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Bunch of jokers....i dont take these legislators seriously anymore....

MztaIkp:
Chill till you are 21.

till she's married or till when she thinks she's balanced n stable enough to handle disappointment that will come after sex

Bloommax:
The only thing on my mind right now is a way I'll find an excuse to leave the relationship. I'm grateful that everyone here took their time to advice me. I'm not the type that throws wise words away. I just hope God strengths me and make me avoid all temptations. Thank you.

There is another important issue no one is giving you advice about, your friend that adviced you to try having sex with your gender........Stay away from her too...just like your boyfriend, she is also evil

FromOuterSpace:
Girl, listen to me and listen very well.

1. You're 19. Not only should you still be a virgin at 19, but you should keep your virginity for as long as you can. You've only been dating this man for 7-months, and the fact that you're going back and forth about it means you're not ready, so don't do it. Even if you're sure about it, don't do it now or anytime soon.

2. You have no business dating a 34-year old. You're 19. Find a guy in his 20s to date, not someone 15-years older than you. Quite frankly, it's sickening of him to be preying after someone 15-years his junior. It's giving perversion and pedophilia.

3. You're asking if you should have sex with him and hope he'll marry you thereafter. Sweetheart, that is foolishness. A smart lady doesn't move like that. Why buy the cow when he can get the milk for free? Nigeria has enough single mothers already and many are in their 20s. Please don't become a statistic.

4. A man who loves you will wait until after marriage. He will marry you first, especially if you're a virgin. Point. Blank. Period. One thing I liked about my ex, even though he was a cheater (because I didn't want to sleep with him and why I eventually broke up with him and have no regrets about it) is that he never pressured me for sex and always said he would wait until after marriage. If a man has any ounce of love for you, that's what he will tell you and he most definitely will not pressure you for sex. No man who has ever truly loved a woman has asked her to sleep with him without/before marriage. That is not love, but lust.

5. The fact that he's having sexual discussions with you and telling you these things when your discussions should revolve around you finishing your studies or anything uplifting are enough to know this your relationship is lust-based and he's only pleasure-seeking.

Op everything this person typed here is correct apart from the bolded in No.4(they are sometimes true but NOT ALWAYS true.....Overall, at your age u should either not be in a romantic relationship or be in one with a guy who will be discussing studies and career prospect with you at this your age. SO break away from that man.
Also do not listen to that your friend that asked you to have sex with your gender. Stay away from Sex at your age...Change ur circle, ur friend is bad, ur boyfriend(abi na sugar daddy) is also bad

Osinbajo na bad guy..e remember ladies n gentlemen, e remember brothers n sisters, remember some deputy governors but e no remember emilokan.......

She is working for her appointment as Minister of State for Women Affairs.....I hope Oyo people are wise sha

loool

pongwa:
30 million.....geez, it's not worth it meehn. Educated ignoramus

You really think its not worth it? We focus too much on the sacrifice that comes with the process, it will be worth it in d end

Nothing to say ...just a waawu 5m dols?

redbull5:
YOU ARE A BIG FOOL.

nothing wey get reward wey no get price...dont get me wrong, love has its numerous benefits, but it has a price....does the benefit outweigh the price, YES but know that someday our loved one will leave a vacuum(either through transition to glory as ordained by God or through heartbreak that human beings serve one another)

u people will vote leaders that have no political will to do the right things...when everything scatter, u will now call for sack of NNPC GMD...weytin make NNPC gmd do.....he should go and use his child for rituals to get money to build refineries?...... shey una dun dey follow Tinubu and Atiku again.....u go still call for sack of GMD under those ones too

pek:
Chelsea can't make top four this season.

Europa will be hard

Boehly needs to take himself for mental evaluation u sacked a champions league winning coach, that was just 5 points from the top of the table after few games ONLY to appoint this learner

gaby:
Chelsea go sign Lampard ProMax....

why u dey downgrade Lampard

Before you fall in love, know that the price we pay for love is PAIN. If we don't pay it through heartbreak, we will pay that price when the one we love dies and we grieve ......if you dont wana deal with that pain/grief, don't fall in love. If you are lucky enough, you will die before the one you love dies....

loliapoopy2013:
You are right. The guilt of not preventing her from taking her life. But in all sincerity, they can't blame him na. She is a very trained personal and might have taken him down if he had tried to stop her.

The truth is no one is sure of the intention of the next person in Nigeria....everybody is just hoping God is with them, how will he prevent her, he probably would have to stay in his car first to see what is happening and who is around before forming James bond, what if he steps out of his car to attempt to stop her and it turns out to be a plot to snatch his car....

BigIyanga:
What does a driver have to do with an adult committing suicide? If she jumped out of 15th Floor of Hilton Hotel.. would you detain Tony Elumelu -owner or his manager?Poor folks always love to inflict more pain on their fellow poor people

I think u should read calmly so u can comprehend better, i am not saying he is responsible, I said they will want to ask him questions and hold him in custody while they investigate to be sure he isn't involved. Report says d incident happened at 3am and I'm not sure there's any eye witness.
And I said it is unfair on the driver and traumatic for him but that's what will happen. The Elumelu logic no follow for this matter. And talking about rich and poor, if u still don't know that this life is rigged against the less powerful/poor/less influential..then u should know now. The rich fingered in crimes get bail on self recognition, d poor that is just a random suspect doesn't get that....

sonature1:
Point me to the source of this information, please

Source: my brother, I no fit lie give u na

Leadforteservic:
I was flabbergasted to hear buhari say that

Man doesn't care actually. Doesn't care if Tinubu or Atiku wins. He dun see say ds naija matter pass im power, He's not power hungry anymore. I'm sure he's tired of the whole wahala and can't wait to hand over to whoever.

Okwyjesus:
Odds is in Obi's favour with Kwankwanso in the race.

If Kwankwanso do otherwise, NO SOUTHERN WILL EVER TAKE HIM SERIOUS AGAIN.

If there's any group of people Kwankwaso care about, it's the youth of Kano and the north in general. He doesn't care if the south takes him serious. We take these politicians for what they say, when we should be taking them by their actions. Kwankwaso doest care about the south taking him serious, man just wants to be able to empower norther youths(good one I think). Tinubu wants to be seen to be the leader of the whole country and be the one everyone comes to. Obi wants to cut cost of governance and help people produce what they can sell abroad. Atiku sees it like career, after doing vice d next promotion is to be the main man

gassbee:
Some drivers self, person go tel u say him.wan come down for on top bridge n u cant use your common sense to drive on to a safer place

The driver could have done that if it occurred to him but except other facts are established, the driver shouldn't take the blame at this moment.

Kobicove:
Did they detain him?

Honestly the logical thing to do would be to detain him until it is established that he has no hand in it. I seriously pity the driver(if he knows nothing about it). People should please and please not commit suicide, but if they want to, they should think of innocent people that will be put in trouble. An old friend that reached out to the girl after a long time will be investigated, d driver, d boyfriend, the last calls to her phone.

loliapoopy2013:
Everyone in Nigeria is depressed but managing, if you kii yourself na you lose. Family and friends will mourn for a while and move on. That guy you killed yourself for will marry another person. You are so wicked that you can't even think of the parents that suffered for you from birth to this age, or the thought of what your unborn children will look like. Maybe these extreme behaviours was what caused the quarrel between the two of them.

Right now, na d driver I pity pass(if he knows nothing about it). Getting investigated by naija security agencies can mess up ur mind even if you are innocent.

Bigfish121:
Before you commit suicide, please think about your loved ones.

Also think about innocent people u may put in trouble n unnecessary stress. The uber driver, the fiance, or anyone she had disagreement with will be under serious investigation now. Just imagine the uber driver is someone hustling trying to feed his family, what if he has a sick child he is hustling to Care for. People should think of others whose lives will be disorganized before they commit suicide

SK1SOLA:
I wish the affected staffs well, it's not easy to loose a job this days Facebook AI is indeed the future

Na robot we go dey submit report, complain to

i swear, this is very difficult for them. we all think of job loss alone but it is far beyond that...a lot of those staff are on sponsorship visas by the company which means they will most likely lose their right to stay in the country legally too if they dont get another employer asap....postgraduate admission for January will get tougher as that may be a sure way to preserve their status

Sadly this will go round...every industry will feel the impact of this...everyone will start cutting cost now, lower sales for every business person and this can only mean one thing, more downsizing or if u like rightsizing

....i think say i be hard guy, i come dey pity them...This should be a lesson to others ad those of u that want to go and steal when Tinubu or Atiku becomes president.........e get where ur stolen wealth no go fit help u o........at least if u thief our money, use am set up business make u for dey help people...if u help plenty people, na seed u dey sow o.......imagine this man use that money wey e use buy 40 properties dey pay people medical bills, e fit see correct pure donor now, not the transactional one

uk should getat

all of them dey learn where naija dey

Newman001:
One day a friend of mine told me that someone he knows collected her number and my so call girlfriend slept over at the guys place after just two days of knowing the guy. I confronted her, she denied initially but later owned up and apologized. I forgave her because I know no one is perfect.

looooool......no lie, the sex sweet u well well

okowa no dey work with data......na why dem no fit fact check anything for am...e just dey agree with every body opinion