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So be my VAL! I'll never ever ever do you wrong I'll always always always do you right I'll treat you like a queen I'll buy you diamond rings. . . ![]() |
[quote author=coupe-boy link=topic=6755.msg10175517#msg10175517 date=1328991067]Why is it that nearly 95% of nairalanders talking about valentine's day celebration,thinks towards bleeping ? Is there no other things to do wit ur girl than bleeeeeeping![]() Haba! Make wuna diversify una thinking, [/quote]Because to them, "Love" means gifts. And because i gave you a gift, i have to bleep you!Therefore, Gifts + Bleep= LOVE! It turns the essence of VAL's day on it's head!(That's if it has any essence!) February 14 will NEVER hold any significance for me, and left with me, it should be christened FOOLS DAY, because, there are actually more FOOLS that'll be manifested on that day! ![]() |
Is it me, or is this thread actually 6 years old? ![]() |
Wislet:Whistling? ![]() |
Not forgetting props, costume designers. . . Special effects too. For the transformation of Peter to Henry. That scene is a MUST WATCH! |
^^^ So whats your advice? Cos somehow you keep missing the point! ~So dating 2 women means i'm not ready for marriage? When did Mr Brown Jay become "anti multiple dating"? Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaah! ~The only hint the passage gave me is that he is "old" enough to marry and that is why the pressure. being old doesnt mean being mature, but whenever parents get involved in such an issue, age is responsible. ![]() ~ When did MBJ start believing that dating 2 fun women is dishonest and unfaithful? It seems to be that you are ready to shift your grounds just to win an argument. What happened to MBJ and "to each his own?" This man does not necessarily have to be dishonest and unfaithful because he needs help in making a choice. Honest/Faithful men get confused too or dont they? lol. Are you saying "Everyone" desiring to be married should be perfect? I dont know where you grew up in. But here in Nigeria, a lot of men date up to 4 ladies(which doesnt make them dishonest/unfaithful), and they use the Elimination Method to choose. Dont blame me for stating it here. . . What i stated up here is what Happens in NIGERIA! |
What ladies? The ones claiming independence? Being gentlemanly is subjective. Anyone that thinks i'm a gentleman because i opened a car door should better wake up and realize that the train is about to leave the damned station! And if you think i'm no gentleman because i refused to slide back a seat for you to sit on, pls wake up and smell the coffee! If i'm dating a so called "Independent" woman, should she be "dependent" on me to open a car door? Talk about hypocrisy! |
BOYFRIEND GIVING U MONEY, instead of THINKING OF A WAY TO GET A JOB TO HELP HIM REDUCE THE BLOOD PRESSURE, knowing he is shouldering a lot of responsibilities!Passing and whistling. . . https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/65.gif |
Ok, now we need Directors and Producers. . . This Movie must sell! ![]() |
Somewhere, in a land so so far away. . . A village is missing it's Idi[i]o[/i]t! ![]() |
^^^ I dont know how you think everyone out there is dumb and dont know what they want. A guy is ready for marriage, and he has two ladies that suits his requirements. He doesnt know how to drop one for the other ( Read Original post again) How does he make a choice? And your answer to a crucial question is "He is not ready for Marriage?" Wonderful! What i gave him is what i have experienced guys over here doing. Guys who are living happily in marriage. And you took your time to analyze every sentence i made, but all you said was "He is not ready for marriage?" I gave an advice, you made an assumption! What the OP needs is advice, not assumptions! |
[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=868747.msg10174846#msg10174846 date=1328983497]Bro. [size=20pt]ther are many Oceans in the fishes.[/size] Nigerian women cannot be trusted. Forget her mennnnnn! [/quote]Thoughts My Exactly. |
^^^ I get your point! I wanted people to realize that spousal love comes above parental love. . . No man (kids included) should put asunder a wife from her husband! |
The girl is a lopsided selfish bit[i]c[/i]h. . . This is an Elimination Method. Any girl that thinks like this should be eliminated from the list of "prospective wife"Why would she expect a guy with such burdens to lavish money on her if she doesnt need it? He even gives her when she is in need, and she aint happy? O Mi Gosh. ![]() |
It's not! It's a question of "Who do you love more?" |
I dont get it. The players that'll be on the field playing, wont they celebrate "Love"? ![]() |
Chimezie198:The more foolish one, who has nothing better to do with money! ![]() |
mitchyy:Where on earth will i have time for this? And why would you need a budget to spend on the so called love day? Must you spend on a day dedicated to the so called Pastor Valentine? |
A question for all the people choosing mama over wife: If you, your father, your mother and your 2 siblings are in a boat, and there's a mishap and your mother has a chance of saving only one of you, who should she save? Her husband? Her first child? Her Second child? Her third child.? |
SMH! OP, it's either you choose a practical advice, or you listen to feminists and analysts on this thread. . . All they did was to castigate the post i made but NONE of them gave you the way forward! ![]() |
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[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=868155.msg10170341#msg10170341 date=1328920286]I'm replying based on how you worded your response so stop acting as though I just presented you with new information. With that being said, you said "Leave his house in a mess anytime he wants to invite each one over. A caring lady will notice the state of his house and do something about it.", "Always suggest eating out. . . " which lead to my comment about cooking and cleaning. You used those lines as though such tests are the only ways to determine if someone can or will make a good wife--these are YOUR words, not mine. Being at a crossroad is no reason to employ lame brain ideas. No woman's duty is too cook and clean. Just because YOU choose to assert these indoctrinated gender roles doesn't make it true. Like I said before, had the script been flipped and a woman came here talking about testing a man financially, you and your likes would be getting up in arms and proclaiming that there is more to a man than his money. Everything which I have mentioned about cooking and cleaning are in relation to the implied comments which YOU made. All I simply did was decipher it. You laid the foundation to this implication, not I.[/quote]Let's just say you are missing the point. This aint about gender compartmentalization! This is about using the minute details to differentiate btw 2 women he's finding hard to make a choice from!! ![]() |
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=868155.msg10170203#msg10170203 date=1328917765]A woman's "role" or purpose in life is not to be your personal maid or personal cook. Your the sort that would have the audacity to open your mouth and complain if a woman decided to test a man on his finances. There more to women than just cooking and cleaning and if you choose to limit your thinking that just that then I feel sorry for the woman who may some day become a permanent fixture in your life.[/quote]Whoever said women are all about cooking and cleaning? This is someone you are about coming into his life. What makes you different from the other lady? He's at crossroads, confused. He values both women equally. They are not jobless ladies. Cooking and cleaning is part of her roles as a wife, although not restricted to her alone, a wife CANNOT skip that responsibility in all totality. If that is the "only" test that would help him differentiate from the two ladies, then what tha heck? He's NOT basing the test as a prerequisite for finding a wife, for he has found "two" already. . . Just Differentiation! |
^^There are roles of a husband, and there are roles of a wife. I see nothing wrong if a woman is tested with the roles of a wife. It would be a shame if any woman tests a man with the roles of a woman, rather than that of a man! |
^^Firsthand experience from a couple of married ones around me! They were in a similar situation with the OP. Hey, he doesnt need to follow it! ![]() |
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=868086.msg10170086#msg10170086 date=1328915952]Oops, I made a mistake. Biko, no vex [/quote]Issorai. . . ![]() |
Haba. I'm Henry. We need Peter and Mimi. ![]() |
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=868086.msg10169865#msg10169865 date=1328912867]LOL ![]() I'll play the poster in these roles if given the opportunity. I'm quite sure I can be just as convincing as she can [/quote]I'll play Henry. . . He was the one that Mimi finally followed. ![]() |
Let him use the "Elimination Method". Let him:~Leave his house in a mess anytime he wants to invite each one over. A caring lady will notice the state of his house and do something about it. ~Always suggest eating out. A caring lady will care less about eating out, and would be more concerned about his thriftiness. ~Make up spurious gossips against his very close friends or family members. A st[i]u[/i]pid lady will take his side, instead of trying to calm him down. ~Pretend he is broke. If he has a car, let him park it somewhere and lie that it's been sold. ~Arrange for friends to always harass him over a spurious debt. To be continued. . . These are things some of my married friends did before they finally chose a wife, and it worked for them. If she's not concerned about your personal affairs when you are contemplating marriage, she probably will not when you finally marry her. When it comes to the issue of choosing a wife, all hands must be on deck else you make a mistake of a lifetime. There are a lot of "ladies" but "wives" are a microscopical few. May the best lady win! ![]() |
egbeman1:Never ever insult a lady who did nothing to you. And besides, you are appearing desperate. She'll think you have nothing better to do than expect her daily calls. Moreover, you've met her only once so what warranted the insults! C'mon Dude! |
uniqueren:Fat chance! When Inked nerd and a host of us are waiting on the line? |


? Is there no other things to do wit ur girl than bleeeeeeping
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Being gentlemanly is subjective. Anyone that thinks i'm a gentleman because i opened a car door should better wake up and realize that the train is about to leave the damned station! And if you think i'm no gentleman because i refused to slide back a seat for you to sit on, pls wake up and smell the coffee! If i'm dating a so called "Independent" woman, should she be "dependent" on me to open a car door? Talk about hypocrisy!