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ruffhandu:
Thank you my brother. If I am in charge, I go very low, I no send anybody because nobody feeds me.

Yes, she makes fresh juice every morning for their lunch in school. The kids got tired of the fresh juice that they ignore it and return with it sometimes. Now she buys other drnks like yoghurt, chocolate and milkshake. Said she will be alternating them so they still drink the fresh juice when she gives them.

She complains i am too strict, and sometimes go for cheap things at the expense of quality. Always blackmailing me with the kids' health. That was why I withdrew a bit, before I'll be blamed if my kids fall sick. But, no be naija we dey? They still fall sick once in a while. It was in that regards she stopped them from drinking any other water but Eva.

I know some of these are not neccessary, but I just look away sometimes in order not to be 'too' strict'.

For comparison of standard, it's a NO. She knows nobody dares that in my house. Na she just set the standard, which if allowed, i will definitely lower it. Once in a while we dey clash, but you know how e dey be.

Nazgul:
Any MC that pulls this useless stunt on my wedding should forget about his balance. Cos I won't pay him shit.

Olarewajub:
Introvert comes from Latin intro- , "inward," and vertere , "turning." It describes a person who tends to turn inward mentally. Introverts sometimes avoid large groups of people, feeling more energized by time alone.

Introversion is at its root a type of temperament. It is not the same as shyness or having a withdrawn personality, and it is not pathological. It is also not something you can change. But you can learn to work with it, not against it. <a href="https://www.quora.com/profile/Andrew-Ferebee">okay /a>


Introvert Facts

• 75 percent of the world is extroverted.

• Being introverted affects all areas of your life.

• Nothing is wrong with you.

• Introverts feel drained and overstimulated.

• Being introverted is something to be celebrated.


Common Introversion Traits

Introversion is marked by a number of sub-traits:

1. Very self-aware

2. Thoughtful

3. Enjoys understanding details

4. Interested in self-knowledge and self-understanding

5. Tends to keep emotions private

6. Quiet and reserved in large groups or around unfamiliar people

7. More sociable and gregarious around people they know well

8. Learns well through observation.


Introverts Library

1. Quiet by Susan Cain

2. Success as an Introvert for Dummies by Joan Pastor

3. Introvert Power by Laurie Helgoe, PhD

4. Introverts in Love by Sophia Dembling

5. The Awakened Introvert by Arnie Kozak

6. The Irresistible Introvert by Michaela Chung

7. Quiet Influence by Jennifer B. Kahnweiler, PhD

8. The Introvert Advantage by Marti Olsen Laney, Psy.D.

9. The Introvert Entrepreneur by Beth Buelow

10. Quiet Power: The Secret Strength of Introverted Kids by Susan Cain

11. Introvert Doodles by Maureen “Marzi” Wilson


Helpful Links

1. https://studentship.com.ng/happy-introvert/

2. https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-you-are-an-introvert-2795427

3. https://introvertdear.com/what-is-an-introvert-definition/

4. https://www.lifehack.org/302237/5-reasons-why-blogging-good-for-introverts

5. https://www.thecut.com/2015/06/apparently-there-are-four-kinds-of-introversion.html

6. https://time.com/5373403/surprising-benefits-introvert/

7. https://introvertdear.com/news/introverts-happy-need/

8. https://agileleanlife.com/a-success-guide-for-all-introverts/

9. https://gulfnews.com/lifestyle/the-secret-power-of-introverts-1.1038171

10. https://www.insider.com/introvert-struggles-doodles-2017-2

Quiet people are often found to have profound insights.
The shallow water in a brook or river runs fast:
The deep water seems calmer.

—JAMES ROGERS



Are you an introvert? If yes, this is definitely the place to be.
What are your challenges as an introvert and are you happy about your introversion?



P.S=> Extrovert- Keep Off.



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BeeBeeOoh:
https://punchng.com/nigeria-on-track-to-attain-food-security-tinubu/

PlayerMeji:
America is gently imploding...

No civilization with so much crass assss freedom can survive beyond 500 years.

Just watch, they have won the war for Homosexuality which they fought for more than a hundred years... In the next couple of years, this strange teacher-student act will be what they will focus on to fight and win the war...any teacher can sleep with a student/pupil as long as they can prove that they are in love or whatever.....

Just watch...no moral fiber again..

Meektunz:
Last week Saturday was the day I would never forget in a hurry, it was a Saturday I nearly died. My wife met me in the room while i was relaxing and she said she has something to tell me, so I said okay she should go ahead and the next thing she said was please she is sorry for everything, that she is tired of keeping it for 6 years and that she is ready for the outcome of this. I replied by saying "you're keeping me in too much suspense, please talk". Then she said i'm not the father of our first child, that the father is back for him claiming responsibility. Though I've always had doubt about the child right from birth. She said the father denied being responsible for the pregnancy when she got pregnant that was why she forced it on me. She started apologizing that I should forgive her, that she was young and naive. I couldn't utter a word due to how i was feeling.

She went down to our pastor's office and told him everything and that she wants to go back to her parent's house, then he asked her why and she said it's not as if marriage has been smooth and that I've sent her out of the house severally when we had issues. Etc. For goodness sake is that the issue on ground?

From then till today I've not understood myself uptil today, I was admitted in the hospital for good three days, I was discharged yesterday evening. Till now I haven't said anything yet due to my health condition. She kept begging me everyday day, right from the hospital, uptil today. Guys, I wish death could just take me, this lady has shattered me. I wish you know what I passed through for that child.

I remember when she was in labour for that child, i had to treck all around this city of Abuja from place to place begging people I know for little assistance so I could buy little things for the birth of the child, if I express what I passed through, Oh God... Let me stop here. Please guys what should I do? Right now I just want to get better and send her back to her parent's house. I'm tired of crying for almost 5 days now.

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

BItt:
I had this girl I met in year 2020 during the covid period. It was hard to get her. She was much younger and had more attention.

During that period I was out of jobs and was struggling. I hardly had enough to take care of myself but she did not trouble me much. She was in the habit of buying things for me no matter how little it was. I was also reasonable enough to buy her more.

At a point in 2021 I got a job in another state. It took a while before I could save up and asked her to come.

She's asking us to get married but I am trying to explain to her what I am earning is not enough to start a home yet. Apart from that what she has is an olevel and some business she does online. She is still dependent on me for alot.

Yesterday, I took her out to an eatry and when we got back home, she suggested we took a Blood oath. Blood oath that neither of us will leave each other.
How do girls get to know and believe all these stuff?

She said we will pierce each other's left thumb, press it against each others thumb and say the oath. I don't know if it works but I feel strange about doing it.

erniok:
Why is the govt showing so much weakness as though it is afraid of few individuals that take over our collective welfare.

EreluRoz:
Maybe some women enjoy sex more especially if you were not tampered with by that circumcision or wareva. So it depends but generally I think men enjoys sex more kos they even put their hard earned money to get it

Enchantress01:
Proudly Generation Z (Zoomers) 😊

mrvitalis:
Lol same Nigeria refused to give him land to build plan maintainace hub in Enugu ... Now they are faking smiles like they are happy

Yet Allen is still doing one Nigeria

I have done one Nigeria here on nairaland... Was one of the biggest advocates

But truth is... As long as you are an Igbo man in Nigeria they would never give you a level playing ground ... The sooner igbos like Allen understand this the better

Arobaga:
And what happened to the man who kidnapped the votes of Nigerians




Bloody thieving kettle calling pot black

OLAADEGBU:
US-based Nigerian Professor, Uju Anya, Gets Engaged To Her Lεsbιαη Partner

Daily Times

CoronaVirusPro:
They are not good actors and actresses

Wack job!

Chrisrare:
Obviously the man is not a real man. This is the kind of situation that a real man stands by his woman.

ChristCee:
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You are a f**ool who needs to step into shoes of people who were unfortunate enough to be in such attacks for you to realize what it entails. You are a bitter f**ool who hates your country and country men.
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Well you can go to Somali or Palestine since you have decided to see nothing good about Nigeria. Ode omo.

ChristCee:
When was the last time someone came to your street and burned all of you because you are different from them?
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I pray you or one of your family members experience xenophobic attacks in the hands of those animals. Then you will understand there is a difference.

Vyvyanvyvy:
Hello my lovely famz long time, I hope you are all doing well. I got some great news for you I just wanted to let you know that I have gotten married on the 6th of january 2024 my traditional and court wedding done and dusted. You have been a great support for me over the years that's why I couldn't keep this great news from you. Thank you once again to you all for all the support and love you have showing me and my children. God bless you all.

gasparpisciotta:
What could be going through someone’s mind while cutting the head of another?

Madness, Anger, Rage, Jealousy, Hatred?

What level of human deprivation can lead to cutting the head of another human?

🥲

DeeBoyPees:
YAHWEH, ALLAH, GOD...
What I am most sure of is the Shahada.
You see, the Quran says something along the likes of "whoever believes in ONE God, and his salvation is saved". This answers my questions to the plytheists and christians about "what happens to those that lived before your messaged reached their shores?"
Allah SWT is love, peace, grace, and the ultimate receptor of the glory of our consciousness.
This is for Victory Chapel Fresno California USA,
This is for their clueless GO with an onlyfans daughter,
this is for tee akande... with love from dee.
This is for Tolu, a girl that sleeps around but sings in the choir on sunday,
this is for @iam_t.o.l.u because wallahi; the most high hath delivereth you to my hand;
say "Astafigullah" and all shall be forgiven.
NOBODY fit save you from my cross hairs now I know ur secret except ALLAH SWT, not even uncle sleepy Joe.

BOSSkesh:
Stop panic buying
Trust the government

Workch:
The picture below is a drone picture of where my family house is located in Ibeku, Umuahia.
We came to Lagos to do business, it does not mean that we go back to trees when we say we are going to the village.

Toba24:
Gbogbo family e ma Shan ku

DyshApp:
If you've seen a bald caucasian man wearing sunglasses and talking about the multitude of women he has had relationships with, as well as the amount of money he makes from being a hustler; then chances are that you've seen Andrew Tate.

The controversial influencer rose to fame after he was removed from the British television show Big Brother for a video where he was filmed attacking a woman.

He was once recorded saying, "I do know how to administer CPR. However, I will not administer CPR unless you're a hot female... If you're some fat dude and you just had a heart attack, and I don't really know you, you're gonna die... No, not even if you're a friend..." in a popular video that went viral on Tiktok.

He got temporarily banned on Twitter after stating that women should bear responsibility for being sexually assaulted.

Tate is a self-proclaimed millionaire and investor, and his videos give credit to this claim. Tate has shared glimpses of his life as he travels country to country with his brother Tristan enjoying the finest luxuries money can buy.

But where does the money come from?

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Toba24:
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Soothsayer isonu
E sure for me say you no fit marry
You go soon die se