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kestolove95:
Is her choice to work or not..you are her husband go out there and provide for her and the kids nd stop lamenting

ChizzyBuna:
Even if she sell her family to slavery she can't still afford that money

ubunja:
I'm fine man. I always log in to check mentions. Thanks

Mcphylls:
If the police really decide to do it's work without any compromise eeehh, some of the many problems of this country would be curb.

Thank you commissioner for catching this thieves....and if eee reach to catch those in Abuja and Lagos too, no hesitation pls.

KingDashx:
No he doesn't.
He's probably thinking of ways to chase us out of his planet.

This century is worst than Sodom and Gomorrahs.

glenweaver:
Sometimes limiting interaction is just a way to keep excitement in check. Too much attention can make some people misbehave, so distance becomes a form of control. It’s not personal—just fear of what too much comfort or availability might trigger.

meobizy:
…but do you worry when they do?

Goo0dHardDick:
She's not into you. Delete her number and move on. When a girl is into you, you'll know!

Women can't hide it or pretend when they are into a guy. From their chats, calls , texts and body language you'll know

meobizy:
You hardly hear males complain about this with fellow males. That is because we can simply dismiss the guy and continue with life. It happens mostly when we contact women. I learned to stop caring long ago. It is mostly lack of interest. Find someone else. Out of twenty women, one will reciprocate how you want. Some are already in relationships. Those ones will contact you in three years time when things fall apart. By then, you’ll be the one to reject their advance. You’d have long forgotten them.

Jerkbaba:
Every morning, you see everybody running up and down like mad monkeys just to get one paper with a design on it. After all that work, you buy this and that and pamm, all the money is gone! It's crazy!

You repeat the same cycle till you're old and die. You carry nothing with you! All the things you worked soo hard to acquire, you carry nothing!

Hmmmmm What a stupid useless life!

Deeprooted:
Please suggest animations for me.


I just watching animation movies

Something like Shrek, soul, toy story,

Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

Yourprick:
https://guardian.ng/news/price-of-egg-to-hit-n10000-per-crate-poultry-farmers/?utm_term=Autofeed&echobox=twitter_post&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1728759362

FarSide:
Advantages of breast milk

Chickenandchips:
I Want An Educated Man Who Can Pray, Cook, Do Laundry, Loves PDA And Can ‘Perform’ For Marriage - US-based Nigerian Lady

She stated that the man must love plants and know how to pronounce certain words before she can consider him.

A US-based Nigerian woman, Ogechukwu Christine Kalu, has taken to Facebook to list the characteristics she requires in a man for marriage.

The educational consultant, in a post on Sunday, June 2, 2024, said the man should know how to cook, do laundry, enjoy other house chores, PDA and “perform.”

She stated that the man must love plants and know how to pronounce certain words before she can consider him.
 
"Now that my DM is clogged with “I love you” let me reinstate that I am single. Looking for a cute man, well educated, God fearing, knows how to pray and intercede for the family, can cook and enjoys laundry, is homely and can fold clothes immediately after laundry.

Enjoys house chores, can take care of kids and also has a good job business and/or great career prospects. Loves PDA and can perform. Loves plants. Enjoys listening to worship. Expects loyalty, respect, faithfulness because he gives and is capable of giving them long term. Listens to understand and not to respond. Knows how to pronounce “parallelogram, Otorhinolaryngologist, and Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious”

Flamemignon1:
To hell with masculinity. Life is hard because of it, wars are caused by it, society is thought to live in a box by it, masculinity created this world and look at the big mess it did. Y'all would rather see masculine men who are gangsters, rapists, murderers than feminine men adding something to society and just so you know, no man is a 100% masculine not even you and no woman is a 100% feminine, we all both in us even in our biological makeup

Flamemignon1:
Because you were the one that created a template for masculinity abi? What else? Real men don't cry or show pain or real men don't have breasts?

Flamemignon1:
Feminine straight men and masculine gay men exists, you should leave the four walls of your country sometime

ruffhandu:
No go there bro

ruffhandu:
Thank you my brother. If I am in charge, I go very low, I no send anybody because nobody feeds me.

Yes, she makes fresh juice every morning for their lunch in school. The kids got tired of the fresh juice that they ignore it and return with it sometimes. Now she buys other drnks like yoghurt, chocolate and milkshake. Said she will be alternating them so they still drink the fresh juice when she gives them.

She complains i am too strict, and sometimes go for cheap things at the expense of quality. Always blackmailing me with the kids' health. That was why I withdrew a bit, before I'll be blamed if my kids fall sick. But, no be naija we dey? They still fall sick once in a while. It was in that regards she stopped them from drinking any other water but Eva.

I know some of these are not neccessary, but I just look away sometimes in order not to be 'too' strict'.

For comparison of standard, it's a NO. She knows nobody dares that in my house. Na she just set the standard, which if allowed, i will definitely lower it. Once in a while we dey clash, but you know how e dey be.

Nazgul:
Any MC that pulls this useless stunt on my wedding should forget about his balance. Cos I won't pay him shit.

Olarewajub:
Introvert comes from Latin intro- , "inward," and vertere , "turning." It describes a person who tends to turn inward mentally. Introverts sometimes avoid large groups of people, feeling more energized by time alone.

Introversion is at its root a type of temperament. It is not the same as shyness or having a withdrawn personality, and it is not pathological. It is also not something you can change. But you can learn to work with it, not against it. <a href="https://www.quora.com/profile/Andrew-Ferebee">okay /a>


Introvert Facts

• 75 percent of the world is extroverted.

• Being introverted affects all areas of your life.

• Nothing is wrong with you.

• Introverts feel drained and overstimulated.

• Being introverted is something to be celebrated.


Common Introversion Traits

Introversion is marked by a number of sub-traits:

1. Very self-aware

2. Thoughtful

3. Enjoys understanding details

4. Interested in self-knowledge and self-understanding

5. Tends to keep emotions private

6. Quiet and reserved in large groups or around unfamiliar people

7. More sociable and gregarious around people they know well

8. Learns well through observation.


Introverts Library

1. Quiet by Susan Cain

2. Success as an Introvert for Dummies by Joan Pastor

3. Introvert Power by Laurie Helgoe, PhD

4. Introverts in Love by Sophia Dembling

5. The Awakened Introvert by Arnie Kozak

6. The Irresistible Introvert by Michaela Chung

7. Quiet Influence by Jennifer B. Kahnweiler, PhD

8. The Introvert Advantage by Marti Olsen Laney, Psy.D.

9. The Introvert Entrepreneur by Beth Buelow

10. Quiet Power: The Secret Strength of Introverted Kids by Susan Cain

11. Introvert Doodles by Maureen “Marzi” Wilson


Helpful Links

1. https://studentship.com.ng/happy-introvert/

2. https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-you-are-an-introvert-2795427

3. https://introvertdear.com/what-is-an-introvert-definition/

4. https://www.lifehack.org/302237/5-reasons-why-blogging-good-for-introverts

5. https://www.thecut.com/2015/06/apparently-there-are-four-kinds-of-introversion.html

6. https://time.com/5373403/surprising-benefits-introvert/

7. https://introvertdear.com/news/introverts-happy-need/

8. https://agileleanlife.com/a-success-guide-for-all-introverts/

9. https://gulfnews.com/lifestyle/the-secret-power-of-introverts-1.1038171

10. https://www.insider.com/introvert-struggles-doodles-2017-2

Quiet people are often found to have profound insights.
The shallow water in a brook or river runs fast:
The deep water seems calmer.

—JAMES ROGERS



Are you an introvert? If yes, this is definitely the place to be.
What are your challenges as an introvert and are you happy about your introversion?



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BeeBeeOoh:
https://punchng.com/nigeria-on-track-to-attain-food-security-tinubu/

PlayerMeji:
America is gently imploding...

No civilization with so much crass assss freedom can survive beyond 500 years.

Just watch, they have won the war for Homosexuality which they fought for more than a hundred years... In the next couple of years, this strange teacher-student act will be what they will focus on to fight and win the war...any teacher can sleep with a student/pupil as long as they can prove that they are in love or whatever.....

Just watch...no moral fiber again..

Meektunz:
Last week Saturday was the day I would never forget in a hurry, it was a Saturday I nearly died. My wife met me in the room while i was relaxing and she said she has something to tell me, so I said okay she should go ahead and the next thing she said was please she is sorry for everything, that she is tired of keeping it for 6 years and that she is ready for the outcome of this. I replied by saying "you're keeping me in too much suspense, please talk". Then she said i'm not the father of our first child, that the father is back for him claiming responsibility. Though I've always had doubt about the child right from birth. She said the father denied being responsible for the pregnancy when she got pregnant that was why she forced it on me. She started apologizing that I should forgive her, that she was young and naive. I couldn't utter a word due to how i was feeling.

She went down to our pastor's office and told him everything and that she wants to go back to her parent's house, then he asked her why and she said it's not as if marriage has been smooth and that I've sent her out of the house severally when we had issues. Etc. For goodness sake is that the issue on ground?

From then till today I've not understood myself uptil today, I was admitted in the hospital for good three days, I was discharged yesterday evening. Till now I haven't said anything yet due to my health condition. She kept begging me everyday day, right from the hospital, uptil today. Guys, I wish death could just take me, this lady has shattered me. I wish you know what I passed through for that child.

I remember when she was in labour for that child, i had to treck all around this city of Abuja from place to place begging people I know for little assistance so I could buy little things for the birth of the child, if I express what I passed through, Oh God... Let me stop here. Please guys what should I do? Right now I just want to get better and send her back to her parent's house. I'm tired of crying for almost 5 days now.

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom