₦airaland Forum

imagrg:
Excessive masturbation is what is wrong.
Masturbation saves you the money you would have spent begging a lady to sleep with you.
If you are into serious relationship with your spouse, there may be no need to masturbate. But when getting s*x is monetized just go please yourself and save your money. If you have money in excess though, you are free to exchange it for s*x.
The best option is for you to get married and stop the dirty stuff. If you can't, get yourself amused not more than twice a week.

Thats what these people don’t understand. They think they are at war with masturbation so they try to stop it fully. If you comment for their thread dem go wan tear u to pieces thats why i created my post jeje.

1. Dont over Eat. Leave the food when you feel full and reduce fatty foods.

2. Scroll away fast from anything that looks sexual. Even if the woman is fully clothed. If her eyes stare at the camera in a sexual way stay away.

3. Don’t stress your self anything from 7pm especially playing games. Don't play games at all unless you can control your urge. If you don’t listen even if you don’t masturbate you will have wet dreams because your body will need a way to relieve stress.

Bonus:
Believe in the unseen. As you are inside your house Angels and Demons are there with you. The demon will claim you as you are masturbating and some will laugh at you fooling yourself. While the Angel will be disgusted by your action and leave your presence because they dislike dirty things.

Durr. Its a woke world, all you need to do is identify as an Alien and people will address you as such.

Truvelisback:
Does it mean the word of Allah came as Arabic? How would translation adulterate it and make it lose its potency? Secondly, you mentioned 'Salat'. Is Salat as potent as praying in Arabic?

Does it mean the word of Allah came as Arabic?

Yes the word of Allah came in Arabic to prophet Mohammed.

How would translation adulterate it and make it lose its potency?

Put simply, Because you cannot adulterate God’s word.

Or you might prefer the human answer: Language is a human construct which mostly springs from the culture of the people. Those people chose to name an object, entity, phenomenon whatever aligns with their beliefs and way of life.

Translating the Quran which we use to pray salat to english or our native language means we know and accept the origin of that language and why a “Cat” is named a “Cat” and not named a “Ball” in English language while it is named “Ologini” in yoruba.

Since we don’t know the origin of other languages and what culture or religion is tied to those languages we cannot perform solat with it.

Secondly, you mentioned 'Salat'. Is Salat as potent as praying in Arabic?

Salat is the prayer you see Muslims perform inside Mosques. It involves reciting words from the Quran, bowing our heads them going on the knees with our heads placed on the floor as a sign of humility and worship to Allah.

When you are done with your salat you can then pray in your native language. You are not required to pray in Arabic for your personal requests. But when you want to worship Allah you must as a muslim recite words from the Quran.

Double0h7:
“I know you are but what am I?”aaaaah response
High 5 🖐️

I don’t understand. Do you mean you are a guy?

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Can someone explain to me why Muslims pray only in Arabic? Why not in other languages or native languages too?

Because we believe the Quran is the word of Allah and translation will “adulterate” it and make it lose its potency.

That being said. We offer salat which is a form of worship in Arabic but when it comes to requests like prayers you can do that in your native language. To put simply, worship means serving, glorifying and humbling oneself in the presence of God.

What the general people call prayer is usually requests but relationship with God should be beyond requests. Thats where Islam comes in which means total submission to Allah’s will. Whether you get what you requested for or not.

Samantha125:
Yes, he must help out in the house while I go out to get the bacon.

It makes logical sense but when it comes to you women you like to abuse assistance a lot and you overdo things.

Double0h7:
My friend! We’re drowning in information on how women can be better. Please could you spend some time advising your fellow men on how to improve and grow

As representative for the female folk, I would like to thank you for the time and energy spent on pinpointing our shortcomings. We have improved dramatically and the issue now is that the men are being left behind because nobody helped them grow and highlight their weaknesses.

Young men today are plagued by addictions of every kind, they’re emotionally stunted, drowning in poverty, and lack basic self awareness. What are we going to do for them?

The solution can’t be for women to diminish their abilities, for women to settle for broken men, for women to follow misguided men! Surly that isn’t the answer.

In summary, please spend this time, energy, and expertise to help your fellow men become better leaders, better lovers, and better people in general. Thank you in advance. 🎤💅

Well, like you said and i quote “As representative for the female folk” wouldn’t it be helpful if you also advised the men via a post?

Samantha125:
A career woman normally feels threatened by a financially disadvantaged man, the same way a financially disadvantaged man normally feels threatened by a career woman... That's just how we were built, we might try to change the narrative, but we can't change nature.

Even you guys would openly make a mockery of those of your fellow men who financially depend on their women.

Which means you agree that a career woman’s expectation of her broke husband helping with chores, if not met will send her into a rabid frenzy.

Samantha125:
Noo!!! That's where you're wrong, you'd find that a lot of women out there were willing to stay with their partners regardless of the financial circumstances they were facing at that time, but somehow these men kept pushing these women away with their insecurities and frustrations due to their poor finances... How will a woman then appreciate such an ungrateful man who wouldn't even be helping with household chores while the she was out working in order to help put bread on the table?

You can't make your own bed and blame someone else for it.

I have created a new post about your comment. However, though he might feel insecure though he might gaslight you, but he will respect you if you set boundaries and treat yourself maturedly.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
That is the problem some of you fail to see, she can be rich as anything, she wants you to take care of her, of you can't do it because you are broke, my brother your eyes go peel!

Very true and worse is when she has a very high taste.

This is where women are wrong. You think because you go out to work and he is at home and unemployed for a while means he is idle. His mind is filled with strategies and ideas.

Also You are not helping your husband or partner so he can help you with chores. You are helping him cater for the family till he gets back on his feet so that he can do more than you did because as a woman you will be exhausted once in a while. And a kind man will recognize that.

The husband is a provider and head of the family not your chore assistant. This is what women get wrong that makes them leave their husbands house out of frustration because he doesn’t assist them in chores. And when they yell and curse at him he fully withdraws his attention also.

When she abandons her husband she will then be the only person taking care of that child or children and selfishly deny them fatherly care.

Let me advise you. Your husband has studied your character very well and knows how abusive you can be and how unappreciative you can be so he deliberately leaves the chores to you.

You might say that is wicked and narcissistic but trust me, you have done the same to him while he was also feeding the family. During those times you never appreciated his effort because you thought it was his obligation to take care of you. When he needs your help you only answer him whenever you “felt like” or whenever you are in the “mood”.

When you marry a kind man, who is temporarily financially incapacitated, he knows he is the head of the family but he recognizes the stress the burden of the family is putting on you. This man will automatically, out of love and respect for you do all the house chores even before you return home.

Even if he smells disrespect once in a while he will recognize that it is because you are stressed out. However if it continues he will withdraw his care and his attention. And if you leave him because of that, believe the man will bounce back and it might be too late for you to return then.

Samantha125:
Nah! A man's personality in a relationship or marriage is determined by his bank balance... An affluent man's personality is very different from a broke man's personality... I guess most of you guys then have a tendency of becoming narcissists when you go broke.

And how do those women deliberately provoke the man? Can you give an example of such instances?

You and i know affluence in Nigeria doesn’t require discipline in character.

An undisciplined affluent man with a loud mouthed wife has full tendency of becoming violent.

I still maintain that wealth has nothing to do with character or abuse.

Samantha125:
The problem is that some men tend to get insecured whenever a lady earns more than them or whenever the lady is the breadwinner while they're financially down.

They'll then start taking their insecurities and frustrations out on the woman, expecting her to take them with grace as if she's not a human and doesn't have feelings... They'll start being emotionally or even physically abusive, but play victims whenever a woman starts defending herself.

I personally don't ever wish to be with a broke man or a man who earns less than I do because God knows I value my peace... A broke man is a frustrated man, he'll always be looking for reasons to pick fights and last thing I want is to live a miserable life due to someone else's brokenness... That's why some women end up leaving, believe me when I say I wasn't their wish to pack up and leave, but these men kept maltreating and blaming them for their predicaments, pushing these ladies to finally make a bold decision to leave... Only few men are able to control their emotions when financially down.

The experience above is a rare experience. For a man to pick fights all the time the man is a narcissist. Whether or not he is broke he would always pick fight because that is his nature.

However there are women that deliberately provoke the man all the time to frustrate him till he becomes an aggressive person.

Your husband or boyfriend or fiancé might currently be poor or having challenges in life but you see him striving.

You see him hustling and trying his best to stay afloat and take care of you and the family. You can see he is not a selfish man.

This type of men usually bounce back strong. If you are patient and hustle with him and show him love and care he will really appreciate when things are okay for him and he will always respect you because of that.

I love this woman’s videos a lot because she gives raw advice. No filter at all!😂


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vq4-3Eklu5c

Tell your brother to make music as a content creator. Post few musics here and there and gather fans and followings.

For now make ge use music as side hustle and pay small stipends for advertisement online to push his social media page

Labels go find am if him content dey engaging enough.

Have you seen the way your wife, girlfriend or mum handles their charger both when they want to plug it into the sockets and especially when they want to insert it the charger into their phone’s charging point?

When they want to lock it nko? It’s third world war.

When it spoils they all have one thing in common: Iwo lo ma nba phone mi je! (It is you who spoil my phone all the time)

We don’t like hearing it but it’s true. Nigerians can be bullies. Not just the loud aggressive kind but the subtle manipulative emotionally draining kind. And We also use people, spaces, systems and relationships until they’re dry. Then we move on like nothing happened.

We dominate wherever we go. In offices, churches, WhatsApp groups, even abroad. We don’t just want to be part of something. We want to run it. And if we can’t run it we scatter it.

In conversations you are talking with free mind but they are listening for personal information to store so they can use it to “use” you later. Conversation is an interrogation to Nigerians.

In the workplace it’s normal for bosses to shout at staff like they’re children. Some delay salaries and still expect loyalty. Your colleagues will sabotage you, spread rumors and block opportunities for you.

In friendships people only call when they need something. You’re not a friend you’re a tool. Say no once and they disappear. If you dey abroad you be automatic Father Christmas. Get ready to disperse your bag of sweets and chocolates whenever they need it.

In relationships some date for money, status or clout. Once the benefit fades so does the love. People use each other emotionally, sexually, financially and still call it romance. Gentlemen for club or fancy restaurants no fit chop or chill normal na so so Eagles and vultures full every where.

In schools bullying is tradition. Seniors beat juniors. Teachers shame students publicly. Parents guilt-trip children with “after all I’ve done for you.” Emotional manipulation has become normal.

Online we drag people for sport. We insult strangers, mock their pain and call it cruise. We mock Ghanaians for their accents. Roast South Africans for their music. Hijack hashtags started by Kenyans and shift the narrative back to ourselves.

When other African artists drop songs Nigerians flood the comments comparing it to our fav. When foreign celebrities speak about Africa we don’t just respond, we swarm. Correction sharpaly becomes dragging.

In tribal and religious spaces nko small brother Joseph that time wey dey wear one shirt abi Amir Azeez wey get one black jalabiya tastes small power and starts to misbehave.

We don’t just want to be heard. We want to be the only ones talking. And if someone challenges us, we shut them down.

The post appeared twice i would like this one deleted

honesttalk21:
Allah spoke to the disciples through Jesus or isn't that clear?

Busted your attempt to make Jesus equal to Allah. May Allah be praised above any and everything

Oh now I i understand the game he was playing. Mtcheeew.

Our people have this dirty attitude of collecting meager salaries with the intention of massive theft.

If salary no pay you, leave the job you go see another one but because most of them no believe in God and time. They rely on their physical efforts. Even their going to meet God na money dem dey go beg.

Na why when dem see something wey go give dem small money dem go dey use full hand chop am with the intention of chopping their oga join.

Anybody wey wan block dem na war dat person enter. Dem go fight am fight him generation join.

TenQ:
Are you saying clearly that Allah was speaking DIRECTLY to BOTH the Disciples?

Let me see if I understand you?

In the verse was
1. A first YOU : Allah's speech probably to both Jesus and His Disciples
2. A second YOU : Allah's speech strictly DIRECTLY to the Disciples of Jesus
3. A HIM : Allah's speech also strictly DIRECTLY to the Disciples of Jesus

Is this above correct?

Bros go and buy Brighter Grammar or essential English textbook abeg.

honesttalk21:
Remember they had asked him in Quran 5:112 O `Isa, son of Maryam! Can your Lord send down to us a Ma'idah from heaven?

They further said they wanted to eat from it and be reassured that he (Jesus) had been truthful to them.

Indeed you know the reliance of Jews on miracles as a means to deepen spiritual purpose and affirm a prophet’s mission and message.

Someone already lectured him thoroughly yet he remained stubborn

TenQ:
It is very convenient for you to explain away the LITERAL words of your Allah for your own INTERPOLATIONS.

This is why you cannot answer direct questions based on the verse.


So, looking strictly to what Allah said exactly:
Qur'an 5:115
Allah said, "Indeed, I will send it down to YOU, but whoever disbelieves afterwards from among YOU —then indeed I will punish HIM with a punishment by which I have not punished anyone among the worlds."

Who is the first YOU in the verse?
Who is the Second YOU in the verse?
Who is the HIM in the verse?

The answers will tell us who Allah was speaking to: do you agree with this?



Unless you show otherwise, Allah was speaking to the Disciples of Jesus and Jesus:
How did Allah speak to the disciples of Jesus?

In your mind you think this is a smart argument that you have confused and cornered those muslims but I am telling you point blank that this argument is very childish and makes no sense at all because this is pure english. Don’t you understand english?

Common english!


Who is YOU
What is HIM

Common english you are trying to complicate something simple. Which one is God spoke to the disciples. Does it make sense? And whats the big deal if God spoke directly to the disciples.

Mr man rest abeg!

Why did they stop making that their cranberry biscuits. That thing tasted like mini cakes.

Deepspirituals:
Been Busy reason response is Coming Late don't think I Left you with your hypocrisy and Ignorance

Al the best my brother

TenQ:
I am sure you know that this isn't prayers: it is a report of what actually happened with Jesus and His Disciples as narrated by Allah himself.

1. Are you trying to explain away EXACTLY what Allah said for something you want him to have said!?
2. Is Allah not better in speech that anyone in existence: if he is, why can't we trust that Allah mean exactly what he said?

If we go EXACTLY with what Allah said,


Let me break it down according to the Qur'an
1. The disciples of Jesus are no prophets
2. Allah did not even speak directly to Mohammed
3. The disciples asked Jesus for food from Allah
4. Jesus spoke to Allah about this request
5. Allah spoke directly to the Disciples





I want to believe that Allah speaks clearly and is perfect in grammar! I hope that I am correct with this assumption!


Unless you show otherwise, Allah was indeed speaking DIRECTLY to the Disciples of Jesus and Jesus: BUT they are not prophets
So, my Question:
How did Allah speak to the disciples of Jesus when they are not prophets?

Mr man this is not a valid argument neither is it sensible. Even a child knows by reading the simple verse that Allah didn’t speak to the disciples directly.

Also Allah is aware of the request in the first place even before Jesus asked him for it. And why is it such a big deal that Allah answered the disciples through Jesus. Or what exactly are you getting at.

If someone sends your brother to you for a favour and your bother says “Brother, our neighbor wants to borrow charger” and you replied “I dont borrow charger anyhow but i will borrow them this time but if they spoil I will visit them”

Did you go to your neighbor’s house yourself to deliver the response?

Didn’t you still communicate with your neighbor through your brother?


Typing is a tedious task my brother especially pointless typing

TenQ:
PART 2

If Allah was speaking to Jesus for His disciples, this was what Allah would have said!

Qur'an 5:115
Allah said, "Indeed, I will send it down to THEM, but whoever disbelieves afterwards from among THEM—then indeed I will punish him with a punishment by which I have not punished anyone among the worlds."


Do you agree with this?
I want to believe that Allah speaks clearly and is perfect in grammar!


Unless you show otherwise, Allah was indeed speaking DIRECTLY to the Disciples of Jesus and Jesus: BUT they are not prophets
How did Allah speak to the disciples of Jesus when they are not prophets?

Oh! So thats the issue. Yes Allah speaks clearly but Quran is also a book of prayers. It is not a story book. The reason Allah spoke that way is best known to him maybe there’s a prayer there.

But if it is the case like you said it would have been written in the Quran that “and Allah said to Jesus and his disciples…..” if one were to go by your logic so you are wrong.

TenQ:
So, why don't you answer my first question?

Islam and lies is like 5&6

Let me break it down according to the Qur'an
1. The disciples of Jesus are no prophets
2. Allah did not even speak directly to Mohammed
3. The disciples asked Jesus for food from Allah
4. Jesus spoke to Allah about this request
5. Allah spoke directly to the Disciples


Tell me, how did Allah speak to the disciples of Jesus?


This was my question: very specific!

Nobody said Allah spoke to Jesus’ disciples. Jesus was the intermediary between Allah and the disciples.

Of course Jesus’ disciples aren’t prophets obviously.

Allah sent his angels to Mohammed to convey his messages. Allah knows best why he does what he does.

And please no long texts. I believe a proper messages should be conveyed in the simplest form. This is not a lecture room

I have been seeing this bird around a lot and it seems they are finding something to eat around ahouses nowadays. Some of them when I see them are too weak to fly and one even sat near our window for hours.

TenQ:
I hear you o!

I was addressing lies told by Muslim scholars!

They have placed their Scholars as Lords instead of Allah and his prophet LOL!!

Durr. I am the op and it’s you I was referring to. This is a straightforward post that shouldn’t lead to confusion nor arguments.