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She is a narcissist and a materialistic woman flee from her. She will torture you emotionally so you can worship and adore her.

She will put you down emotionally all the time and you might lose your selfworth.

Bros don’t mind those people saying you refused to take accountability for what happened to you!.

Wicked ladies become chameleons to attract good men. Any man can fall victim because all men love gentle and harmless looking lady.

Dont beat yourself up.

Also whether she is a single mother or not her behavior is that of a modern woman. Naso dem dey do.

Am not one to spoil someone’s business but I also bought one phone for someone recently and almost similar thing happened to me. They were two that I bought one was fine but the other pne didn’t charge anymore after a while then the phone wouldn’t turn on anymore.

I no even bother ask the owner if he repaired it anymore since we haven’t communicated in a while but i made up my mind not to order anything refurbished online anymore.

RollinTNDA:
I remember uju as we seated inside the car I made it clear to her that I wan marry her
She tell me say she no want marriage now as she just wan start nysc say she wan get master degree before she go marry
She told me with all seriousness

Then she said she can't marry a person from her village. We are from the same village
She said no that she wants someone different

Only for her to marry the next month to someone from the same village she said she will not marry from

I was so perplexed but it thought me to never take words of women serious

GBAM!!!

They mean the opposite when they brag or judge.

29 years old 7 pikin. Super story

ola20ng:
Sir,
You didn't understand the post. You are talking about a different thing entirely.

Besides, this post is not about Islam. Let them deal with it themselves.

Wawu I thought this is a forum!. Abi is this post/thread a survey?

Ishilove:
The post is about Christian couples, not Muslims.

Just offering an alternative perspective

enemyofprogress:
Konji never catch you, if Konji catch you, you no go dey ask dis kind question unless you want dey do soapy.

I b wan answer you constructively before o.

Say the ways of believers is not the ways of worldly people. And there is chastisement for transgression of God’s laws.

But as i see your MONIKA ehn. It is well!

In Islam they can remarry but the partner must have married and divorced another person before it can be possible.

Copywriter1:
A South African real estate company reached out to me to create an AI ad video for their brand 🔥

Let me know what you think?

Here’s the result 👇


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XYX8Un0O_o4?si=lJEzLo9GfwHYmWU-

Pardon me for too forward but as am advising you am also learning.

Because the internet is a motion based and fast based activity space, your introduction is very crucial to grabbing attention of the audience. These two things is very important to people with low attention span like we internet lovers:

1. Camera motion or character motion. It’s either the camera goes in to meet the character or the character walks to the camera.

2. Also cut and join is very important. Ever few seconds cuf the camera to another object or view the camera from another angle or zoomed position.


This is not to say you didn’t try. I see your editing touch also. Kudos sir

Orisablog:
Shallow mind are imprisoned by IFA

They think ESU is mute

They think OBATALA is a drunkard

But they failed to recognize the thief called ORUNMILA

They are prisoners of IFA

The claimed IFA is above all IRUNMOLE, they failed to recognize the creator of all IRUNMOLE

They said IFA is the only way to speak with Ori but they failed to recognize that everything has Ori .

Would IFA consult Ifa for it Ori ?

If everything has Ori and IFA has its Ori, would IFA consult Ifa for it Ori??

They claimed Ori is bigger than all the IRUNMOLE but can Ori be bigger than it creator ??

IFA prisoners are everywhere and they are confused ..

They only read A for apple.

They claimed IFA is the basic language for modern day computer but they failed to recognize the master programmer of the universe itself .

They failed to see the father of all IRUNMOLE who created and programed Ori.

The fail to see the spiral of the snail which carry the sigils of the creator .

They failed to recognize OBATALA and it's spiral which existed in nature itself.

They are IFA prisoners and they needed liberation.


We are AJE NLA ÒMÒ OBATALA


AJE NLA ÒMÒ OBATALA is babalorisa, an author .

Having more IRUNMOLE opens my eyes and mind wider than a narrow IFA view of the world , only understanding the world through outdated uncompleted, adulterated verses.


Listen to lectures and Music track from AJE NLA on Spotify.

Buy AJE NLA books on Amazon.

This is just the way things are in the world. Even traditionalist have different belief systems.

I get your point but you can’t say humans aren’t spiritual beings because those evil people you see are that way because their sprits are corrupted.

Dtruthspeaker:
Yes, i know that one but i thought it was only in the village and that my fellow city folks were not into it. But, now I am seeing that it is everywhere around me and that everyone i see have dipped and fortified themselves in it.

Mehn, you wont believe how satanic Nigerians are. They even recognize each other. They usually tell themselves which good person is powerful and which one is weak

Africa in general is a land of witchcraft and wizardry.

Guys join this man’s (OP) group. He is very serious at helping people and free for that matter. I just joined and am benefiting a lot.

Bra! That shyness is a protective shield o. Those things wey you wan do but shyness no allow you most of them na impulsive people with tiny brains dey do am.

Another thing is when you outgrow your shyness you still will find a good reason not to do those things shyness prevented you from.

Goalnaldo:
I got your message

👌

Copywriter1:
I created an AI music video for Rema’s “TEA” just for fun. 👀

Wanted to see how far I could push AI creatively with the song.

Would love to hear what you guys think.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gUx58vkfB3w?si=Gfe9jAg3tYswNgta

Very nice. Am not for excessive nudity though. But great video

Goalnaldo:
my WhatsApp group is a general group where I drop real paying updates, platforms, apps etc. however, I offer personal mentorship for atlas capture.

I wouldn’t mind if you add me sir. I willsemd u a WhatsApp message now

@op This tutorial is it available on your whatsapp group?

MrsAyomide:
You are contradicting yourself. You initially said you follow the teachings of your religious leaders, instead of wearing your thinking cap, why the sudden “U” turn ?

Again, how do Imans make your religion to look local when they are applying what is in the Quran?
If they are teaching what is not in line with Islam, don’t you think that higher Islamic religious leaders like Sultan would have called them out ?

Naso! No b lie! You win!

MrsAyomide:
A true Muslim jumps at every advice given in Islam instead of using your own God’s given brain or ask critical questions ?

Now I know the reason why you guys behave the way you behave.

Is alright, good luck !

Behave asin how. Please kindly elaborate. Also a muslim questions everything. Infact muslims loves to debate a lot. Infact in islam you are supposed to question everything. The Quran even encourages you to challenge it in all ramifications including its literary style.

God even challenged the obstinate humans to look at his creation through the eye of a critic and look again and again and their eye will return to then confused and dazed.

Islam is an elite religion, a religion of scholars. Na because of some Alfas wey dey mk our religion look local. A common poor muslim is way more elitist than a wealthy unbeliever in the eyes of God.

MrsAyomide:
What are you saying, is Music haram or not ?

Stand one place !

Its a debate!. How do you expect me a layman to stand in a place where islamic scholars sef no fit stand gidigba.

Aunty everything recommended in islam is for your own good. A true muslim jumps at every advise given in islam because they really help. A lot!

So as a music listener and lover and someone who does zikr all the time i had no choice but to reduce my music to 20%. You can say I stand on “Makrooh (discouraged)”.

MrsAyomide:
Question I often ask my Muslim brothers ....... "If music is haram, why is the call to prayer sung?"

The thing is, even if music isn’t necessarily haram but discouraged. Someone who does zikr and Adhkaar a lot and sees results of their prayer usually avoid music fully or partially.

Because music generally interferes with concentration.

To answer your question God told us to recite the Quran rhythmically and slowly. Also the brain absolve music more then bare words.

Lastly demons love music and are drawn to it uncontrollably so the Quran is sung it disturbs them a lot because it’s something they cant take their ears off.

Place your hand on your stomach and recite “Surah Lahab” as many times as you like. And by the might of Allah you will be fine.

Surah Lahab is the popular “Tabati yada Abi lahabi…”

Do it daily for permanent result.

Remember to visit hospital also. Thanks guys.

Hello guys. This one will be very short. This sihr is very very common especially in the market and offices. Evil people use it when they dont like a certain person who is good and worships God all the time.

Symptoms include extreme cold, extreme heat, terrible smell, foggy mind, etc. Usually the effect ends in a form of mental illness from mild to severe of Allah wills.

Your gutter or anything that accommodates a very little quantity of water is what these witches and evil perpetrator use for this evil. They sprinkle some tiny portion of liquid and invite the jinn into the environment then make a certain body gestures to activate it when the victim is around the area.

You won’t believe how common these evil sihr is in our local communities. You also wont believe how openly NigerIans perpetrate evil. They plot evil openly. I have witnessed cases where these sihr was used to frustrate managers and ceos out of their offices.

This is why some MDs will be avoiding their office most times and some will even request to be transferred back to his state or another state. Guess who could be perpetrating this evil, His cleaner, his driver, etc. Most times its a competitor that sponsors this evil act but he will first of all slander your name so as not to be challenged when he is openly doing this evil to you.

What to do if this kind of sihr befalls you:

1. Dont leave home without your morning Adhkaar.
And these quick protection ayats: Surah Baqarah verses 1 to 4, 102, 254 to 257, 284 to 286.

2. Always recite Ayatul Kurisiyu in excess before you leave your home.

3. When you get to the area or your place of work, always recite “Wala yahudu hifizu humo…” in excess till you leave that environment. It means “He feels no fatigue in safeguarding them…”

4. At any chance you recite: “Auzo bi kalimati lahi tamati min shari man khallaka” 7 times

5. Recite these two duas daily for Allah to deal with your enemies for you however he deems fit ( and trust me it is always brutal because Allah will come with his full might):

La Hawla wa la kuwata illah billah and Hasibunallahu wa nemal wakilu 100 times.



If you are extremely experiencing this and it’s beyond your power whether now or in the future just drop your comment i will drop more powerful prayers.

Kdon2:
So why are your people angry when people push back on your attempts. If we live by your sabab it will be.l a free for all for everyone. Chaotic life, that's what you want to create. A world that thrives solely on violence and survival of the fittest at the expense of the weak. Sabab ko sabab ni☹️

You know the truth deep down but you are in denial. Any sensible human being knows Islam the true religion

Kdon2:
What is sabab? No be only sabab! Why is not sabab when someone leave Islam or when someone insult Mohammed. Perhaps it is sabab to kill too. Then If it's reciprocated by other faiths, it's sabab too🤣🤣🤣🤣

Its kuku also Sabab….Una like wahala. May Allah open una eyes.

Most times when evil befalls us in this country, the first thing we say is: “Ahh, na my enemy. Na juju. Na my village people. Witch dey follow me." Does this mean juju doesn’t exist? No. Juju/sihr is real. Believe me I know!. But even the juju itself is just a “sabab”. The person that did it is just the vehicle. Allah is the one who decreed and allowed it. Without Allah’s permission, no juju can touch you.

Sabab is an Arabic/Islamic term which means "cause, means, reason, instrument. Its what Yoruba people call ‘Sababi’.

Imagine a writer is writing a script. The main character is ‘Tope’. In the script the writer writes: "And Tope’s bag was stolen." Now in the movie, “sabab” has to happen based on how much the writer understands his audience. It could be a boy that snatches it. It could be an animal. It could be Tope herself forgetting it. That person/animal/event is the sabab - the direct cause.

The writer can make Tope run to another town to prevent her bag from being stolen. She can pray, she can be careful. But if it was written in the script that "Tope’s bag will be stolen”, then the sabab will still find her. The cause will still locate the effect.

Where is Allah in this? Allah is not a script writer who writes for the amusement of the audience. He cares for his creations (especially those who worship him dearly) and doesn’t want them to suffer. This is where Allah’s mercy comes in. Yes, the bag was stolen - that was the decree. But Allah can use that same sabab to elevate Tope.

Maybe she meets someone important at the police station. Maybe she loses the bag but gains a job. Maybe the pain teaches her sabr and Allah raises her rank because of it. That job loss sabab may lead you to your own business. That betrayal sabab removed fake friends from your life. That sickness sabab brought you closer to Allah and erased your sins.

So sabab is just the vehicle. The driver is Allah. So Don’t be too attached to the sabab. Don’t curse the person who "caused" it. Don’t think running will cancel qadr. Don’t run to traditionalists to save you.

Do your part - tie your camel. But know that whatever Allah decreed will reach you, and whatever didn’t reach you was never written for you. And sometimes the sabab that looks like pain is actually the sabab for your elevation.

You jumped too many scenes that could have lingered for a while longer

MaroIlaye:
I recently created two AI-generated music videos for artists and I’d love to get feedback from the Nairaland community.

Where’s the link or the videoa?

I dont like to demonize other people’s belief system however a wise person if given an opportunity to test all religions will always choose Islam.

Simply put! Islam resonates with common sense. And theres no iota of deceit in Islam.

If you wan enter you enter at your own freewill no be because person polish am for you.

Lastly, my people abeg no fall for the deceit of this people o. Traditional people are very deceitful and Will never tell the full truth. Whether during initiation or when they want to give you a spiritual object.

YoungLionken:
The African traditional systems have been greatly demonized and misrepresented..

The Arabian religion has killed more people than all traditional systems in Africa put together..

Our forefathers messed up, for allowing foreign religion. The Arabians understand this, hence, the reason they don't in anyway tolerate other religions...

Nukilia:
Thank you for the submission. Can you kindly confirm that all those who slaught*r innocent souls in the name of All*h are also being controlled by the same Jinn?

Do you agree with me that all those folks who slaught*r innocent souls for the sake of the Arab deity are doing such in a bid to wipe out the black people from the face of Nigeria.

Are you aware that the Arabs do not consider the black man as equals but rather as slaves only fit for destruction?

I plead with you that you avoid the arabian deity used as a deceptive tactics to anihilate the true sons of Africa...