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I will go straight to the point:

1: You return home with something else:

When you visit traditional practitioners they give you an object to use to help solve your problems. That object has a spirit behind it. And that spirit is not from Allah. Its a Jinn. Its job is to follow you everywhere depending on the objective you want to achieve.

If its to make people like you then that jinn will bewitch people to make them like you. You will think its the soap or concoction you were given but there’s a spirit behind it.

Why is this a problem?. Jinns are like AI but a negative AI. Once you tell it to do something for you then how it does it isn’t in your power.

Secondly the jinn is a separate entity with feelings and freewill like humans. It could end up falling in love with you thereby making you physical love life a misery. Or if you are a very prayerful person you just bought yourself an enemy with your money.


2: You Return Home As Someone Else:
Once you collect and use a spiritual object to influence your behavior or other people’s behavior you have successfully sold your freewill to a jinn. You are now like a ship with two captains. And you know how difficult that can be. One captain must be the head and believe me when i say “It can never be you”


3: You Manifest Strange Behaviors:

Depending on the spirit behind the object you acquired you will start to manifest strange behaviors that aren’t originally yours. Some might even be behaviors you detest. This is because the sprit is a separate entity with its own characteristics which it wants to experiment and manifest in the real world and you become its conduit.


4: You Lose The Guidance Of Allah:

Allah will leave you to your devices and plans since you have gone through channels he strictly prohibited you from.

The believe that none can benefit nor harm someone is a high level of belief.

May Allah grant us ease.

Merry100:
How is clocking 40 a threat? Do women stop ageing after marriage? It is really funny how "she will soon be 30 or 40" is often the go-to scare tactic. The fun fact is some of the women ageing most gracefully are even the single women.

This woman you have come again. Have u ever seen a girl fantasizing about meeting the love of her life at 40?

ebubeson:
The pre-marital sex you are having may be what is hindering your progress. It may be hindering your progress while the person you are sleeping with may be using your virtue to "progress".

When good things are coming your way, pre-marital sex may block them

Sincerely man, most of the things in our society are very wrong. Once you have witnessed the might and generosity of God when you do the right things you will drastically reduce your sinful acts.

Thats by the way! The girls of this generation are not smiling. Na destiny collector dem be. You wont believe how diabolical this generation of women are.

A word is enough for the wise.

She is an introvert. She is just recharging and needs her privacy.

However its a serious red flag if one of you should ever travel. The relationship will just fade off.

Secondly pregnancy amplifies the bad character of a woman. Worse is when she gives birth. Put that into consideration.

But all these na mere talk for a prayerful partner. Once God is involved in something psychology and science becomes very very blur.

So if you wanna proceed with that kind of lady then Prayer is very important. And a lot of patience. Backed with prayer ofcourse or else you are wasting your time!

Its just like him telling his colleagues in the film industry that attending seminars and workshops is a scam. School is a system, an institution designed to strategically impart knowledge step by step.

Nowadays its not even a building anymore and its not by force you attend daily.

Lithiumite:
A matured experienced and honest lady will be a good judge of character and nor superficial attributes......their are many men out there that just needs a little uplifting for them to achieve their goals while sone arent lazy but they just lack opportunities......the mistake many ladies make is when you negate the fact that he is still the man and you start to superimpose your character,choices,ideas and realities,you often disrespect and disregard his opinion, no man will be happy in that relationship, he will only see it as a means to an end and turn on his survival mode while looking for the quickest opportunity to run.

Gbam‼️‼️‼️

What she just wrote is very common in marriage. At one point in the marriage the woman would have more than the man.

Also Theres something common among modern women they are impulsive and impatient. They have this “talent” of scouting for men that have certain appealing qualities. These men look like they are well put together in life. Young, attractive and look rich.

Among These men are long term planners that are currently passing through bad season. With patience from both parties he will pick up and take good care of his family. and among these men are scammers and gigolos.

Nkechi Blessing met the planner but isn’t patient enough. Because most times women like these are impatient and want to have things immediately.

In her mind “time is going time is going. Plenty guys full outside. Make i begin look for another one before time go finish!.” Naso she go do till she enter 40.

Watch the guy 3 years later na Nkechi Blessing go do MC for him big wedding.

Hello guys! Especially my guys below 22 years old or even older because age na number. I expect a guy who is older to have sense.

Anyways i just wanna offer a bit of quick advice. I want you to know that all those pressure that you feel over finding a girlfriend or keeping a girlfriend or crying over the love of your life because she dumped you is very very unnecessary and you will regret it in the future.

There is absolutely nothing special about women. This is not to bash women but to wake you up. There are thousands of women out there that don’t have boyfriends. That are very lonely and will date you for free without asking you for a dime.

They will even spend on you. Women plenty for Lagos, fine babes wey no get man. Its even worse when she hits 30 or young single mom. She becomes shameless, impulsive and would date any man that has charisma. Naso she go just dey jump from one guy to the other.

She just dey form because she dey look you less. Women are shameless when they see the man that has the attributes they want. You just need to be patient and get to that stage. And sometimes the age.

Stop chasing girls!. Focus on your goals. Go into the gym and get a nice physic. And if you can’t achieve the desired physic your mind will transform and you will feel like a man. And man na man for any kind weather!

Bra! Women have this attribute whereby no matter how old they are, they still think like a girl. You could be 21 and be tall and have nice stature and be broke with charisma. An older woman will still approach you, she might act like your aunt. Like she is harmless, but deep down she wants you to act matured so she can have something with you. Women dont care about age. They just want you to sound mature and they want to know if you can keep a secret.

That girl wey dey shakara for you, she dey beg another guy wey broke and even ugly on top. She just dey shakara for you because she dey look you less less. Not because you dont have money but because you look like and act like a sucker and she doesn’t want to be seen with you. (Na only single mom dey find sucker wey go take care of her pikin for her!)

Abeg, Scrap that idea that it’s because you dont have money girls don’t wanna date you. Even those girls who date for money have side guys that sleep with them for free.

Bro below 23 years old you supposed focus on your goals and see your babe as temporary. Lock your emotions, treat her well and see her as a good time but lock your emotions. If she stay fine and if she comot, no wahala.

And if you are having a hard time approaching girls, don’t worry it will pass. Nobody really approach women on the street. Most times when a mature man sees a woman he just approaches her straight and enters into a conversation with her and after the conversation its his choice to date her or not.

There is no big deal about women. Face your goals and develop yourself. Women are not worth stressing over!

SuprymBean:
Lol I read the first one but second one is not true at all the charm

Search for “how to lock your man” on Tiktok you go fear woman

Brotherly do not be a victim of first day.

Women are emotional and manipulative and when they are desperate they are worse. Sometimes they will be experimenting with diabolical things because of lack of impatience and desperation. After she do am her eye go kom clear and the effect might be irreversible to the victim.

Here are cases you should watch out for the first time you encounter a woman thats lacking something or someone:

1. The single mother that just moved in:

A single mother is a desperate woman. She might have just ran out of her husband’s house but she can not live without a man. She ran away from him to spite him to pepper him but now she needs a man in her life so her radar is very sharp and she will be extremely nice and very respectful to you.

Bros no matter how nice and sweet and respectful she is to you, do not fall for her. Single mothers are very manipulative and impulsive and jumps at any man that looks innocent and naive. If she is nice to you then you are her potential victim and she thinks you are a sucker!

The first day she moves in and spots you as a victim she has already laid out plans to trap you.

She will greet you well. Every seconds she will be greeting you. She will call you brother and uncle and sir. Even “my lord” sef.

She will invite you over while she is moving in her loads. She might act like theres a box she want to move or a load she cannot carry or her roof is leaking. She is doing this to break barrier and let you know her house is open to you.

She will not come with her child yet but the next day she will wash her child’s cloth and put it on the wire downstairs or in front of your window. Or her child's fine expensive toys are what she will move in last or even call you to help her carry it inside. She wants you to know her status. Its called “shock and awe”.

So that after she don trap you and chips in the conversation that she has a child and you ask her “but why are you just telling me?” She will remind you of the day you helped her to carry her child’s toys inside her room.



2. The Desperate Woman above 30 and unmarried:

Especially the ones that has unmarried friends of the same age. Worse if she watches tiktok a lot. Tiktok is where this kind of women listen to anyone that’s giving any kind of advice.

Women are naturally followers and so they would follow anyone that seem bold and confident whether he or she is making sense or not! Its after they have initiated that advice and it turned out bad they will begin to regret. Heres what to lookout for:

This one will not want to go out on a date. She wants to come to your house to cook for you. If she goes out with you, she will not let you spend so much. She might even pay.

What she does on the first day is to chant a tiny bit of spell in your food. She will not use physical jazz yet make u no go catch her. Also she has likely rubbed something in her private part before coming over to your house. If you sleep with her you don fall in love be that and she has “LOCKED” you and your thing will not rise for another woman.

And sometimes it won’t for her so you won’t suspect anything. Then she go begin give you agbo claiming it will help your thing to stand but na love portion wey baba do for her.


3. The Single lady you met online that lives alone and lets you enter her room anyhow:

This one is a sorcerer and she steals men’s destiny. Normally as a visitor for the first time you are supposed to stay in the parlor but she invites you to the room. You guys didn’t bargain for hook up. She doesn’t plan on sleeping with you but she lets you free yourself and go everywhere in her house.

This one is trying to tell you that she is not hiding any Jazz in her house and she is a good well organized girl but she is very diabolical and desperate.



So Brotherlyyyyy shine ya eye. There are so much instances that i cannot remember but abeg if theres anything you noticed on the first day you encounter a lady on a close level abeg comment am below.

OlaOfLagos:
My brother, it is only you that understood what you wrote here. Have a blessed Sunday

I meant women date men for spiritual reasons and not financial reasons.

Thats why a woman can sleep with a popular musician or actor for free.

If she eventually marry those popular people she will be stealing his destiny and leave him empty till he is no longer popular then She will leave him.

But if that popular star (musician or actor) is spiritually strong she will not near him and if she does near him she will not be able to steal his destiny.

Women dont date men for money. Women dont meed your money. The moment she begins to complain about money it means she is unable to use your destiny and wants financial compensation as a reason to stay or an excuse to escape from the relationship.


Thats why a good woman who has no intention of stealing a man’s destiny will stay with a poor man till she dies.

OlaOfLagos:
Your points are valid but I don’t agree being spiritually strong has anything to do with attracting good women. I don’t have issues with spirituality but attaching it to attracting good women, Nahhh that is not acceptable

Let me explain.

Women use men in all kinds of ways especially spiritually. When they meet u and u look humble and naïve. The first thing they think is “i can use this one for this and that and that”. Especially modern women, they have men they use for different reasons.

It is you who is unusable she will reject. At first if she cant use u financially, she will use you spiritually. These are the women that later dump a man later in life when she sees that her jazz is no longer effective and he is about to rise. And they will never tolerate a man like that to lord over them.

But if you are spiritually strong in the first place users will be intimidated and would not dare to think of manipulating you. If you are strong and poor they will leave you and find a weaker man.

But if you are strong and RICH she will date you and tolerate for the money. Thats why men that knows the woman they are dating usually dont give her a dime no matter how rich he is.

When a modern women looks for a man she looks for one with a bright star to tap from.

Actually bro! Bro to Bro its seek ye first the kingdom of God and everything will be added unto you.

You have to be spiritually spiritually strong first before going after women. That way you will attract good women and not users.

Most Women are manipulative and users but if they discover that you cannot be used and manipulated they will clear road for the better woman.

If she is a good woman she will endure with you regardless of your condition.

Women in general dont like Godly men!

COVID 19 wahala came, lost business, switched to Search Relevance jobs now its not very promising anymore.

I am currently rolling in the grass as we speak.

Hello guys. Please dont use your signatures to turn NAIRALAND upside down. Especially those of you that deliberately put only youtube links so that the YouTube video player can show. It makes no sense please.

Let the readers read in peace without skipping through topics irrelevant to the post

Goo0dHardDick:
That's my point exactly. Treating her nicely is what makes her take nice guys for granted. You're not her father to treat her nicely. Leave that to Simp men. However, non challant guys and bad guys will always win.

The topic is, women are way Calculative. they won't stay with you if they're not benefiting anything from the man. Na that niceness, along with your money with the girlfriend treatments, gifts and money she dey benefits. Remove those things she's gone.

This maaan!. Nonchalant guys are the most generous guys. Infact they give impulsively to wonen and spoil them a lot. Na when dem broke dem dey do like were. ThAts if ur nonchalant means thugs and shoulder pad. Narcissist.

But if u talking about stoic not give a Bleep about nobody guys those ones i have explained earlier.

I think u seem to mean women leave when a man is in trial seasons. Some women leave thats true but not all. But saying women only date men because he gives them money thats no true.

Goo0dHardDick:
Who are the alot of women who spend on their men? Are they up to 19%?

Knacking a woman is still a win for her. I'm glad you have finally agreed to my point that a woman cannot stay where she isn't benefiting anything from. You're the one going to knack her and still give her your money! Wetin she spend on you? What are you benefiting from her? Knacking isn't benefit. She enjoyed it far more than you did. And on top of that you'll indirectly pay her for it.

That concludes it all that women generally can't stay where they're not benefiting anything from.

Bros this your orientation no follow abeg. Na man duty to treat woman nice. Mk e just he sense

Goo0dHardDick:
As long you're parting your money whenever she's with you is indirectly benefiting to her.

It is when she invested or spent he money on you or on the man, then your comments begins to make sense!

As long as the man is still spending his money on her or giving her money, wether it is fraction of it or not, that's benefit to her. If e for sure for the man, let the woman spend her money on him let's see.

Point is, however you intend to twist it and cry, women can never stay where they're not benefiting anything from.

Of course relationship must be beneficial to both parties. Why are you guys dating if not to derive some form of benefits. Its even worse because ifs even an ungodly union in the first place because both of y’all aint married.

She is with you so you can take care of her. The degree to which you take care of her and how she appreciates is the issue. But that you wont give her any benefit thats a terrible relationship.

You are deriving some sort of benefit from her but you dont want to take care of her. Abi wetin you take toast am “I go dey knack you well?”. Isnt it “I will take care of you?”. The issue is if its a selfish and a greedy lady that has no sense and understanding.

Also lots of women spend on their men a lot. Women usually grow to understand their man when theyve been together for a while.

Goo0dHardDick:
The conclusion of your reply is that she outsmarted the man and still got what she wanted. The act of the pity by the man means he is weak. A masculine man care less and is unmovable towards a woman's so called lies. This is what makes a woman fears and respect him. That's exactly why Women are obsessed with non challant guys.

However, women are Smarter than men as long relationship is concerned. No woman stays where she isn't benefiting anything from

You still don’t get the point. Like you said women go for non challant guys. Yes he doesn’t care. Yes he knows she is stupid. Yes he can let her go if he wanted to but he just likes having her around because she is cute.

She thinks she is smarter and manipulating him but wait till she overstep her bounds then she is off.

MaYbe you are talking about the so called Alpha male that carry shoulder pretending they are strong men when they are just narcissist. All matured stoic men love cute girls and they treat them cute and corrects her stupidity. They allow her to be stupid as long as she doesn’t step out of line.

And your last line. It doesn’t mean she is smart it means she is dubious and selfish. See ehn if you tell her woman she is being smart or trying to outsmart you or use any word like intelligent for them whether negative o or positive., she starts to think she is smarter than you.

So we dont use those words for women!. The thing she thinks she is benefiting is a fraction of what she could benefit if she used her senses.

Goo0dHardDick:
It means they're even more smarter than men than I thought.

Are men cowards and extremely weak?

They are not smarter. That being cunning. The more you do it the better you are at it. It has nothing to do with intelligence. Its a destructive, selfish, crude survival tactics that brushes morality off.

Men are not weak. Men just pity cunning women because they are destructive to themselves. And some men don’t like stress.

Have you seen a clumsy cunning woman?. She is cute. Devilishly cute. She tries to lie but lies like an idiot but her mistakes are funny so men just pity her.

ravensckar:
I beg to differ! Some women are smart, no doubt. But generally, women are nowhere close to being smarter than men.

You're confusing being deceptive and cunning to being smart.

When it comes to deception, I give it to women. But when it comes to innate wisdom, intelligence & common sense, that title belongs to men. Unless of course you don't know the difference.

Who dash women sense? Gender wey men dey play like PING PONG. That your guy doesn't have the OT yet, him go learn. Then, him go get sense.

In my hood, there's a saying that; "One drunk man is wiser & smarter than 5 women with Phds".

#Picks_tooth

Omo guys for your hood bad o. Statement yen “TIWA SAVAGE JU” but i concur. 😜

Not smart bro cunning. They condition men to value their opinions more through manipulation and temper tantrums.

Its not the fear of her leaving that scares the guy. Its the stress of confronting and nagging.

usebog:
Hello sir. Please this is exactly what I'm going through. Can you be able to help me?

Hi. I have already dropped solutions in my post. You can also see a doctor since it’s just hearing of voices and not that the voices are commanding you (then you need to see a psychiatrist). The doctor will recommend sone medication specifically for being able to differentiate reality fromm illusion.

But this kind of thing can frustrate so much and make one desperate so If u need someone to talk to just mail me at Manifesttune@gmail.com

Guys don’t mind these modern women. Dont let them bamboozle you. These women have always existed from time.

They are making it seem as if all women are like them but thats not true.

There are women who still love flowers and likes to go for dates and wont ask you for a dime.

They are just looking for companies for their misery.