Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

Wahala

Under-g

No 4

Why do cheaters say "I can explain" or "I didn't mean to hurt you" or "I am sorry" or they just outright start confessing their love for the person they cheated on?

K

gasparpisciotta:
Everyone of us should prepare for that day.

You mean the day of his death

So who is behind big brother South-Africa

Backlaw406:
Did you say he can't make it or the girl can't come back when things turn around for better?. clarify it abeg. There is 80% chances the two things happen for real

Those 80% chance are in nollywood bro

DispatcherLagos:
She never loved you. Move on and don't take her back when things turn around for you cos it will definitely do.

This is not nollywood

U self talk say u no go stay with una self na so u finish urself

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Thanks for agreeing with me..

You're not smart enough to know am talking about your shit

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Too bad you weren't smart not to care..

Smart enough not to give a Bleep about that shit tho

FERNANDEZISBACK:

As far as it ain't a crime..

Too bad nobody cares

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Sounds like a well laid story but I found a loophole in this story..

Firstly you had a friend who smokes and you found her there or met her through him..what were you expecting?
Tell me this is the first time she's doing this?why making a complaint now..

Tell her you ain't comfortable with her attitude simple..

Loophole finder

ojesymsym:
Hmmmm.... The weight of this your question is up to 300kg. Very heavy

Not that I mean anything funny must have happened, it's just dat am anti-physical trainers in couples home

I think I read something about personal trainer? Is the personal trainer a guy or woman?

Richy4:


No one says she should accept or not to accept her...
What I am saying is that she should locate the appropriate person or persons to channel her displeasure on... not on the innocent kid or the people trying to be in the life of an innocent child irrespective of the circumstances surrounding her birth....

Nairaland is full of gender based biased individuals (Male/female), ... we are talking about a little girl here... People should keep their gender based differences aside when a kid is involved... Though I am glad that OP has promised to continue what she was doing...

Our actions/inactions will always have consequences on us and it will definitely affect others too, just like we're not the one who ate the fruit at the garden of Eden and are feeling the heat. Truly the little girl is not at fault but will affect her too.

Richy4:


Did we read the same thing or is our brains wired differently from different Electricians? we are talking about a child... a 3yr old Innocent child...That an irresponsible sperm donor abandoned..

If she can forgive the randy man, why is she finding it difficult to tolerate anyone that looked the way of an innocent child, that did not asked to be in such situation in the first place...

Any one that disliked an innocent child that did nothing to them is a witch/ wizard in my own book...And that sister inlaw should double check if she was one... she liked her own children but would not take an eye to see another child being pampered the way kids should (not that the husband was the one doing it in the first place)....Is that not witchcraft?

All her grievances should be on the husband who defiled their marital vow...
And based on your question, she has the right to file for a divorce on grounds of infidelity... but since she wasn't doing that, she should learn to breathe before she get choked for lack of air

So u think she'll just pretend as if nothing happened and accept the child?

In a case their roles were reversed and ur brother's wife cheated on him and had a child outside their marriage, would your brother have still kept the marriage going? The woman is having hard to coming to terms with ur brother's actions, so don't blame her she's still just finding it hard.

She's upfront about her uselessness

Cash gifts? makes no sense

NwaAmaikpe:




This is all shades of wrong.
The policeman was wrong to slap the soldier and the soldier was wrong to allow the policeman to slap him.

It was wrong for the soldier to call his colleagues for back up and also wrong for the police and soldiers to engage in a fight.
It was wrong for motorists to run away rather than witness the fight and it is wrong that we now have to comment without an eye witness account.

This is wrong.

All of it is just wrong

I am honestly thinking about the state of our country from the bottom of the heart of my heart. I want to know if this country can become a great nation, I'd hate to admit it but we are far behind some African countries talk less of great nations like Isreal, USA, Russia etc. I see what other countries have achieved and I wonder if all we have to offer the world is borrowed religion. I want to know if we can be a nation we can be proud of and how to become that nation.

P.S Am not a fan of running away to other countries.

Futile war

Chummynoni:

you guys should stop this karma talk please. in as much as i dont support what the OP did, i dont agree to Karma slogan. perhaps, we should agree that the woman's husband also fcked someone's wife bfore?can you see that it is logically dumb to think that way?.

Are all victims of serial killers necessarily serial killers too? whether this is karma also coming for the husband, that I don't know. Bad things happen to both the good and the bad, you do not have to had done bad things for bad things to happen to you, the husband might be a good man with a bad wife or a bad man with a bad wife and he'll still face challenging situations, he doesn't have to sleep with another man's for that to happen to him, but karma will come for OP.

Karma is my opinion sha, am entitled to it.

Cashsteady:
There is this woman that lives close to me.. Her husband hasn't been around for awhile now due to work, so the woman is always at home with her children, she's a full house wife tho.. This woman has one friend in my compound she always come to play with so through the woman in my compound I knew the woman, anytime They are having a conversation and it happened to be something I'm also very interested in I will join them..

I started noticing somethings in this woman, this woman will come to my compound when nobody is around maybe during week days when everyone would have gone to work and kids will be in school.. this woman will come pretending to look for her friend that lives in the Same compound with me knowing fully that she's not at home, she will stylishly come to my place wearing seductive dress and ask me if I had seen her friend even after replying her she will still use style to continue the conversation to the extent that I will have to let her in my place and after she starts making seductive move like opening her laps so I can see her pussy and stylishly adjusting her boobs to seduce me until I Bleep this woman she no stop oo.The woman should be in her early 40s cuz her boobs were still intact not saggy at all very sexy, I enjoyed banging her sha

Karma is coming for your ass brother

I feel both sad and happy hearing your story

Happy birthday twin, God be with you

SeaTrade:
Me too,especially tom and jerry.
Sometimes "the replacements" and some other lovely cartoons haha and I burst out laughing loud most times.
Sometimes my woman use to tease me and say should I put cartoon network for you?

Cartoon network? Lol
To be honest, animations have a special charm.

I still watch cartoon/anime

meobizy:

What a disgrace. It's actually a No Contest. The only way he can lose is if his ass was getting handed to him throughout the first round.

MMA keeps finding ways to become more dangerous as years pass. People have died in the octagon although few. A lot of men are punch drunk from repeated blows to the head. It's a matter of time before the UFC claims its first life. The stupid fans keep pushing more for such a scenario.

I have always hated this stupid so called 'sport', human nature has descended so violently, that the more blood they see the more enjoyable they find it, my belief is that combat is only meant for defense in times of war and not 'sport' as the oyinbo people would like to deceive themselves into believing.

(1)It is because most fathers are deadbeat, it's not that they don't love their children but they don't sacrifice as much as the mother. I experienced this recently, I was always going against mothers being more celebrated than fathers, but I understood why recently, I was going to school and needed a lot of stuffs yet all my father could do was only to give me transport money(at least he gave a little compared to most fathers), my mother carried the major bulk of every thing and even added to the transport fare again, this happened the same with my siblings. So honestly, why won't mothers be more celebrated than fathers?( This in my own case sha )

(2)It can also depend on the relationship the father has with his children compared to their mother, he might be doing everything but if he's not friendly enough with his children he won't be celebrated.

(3)Due to some women taking the bulk of child raising, society believes it is so for everybody because children from such homes are very loud when it comes to celebrating their mothers.

The solution to solving this bias is for the men who are letting women do the majority of child raising is to man up and take their responsibility and for children from homes where they are raised majorly by their father to celebrate them loudly too.