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Negroid001:
Me sef wan buy. Who get plug.

Seconded


If you don't protect yourself and family...who will?

Na two rounds of fight, one during the day, and one during the midnight

Lovelink1991:
It is our birth right for men to always meet up to our needs

C'mon, you don't actually mean that

SundaysTechLab:
An idle mind is the devil's workshop

Crime knows no age or gender
If you lose guard, say you no wan work, you go collect😄

Devil's workshop don dey everyones mind oo, no be the idle alone, na home training still dey keep most of us from renting out part of that mind to the devil.

horlarwereleh:
Pre wedding madness everywhere!!!
Bros, u are in for a long thing!!!
I pray she dosnt sink dat teeth into ur neck one day!!,

Teeth successfully sank into his neck.

Viralkid:
I pray the marriage don't end this way.

the marriage has ended exactly that way... You foresaw it...

PlasmaTV:
He should go to Kogi, Benin, Okene, Oyo/Ogbomosho.

He will see what he's looking for.

Oyo/Ogbomosho is almost done and many more that are still work in progress. Though, the economy is a shambles, poverty is getting worse, but there are still a lot of positive things to look into for 9ja.

Predictor3:
Why is he still supporting Tinubu who treated him with disdain?

there's nothing like enemy in politics.

As the country is borrowing, it's citizens are also borrowing...

For the very first time in my life, when I had no other option, I had to borrowed from one of this loan app some days ago.

Don't EVER say that you can NEVER do something. This life/country have many ways of humbling you.

LamineF:
Now I see why u failed being Vet Doc😂💔
You devoured your test subject.

Oh! How did you know that! Were you there? And thank God I wasn't one😅, there wouldn't have been anything called pet in my dictionary.

LamineF:
God pls have mercy on this guy

This is 6:42 pm and I'm still yet to receive the mercy



But for real, every smaller animals are meant to be eaten. They're food for us the "larger animal"

LamineF:
I'm scared of you honestly.
Eat cat? Is this real or AI?

I wish you could have a bite of it, I bet you would ask for more

Judolisco:
Wait oh... U chop cat? Na hunger we go call dis one or wetin? How u go chop house cat that went wild?

Cat dey sweet die

Money is the root of MOST conflicts in the world, followed by women. That's why the later can't cope with the absence of the former cos, the former control the later.

As a man, have the former you can easily control and get to be submitted to by the later.

Kobojunkie:
. This is all the more reason why the girl child should be trained to get herself financially established before marriage, so she has her own place to return to if marriage ends up not favoring her.😒😒😒

2. Yes, she has every right to boast of leaving marriage for her peace of mind. 😒😒

May God heal you

2special:
Definitely she didn't invest much in the marriage....na person whey invest the most in wedding and marriage dey hurt Pass.

seriously, she should have been strangled by her umbilical cord in the womb and done the world a favor... People like her are a poison to the society


Pls replace the "much" with "nothing" and it will all make sense.

So far, in my journey of life, with this very little experience I have, majority of single mothers are jobless, don't have any reasonable or tangible thing doing, they most times beg to eat( sorry for this but it's the truth). I haven't seen or should I say there isn't so many independent or self established, working class single mothers that experience rejection, they most times have men that are ready to wife them.

Don't dare ask single mom "how are you doing"? We all know what will be the response.

Treasure17:
You better change location. No government is coming to protect you. Bandits that are operating at the airport now.

Something will surely/definitely kills a man, but, I think as a Man, if you're not ready to defend yourself this useless government won't, try every means to arm yourself a little, be it Cutlass, knife, pepper spray and if possible gun (it could be all those locally made ones). This is the new 9ja

She no fit cos the money wey dey her O-pay no pay her, so, she cannot pay for what she ate with greediness. Entitlement oshi,

This is worrisome, see kwara see ogbomosho where I dey side by side... Make I dey sleep like Crabs remains now, one eye closed and the other one opens.

Mariangeles:
Those damn cats!

How about you sell off some of those chickens, so that you don't suffer loss?
Reducing them will make things easier to control.

What do you think?

You're actually right though, but don't you think controlling their numbers without tackling the REAL danger will still come with losses?


And I can't use poison nor do I have any traps...

Lovelink1991:
Behind every successful man there is a good wife.


here is a beautiful moment a wife gifted her husband who is a building engineer a concrete mixer machine


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qOOiEY74b-A?si=zKTiEiQ4i8HGCcMO

Now imagine having 3 good wives behind you ... But our women are too selfish

Mariangeles:
Oh really? Let me see...



Wow! Your chickens are thriving.


How are you able to keep them from predators?

By the way, I didn't see your mention earlier because you added an extra "e".

The extra "e" was a mistake and I actually didn't notice.

I really don't have problems with either hawks or any other predators of birds,
or snakes. The one and only predator I'm facing now is CAT. It's really tormenting them, and I even lost one turkey yesterday/today to that devil. Looking for a proper way to terminate his/her life without causing harm to the birds.

Mariangeles:
How is your local chicken rearing going so far?

I've updated the main thread, I think 4 days ago or so

Seems like a sponsored protest by one of his competitors or so...



It's their way. He's not the first, nor will he be the last

Ironfaceman:
I hope Sarz will not be tagged ADC member.
I complained about the epileptic power in the country here on nairaland.

To my great surprise a nairalander said he enjoys 22hrs of power in lagos, when I asked where exactly do you stay in lagos the dimwit lost his tongue..

Honestly every Nigerian need to be given a Guinness World record for surviving Nigeria..

You can't be so good without having a bad side and vice versa! There are countries that are far more worse than our dear country Nigeria.

I started with just five (4 hens and 1 roster) like 7 months ago, now, I have more than 60 of them apart from the 7 of them that died.

@mariangelese

No activities on this thread again, it will soon be forgotten if it continues this way. People won't see or know the benefits it offers anymore.


Let's keep updating pls

helinues:
So what precisely should we do about this now?

I seriously don't know...

Kokaine:
To be honest you've not said anything that tells he's faulty yet. Have you heard from him. What things do you do that he doesn't like either

may God bless you! For a man, a husband and most especially a father to come to that point where he's carefree for his CHILDREN (fine, I know some men are just naturally u$eless and irresponsible to the core), then there must have been a reason behind that. I'm sure he can't be this way from the very first day of saying "yes I do" to each other. So something definitely brings about the change, but, THIS IS JUST ALL ONE SIDE OF A STORY.

letskeeptalking:
This is why I never really wanted to get into the whole "what happened" story. I also said I'm not here for anyone to judge or convict me/him. . or for suggestions on how to fix the marriage. At the end of the day, it's between me and him, and if we wanted to fix it, we would.

If you go back to my original post, you'll see I only wanted to see if anyone who has gone through divorce would be willing to share their experience. That's all!

So, you've already made up your mind, you are just seeking for advice on how to navigate through it.


Now you're might start asking yourself what makes you so imperfect and what did you do wrong so that he can't love you at least a little.
You know, that's why he can't love you.
You will not always be loved @letskeeptalking, there will be days when others will be tired and bored with life, will have their heads in the clouds, and will hurt you.
Because people are like that, they somehow always end up hurting each other's feelings, whether through carelessness, misunderstanding, or conflicts with themselves.
If you don't love yourself, at least a little, if you don't create an armor of self-love and happiness around your heart, the feeble annoyances caused by others will become lethal and will destroy you. Walking away from your marriage is not the one and only solution to this conflict.

In this life, we'll definitely going to go through one out of the two pains life, pain of discipline or pain of regret... chose wisely

letskeeptalking:
Thanks, I appreciate your contribution. I know the dangers of divorce and how it impacts the kids . . but what about raising them in a toxic environment? Is that not even more harmful to them in the long run?

I think you've already concluded in your mind of what exactly you want to do, you are just here for validation. And I sense also, you don't believe in him (not sure even if you believe in God), you really don't have that trust again, nor faith and fate. I can see that if people aren't really saying what you want to here, you will give them more reasons to see things from your perspective. HOPE YOU SEE THAT, YOU YOURSELF AREN'T PERFECT NOR YOUR HUSBAND.


PS: I'm a married man, even though my marriage is still young, almost 5 years, but I've really learned a lot (especially from this forum), I've met some highly intellectually matured married men here and learned, and still learning from them.