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Pelanowire:
Too many pressing issues at hand all this your thoughts are inconsequential and baseless, rather think about yourself instead and allow people live their life as they deem fit.

See prejudice. No one is judging you. I need genuine answers abeg.

I am really curious about this question. One time it was small unnoticeable earrings by nowadays its the dancing earrings with many guys putting them on.

I refuse to believe it is merely for fashion.

It’s just one of the reasons. The major reason is that she knows when you have money, other girls will snatch you from her. Believe it or not girls like as their partners are poor.

Especially the narcissistic type. You might say it’s a lie lie but believe me women brain is wired differently.

They think you stuck with them because you are broke. Especially if you are way beyond their league

papyjaypaul:
Strong men create feminine women

Weak men create masculine women


You sabi woman well. They need leaders in their life. They can do well alone but once you come into their lives, you either step up or sit out because all the blame will be on you. We need to raise more masculine men today because we are seeing the effects of raising a feminine society now. Men are no longer willing to be men again and women are now doing more of men's work but we can't cheat nature. They first came in saying women were cheated, misogyny and all the victimhood but they forgot to ask what will happen if we swapped roles, will women be happier


Women always think Men have it easier on the other side so they claim oppression, men are not allowing them to do this and that. When they finally get what men used to have, they now see that it's not so interesting and it involves a lot of responsibilities. Which woman no want soft life? You are in a position of responsibility, no one cares about your cries. Get the job done. This is whsn they start seeing the dark side of what men go through but bottle up. Then they think they have the solution and tell men to open up, cry, mental health, this and that. Woman matter eh...


No woman wants a feminine man too. Now women are in the driver's seat, it's only the few masculine men that are available that are the price. Know your worth as a man, be a high valued man, such me are scarce. High value is not about money, even though money is important but be a masculine man. Men gravitate towards fathers or father figures, they still have that child in them that needs a father figure. As a man, never leave your driver's seat. E get why.

Very on point sir. The content of the last image is hilarious

suckprick:
Okay so make men no marry again?. Shey make we con marry your sisters, or are your sisters the same as what you described? No se*se at all.

Mr man it means find a simple woman and marry. Find the one you can manage and marry

Esthered:
Kikikikiki.....

Ehen, we are so important that he opened a thread about us.

OP, your attempt at rebuttal is weak, try harder.


Does this describe the woman that birthed you and the daughter you'll have?

Exactly my point! You just confirmed my point my dear.

Kobicove:
What exactly is the point of this post?

ASDF. lKJHG

It means a woman will always act childish and will almost always sabotage her relationship regardless of how intelligent and smart she is. In fact the intelligence becomes her curse. It is the job of a man to always direct her and caution her.

I read that post on the front-page that says Its better to marry a woman that has something going on for herself. My brothers If you like marry the richest and intelligent woman they all come with one problem or the other.

Women like to do what they like and don’t like accountability nor scrutiny. Also women don’t really learn from instruction they learn from observation of what goes on in their environment. Especially from the women in their environment.

If she like she should sound like Wole Soyinka or Alakija. She will always have a reason to throw tantrums.

Her emotions will always override her intellect.


****To those asking what’s the point of this thread***

It means a woman will always act childish and will almost always sabotage her relationship regardless of how intelligent and smart she is. In fact the intelligence becomes her curse. It is the job of a man to always direct her and caution her

In today’s dating culture, especially in Nigeria, calling someone “my babe” isn’t just a term of endearment. It often feels like assigning a job with no interview, no contract, but very real expectations.

Once you give someone that title, the pressure quietly arrives. You're no longer operating on casual vibes. That label creates something new. It suggests consistency, emotional availability, and yes, even financial support.

Let’s be real. In many Nigerian relationships, being called “babe” often includes silent financial responsibilities. From sending airtime to unexpected account numbers showing up during small talk, there’s an assumption that love comes with upkeep.

On the other side, many women are expected to be emotionally present, loyal, and supportive, just because they were given that role.

It’s like a job title. If you’re called the team leader, everyone expects leadership, even if no one gave you the rule book. In the same way, “babe” becomes a role you’re expected to play, with rules you never agreed to.

And when the relationship ends, the emotional hangover remains. The title lingers, the expectations echo. Once something is named, it has power. It becomes an emotional identity.

Before you hand out titles, pause. Are you ready for what that name will mean to the other person, and to yourself? Because naming someone in a relationship isn’t small talk. It’s defining the experience.

Change your details in the profile settings. Your name, acct details, etc

Is Facebook now a credible source of information?

bobonla:
E enter. ur dad no wan spoil u early

Aswear men. E enter well! Ignorance is bliss sha.

They even said that was what killed Babayaro. That the ball transformed to stone when we were playing with India.

The biggest lie i believed as a kid was when my dad said told me it is breeze from that heaven that blows into women to make them pregnant. I told my corrupt friend when I was in Jss 1 and they were laughing at me🤣[/quote]

1. Because she is impatient

2. Because she is very selfish and only thinks about herself

3: Because she is stubborn and vindictive

4. Because she doesn’t listen to advice from both friends and family

5. Because her friends are also single women and or mothers

You know the problem ehn. Some men out there actually wanna treat women as equal but when they start their diabolical and childish act a man can’t help it but to put her in an unequal place sharp sharp.

Equal indeed.

OnlyChris:
I see nothing wrong with her except you...
My girl worships me and I never disrespect her, and supposing we break up...any girl that don't meet similar criteria or above has nothing to do with me...

Your girl as in your wife?, mother of your kids? Or you mean your girlfriend

This isn’t about a careless or irresponsible man. This is about a good man who still finds himself in trouble, no matter how much he tries.

He works hard. He plans. He tries to balance everything. But somehow, his wife still has complaints.

He provides for the house, yet she says, "We need to start saving more."

He spends time with the kids, yet she insists, "You need to be more present."

He listens to her concerns, yet she tells her friends, "He just doesn’t get it."

Then it gets deeper.

He’s committed to his career, but she says, "Your job doesn’t pay enough, can’t you find something better?"

He helps with household expenses, but she complains, "We’re always just managing, I need financial security."

He tries to balance work and home, but she says, "I’m the only one carrying the emotional burden."
And the cycle never ends.

He surprises her with dinner, but she complains, "Why this place? You should have asked me first."
He buys her a gift, but she sighs, "I wish you had gotten something more thoughtful."

He supports her decisions, but later hears, "I wish you would take charge more."

No matter what he does, it’s never enough.

The reason she leaves isn’t because he didn’t try. She leaves because she will always want more.

Before he wears himself out chasing the impossible, he should pick his partner wisely. Because once she’s gone, no amount of explanations will bring her back.

BeardedMeat:
Why not watch the video to know how to make a bouncing baby girl next?

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Bouncingbabyboy:
One person create many accounts de deceive himself

Follow the trend bros 😂😂

Urgent1Million:
Wow!!
This is really a revelation!
I never knew that Donald Trump and Putin have the same grandparents.
Truly, there's no going back.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I was also shocked. They didn’t seem related. Makes me think I could also be related to Michael Jackson. Hmm🤔🤨

In my opinion marriage is a test of leadership from God for men. Its a man’s duty to lead his family. If he is successful at it then that is his gain.

Did you know that God can handle every aspect of your life for you?

God can take care of your health, whether it's sickness, diabetes, or high blood pressure.

Did you know God can improve your mental well-being? He can make you more intelligent, more focused, and more at peace.

Did you know God can help you regulate your sleep? He can wake you up at the right time and make you sleep at the right time.

God also helps in ways we often overlook.

He can guide your decisions, helping you avoid mistakes and wrong paths.

He can bring the right people into your life, good friends, mentors, and supporters.

He can protect you from harm, dangers you don’t even see coming.

He can provide unexpected blessings, like opportunities, financial relief, or solutions to problems you thought were impossible to fix.

He can ease your heart in moments of sadness and give you strength when you're weak.

Never underestimate the power of prayer. Don’t see prayer as “ordinary prayer”. What seems small to us is never too small for God to handle.

Bro.

A guy is never rich in his youth in the first instance. You might say tech bros are rich but wealth is measured with individual desires and goals and also taste (when it comes to women) To you they are rich to them they aren’t.

2. A guy is always broke to a girl no matter how much he has. They have this desire to want more, compare themselves to others and they like to play on their partners’ emotion.

What I think you meant to say is build your career with an understanding babe. Because if you say you should wait till you are rich you go old my brother. And being rich does not guarantee you anything!

Relationship na night market!

1. Borrow money from her and don’t pay back or pay back after a long time. Warning though! Keep her money aside incase she goes ballistic on you.

2. Always complain about financial problems. Inshort, go broke figuratively.

3. If her genotype is AS tell her you just found out you are AS too. Or use that rhesus thing girls always blab about to lie!

These method should only be used in SOS mode ooo.

illicit:
Yes nah...

So in short our nice aunties are traffickers and kingpins abi “Queenpins” if there's such a word

Lately I have been thinking, abi those Egun house helps that are brought into Nigeria also victims of human trafficking? Those kind we hear about in Libya and Arab countries? Are they being sold from one place to another? Abi those innocent-looking aunties who bring them to us, are they actually madams in this trade?

If you observe these house helps closely, some of them behave as if they were forced into the job. When we ask about children working in homes and restaurants instead of being in school, we are told their parents begged people to give them work. But is that always the truth?

Don't get me wrong. I am not saying all of them are victims. At least I remember some Egun boys and girls working for our neighbors when we were younger, and they were outspoken, cheerful, and free. But some seem incredibly sad, fearful, and withdrawn.

Why do many of them eventually run away? Why do they seem to dread their madams more than the actual employers, as if they are trapped under their control?

Could domestic work be one of trafficking hidden faces?. I think, while some genuinely come to Nigeria for work, others may be trafficked, passed from one "agent" to another, controlled by madams who operate behind the scenes.

kingbee90:
Yinmu

You sef know seh na true i talk

dkidd:
Lol na when I broke die I dey even get sex pass and they come forming the submissive and loyal queen supporting her beloved king to get back his kingdom and lost glory but it's easy to see through the charade. They're great schemers. I get u though.

At the bold. Those are special witches and they're like a bad omen and U will notice things dragging back because they will f-up Ur psych. Most of them are full of shii bro save for a very few

Yeah bro. Women are weird

dkidd:
At all... If ur eyes are truly open U will see the real reason and motive behind her staying there. She was definitely gaining a lot but U probably didn't know what it was. Most women are users and will use U even when U are at Ur lowest and some of us men think they're being loyal staying when no one else was available lol baba check am well the real reason for her staying isn't to ur benefit but hers

Thats what I meant bro. I was being sarcastic. Some women even love it when you are in the Garri phase so that they wont have to drag you with other females; so that you wont ask them for romance or sex; or so that you wont be the man in the relationship.

Speaklove:
You have raised a good topic and where are men who will answer ?

I guess no one wants to face the truth!

Many people say Islam is too strict with all its rules and recommendations. They see it as hard and full of obligations. But when you look at it closely, you’ll see that Islam actually trains people to be disciplined, focused, and successful, just like the top one percent in society.

Think about how successful business owners run their companies. They have strict schedules, they wake up early, they set goals, and they follow good habits daily. Islam teaches the same principles—prayer, cleanliness, charity, respect, and patience—all of which help a person become their best self.

Let’s talk about the five daily prayers. Some see them as stressful, but they actually train a person to stay organized and mindful. Imagine a student who studies a little every day versus one who crams overnight. Who will do better? The one who studies daily stays sharp and ready. That’s how prayer works. It keeps the mind and soul fresh and connected to Allah. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “The most beloved deeds to Allah are those that are consistent, even if they are small.” (Sahih al-Bukhari). Success isn’t built on random effort. It’s built on consistent discipline.

Another example is how Islam teaches self-control, even with food. Nigerians love good food, like jollof rice, suya, and pounded yam, but eating without control leads to laziness and health problems. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “No human fills a container worse than his stomach. A few bites are enough to keep a person going. If they must eat more, let it be one-third food, one-third drink, and one-third air.” (Sunan Ibn Majah). This advice isn’t just for health. It teaches moderation, a trait that successful people practice daily.

Lastly, Islam teaches preparation and respect before engaging with something important. If you were meeting a governor or a CEO, would you go unprepared, dressed poorly, and distracted? No. You would prepare yourself properly. That’s why Allah instructs believers to approach prayer with a clean body and focused mind. “O you who have believed, when you rise for prayer, wash your faces and your hands up to the elbows, and wipe over your heads and wash your feet to the ankles.” (Qur’an 5:6). It’s not just about hygiene. It’s about mental readiness, just like how professionals prepare before big meetings.

Islam isn’t about making life hard. It’s about making life meaningful. It teaches people to be disciplined, strong, and respected, both in the eyes of God and in society. Those who follow this way of life find themselves happier, healthier, and more fulfilled because they live with purpose and order.

Islam is not just a religion. It is a way of life that shapes leaders, thinkers, and disciplined individuals, helping them live their best lives, just as Allah intended.