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Merry100:All what you have said still boils down to what i said in my original post. A woman has to be patient to build with her partner or potential partner to be able to benefit positively from that partner. I still reiterate that no woman likes to be alone. Its just that they want a Prince Charming. They want food wey don done. They dont want to go through the rigorous process of early stage of relationship. It’s punishment o. You know seh woman ego big pass man own. Especially among her peers and her subordinates. Nope not all that kind of relationship is valuable. Everything is a test. The man could be playing her for her money. Also did you know that women despise men that let them do what they want. Women study everything the man does. No single thing goes unnoticed. Look ma’am the truth of the matter is people, women aside now. People who are victimized, cheated on, treated badly. Those people you will never ever hear them complain. They wont even let you defend them. Like i said earlier. You are rebelling against that cultural “shackles” that has benefited women. Do you know how hard it is to resist emotions?. Infact financial independence feeds women lack of self control. She opens up to everyone that seem nice to her so they mess her up plenty times. Life becomes like an office job to this kinds of women. |
Welcome to social media age where someone who is clearly suffering the consequences of their actions is advising to make the same mistake they made. It seems misery does love company. Single mothers and impatient girlfriends should leave our sweet women alone abeg. |
Antlisiam:Chai! Una too dey play for here. Savage though |
Merry100:Hope you are aware the guy can send her packing. And now she’s single again. Now she has to hunt for guys and start the cycle all over. But the guy can just marry another woman almost immediately. Men can marry the most ugliest woman. Women are picky and choosy. Na there she go old. The odds are against you guys my dear. At the end of the day na talk we just dey talk reality speaks for itself. |
Merry100:But if thats the case why are you women supporting Frank Edoho’s wife. Does it mean all women cheat on their husbands or ifs a fantasy among women |
Merry100:Yes he is right for irresponsible men. Not all men are irresponsible. A responsible man expects a sensible woman. |
Merry100:But a Woman does indeed belong to a man. If not why do you guys wanna get married at all cost. You know, you guys talk a lot of logical things when having conversations with you but when hormones and emotions take over all logic just flies out the window. That emotion and hormones is the reason women can never unite for a cause lai lai. Also when women gets above a certain age they jist become more mature and can never allow their sons take quarter of what they dished out to their husbands while they were younger. Infact it is you women that encourage men to behave badly to other women. A woman will tell her son that if sue cannot be patient let her go. Her wahala too much abeg. But if the guy ask the father if his mum was different he will say no!. All those bad characters you mentioned are actually being tolerated and encouraged by older women. Not men. This society is being run by women. So many times older women will tell the younger ones that men are polygamous that you should leave them alone to do what they like. Shey you know seh na woman dey shame woman pass infact the most goto weapon of a woman against her fellow woman and men sef is shame. Women are very stubborn o. Before a woman will agree to any standards they must have been defeated to the core and saw that the battle cannot be won. Una think seh older generations stupid? Lol. Life was brutish back then. Now everybody don chop belleful na him make una think seh women were soft back then. Women women wey no dey look face when craze start. An ordinary woman can wash Tinunbu from head to toe not caring who e b. Those badly behaved men you are talking about most of them are products of single mothers or mothers that snatched the authority of the man over the child. Also did you know it is the weak ones in society that usually cunningly create culture. Did you know this culture you women are rebelling against now was perpetuated by you guys. Because you guys observed you were fragile and cannot handle so much stress so after all the stress over many years, you decided to play the role of this sweet damsel in distress that needs saving from a man. So the men mumu fell for it. What are you guys even rebelling against sef. You guys are cunning and diabolical. When a man marries you. All you do is manipulate him to do tour biddings till he dies. Infact the house belongs to you guys, the kids belong to you guys. Infact some of you are so stubborn that you want the benefit of a wife but you dont want the responsibilities. If una don taya to dey play cute damsel in distress then so be it. Make una dey compete with men lets see how far it goes. In my own opinion sha. I believe society can never evolve beyond the point where a woman stops needing a man. The reason everybody is shouting respect respect is because a woman won’t do anything for you unless she is emotionally attached to you. And since emotions dey expire respect and tolerance becomes the reason she does what she does. Hmm Woman! Woman!!. Have you seen two women fighting, it’s vicious. Even mere quarrel sef, ground go shake. A woman can hold grudges against you for eternity. She fit avoid you for judgement day join sef. Women, they fight dirty very dirty. Una kom dey claim seh society dey disrespect una, society no value una, society dey oppress una. Na una society fear pass. Very funny. But this one wey una no wan dey husband house again na dat one go finish una kpatakpata. Do well to reply this one o merry100 |
3weeksblocking:The reason is because everything in our religion is out there in the open and nothing is gate kept. So its very likely to hear something thats not polished. |
Dont marry her. Women that asks those questions she asked are aggressive and impatient women. If you study her very well, her going to church is because she is looking for something from God. Sje has a technical brain. God is just a means to an end for her. Dont make that mistake bro. |
Proserpina:Lol. Madam i don answer your question. But if i didn’t, then Clarify which one i didn’t answer |
Merry100:Hmmm…. So if i approached you and asked you out what will your relationship status be? Single lady?. Because you are not married means you are a single lady? Does that mean you are ready to mingle? Think about that before you throw the words “single lady” around. Marriage is an institution and men are the head of that institution but modern women seem to want to rebel against that idea. They want their partner to be their “equal” because they can both stand upright and walk with two legs. They think the man being the leader means he wants to walk over them and boss them around. To reiterate marriage is an institution. As an institution the man is automatically the head. Having this in mind would guide every woman to make careful decisions. To choose partners who would lead with love and who listens. But thinking a man and a woman are equal when it comes to relationship is an idea that has never worked. A man no matter how dormant and dense he appears to be can lead a family better than a domineering and strong woman. I have seen marriages where it seems its the woman that’s running everything in the house hut looking deep into that marriage you will see that there are situations where the man stands his ground to ensure that that woman doesn’t run the family to mud!. When a woman marries a man she has chosen to surrender her leadership to that man ma’am. Because if you truly think deeply you chose that guy not because he is handsome but because he had leadership traits and you are sure that he can coordinate you towards your goal. Even though you both share same ideals you know that his contribution will propel your goals and aspirations immensely towards your desired destination. What i think you are rebelling against is the style of leadership common in our african homes whereby the man is the lord and savior of the family. Whereby the man is a despotic leader who doesn’t listen to his wife. Its not the same in every African home. To address your last point about women being free to do as they please. Have you seen latest podcasts and most recently Frank Edoho’s case. Look at all what they did for their wives and see how they paid them back. For some weird reason women seem to be a rebellious gender. They seem not to like order. It seems they view order as some sort of control and restrictions. If you are the type of man that leaves her alone to do as she pleases and supports her she seem to also resent you for being good to her. Modern women are messed up mehn. |
Merry100:Men and women are wired differently. You talk asif your orientation is modern. In the old days people look at towns and villages and the home a woman came from before proceeding to date or marry her. To avoid orientations such as yours. But because its a mixed society and your voices are louder in this impulsive internet space you think all women welcome your kind of thinking. Societal norms and cultures are actually set up to protect the weaker gender (women) from their impulsive decisions and from stronger and domineering gender (men). Most marriages where the women initiates the relationships usually end badly except for very few and those few they were both friends and didn’t met at random places where fhe lady goes to “toast” him. This thing you call modern is just “impulse”. Everybody wants to do what they like. They think culture is something backwards. They think restrictions are prison sentences. This person you are dating why hasn’t he married you?. And if you are the one telling him to marry you then trust me he doesn’t rate you at all. You have to understand how men think. Men know a marriageable woman and a temporary woman. Also you claim to be a single lady yet you are dating someone. You are not single. You are in a relationship. How do you u know women are stressed in marriages when you’ve never been married. |
Proserpina:Men and women are not equal the sooner you accept that reality the better. Also vagina is not the only thing of value women has that men consider. |
In Islam our prophet says cocks crows when angels are around and i have confirmed it myself. I can confidently tell you that there is a very strong prayerful person living in your house or your area. Or its trying to wake you up to pray. If you are prayerful person then congratulations God is giving you glad tidings. |
Proserpina:I responded to this part: “I don talk am before, as a man if you have bad character you will be dumped andreplaced. Read that again!!!” Simply put, Stop dating men with bad character or else you will lose your value by jumping from one guy to the other all in the name of bad character. |
Proserpina:The dating world is a market. Your value diminishes by the numbers of encounters you’ve had. Also, you attract your kind of partner not the other way round. You chose to date that guy in the first place. When i was younger I have been in places where I was Talking absolute balderdash about “we only die once” and taking foolish life threatening risk and the girls were looking at me like “lets go home right now”. |
Merry100:Mehn this your response is long o. Well, You are well aware that among humans are narcissists. They could be men they could be women but they have similar behavior. At the core of their behavior is selfishness and jealousy. They know how to spot selfless empaths with bright light easily and become their partner. When an empath starts to date a narcissist the first thing the narcissist does is try to diminish the empath‘s light through different nefarious voodooistic means. They want the empath‘s light for themselves or they become irritated by the empath’s light so they corrupt it. Then this empath becomes a useless person in the relationship. They lose all motivation and they become dull. These narcissists they know it’s because of the voodoo they did or are doing to this person thats making this person act this way but still they do not care. They will continue to do that evil to that empath. Then they will start to complain and rant and gaslight the empath about how he or she lacks motivation in life and how they are incompatible. They use this excuse to run away after they have messed these empaths up. Then when people ask them why they left, they tell them that it’s because the empath lacks motivation and doesn’t want to work. Most of the time in the relationship the narcissist is always the woman and the empath is the man. There are rare cases, say like 25% of the time where men are the narcissist. Those are the men you mentioned. Now back to compatibility. When you ask a woman to define those things you call standards, goals, values, etc. You will observe that she attributes those things to material things. However very few men gain those things at an early age all he has below the age of 40 or below 35 are his potentials and his small or meager salary. Women who have been patient with these kinds of men are the ones who enjoys their marriage more than women who goes out hunting for men that fits their goals and lifestyle. Wait! What would you do if you see a man who matches your ideal?, you will walk up to him and do what? Show him how low value you are by asking him out. Also best believe that the man that already has his goals and aspirations figured out in life is not looking for a woman because he already has one or doesn’t want the stress that comes with women. And nope! Ma’am single ladies are not happy. Women are sentimental beings. They need their surroundings to make them happy. They like the idea of having a comfort zone where they cam rest their head. Even though when they get it they usually try to mess it up but you see that idea of having a comfort zone it keeps the single lady going out everyday hunting for a partner and if she is a single mum it keeps her up at night crying her eyes off. What a dilemma. The guy she is dating has his own girlfriend and doesn’t want to stay the night with her. He loathes the idea of marrying her but leads her on. He knows all she is good for is nice conversation and the other rooms but his comfort zone is with his wide or his babe. Imagine having to beg a guy to stay the night with you. Have you seen girls nowadays. They trip for any fine guy. Small thing they are rolling their hair. You are talking about standards when girls nowadays will sleep with you for free. You seem not to know how bad the situation is with this generation. |
Merry100:I understand you point ma’am and i feel your pain But this method you mentioned has never worked out for women. They try and try and try then time flies then they marry then they become impatient when the guy is slightly broke then they leave then becomes a single mother then the cycle repeats itself again. No one is saying you should shrink yourself. Its about understanding timing and season. If same thing keeps happening to someone then someone should learn patience. You know women are impulsive and moved by emotion. If she has a checklist she will immediately fall for the guy that matches that list. and then they begin dating then her test repeats itself again. Cuz There are people who are good at disguising themselves to fit other’s fantasies on the surface. |
Antlisiam:Ur brother go kom reply u here or for another post |
3weeksblocking:Well his aim is kuku to kill believers spiritually. |
Shey na everybody go know Suratul Feel? When water dey?. Antlisiam: |
Antlisiam:Well. For engagement sake make i answer you this one too. There was a time whenever I slept between 4AM and 5:30AM I usually felt like I didnt sleep at all. My nose to my forehead will be so caked up asif I swallowed all the air in the room into those spaces. Then I discovered this thing you just said the prophet said about it and the relief he recommended. The Doctors call it SINUS pressure but trust me its indeed shaytan. Demons are very very clever. You see that small thing called sinus pressure is a strategy by the demon to mess your day up. Your forehead is your decision making center and the body needs proper ventilation to make proper daily decisions. Shaytan will heavily induce you to sleep in odd hours when humans are only supposed to take 10 to 15 minutes naps or not sleep again or else they will become tired. But shey you see this suratul feel ehn, IWO SHA MA SUNLO KOSI EWU!.......SHA TIKA SURATUL FEEL TOBA JI! ![]() |
Antlisiam:I been wan talk seh your brother SISICHRISTIAN abi na antichristian go kom answer you. But let me just quickly drop this in as it will benefit the readers. The spiritual realm has laws and its those laws thats protecting the one in "your nose". Demons or jinns they know these laws and use it very effectively. They are very very stubborn. Thats why we are supposed to pray at certain times everyday and when in a situation beyond our control we recite surahs and duas and names of Allah repeatedly till the situation changes. We don't dwell on who does what to us in Islam as this world and everything in it is a test from Allah and nothing can happen to us without Allah's permission. By the time wey hand touch the entity body go tell am. We dont care about their names we just know Allah is closer to us than our JUGULAR VEINS. |
After thoroughly researching benefits of surahs from multiple sources and testing it myself. I can confidently say that Suratul Feel is the most surgical and quick weapon against all kinds of spiritual attacks. Its just five Ayats and some Muslims over look it because we mostly think longer surahs are the best. All you have to do is recite it plenty times before morning (fajr) prayer then wait for some hours after fajr prayer and do the same thing then go about your day confidently that weapons fashioned against you shall not prosper ( like our brothers in Christianity says). I say that with utmost confidence also having Insha Allah in mind. I dont want to know how powerful that entity is or in what image it appears, whether as human or demon Allah will save you immediately when you recite suratul feel. I know Ayatul kurisiu is very very powerful but before you recite am plenty times dem fit don waylay you or if person hyponotize you, and your mind is scrambled you will not be able to make up your words properly or even think straight to recite it finish let alone recite Ayatul kurisiu plenty times but you see Suratul Feel you havent even recited it 4 times and your eyes don clear and the jazz will start to leave your body immediately. This is the surah where ALLAH talks about how he dealt with the people of the Elephant severely when they tried to destroy Kabbah. He destroyed by Birds that stoned them with special small clay stones like pebbles carried in their beaks and has each enemies DNA code such that it will never miss its target no matter where its stoned. That's why even as ABRAHAH ( the leader of the enemies of Kabbah) ran very far away from the scene it still hit him spot on. They were destroyed "like eaten straw". The event happened before the prophet (PBUH) was born. I think the profoundness of that event is what made the surah extremely powerful. You can recite it anytime you suspect that there is trickery and evil behind the predicament you are facing. Also if you find yourself in our local parties where they disguise rituals as parties. Recite suratul feel once before and after eating. Just dey collect more plates dey go while reciting suratul feel. lol. If someone has been threatening you, no matter who that person is and the power he or she possesses recite surah feel plenty times in your mind when you see him he will not be able to say a word. That wont be necessary if you read it before stepping out of your home. Because all your enemies will just be passing the other way. You can recite it also it plenty times before you sleep at night. It is a very very powerful surah against the most evil of evil entities and it works fast. |
Merry100:i wanted to call you bro till i checked your profile and saw a lady. Anyways only men who aren't disciplined tolerates an uncultured woman. Also Its guys that have women in their "beck and call" but decides to be a responsible man women treat badly the most not the ugly ones. |
David007vc:THE CODES NKO? |
ITS WEIRD. FOR THE FIRST TIME A GENUINE POST ABOUT CHEAP DATA. KUDOS @OP |

