₦airaland Forum

Mariangeles:
Some men so love it when their women dim their light. 🙄
That is their definition of peace of mind.

You quoted it out of context.

shilenji:
They are some addictions that have been normalised. Sugar addiction is one of them and the funny thing is it kill on the long run. That coke addiction not everyone like to admit that they are but in reality they are

Those addictions are more deadly that all this closed addiction like drugs, pornography etc. they are addictions people won't even know anything is going on. I really suffered coke addiction.

Personally...... Carbonated drinks.

It might sound funny but before now I can't but atleast a bottle of coke in a day. Imagine me having goosebumps shivering, dysfunctional and headache if I stayed away from it. I was so addicted that I once drove from Jaji to malali just to fuel this addiction. Note..... Fulani ranch in malali sells the best chicken in Kaduna to me then hence the icing to make the addiction beautiful.


I lost myself into the addiction of coke and Pepsi for years..... The funny thing is most people didn't know I was battling my biggest demon as no one sees anything bad in coke or Pepsi. But deep inside, my sugar level was not having it.


Glad I broke free sha. I stayed off carbonated drinks totally for the past 7month now. Just blended fruits and water. To top it all, I won't even take chemicalized products.

This might not hold water to many of you, but masturbation no even hold me like the coke did as I cured that immediately I had a steady partner.

RIP to a technocrat.

Atleast Tinubu gave us the idea.

I last had Amala aged 3, my charming is from Oyo State, and that goes by saying Amala is heaven to her. Aunty will do anything to make we try it...... But the colour already had me traumatized as a kid. So NO

CoronaVirusPro:
Your friend did the right thing.

I did same to all my friend who support Peter Obi. I detest bad energy being a hardcore progressive. So I rather break the friendship.

All my current circle are hardcore supporters and loyalist of His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR)

Move-on and find new friends.

You attract your kind innit? No wonder y'all won't think outside the box but myopically.

This made me laugh though.


I guess it depends on the nature of the mechanic at hand. If your definition of rough is aggressive pedaling then that can be explainable.

Jubrilv:
Peoples president On your mandate we shall stand

Another sycophant. The real enemy of Tinubus government.

Exousiang01:
Great man
The best thing to have ever happened to Nigeria.

For the first time ever, you made us develop hope for a greater Nigeria

You folks are doing everything to seek validation...... Sycophants are really the problem of this government.

StPete:
People get stupidly emotional when they read posts like this knowing fully well women can be manipulative.

What concerns 1k with sleeping with him at night if not to use that to emotionally stare the wrong sets of people?

What if that 1k is all the man had and had no nothing for himself to eat?

What does the woman do to contribute to the welfare of the family in these hard times.

Always listen to both parties before u descend heavily on one side especially ye men on this forum. One day, a woman will criticize you and lie against you, and people will judge you bitterly without hearing your own side of the matter

You're the only sensible commenter so far. I was awe at how ignorant the so called men reacting before you are. A woman rants online with a one sided story which is often a great lie and folks took it up hook, line and sinker. No wonder we have the government ruling us in Nigeria. People can but won't think

The emotional folks that can't reason will believe the story hook, line and sinker. I'd hear from the hubby side. If women cook up story against you ehnnnnnnnnn you go fear.

Artiiclebeast:
I may despise BAT for his unhinged greed but trust me when I say, the dead and useless faces you see up there as your hope for redemption can't even lace Tinubu's boots, take that to the bank. He is actually the one who can truly handle the North and their born to rule madness and that might justify his greed for ways and means to put them in their place.

You guys are just so irredeemably gullible, that's why they are bold to ridicule and spit in your faces with their selfish postulations..

I was beginning to see your point but the last paragraph is uncalled for. You don't even know what I stand for or hope for.

CandyOps:
🤔 or is this on some “trust me, bro” shii

Couldn't stop from smiling as I read this. TRUST ME (LOL)

See what Nigerians have been reduced too.... The money used in the branding and buying the container itself could be use for better purposes.


Mehn, Nigerians as been reduced to crust. If our own leaders treat us like this in our own country, we should not complain when been treated worse outside.

Omokri needs help..... Why always the word Obi on his mouth. It's getting sad and disheartening. I hope is family calls him back to common sense. Even if he's making a point, he won't and can't be taking serious.

Artiiclebeast:
Because of just Malami's face alone, I will make sure I campaign for and vote for Tinubu to continue.

Useless people.

Because of a man's face, you're ready to vote for another who you might not even align with his purpose or mandate.

Well, Nigerians and emotional outbursts.

MaxInDHouse:
No single law given to Moses applies to Christians!

We have no business with the laws given to Moses but these church pastors have complicated everything due to greed.

An Israelite must live by the laws Moses read to their ancestors and whoever wish to join them back then must also live by the same laws because it's the covenant between them and God until another prophet who is to come in the manner of Moses {Deuteronomy 18:18} Peter told Judaists in the first century that Jesus is the prophet who is to come in the manner of Moses! Act 3:23-26

But you may ask:

"Can a Christian steal, kill, fornicate and worship another God?

YES! If Jesus does any of these things!

So Christianity is about putting on the new personality which is in Christ Jesus that is the law of Christ that surpasses the old covenant!

God bless your wisdom sir/ma. But then, what's your view on the tithing? Is it supposed to be or just a way of extortion by supposed men of God and gullible followers.

Dtruthspeaker:
Now, you have changed post from is tithe in the Commandment to is tithe Christianly.

If you have truly read the Bible then you would have known that Christianity and the obeying the Commandments are one and the same thing.

You're so incoherent....... Like I said, have a great day ahead. If anyone with your point come along with maturity also, I will be open to discussion.

drehdinho:
A lady was introduced to me by a street sister after I mentioned that I was in search of a serious relationship. I gave a clear list of my requirements, among which were that she must be gainfully employed and of good character.

Two days ago, the sister finally shared the contact of the lady she found for me. I was hopeful, thinking she would at least meet 80% of my criteria.

When I initiated a conversation with the lady, I asked about her educational background. She told me she was a secondary school drop-out. I didn’t judge her immediately, I wanted to hear more and not jump to conclusions.

So, I asked what steps she had in mind to upgrade herself. She said she wanted to go into business and gave a rough estimate of ₦3.5 million as startup capital.

Still, I wasn’t discouraged. I told her that if I were to invest in the business, I would hold 60% of the company while she holds 40%. My reason was simple: I wanted her to be accountable and run the business with a sense of ownership.

To my surprise, she rejected the idea. She said she wanted 100% ownership because she is “trustworthy” and that I could observe her for one year to see if she wouldn’t mismanage the business.

I let that conversation slide.

Then, a few days later, during another conversation, I asked her what she was bringing to the table in the relationship. Her response? Just “prayer.” 😂

At this point, I started enjoying the conversation ,not because I was impressed, but because her responses were becoming increasingly ridiculous.

I asked her another question: How much do you think we would need per month to live as husband and wife?
Her answer: ₦1 million.

I asked her to break it down. She couldn’t. She just kept rambling and listing irrelevant things with no clarity or structure.

This morning, she called me via WhatsApp video. While we were talking, the call ended. I tried calling her back, but the video didn’t connect. I noticed she was typing, so I waited.

Next thing I saw was: “My data got exhausted.”

From the very beginning, I knew I was way above her standard , intellectually, financially, and in life exposure. But I decided to subject her brain to an intelligent conversation to prove a point: most of these broke ladies have absolutely nothing meaningful to offer.

To my fellow hustling men who have sacrificed and worked hard to become something in life , please don’t settle for women like this. Look out for women who have built themselves to a meaningful stage in life.

I have two degrees. I’m a lawyer. And here is a lady, a secondary school drop-out , who thinks, in her oblivion, that she can hook a man of my calibre.

I called the sister who introduced her and clearly told her never to bring such people my way again.

I know how this kind of story ends: you help them build a life, and the moment they start seeing a little change, you’ll see their true colours. Many of them think the only thing they need to offer in life is their body.

I’ve cut off communication with her already, and I’m planning to block her on WhatsApp.

Her unreasonable thought process completely turned me off. So many ridiculous ideas. It’s just mentally exhausting.

The lady is not dumb because she's a secondary school dropout, she's dumb because she choosed to. I have a friend who also left secondary school to take over his father's farm back then, dude is doing very well and he started open University last year. Is finance is really way ahead of many of our mates with MSc and PhD. The bad side is even alot of masters holder will still have that fish brain of hers. And, you seem to have a chip on your shoulder though. Our definition of success is very varied. Some see success in education other see it in trade etc.

Dtruthspeaker:
Why do you grown ups behave like children in primary 3 who have text books but rarely read it?

If you have read the Bible, then you would have seen that the Commandments are not 10.

Go and read the Bible yourself and stop trusting second hand information

Reverting to abuse and emotional blackmail, Have a great week. I'd rather have folks I can discuss with than kids who throw out jabs and insult. Enjoy your day Mr.

Proserpina:
1.5m for the future of your children and children's children?

So disheartening. And they still have the effontery to air it in the open. Funnily, they don't see anything wrong in what they did they just want emotional support and probably more funding.