myself, she'd tease David and sit beside him on the sofa while i sit miles apart, the last straw that broke the camel's back was when he jokingly placed his hands on her exposed lap, and she behaved like its some sort of joke. I'm not one to fight a fellow guy for a lady so i just stood up, shook the guy and announced my departure, i left the room before she could say a word.

She followed me outside, asking why I'm being immature by embarrassing her in front of her classmate and esteemed guest, that she's tired of my clinginess, i asked her why didn't she introduce me as her boyfriend? Then she smartly fired back, what is bae? Was it not bae i called you? I just shook my head and left, now my friends have been seeing her around town with the pretty boy, why are nigerian girls this wicked, this is a girl who tried to have sex with me but i refused because i love her beyond sexual pleasure and i respect her as well, this pretty boy just wanna get in her pants but she's too naive to notice.

I'm David, I had this idea of a mixed interracial family stucked in my head for a long time now, since i was in junior sec school, I've always wanted a White wife, not for green card or yahoo or anything but i want mixed babies and I'd love to raise my family the western way, i behave like white people as well, i think it has something to do with my obsession with white people.
Nigerian ladies don't get me wrong, yall are among the most Amazing ladies on earth but a black woman is so not for me, my dilemma is how to get one, I've tried social media, they aren't much there especially the ones who're under 25 and thoss available are either taken, old and scared of Nigerians. My mum wouldn't bless the union if i find one but i don't really care

I met her on Facebook and we moved to whatsapp, she likes everything i like, she's Caring, ambitious, smart and romantic, she gave me alot of clues that she's into me like the way she's always telling me that she believes in me, telling me that her kind of guy has all my qualities, sending kiss emoji, asking if I've eaten and all, but all the while she never asked for favors, but i wasn't romantically intrested in her, i just found her interesting and a great company.

Then suddenly she changed her behavior, she gets angry over little things, she sent me a message one night and i didn't reply on time then she said I'm giving her attitude, and all my explanations fell on deaf ears, then she finally told me we should stop being friends, i said ok because i didn't think I'd miss her.

Now i think about her everyday like she's the air i breathe and its wierd, no matter how i try to be emotionally detached its not working anymore, and this was someone i didn't have feelings for back then, what do i do about this?

Portgas:
Stop listening to her bro... whenever she comes in just mind your business ... never get into her affairs ... just keep your cool and as you said , the boss might take her side so stop doing anything with her....
confirm from your boss whenever she tells you something ...

it's just that there's no avoiding her, she makes sure my life is a living hell on as daily basis, as if I'm a threat to her, and it intensified when i started getting accolades due to my dedication

This colleague of mine is not my boss, we're on same level, but since she reports directly to my boss? She's always concocting stories in her favor which is putting me in the line of fire, she has gradually given herself the title mouthpiece of the boss, I'm enjoying the job but she makes sure I'm always frustrated and thinking of quitting because of her, i don't want to report her, who knows, my boss might take her side and I'd be doomed

Lalasticlala help a bro

I'm Frederick (pseudonym) i come from a family where raising your hands against your parent is a taboo, my mum has been with my dad for 21 years, she's a second wife, the first wife is living elsewhere, they got divorced before my mum came, now my dad disrespect my mum everytime, he barks at her for nothing, even things that shouldn't cause trouble he'll pick offense, he beats her in our presence, back then when I was young and helpless I'll just watch and cry but now I'm grown, i can beat him up anytime now because I told him the last time that if he touches my mum again I'll kill him, i regret telling him that but i was enraged, this poor woman endured this for 21yrs, currently I'm not at home, i got a call from my kid sis telling me he has started again, since my last warning he was quiet, now he's back to his old self, the worst thing is, he has other children, he'll always call my siblings and tell them bad things about me and mum, they don't talk to her or me(my elder bro and sis) dont talk to me or mum, I'm the second child from mum and the ninth child from dad, he's always battering mum and causing a rift between me and my siblings.

He pays thier school fees including my old bro who's almost thirty and my immediate younger sis but he refused to pay mine, the only siblings that talk to me is the last born and the youngest girl, the rest sided my dad

Please what do i do, i dont want to be someone who beat up my dad

I'm franky, 24yrs old, of recent it has come to my notice that my joystick doesn't feel alive anymore and I'm starting to get worried, i don't know what sex feels like because I've not done it before but all the manly signs like early morning erection, wet dreams, etc are no more, infact it feels numb like there's nothing there anymore, i tried watching porn last time it didn't get me aroused, I'm thinking of paying to have actual sex this weekend, but i was told I'll get attached since its my first time, don't wanna fall in love with a sex worker. Please i need advice