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protoncub:
I'm not asking for a friend.

Why is it that every time I masturbate, I fall sick? Please, I need logical explanations.

The interesting thing is, even if I have sex everyday for a whole week, I don't fall sick. In fact I get healthier.

At a point, I was servicing three girls together and doing several rounds daily. I never fell sick. But once I try to masturbate, its a combination of fever, sore-throat, diarrhea, fatigue etc.

I've searched Google for answers but webpage is filled with desperate people (especially the westerners) claiming that masturbation is perfectly healthy and there's no scientific proof that it has any harm.

Did masturbation reduce your sexual capabilities?

Asceleb16:
As a matured guy or lady, do you see anything wrong in a guy dating a taller lady or a lady dating a shorter guy Have you ever done such? How was the relationship?


Share your opinion and experience.

Are you honestly asking for our opinions? Or do you just want us to confirm urs? Ur adding of the word "mature" is just a silent expectation that we should be matured and say yes there is nothing wrong, whereas this is not a matter of right or wrong, this should be just about what each of us prefer.

Plshelpmybrothe:
work hard not smarter
na robotnik talk am
now guess the film

Sonic?

Please people I want to know what crypto currency/investment is all about and, how can I also make money from it?

IdanNla:
My girlfriend was raped around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later dropped a voice note telling me how it happened.

That a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy's junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student, after his junior ones left, he rolled up weed and started smoking, so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claimed to fight him and scream but the guy overpowered him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater.

And she even talked to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and used. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refused and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her.

Some weeks later she discovered she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion.

After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple asked her some questions about the incident which she don’t have an answer to:

*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did..

There are too many loopholes in this story of hers. Look bro, don't let blind love guide you but let common sense guide you. IMO she's obviously lying.

sherylbaky:
It would be reversed, maximum of 24 hours. If u don't get it after 24hrs then visit ur bank and explain to them.
And again, u should try confirm from ur friend, it might have dropped in his side, it happens like that too.

Thanks for replying. No she didn't get it. Is it 24 hours working day or does it also include weekends?

So today this evening I tried using ecobank mobile app to make transfer of 45k to my friend, but my money was deducted while the transfer kept saying pending for like 2 hours then failed. So I want to know house what can I do to get my money back please?

So today this evening I tried using ecobank mobile app to make transfer of 45k to my friend, but my money was deducted while the transfer kept saying pending for like 2 hours then failed. So I want to know house what can I do to get my money back please?

The fact that you're even asking means something is wrong

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

Wahala

Under-g

No 4

Why do cheaters say "I can explain" or "I didn't mean to hurt you" or "I am sorry" or they just outright start confessing their love for the person they cheated on?

K

gasparpisciotta:
Everyone of us should prepare for that day.

You mean the day of his death

So who is behind big brother South-Africa

Backlaw406:
Did you say he can't make it or the girl can't come back when things turn around for better?. clarify it abeg. There is 80% chances the two things happen for real

Those 80% chance are in nollywood bro

DispatcherLagos:
She never loved you. Move on and don't take her back when things turn around for you cos it will definitely do.

This is not nollywood

U self talk say u no go stay with una self na so u finish urself

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Thanks for agreeing with me..

You're not smart enough to know am talking about your shit

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Too bad you weren't smart not to care..

Smart enough not to give a Bleep about that shit tho

FERNANDEZISBACK:
As far as it ain't a crime..

Too bad nobody cares

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Sounds like a well laid story but I found a loophole in this story..

Firstly you had a friend who smokes and you found her there or met her through him..what were you expecting?
Tell me this is the first time she's doing this?why making a complaint now..

Tell her you ain't comfortable with her attitude simple..

Loophole finder

ojesymsym:
Hmmmm.... The weight of this your question is up to 300kg. Very heavy

Not that I mean anything funny must have happened, it's just dat am anti-physical trainers in couples home

I think I read something about personal trainer? Is the personal trainer a guy or woman?

Richy4:
No one says she should accept or not to accept her...
What I am saying is that she should locate the appropriate person or persons to channel her displeasure on... not on the innocent kid or the people trying to be in the life of an innocent child irrespective of the circumstances surrounding her birth....

Nairaland is full of gender based biased individuals (Male/female), ... we are talking about a little girl here... People should keep their gender based differences aside when a kid is involved... Though I am glad that OP has promised to continue what she was doing...

Our actions/inactions will always have consequences on us and it will definitely affect others too, just like we're not the one who ate the fruit at the garden of Eden and are feeling the heat. Truly the little girl is not at fault but will affect her too.

Richy4:
Did we read the same thing or is our brains wired differently from different Electricians? we are talking about a child... a 3yr old Innocent child...That an irresponsible sperm donor abandoned..

If she can forgive the randy man, why is she finding it difficult to tolerate anyone that looked the way of an innocent child, that did not asked to be in such situation in the first place...

Any one that disliked an innocent child that did nothing to them is a witch/ wizard in my own book...And that sister inlaw should double check if she was one... she liked her own children but would not take an eye to see another child being pampered the way kids should (not that the husband was the one doing it in the first place)....Is that not witchcraft?

All her grievances should be on the husband who defiled their marital vow...
And based on your question, she has the right to file for a divorce on grounds of infidelity... but since she wasn't doing that, she should learn to breathe before she get choked for lack of air

So u think she'll just pretend as if nothing happened and accept the child?

In a case their roles were reversed and ur brother's wife cheated on him and had a child outside their marriage, would your brother have still kept the marriage going? The woman is having hard to coming to terms with ur brother's actions, so don't blame her she's still just finding it hard.

She's upfront about her uselessness

Cash gifts? makes no sense

NwaAmaikpe:




This is all shades of wrong.
The policeman was wrong to slap the soldier and the soldier was wrong to allow the policeman to slap him.

It was wrong for the soldier to call his colleagues for back up and also wrong for the police and soldiers to engage in a fight.
It was wrong for motorists to run away rather than witness the fight and it is wrong that we now have to comment without an eye witness account.

This is wrong.

All of it is just wrong