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Mecka:
you mean mr entanglement

Yep that guy

ask will smith the greatest simp all time.

GreenDestiny2:
I implore you never to let a woman know anything about you that looks like a secret, no matter the love. A day of quarel will certainly come, and the first things you will hear women say are those things you would not like to be in the open.

My wife saw a porn clip on my phone. Despite her being very religious, she didn't want me to delete it. She called my attention to the clip that should not be found on my phone. I laughed and and wanted to delete it right away. She said leave it. We watched it together and we did the real thing. So there was a time we were having misunderstanding. He told some people in my circle, "check his phone, he watches blue film."
I have a link with a religious organization.

There is another thing which is not a crime but capable of embarrassing you. She also spilled it.

What she does not know is that I'm already done with her despite that we are still together, dining together and so on.

Your greatest enemies might be your wife. That female gender is something you should always be wary of.

hummmm.........all I gotta say is LOL

sapphiere:
I just went to this Naira Marley's social media page and I am disgusted by most of the things I saw there.

Is it that you're antagonizing amotekun or naira marley or the children?

julioralph:
"For causing tension in the State"

So what have the Fulanis been causing in the S/west and other parts of the Nation all this while?

It's called attention

GamalNasser:
If Buhari was doing his job there will be no Sunday Igboho

How can you even expect the leader of our oppressors to help us?

helinues:
What's your business with SW affairs Fugitive Kanu?

The only online president on this crust

Gbenu soún odé

OROSUNBOLB:
Please stop making the mistake of lumping Hausa and Fulani together as if they are one tribe ! There is nothing like "Hausa - Fulani. They are two distinctly different tribes. You're either Hausa or Fulbe,but not " Hausa -Fulani !

We need to start separating the Wolf from the Sheep.

So which is the wolf, and which is the sheep?

Jmw2kblogposts:
I made so many mark on nairaland with a recent post of mine www.nairaland.com/6371700 where i expressed so many compressed anger that led to the hatred i have towards my mother but i can also recall another recent post i made www.nairaland.com/6368017 where i expressed my compassion for women because i hated the fact that they had to go through raw torture because of their feminine nature.

I'm coming out now to speak up because i don't want to be mistaken for a MISOGYNIST(this is what most female nairalanders and some male nairalanders say).
"Redpill" or "SMAN" whatever they fight for,i believe they are making their own sense but i still think all women should be respected irrespective of whatever.

I JUST HATE MY MOTHER because she doesn't deserve any form of love from me or my siblings, she's the worst thing that has ever happened to us, you would understand better if you were in my shoes and without a dad.

Like i said, I LOVE WOMEN! They are one the best gifts of mankind!

Dude am tired of hearing you talk about your mama issues niggga.

Username2021:
Please i really need your advise on what or who to chose. I've been a member of NL for almost a decade now and I've seen alot of people getting solution for their problem here.

I have two (2) girlfriends who are madly In love with me. The first one is a girl I've been dating for seven years plus and she has aborted six pregnancies for me (even going against her family belief/law). I met her a virgin and we started dating when we were very very young and during our dating then, we were cohabiting for those years (i'm an orphan so we lived like brother and sister) until i was posted to one of the northern states for my nysc. During my service year, i met my second girlfriend who happened to have a boyfriend too. So we were just dating for fun with the intentions to end everything after our service year, but unfortunately, the lady fell in love with me. She broke up with her guy while i was still with my own girlfriend. She started concentrating on me. After our service year, she invited me over to her state with the promise that i will get an offer very fast, i had no choice than to succumb to it with the intentions to make enough money so i can also take care of my first girlfriend because that girls has been a blessing to me and I don't think i will be able to pay her for all The sacrafices she've made for me during and after my schools days. She's very humble, faithful and loyal to bone marrow. Despite my inability to buy or take care or her, she never complained. Rather she's always praying and giving me hope for a better tomorrow. Never cheated on me as she has sworn that as long as she's with me, she will never cheat on me and she's has been keeping to that promises. Even when i went for my service, she calls to check on me almost every hour. Many guys tempted her including my young landlord, but she never fell for it. Which made my landlord to call me and advised me never to live her. She can do anything just to see me happy. Even if it requires her own happiness, she wouldn't mind. She places me incharge of everything about her and she never had a double thought about that. She believe so much in me.

My second girlfriend of 3 years plus also possessed the above mentioned attributes with some exceptions and she's older than me with almost 4 years. She's due for marriage and she has been looking unto me (although never aborted for me). Her family is after her to get married and all her age mates in her family has gotten married. She has sacrificed alot also for me hoping to see our relationship work so i can repay her someday. Although she's little more financially buoyant more than my first girlfriend due to her family stature, but i have achieved alot from my first girlfriend more than i do from her.

Note: my first gf made it possible for me to graduate due to her financial assistance while my second girlfriend assisted me when i underwent a surgery that cost her 200k plus. She did that all in in the name of I'm her husband.

They are good and so kind and i don't want to hurt any of them. They deserves the very best from me.

The families of the two parties knows me and love me so so very much. Infact, when ever I'm talking with any of them, they talk to me as their own very child. They love and accepted me with open hands. Saying they like the type of person i am. I'm so much closer to both families like mad. Infact, each of them see me as inlaw already. I always call to check on them and i visit them whenever the needs arises. I'm a soft hearted person. I don't want to hurt any of them. Else i would have done that since. They are both looking unto me for marriage and they've started preparing/talking about their marriage.

My second gf is of age and she may find it difficult to get another suitor. She's the last person in her family to marry while my first girlfriend is in my age group.

I'm so so confused and frustrated. For almost two years now, I have no peace of mind. Sometimes i feel like i can be like normal average men out there. Happily living my life. I never wished for this. I really want to settle this problem so i can have peace of mind. I'm dying emotionally and is affecting me physically

Please note that during all these years they've been sacrificing/investing in me, I've not been relenting. I've also been striving to stand as a man and they are attesting to the fact that I'm not a lazy type. Just that things isn't working as planned. Also, i do have dreams of being poor and rejected. Most times in the dreams, i see myself begging to survive. whatever the outcome of this problem is, i just hope it shouldn't affect me negatively in the future..

Friends and family, please propose solution for me cause I'm really dying inside.

Modified: To those calling me a gold digger, i wouldn't say you are wrong nor right, but have it in mind that my main reason of going over to my second girlfriend state was just to seek for a greener pastures. But things turned out otherwise. And to my first girlfriend, I'm also the one who established my first gf after her Father's dead. I enrolled her in hairdressing school then rented a shop for her which made her to always be grateful and indebted to me for making her who she is today. I was the one who gave her the idea and today, she's making money from it. My second gf have also achieved from me even though it's not much. But i never stopped caring. Please don't judge me because i never had any bad intentions. I would have ran away not minding who's hurt. I'm pleading. What i need now is solution to my problem please.

Mod please help move this to front page for a wider view. Thanks

Cc Mynd44 Dominique
Lalasticlala

6 abortions! haaaaa! égbon òloriburuku ni yín ò

Set awon antifeminist

Ájèku starboy

DNA test and men should be like 5&6 just like women and paternity fraud.

hurthubby:
My story is too long but let me try to summarize everything.

(I have been a member of Nairaland since 2009, but i just created this account to hide my identity)

I got married in the year 2000 and wedded in Dec 2001. Before the actual wedding, my wife got a job in Abuja, where she stayed for one year before our wedding and her joining me in Ibadan. During the cause of that year, i have a friend who stays in Abuja that knows my wife very well, who reported about my wife's infidelity to me then, though i ignored it.

In the year 2005, my wife confessed to me that she committed adultery after our wedding. (She was actually about 2 months pregnant in Feb 2002 when she sought my permission to visit her sister in Lagos. I never knew that she actually visited one of her old boy friends and spent 2 days with him).

I was down cast for some days when i heard her confession before i got back myself and forgave and forgot everything.

She later got a job which made her travel often, sometimes spending weeks outside but i never suspected anything even though her boss, (A lady) called me several times to complain about my wife's behavior, which is contrary to that of a married woman but i didn't take her serious because my wife always complained of the harshness of the woman. She later lost the job and joined me in my business, but always going to Lagos to buy jewelry, which she sells in Ibadan.

In the year 2014, i got some texts from a concerned fellow about how my wife have been sleeping with his neighbor for over 2 years in Lagos. It happens that the fellow knows us very well and didn't want to cause any problem in our marriage but the the acts became too much, he had to let me know. When i confronted my wife with all the evidence and some dates, she owned up and pleaded for forgiveness. She confessed that the affair started when she was working for the lady i mentioned earlier and anytime she travels to Lagos for her jewelry business, she always go and sleep with the man. She promised to turn a new leaf.

In the year 2018, i discovered that she had been communicating with the same man, to the extent that he even knew that my wife traveled to Owerri for a wedding. I discovered that they had reconnected back and chats always. When i confronted my wife, she said that they have nothing, just chats, which i made her to stop (I don't know if they actually stopped).

Before i married her, a man actually dumped her and married her friend, 6 years earlier. The next boy friend left her and traveled abroad for over 2 years, without any communication (before i met and married her) but unfortunately, it didn't work out for him and he came back and discovered that shes married. He started pestering her,pretending that he wanted to marry her, that he traveled to make money for both of them, but been that she's already married, she introduced the man to her cousin and he married the cousin.

Now the issue is that my wife is flirting with her former boyfriends, sending pornographic pictures and nude pictures with dirty chats. I used to monitor her chat but to save myself from HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, i stopped checking her phone.

My wife even told the one that dumped her for her friend that she still loves him so much. She also tells the one that married her cousin the same thing and regrets that distance is so much between them. (The one that married the cousin is based in Kano while the one that married her friend is based in Abuja) Whenever i confront her, she will deny anything serious but when she sees my evidence, she will beg for forgiveness. My business is down and she provides about 70% of the house up keep (She is a teacher). We have 4 children, the eldest being 17. I have been trying to sell my house or land to reestablish my business but it has not been easy. My wife now does as she like, even having male friends here in Ibadan and keeps too much secret? What should i do.

I know this is long, but its just a summary. Forgive any typo.

Daddy, you're a foolish man o! after all this, you didn't realize that some times the fight is not worth fighting. You sat down comfortably in such a toxic marriage, sha go and do DNA test for your so-called pikin to know which is yours and which isn't, or if you no even get pikin self.

Ki lo kan mi pelu abia re?

HellVictorinho:
Why should I tell you Will you pay for my service?

Service first, we'll discuss the pay larra

SteveOfu:
"Respect the relationship you have with your spouse. The outsider has no such commitment ". Words on marble. That 20% that one’s partner lacks is the bane of any relationship, once you go find that 20% in someone else that’s the day your relationship starts to fail

hmmmm.......sounds logical

EXLOVER:
I like Trump a lot, He is a man of his word, if you have a man like Trump as a friend you gonna enjoy the friendship, he tells you black is black and red is red, he doesn't sugarcoat anything.


Not someone that will cheer you up when you're wrong in front of you and condemn you behind your back.

Trump my man.

That is also what I like about the man's character unlike Obama or Biden who can't stay true to what is right and what's ring.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

To answer your questions sequentially, Yes NDA combatant are more expose, more valued and more respected in the military because the have gone through that 4-5 under the military training consecutively. Both Academically and Military training.

No, it's not a certificate but a qualifications. A valued one.

Like i have said NDA graduate have upper hand and more opportunities than a normal DSSC graduate.

DSSC are civilians or military personnel who would go through a 1 year training. They are often professionals and thier aage range should not be less than 35. While SSC are civilians or military personnels who can go through a one year training and being posted to place like artillery or infantry because they have strength. Thier age range should not be less than 27.


While recruit on the other hand are normal soldiers with Secondary school certificate who after 6 months are commission non officers soldiers. The apex of their range range is an MWO. It's very hard to scale through to Second lieutenant.

You sure know this stuff.

But I hear a DSSC/recruit can also join the NDA, is that true?

Been all over the world.

Are NDA candidates more well trained?
or is it just the certificates? what is their difference and what makes the NDA trainee more suitable than the DSSC/Recruit trainee?

1000years in my 20years old form.

No trust to spare again baba.

LikeAking:
Secret

Just relay on ur first impule.

When ever u see a girl do the first thing that comes into ur mind without hesitation.

One mind.

No think anything again.

Are u a cancer man?

Zodiac sign?
Yes, cancer all the way.

Sammy07:
Maybe you should be talking of arsenal and her failures

Or maybe I should talk about Donald Trump's orange skin

Whenever I see a girl that catches my attention, and I want to talk to her, I suddenly freeze, I don't know what to say to her, I simply have no idea. I need help from people with experience please, any idea or tricks will do.

Whenever I see a girl that catches my attention, and I want to talk to her, I suddenly freeze, I don't know what to say to her, I simply have no idea. I need help from people with experience please, any idea or tricks will do.

Klass99:
I like;
1. Well thought out comments which provide value I learn from, even when they are not directed at me.
2. Funny or hilarious comments that make me laugh.
3. Sensible/mature people who engage with others in a courteous and good natured manner.
4. People who write well without using shorthand that induces a migraine and people who write in a simple yet intelligent way.

I don't like;
1. The phrases simp, vagina people, wailing penis people.
2. The never ending gender wars and constant female bashing.
3. The trolls/bullies who are quick to insults others, but the moment the heat is turned on them they run to the MODs forgetting they started it.
4. The monikers who are all over the forum always posting, chasing clout and public acclaim.
5. The tribalism and toxicity NL has become in recent years.

You got a boo?

Mokason288:
There are so many haters in the entertainment industry

Indomie Generation won’t know this brilliant entertainer ...

RIP BOSS

But why is this news coming from this mumu woman? What we heard was that he was involved in an auto crash and later died of internal injuries .

This ashawooooo woman please shut up, who goes to the movie set with loaded guns ?


I HOPE I MADE SENSE

Am sure Brandon Lee has a different opinion.